Not your average flashlight!

The Fleshlight Ice Lady makes a great addition to solo play or some time spent with your significant other. This lady is high maintenance but worth it in the end!
Texture, couple friendly, transparent exterior case.
Can't be mistaken for a flashlight, would like if it was tighter.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Fleshlight Ice Lady Crystal is a great masturbation sleeve by Fleshlight. The Ice Lady is great for solo and couples play. Your partner will love the transparent case! You will find that this is one girl who is high maintenance, but she's worth the effort to keep her in top shape.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere

Material / Texture

The Ice Lady is made from superskin. Superskin feels pretty realistic and is extremely soft. It is latex free and non-allergenic. Superskin rates a 5 on Eden's material safety scale.

There are multiple textures to the Ice Lady. Sadly, not every man is going to experience all of them!

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    • No odor
    • Textured interior

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

The Ice Lady is designed like all of the other Fleshlight masturbators. The exterior case looks just like a extremely over sized flashlight. The reason I was drawn to the Ice Lady was because of its transparent case. My fiance always uses this with me and she enjoys being able to watch what's going on instead of staring at -insert random color here-. The case isn't as transparent as it could be, because of the cornstarch. It is worth it to use it though! It says "FLESHLIGHT, Made in USA by Interactive Life Forms", it also has U.S. patent and reg. numbers. Three quarters of the smaller end of the Fleshligh are covered in 5 bumps. These bumps help keep the Fleshlight from slipping out of your lube covered hands.

The Fleshlight is pretty big! The tin container has a total length of about 10 1/2". It has a width of about 4". The exterior case has a length of 10" with both caps on. Without the caps it is 8" in length. The smaller end of the Fleshlight has a width of 2 1/4". The larger end has a width of 4".
    • Will fit most people

Functions / Performance / Controls

The Ice Lady has only one control, if you even want to call it that. You are suppose to be able to change the amount of suction you receive by twisting the cap at the small end of the case. The first time we used the Ice Lady I had the cap almost completely off, a minute went by and I asked my fiance to tighten it. A minute later I asked her to tighten it more, shortly after that I kept asking "are you sure you tightened it?" "Are you positive?" Of course she was, so I had her tighten it all the way, and to be completely honest I didn't notice a change at all.

The Ice Lady performs great. The texture feels amazing and causes a lot of great stimulation.
I would like to note that the Ice Lady does not feel the same as getting head, it is a completely different sensation. If that is what you are looking for, this is most likely not the product for you.
    • Easy to use
    • Very stimulating

Care and Maintenance

The Ice Lady is a little bit high maintenance compared to other masturbators. If taken care of properly, this masturbator will last a long time. To clean your Ice Lady, just run her through some warm water in the sink. Be sure to avoid using any soap, as this could damage the sleeve. If you really want to give this a good scrubbing, you have two options. You can use a little bit of isopropyl alcohol or you have the option to buy Fleshwash which is also made by Fleshlight. Let your Ice Lady completely air dry before placing her back into the exterior case. Failure to do so can cause mold to grow on your sleeve! Drying it does take a few hours. I normally let mine dry overnight, so it dries in under eight hours. Make sure that you only use water based lubricants with the Ice Lady. Other lubricants can cause the sleeve to deteriorate.

After washing your Ice Lady the first time, you will notice that she becomes extremely sticky. I cannot explain to you how sticky it actually is. When this happens, it is near impossible to get the sleeve back into it's exterior case. Be sure to have some cornstarch handy as this will remove the stickiness. My fiance has been nice enough to be the one who does this after the sleeve is dry. It's pretty messy so have a towel handy. What she does is holds the sleeve over the towel and rubs her hand in the cornstarch. She then rubs her hand all along the sleeve, being sure to cover the entire exterior. If you get clumps you can simply pat the sleeve and you will be left with a nice, thin layer. The difference a little cornstarch can make is unbelievable! Unfortunately, the Ice Lady does attract everything in the room like lint, dust and hair if it is floating around before covering it in cornstarch.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
    • High maintenance


The Ice Lady arrives in just about the best packaging in my opinion. It is a large blue and black, tin container which is perfect for further storage of your Fleshlight. The container has 4 images of women in different poses. Fleshlight is written in large letters across the middle of the tin. The back on the tin has a picture of the Ice Lady's texture and a bit of information about the product. Keep in mind that the Ice Lady, like all other Fleshlights, have a large rod in them during shipping. Be sure to remove the rod before use!

You also receive a sample of lube and a small, two page care and usage guide. You could travel with the Ice Lady if you really wanted to, but she is large for a masturbator. No one will believe it is a flashlight!
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

My only problem with the Ice Lady is its size. Not how large the product is, but the size of the hole in the sleeve. Personally I would love for it to be a lot tighter. This caused the product to not exactly live up to what I was hoping for, which was a little upsetting.

The only other "complaint", if you want to call it that, is the size of the lips where you enter the Ice Lady. When she is placed in the exterior case, the "entry point" makes up for about an 1 1/2" of the Ice Lady's size. If that was smaller, it would allow for men to reach at least another texture inside. Unless you are pretty large, you will never experience all of what the Ice Lady has to offer, which is unfortunate.

I just want to add, the Ice Lady is so amazing it actually made my fiance say "wow, that makes me wish I had a penis" when checking it out for the first time. For once she was the one who was jealous of my toy!
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