Prostate massager discontinued

So aggressive that you could call it "Rude"

This toy is a good option for a user seeking P-spot stimulation with vibrations. Also, the usage while sitting down rather than lying down provides a contrast from other prostate stimulators that cannot be sat on.
-Provides draining P-spot orgasms
-Bullet vibrator
-Matte silicone for easy lube application
-Too rigid
-Too aggressive curvature
-Too long for my anatomy
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


I purchased this toy for prostate stimulation, which was my first entry into anal play.

I feel that this is a totally solo toy, in my book. It is designed to be used hands-free, but I find that using a hand is required in order for it to hit the right spot and not slip out. The tendency to slip out is the primary reason I feel it's for solo use. It's designed to be sat on, not used while lying down. This is convenient for use while masturbating at the TV or computer.

Caution is recommended because this toy doesn't have the give that other silicone toys have.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Solo
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Kegels

Material / Texture

This toy is made out of very firm, rigid, silicone with a matte finish. The only areas that seem to flex are near the base and near the tip. The rigidity is the primary issue with this toy that causes problems for me. The matte finish means that the toy works well with a lube like Astroglide or a thick water-based lube.
    • No odor
    • Rigid

Design / Shape / Size

The bullet vibrator in the base is the real winner of the design, because it directs vibrations to the perineum and mild vibrations also travel up the tip of the toy.

The curvature isn't quite right for my anatomy, so I cannot comfortably insert the toy and expect it to home in on my prostate. With enough manipulation I can find the P-spot, but I really wish it wasn't so rigid. It feels like there something internal that keeps the toy so rigid, since silicone alone would have more give. If there is something inside, I wish it was some kind of flexible wire to help insure the toy fits different anatomies. FYI, I am 5' 11"

Size-wise, the toy feels a bit too long, but the diameter is perfect. If the toy is inserted fully, which is desired for the targeted perineum vibrations, it pushes to firmly on the prostate. The 1" diameter is perfect because I am able to insert the toy without any warm up. I'm an advanced anal player (in girth), but I feel that beginners would find this diameter easy too.
    • Aggressive
    • Slim


The toy does what it is supposed to and stimulates the prostate. The performance wouldn't be nearly as enjoyable without the bullet vibrator. Due to the length, I only find my self enjoying full insertion immediately prior to orgasm. However, when I cum with the toy deep inside, my ass contracts so violently the toy would slip out if not held firmly in place.
    • Hard to figure out
    • Powerful

Care and Maintenance

Silicone means that cleanup is a piece of cake with soap and water. This toy has not absorbed any odors. The included box is reasonably sized and I kept it to store the toy because it has a sized compartment. This is convenient since it protects from the dust and lint that silicone toys tend to attract.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


I use this toy only about once a month when I haven't had any particularly draining prostate orgasms for awhile. The experience does drain me as desired and I find myself reminded that I am glad to have this toy in my arsenal. However, I am also reminded of the design flaws that prevent this toy from getting more regular use.
Follow-up commentary
The Rude Boy was one of my earliest toys when I thought anal play for males was only about prostate stimulation. The Rude Boy works for that purpose, but it can be uncomfortable, and it is a nuisance to keep it from slipping out during play. Now I'm come to find great pleasure in large toys that provide stretch and fullness in addition to prostate stimulation. I can't remember the last time that the Rude Boy was played with.
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  • Contributor: Jimbo Jones
    Sorry to hear that this wasn't ideal for you. I agree that the design does not make it easy to hold the toy inside. Have you considered other parts of the "Boy" line? Thanks for the review.
  • Contributor: permitdrab
    I have considered the Butt Boy, since I think the pressure and vibrations it would deliver to the inner sphincter would be pleasurable.
  • Contributor: Tart
    Excellent review!
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    Thanks for the review.
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    Thanks for this
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    Thanks for the review!
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    Thanks for the review
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