Fleshlight ice lady crystal - penis stroker by Fleshlight - review by Lucky21

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Caution, this Ice Queen Will Make You Melt!

The Ice Lady Crystal is totally worth it and is the best Fleshlight I have tried to date. Despite its awesome feeling, it does require more care than other Fleshlights, but don't let that deter you from crystal clear love!
Quite intense, awesome see through container and material. Great body heat transfer.
It gets sticky, requires a maintenance beyond basic cleaning. May need to warm up before use.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Ice Lady Crystal from Fleshlight is a male masturbator with a semi-clear sleeve and a tube fashioned after the standard "Lady" labia that you can find in the standard Fleshlight series. This sleeve is a fantastic partner toy because you and your partner can see your cock moving in it. This makes the experience solo or with a partner a ton of fun because you can see which texture you are using and can vary the rate of thrusting based on depth and what texture catches your fancy.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Masturbation
    • Solo
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Bedroom
    • Shower

Material / Texture

Like all Fleshlights, the Ice Lady Crystal is made out of Fleshlight's patented Super Skin, though what separates this from all the other Fleshlight lines is it is semi clear. It is designed to be lifelike as far as the feel goes. It's soft, plush and quite life like. The Super Skin material does have a very distinct odor to it, very similar to other lifelike products on the market. This smell does dissipate after a couple of washes. The Super Skin material is also porous, so you will have to take special time to make sure it's properly cleaned and dried before storage. Though, unlike my experience with other Fleshlights, this one gets sticky. REAL STICKY. When I first got it, it was covered with a healthy layer of what I assume was corn starch since that is what Fleshlight recommends you condition the Fleshlight with. Once used and cleaned, the Fleshlight sleeve became insanely sticky, sticking right to itself as well as anything else that it touched. It was basically impossible to get it back in the Fleshlight case. I patted it down with corn starch and it promptly stopped sticking to itself and slid back in the case.

As far as its internal texture, it's amazing. Since my last Fleshlight review was based on the Teagan Presley Lotus texture, I am going to compare from that. It's a completely different sensation. There are pockets with nubs, bumps, and ridges; it is way more intense. It also feels a bit tighter than the lotus design. The interesting part is some of the textures you can really feel, others you don't feel and are more or less indistinct. In some ways, this is more life like than the lotus design; in other ways, it can feel like something completely different.
    • Bumpy
    • Plush
    • Smooth

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

WARNING, THIS PRODUCT IS NOT DISCREET! If you are worried about anyone seeing it, make sure it's put away. Fleshlights are designed to look like oversized flashlights but really look nothing like one. The housing is clear plastic, which is why it's not discreet. Anyone spotting it will probably ask themselves (or you for that matter) "What the heck is that?!" The Fleshlight case is 10 inches in length with the sleeve being about 9. It tapers like a flashlight, where the top is about 4 inches in diameter to the base where it's about 2.5 inches. There are caps that screw onto both ends. The outside of the case is smooth at the top and has some ridges on the bottom so it is easy to grip. You could travel with it if you want to, but if it's going in a backpack or a suitcase, I don't know if I would want to explain it to a TSA agent. Also, if you are storing it in the can, it may be that much harder to find a place as it's 10.5 inches by 5 inches.

The Ice Lady Crystal is designed to accommodate penises up to 7.75 inches in length and 2 inches in girth. So gents, if you have a larger member than that, you might need to look elsewhere if you are looking for a sleeve masturbator.

Some guys have said that they find Fleshlights to be bit on the heavy side, and while I'm no weight lifter, I have had no issues with mine. If I go for a longer session, it can get slightly tiring, but no where to the point where I can't do it any more. If you do have issues with the weight, just think of it as an arm workout and after a while, I assure you, you will have no issues.
    • Realistic
    • Whimsical / artistic
    • Will fit most people

Care and Maintenance

I have discovered that care for Fleshlights is relatively easy. Once done, you can just rinse it with warm water to clean it out. Once clean, she needs to air dry. The Fleshlight is porous, so do not put it away until she is dry, otherwise you can grow mold or other scary stuff. DO NOT USE SOAP. You can destroy the Super Skin material if you do. If you need to give your Fleshlight a solid cleaning, you can use isopropyl alcohol (rubbing alcohol) and it can sanitize the sleeve. I have done this with no side effects. Fleshlight does makes a special formula specifically for their products called Fleshwash. They have published the ingredient list, so I'm pretty sure you can find something on Eden almost identical.

As stated earlier, you have to corn starch the Ice Lady Crystal after every cleaning. And this is doubly important because the ends will stick to themselves, not letting air through to dry out the inside. Corn starching the sleeve is very easy. I just pat corn starch on the outside and dribble a little bit in the inside and give it a solid shake. You need to do this all once it's dry, otherwise you are just going to have clumps of corn starch. I've discovered that drying can take hours if not longer. I've been experimenting with using the shipping rod to keep the labia section opened up more so that air flows through better.

Also, be very careful which lubes you use! You can only use water-based lubricants with the Fleshlight. You cannot use silicone lubricants. If you do, the Super Skin will break down and you will have a gooey mess on your hands or all over your manhood, and that isn't going to be any fun.

Fleshlight Sleeve after cleaning, before corn starch
Fleshlight Sleeve after cleaning, before corn starch

The attempt to get it back in the case before corn starch
The attempt to get it back in the case before corn starch

The Sleeve after corn starch
The Sleeve after corn starch

The Sleeve in case after corn starch
The Sleeve in case after corn starch

The shipping tube helping air of the sleeve
Shipping Tube


All Fleshlights purchased from third party vendors come in a can, which in this case has Fleshlight Ice written down the side as well as an image of the Fleshlight on it. It's a blue and black can which is also great for storage. The only thing is that it is not discreet at all. Inside you get the Fleshlight as well as a sample packet of Fleshlight's Fleshlube Water lubricant and a pamphlet with instructions as well as other Fleshlight products on it. If you are interested in the can, you cannot purchase these directly from Fleshlight.

Also, there is a plastic tube that comes inside of the Fleshlight which is designed to keep the inside of the Fleshlight from sticking to itself. You have to remove this before use, but I have also found it very helpful to get airflow through it while it's drying, so I'd recommend that you don't throw it out. As well, if you are going to store it for a long period of time, particularly with the Fleshlight on its side, I'd recommend re-inserting the tube during storage.

Everything that comes with the Fleshlight
Everything that comes with the Fleshlight

Back of the Fleshlight Can
Back of the Fleshlight Can
    • Collectable.
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet


As I said in my review for the Fleshlight Girls Teagan Presley review, Fleshlights have truly changed my sexual life, both for solo play as well as my sex life with my partner. I find that with my solo sessions, I have way more intense orgasms. When it comes to having sex with my partner, I've found that I have way more control, longevity and stamina.

I would recommend warming up the Fleshlight before use. Though its material transfers body heat really easily, it still can be chilly when first starting, though maybe it should being called "Ice Lady." I use water based lubes with my Fleshlights, and I've discovered that if you apply lube to both ends, it makes for easy insertion as well as a bit longer lasting, particularly when doing an up and down motion with the Fleshlight. Now I can't say that it is recommended, but recently I tried using Sliquid's Organic Silk hybrid lubricant. This is 88% water based and 12% silicone based. I have seen no ill effects on my Fleshlight and frankly it's proven to be my favorite lube to use with my Fleshlight. But beware, IT COULD destroy the Fleshlight material. Also, I highly recommend that you clean your Fleshlight as soon as you are done using it. I can't imagine how hard it would be to get it properly clean if everything has dried on the inside. Also, though the Fleshlight feel renewed after using corn starch, I feel like it feels even more renewed after cleaning with rubbing alcohol than applying the corn starch.

I can't stress this enough, Fleshlights products have changed my life! I would highly recommend this to anyone of any level of experience. It will change the way you masturbate! I am super excited to try other Fleshlights and can't wait to see what they come up with next.
Follow-up commentary
I seriously love this! Ok, I admit that it's a little sticky when it's not coated in corn starch, but since that's pretty much it's only downfall (vs. other fleshlights) I'd say the texture and the viewing really does out weigh the negative. I still love mine and use it on a regular basis. I'd very much so, still recommend this one.

Also, I've kept using the Sliquid Organics Silk hybrid lube and I've seen no ill effects on the Fleshlight.
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  • satinlady550
    Great review
  • spiced
    Outstanding review! I'm 95% certain this will be my next toy--as soon as it's back in stock...
  • richsam
    Thx for the review
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