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Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite anal sex toys.

I love glass toys, as these are amazing for temperature play and look sooo beautiful! The last goodie I’ve got for myself was Clear Delight.

* Which anal toys do you prefer: Anal beads, plugs, vibrators..?

* Glass or silicone?

* Something large or smaller scale?

* Which toy would you suggest for a beginner?
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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08/01/2016
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite ... more
I love metal plugs or prostate massagers, as well as plastic or silicone vibrating prostate massagers.

Lelo Earl is my favorite and the perfect plug.

earl

perfect

You can't beat the simplicity and pleasure from the Love handle either. Still one of the best prostate orgasms you can get IMO.
lh
08/01/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite ... more
I prefer butt plugs over other anal toys. I think it is super sexy to walk around with a plug under my clothes. No one else knows I have a naughty secret. I haven't tried a glass plug yet, but I prefer metal plugs over silicone because of the weight. The last anal plug I got was the Njoy Pure Plug size large (1.5" diameter).

I find the Pure Plug very comfortable, but I would say the large is too big for a beginner. My first plug was an 1" in diameter, which I think is a reasonable size. However, it really depends on your body. Before buying any anal toys, I first experimented with lubed fingers until my asshole got used to the sensation.

If you are a beginner, start probing your asshole with fingers until you get used to it, rimming can help if you have a partner. For a first toy, I would recommend a small (1" or less in diameter) butt plug or anal beads. Make sure it has a gradually tapered tip, as that makes it much easier to insert. I find that vibrations can help some people relax, so you may want to consider buying a vibrating plug like this one.

As always with anal toys, make sure the base is bigger than the diameter than the insertable part. Assholes can be greedy and like to suck up anal toys.
08/01/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
I personally prefer prostate massagers. My favorite still is the Aneros Vice silicone vibrating prostate massager.

Agree with dancerkittykat if you are a beginner start off slow and gradually work up to larger sized toys or anal sex. I spent almost 2 months slowly easing my girlfriend into anal sex as she had never considered it and now when the mood hits she enjoys it as much if not more than regular sex.

For prepping for our anal play she really enjoys vibrating anal toys, we have used a number to this end including: Lelo Hugo, Lelo Loki, and Escapade vibrating anal beads

She really prefers the Lelo toys as they have a smooth surface and insert easier. They also offer significantly more powerful vibrations, which helps her relax and make eventual anal penetration easier.

We've also started off the evening if working up to anal sex with either a glass anal probe like the Amethyst or silicone anal beads like the Flexi Felix. These offer both easy initial insertion either due to size or material and offer an enjoyable sensation for both of us during sex as well.

Regardless, here's to a great "Month of Anal"!!
08/01/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite ... more
Chat about Anal ? Isn't Anal taboo ?

I'm into the njoys. Have 2, lg and the 2.0
Beads are fun but short lived. Vibes give you a buzz.
The FF Drei is good for rocking the Aneros and then by itself after.
P_ gg_ _ g is prob the ultimate though.

For beginners. Here something that is a little of several toys. Beaded, vibes, probs and is small, very small. It's the EF P-spot vibe.
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08/02/2016
Contributor: StrokerAce StrokerAce
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite ... more
Shouldn't every month should be anal pleasure month?
08/04/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by StrokerAce
Shouldn't every month should be anal pleasure month?
Well said
08/04/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well said
Agreed!!
08/04/2016
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Trysexual and DancerKittyKat, metal plugs look gorgeous!

DancerKittyKat, you tell 'I think it is super sexy to walk around with a plug under my clothes. No one else knows I have a naughty secret.' - Yeah, that might be so arousing From my side I can also recommend remote control vibrating panty.

MrClark, do you use any additional clitoral stimulators with your girlfriend during anal?

OH&W, Lovebears, well, you've tried so many toys. But if I ask you which one you like the most?

ANAL is never taboo at EdenFantasys!
08/09/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After 25 years of vaginal only sex - my wife is a complete convert. No session is complete without getting ass fucked. Starting out it was a fairly careful gradual preparation starting with fingers and lost of lube. Now that she's really into it - I just lube her ass and gradually work the vibrating Tantus B-Bomb for a minute or so... By then she's begging for the real thing!

As for me - I am the real butt-slut. Like the wife when starting out the process was rather lengthy. Now the longest prep is her making my ass red with her paddle, crop and flogger. When ready she just pops out my glass butt-plug and drives home the Vixskin Outlaw - my ass pretty much begs for her to pound me!

When we're just playing we use a variety of dildos including the Vixskin Johnny, O2 Revolution, Vamp Giorgio & Gianni - even the Vamp Jopin which has more girth than the Outlaw. We've also tried and enjoy the BD Werewolf, Nox and Austin. My next challenge will be the Vamp Carina - at 8.75" x 2.3" - it seems like the max I'll ever attempt.

We're approaching our goal of her having an orgasm while ass fucking me. We have a dildo for her that the harness holds in place - which she loves! Now I just need to figure out how to get a vibrator into the action. This weekend we're going to see she can accommodate the We-Vibe 4 along with the dildo - if that works it could be the Home Run we've been working toward.
08/11/2016
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
After 25 years of vaginal only sex - my wife is a complete convert. No session is complete without getting ass fucked. Starting out it was a fairly careful gradual preparation starting with fingers and lost of lube. Now that she's really into it ... more
'We-Vibe 4 along with the dildo' - Sounds interesting!
Probably, we should prepare a new kit here at EF?
08/12/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
'We-Vibe 4 along with the dildo' - Sounds interesting!
Probably, we should prepare a new kit here at EF?
YES, you should! Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the We vibe controlable by Bluetooth from say a cell phone?
08/12/2016
Contributor: givemeanother givemeanother
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
My lovely community!

Did you know that August is anal pleasure month?



It’s a fact of life that many of us enjoy anal sex and anal self-pleasure (or are very curious about it, right? )

So let’s talk about our favorite ... more
I've used silicone butt plug and aneros helix. I really want to try stainless steel and pegging.
08/12/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Trysexual and DancerKittyKat, metal plugs look gorgeous!

DancerKittyKat, you tell 'I think it is super sexy to walk around with a plug under my clothes. No one else knows I have a naughty secret.' - Yeah, that might be so arousing ... more
Lena, you first please. What's your top 1,2,3 ?
08/13/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
'We-Vibe 4 along with the dildo' - Sounds interesting!
Probably, we should prepare a new kit here at EF?
I'm happy to report that the We-Vibe 4 worked well with a medium BD Austin dildo. We'll be trying the We-Vibe 4 with other dildos in the future - definitely a good way to vibration and penetration with a pegging harness
08/13/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Trysexual and DancerKittyKat, metal plugs look gorgeous!

DancerKittyKat, you tell 'I think it is super sexy to walk around with a plug under my clothes. No one else knows I have a naughty secret.' - Yeah, that might be so arousing ... more
Initially, I only used my fingers to stimulate her clitoris both during foreplay and penetration. But as our toy collection has expanded, mostly since joining this site, we have definitely started including some of those. She really finds the vibrations both on the clitoris or from vibrating anal toys, as mentioned earlier, help her relax and really enjoy anal sex.

Our favorite for this are the Lelo Tiani 3, our newer Lelo Tiani 24k (that I splurged on after loving the Tiani 3. The benefit of the of the Tiani 24k are that it vibrates internally & on her clit... so I get to enjoy some of the vibrations during anal penetration (or vaginally when used in that fashion). We have some rabbit/rabbit like toys that we might try in the future but the Tiani toys work great and we don't have anal sex often enough to need to mix it up every time... sometimes worth a repeat to see if it was as good as you remember
08/14/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
YES, you should! Correct me if I'm wrong but isn't the We vibe controlable by Bluetooth from say a cell phone?
Yes, the We Vibe line is the ones you can control via smartphone. I believe they are capable of being linked such that you can control it remotely from another phone as long as you have an app connected one linked to the toy. It offers a fun remote stimulation toy for couples who are stuck in a LDR. There were some material review concerns I've had about the We Vibe series... so we opted for the Lelo Tiani series of toys & remotes (that require you to be within like 12 feet) as seemed like no concerns about the material.
08/14/2016
Contributor: Lena Eden Lena Eden
(EdenFantasys)
Inquisitor, yeah, as MrClark already said, the We Vibe is controlled via smartphone app. Okay, we'll think about making a Dildo & We Vibe deal.

OH&W, Lovebears, to tell the truth, I'm not a big fan of anal toys. The Clear Delight and Pink heart glass dildo are the only anal toys I have now
As most ladies from our community I prefer Rabbits for C- and G-spot stimulation

Gunsmoke, it's always great to explore new ways of pleasure

MrClark, as most of the luxury toys, I think Lelo Tiani will suit anyone.
08/15/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Inquisitor, yeah, as MrClark already said, the We Vibe is controlled via smartphone app. Okay, we'll think about making a Dildo & We Vibe deal.

OH&W, Lovebears, to tell the truth, I'm not a big fan of anal toys. The Clear ... more
LE. I've read from many gals that have a plug in the backdoor while having intercourse or toying is fantastic. Not only the idea of it the stimulation in both erogenous areas. It also pushes your lover/toy upwards towards the G spot. And it makes everything feel more full. OW can vouch for that.

And as DKK mentioned, having a plug in while out is super exciting.
Naughtee, naugthie.
08/15/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
LE. I've read from many gals that have a plug in the backdoor while having intercourse or toying is fantastic. Not only the idea of it the stimulation in both erogenous areas. It also pushes your lover/toy upwards towards the G spot. And it ... more
OH&W I agree, know for me and my girlfriend... we often use anal toys in the bedroom not as foreplay for anal sex but because of the enhanced stimulation that results for both of us. And definitely redirects me when I'm inserted towards the G-Spot + a tighter sensation for me. Also, if the toy vibrates that can add some enjoyment for both of us too.

LE, can't fault you there... Lelo makes great toys, I might have become addicted, as I currently have 5 And definitely agree that almost anyone would enjoy them.
08/15/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by MrClark
OH&W I agree, know for me and my girlfriend... we often use anal toys in the bedroom not as foreplay for anal sex but because of the enhanced stimulation that results for both of us. And definitely redirects me when I'm inserted towards the ... more
Have you tried have on in while having intercourse with her. That will rock your world and then some !
08/15/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
LE. I've read from many gals that have a plug in the backdoor while having intercourse or toying is fantastic. Not only the idea of it the stimulation in both erogenous areas. It also pushes your lover/toy upwards towards the G spot. And it ... more
With regards to the dildo and plug combo, that's been my experience as well. The partner REALLY enjoys that particular sensation, although from time to time, I've been known to switch up the placement of the vibrating plug and dildo.

Has anyone ever tried using the Tantus Silk Medium anally? For size Queens and Kings the medium doesn't even register, but for those who can enjoy a smaller treat, I've found this size to be more than satisfyingly adequate.
08/23/2016