So, I bought this for my husband, hoping that it would loosen him up for some fun anal play, something that he has been adamantly against for as long as I have known him (although lately, he seems more curious, or at least open). I thought if the toy was in the house with him alone, maybe he would go exploring. Sometimes you just need the means, to be left alone, and magic can happen. But, as the old saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you sure as hell can't make him drink.

Something good did come out of it though, as he decided to use it on me instead. In someone else's hands, I wasn't terribly impressed (though you may be), but when Rude Boy and I got some time alone, that's where he really shined. He is perfect for warming you up, getting you off, and getting you hot and crazy and wanting the "real thing" (now my husband REALLY likes it)! I think it would also be amazing when used vaginally while engaging in anal play, though I have yet to see what that might be like.

He is made of silicone, so WATER-based lubes only for this guy, and he does have a seam that could gather bacteria but it's hardly noticeable, really only if you brush it with your fingertips; just be sure to clean it well. The bullet doesn't really slide out easily (I haven't been able to get it out at all) so cleaning is a bit harder than I had initially anticipated, but maybe the one I got is just a bit tighter in that area. In a video, I saw one come out, so I know that it is possible. Rude Boy also takes a weird kind of battery, N-1, so I bought extras as the website helpfully advised; now he won't become useless when the batteries die.

Overall, he is good as a G-spot toy, and I imagine he would be "rock your world" fun as a P-spot toy, for those men who are more comfortable with your bodies and your potential for pleasure.

In the meantime, I am hoping to gently draw out the one for whom this toy was originally intended, and at that point, I will have to get my own or one like it.

The packaging is very nice for storage and rather luxe for a toy, though it comes with a booklet with ads for their other products and little else.

This toy is says that it's waterproof. So, he may be good for shower/tub play, I think someone mentioned that in another review, because there is a seal around the battery cap. However, some toys state they are waterproof, but are actually more splash-proof and not fully submersible. Therefore, I would check into that further before trying it out, just to be safe.

*There is a white battery "saver" inside the cap that you must remove when you first get it, (TWIST OFF CAP) as the packaging depresses the button that turns on the vibrations and they don't want it dying before it gets to you. This means that you either have to replace the battery saver disk after each use or not store it completely pushed back into the fitted space for it, a little thing, but these things tend to bug me and may bug some others.

I think there are supposed to be different vibration settings, but there was no information inside the package that explained them, and I haven't figured them out yet, or if it's just a defect. Sometimes it only buzzes when you depress the button, other times, it buzzes continuously without needing to hold it down. This is by far the most frustrating "feature" (it's not a bug, it's a feature) of the toy, and I really wish they had taken a minute and included instructions because no one needs to feel frustrated when dealing with a sex toy.