Her point of view: While looking for butt plugs, I wanted something safe (because my previous one was full or chemicals). So, this one caught my eye. Silicone, high on the material safety index, is also a bit pliable -- which is good for extended wear. It can't be used with silicone lube, but that doesn't bother me; I do not put dimethicone lubes in my body. I didn't want it to just slip out. I wanted to be comfortable while sitting, and it definitely is comfortable -- both while sitting and walking.

I wore this plug for a decent amount of time, and it did not bother me. The pointed end went into my vaginal hole though, so it made double penetration a little difficult. Turning this to the side during sex should not be a problem, since the base is decently long before it tapers. Since this toy is made of silicone, it's great for sterilizing. I have used it a few times, and it honestly began to smell a little. It was even washed in scalding hot water, and it still retains the smell. It has yet to be boiled, so I'll see how that goes when I try it. I did expect it to be a bit larger than it was, but after pulling on it a few times, it proved that it was true to size. It's not gigantic, so if you're not looking for colossal then a large will be fine.

His point of view: The base of this makes it convenient to pop in and out by hand. The width of it, though, could be a little shorter on one end. That would increase the ease of vaginal penetration it's being worn anally. The fact that it is safe for my partner makes it a 5/5 in my book. She said it was just what she wanted, and it's pretty fun to watch her walk around with it in. I don't think I will ever try it personally, because of the size. It does say it's a large, and to me it looks like a large.