I've been on the quest to find the right butt plug for myself for quite a while. I already own a few of them and while some of them are pretty good, none were exactly what I was looking for. Which was a plug that would stay put comfortably but still give me that feeling of fullness, that would work well for extended wear, as well as increase pleasure for both my husband and myself during sex, and was made of a body safe, sterilizable material. And this plug does all that and more.

The Tantus Ryder really is practically perfect. Made of 100% medical-grade silicone, which is nonporous, hypoallergenic and completely body-safe. Not to mention the fact that it feels amazing. Silicone has to be, hands down, my favorite sex toy material. The plug part of this one is firmer than many other silicone toys. But considering it's smaller size, that is actually a plus. And the shaft and base are very flexible, and also very slender, making it very comfortable to wear for extended periods of time.

This plug comes in purple, copper or black. I chose the purple, which is a deep, shimmery, almost translucent color with swirls running through it. It's texture is smooth, but a little tacky to the touch, which is typical of silicone. The length of the Ryder is 4 1/4 inches long, with 3 3/4 of that being insertable. At it's widest point, the diameter of the is 1 1/2 inches. Making this a medium sized plug. The tip of the plug is rounded but actually almost as wide as its widest point. Which means that it doesn't have a narrower tip to aid in insertion. But it is easy to insert. It's just not a gradual insertion. It's more like, you just pop this baby in and it immediately goes where it's supposed to and it stays put. So just consider that a word of warning, because my husband put it in me the first time so I, literally, didn't see it coming. Once in though, it is extremely comfortable, but you definitely know it's there.

As I said, the first time I used it was with my husband, both during foreplay and intercourse. It added a wonderful dimension to our playtime. One thing my husband did during foreplay was hold the Hitachi vibrator against the base and I could feel it all the way up to the tip of the plug. Which means it's a great conductor of vibrations. It also felt amazing to both of us during several different positions of intercourse. That is until I had an orgasm and shot it out. And that's how my first session with the Ryder went. I do want to mention that is typical for me, so you may not experience this problem. Plus it turned out to be a great warm up for anal sex that night.

I have also tried it for a little extended use and “me” time. Which it worked wonderfully for both. This is very comfortable to wear while walking around or sitting down. But not to the point that you don't know it's there. A couple of plugs I've tried felt like they were going to fall out when walking around and I never felt that way at any time with the Ryder. It also felt great having it in while using other toys, but it doesn't really work well for any type of thrusting. That's probably the only drawback to the size and flexibility of the base. But at least this time it stayed put the entire time.

As with all silicone toys it is important to remember to only use water based lubes. Silicone lubes don't play well with silicone toys. We used California Exotics Anal Lube and it worked wonderfully.

Cleaning the Ryder is super easy. All you have to do is wash it with soap and water. And when you want to sterilize it, which you definitely should do if you're going to share it, you can either boil it for 3 minutes or put it in the top shelf of your dishwasher.

Well I don't really know what else to say about the Tantus Ryder, other than…..Go get one! You know you want to. What are you waiting for? This truly is an amazing butt plug!

We need an I still love it or I love it even more option. Because this plug is awesome! I don't even bother with any of my other plugs any longer. And I actually enjoy wearing this more often than I used to with my previous ones. They were good, when I was in the mood, which was only occasionally. But this one makes me want to take it out and wear it. I haven't had a single problem or complaint. It's even comfortable for extended wear, but I still know its there.