Great for gender expression or play.

The best and only use that I've gotten out of this harness is in strap-on play. I'm new to using a strap-on/having one used on me and found this harness user-friendly. The Velcro and buckles are easy to adjust and stay in place during play. Even when my partner wanted to use it on me, she was able to readjust the straps to better fit her body within a matter of seconds. This is also listed as good harness for packing. Given the lack of chafing I experienced while wearing it, I can see why users who pack would also like it.

Nylon and spandex make up most of the harness. The waist is adjusted with Velcro that sticks and stays in place during play. Thigh straps have sturdy plastic buckles that do not slip during any activities. They are made of relatively thin material that still remains sturdy and doesn't need to be readjusted while in use. There are two pieces of soft nylon that cover the base of your dildo and prevent any pulling on pubic hair. The material does not have any smell to it and is waterproof.

The second reason I chose this harness over the others was its design. It looks more like a jock strap - fairly inconspicuous and sits low on the hips. I've used it a few times and the material has held up during play and after washing without losing its shape, elasticity, or becoming threadbare. The straps are easy to adjust and stay in place during play. Its O-ring is strong and keeps the dildo in place while in use - though it should only be used with a dildo that has a base to it to ensure it won't be pulled out.

I'm a bigger girl (and hold more of my weight in my belly/hips), so I was concerned about the harness fitting properly. However, I haven't had any problems getting it on or having it stay in place during play. It was very comfortable to wear, which is another big bonus. It adjusts easily to other body types and does come in a smaller size for the thinner user.

Based on the other reviews I've read of this harness, it has lived up to all of my expectations. The harness doesn't chafe and is easy to use and adjust. The dildo that I'm currently using with it the Ultra Skin Cock is a little wobbly, so pulling it through the O-ring takes a couple tugs (the ring is very tight, but it stays in place after you get it in). Once the harness is adjusted to your body, it stays put regardless of position or...enthusiasm.

I usually toss this in the wash (cold water, normal cycle) in my garment bag. Though I have tossed it in without using the bag and haven't had any problems with it becoming tangled. I wouldn't suggest this if you have a washer with an agitator, however. It's come out of a medium heat dryer without shrinkage or the plastic buckles being damaged. It comes with a nice black pouch that you can keep it in when not in use that will fit easily in any drawer.

It's been so long since I bought this that I can't remember exactly how the packaging looked. However, the harness comes with a nice, discreet storage pouch.

What more can I say? I absolutely love this harness and can't wait to get more toys to try with it.

Works great during play and doesn't chafe the wearer or the person on the receiving end. My partner and I were able to use it and adjust it to each of our bodies easily. Everything stays in place so we were both able to focus on having fun rather than stopping to readjust or worry something might come loose.