Fleshlight ice lady crystal - masturbation sleeve by Fleshlight - review by oldman

This Ice Lady Melted Me!

Well worth my time and money! This is something that I can use myself or with my wife when I am feeling lazy. My wife likes it because it makes it easier on her when she gives me a hand job. A great substitute for sex with her, but don't tell her I said that!
Easy to use and clean, light weight, effective, lives up to its reputation, great material and color
Any one familiar with Fleshlight products would recognize this item.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


What can I say? I have been a fan of the Fleshlight products for years. Generally, they are well priced, durable and ULTRA effective. The "Ice Lady Crystal" is a clear, flexible sleeve with interior ribs that rocked my world. Once I lubed up the entrance, it was fairly easy to enter, but as I slid my cock in and out, it became kind of dry so I pulled out and generously lubed up my cock. It is very important that you use a water based lubricant available at EdenFantasys.com at very reasonable prices). At this point I should tell you that I have no natural lubrication because of surgeries I have had so I always need lots of lube for jacking off or for intercourse with my wife. Having said that, once I was nice and moist I had no problems. It is clear so it looks more inviting when I am using it than having a pink or black dick. It is much more natural looking and adds to the turn on, especially when my wife is giving me a hand job. There are a variety of nibs throughout the chamber, stimulating the shaft and head very nicely. You can easily control your speed and blow just at the right time. The climax is so much more satisfying than a hand alone. For older (or younger) guys having orgasm problems, this may be the cure! It is lightweight, cleans easily and travels well. I do like the case and it is discreet, but I think any sex savvy person would guess what is inside. All Fleshlight sleeves take up little room in the suitcase, but I would not pack it in a carry on because if TSA opens your bag, it may be uncomfortable for you both of you, which is too bad because I can see my wife and I using this on an airplane, under a discretionary blanket!
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo and group
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
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    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
    • Low and easy maintenance

Material / Texture

The interior material, "Superskin", is soft and natural feeling which makes the sensations really nice. You can easily imagine yourself inside your favorite movie "Babe" or with that special woman. Also, for those with a latex allergy, which is quite common I understand, it is allergy free--an important health concern for many. A quality of the Fleshlight products that I like is that the case comes with the sleeve making it easy to keep track of. There are no moving parts or electronics/batteries so it is waterproof and safe to use in the shower or tub. I found it not to be as "slurpy" as some masturbatory sleeves. It is a comfortable size and shape, making it easy to handle during use. It is flexible and "srtetchy" so guys a bit larger would find this nice and tight, but would fit.

Hmmm... Would I say its for beginners or more advanced users? I don't know any masturbation "beginners" (my opinion is we are all experts!). However, it is pretty self explanatory and easy to use and enjoy. It certainly does what it is made to do! Very functional!
    • No odor
    • Textured interior
    • Flexible

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

The design is a very natural shape and I like the color which gives a more natural look. All in all, this is one of my favorite toys, works well and is easy to use. This is well suited for travel, easy to hide, but also easy to recognize. The flexibility and "stretchy" qualities of this sleeve make it easy for bigger guys, but if you are longer than 6.5 inches you can only go so far!
    • Realistic
    • Will fit most people
    • Ergonomic

Functions / Performance / Controls

It is the opinion of this reviewer that the Fleshlight Ice Lady, as well as Fleshlight products in general, are quite close to vaginal sex. As with all sleeves, if you warm up the sleeve prior to using, it comes as close as "humanly" possible. You should never place in boiling water, or in a microwave. There are 2 ways I suggest to warm the sleeve. I usually warm up some water, either from the faucet as hot as possible or place some water in a microwavable bowl and warm in the microwave. To be sure the water is not above 105 degrees F, test a few drops on the inside of your wrist, like we old timers did for our baby's bottles way back when (my oldest is 41, so you can trust me on this!). If it feels warm/hot, but not scolding, it is safe. Take the sleeve from the Fleshlight "case" and place it in the water for about 5 minutes. You do not want to leave it in the water so long that it cools down. This is a case where "practice makes perfect". Again, be diligent not to heat the water past 105 to 110 degrees F. Past 110 degrees F you risk burning yourself.
    • Easy to use
    • Feels realistic
    • Very stimulating

Care and Maintenance

Easy to clean and dry. I recommend some corn starch sprinkled inside to keep it fresh and dry for your next use. I used a water based lube, which is recommended, so I wouldn't get creative with lubes. I like the lubes put out by System JO H2O (available here on edenfantasys.com), but use your favorite water based lube. Personally, I have not had much luck with KY, so I recommend staying clear. KY has always gelled up for me and leaves "crumbs" behind, which messes up the sheets and can be uncomfortable, its not the time you want to change the sheets! Sex toys are like cars--good maintenance helps it last for a long time (especially for frequent users). The Ice Lady is very durable, as I have found all my Fleshlight products to be. A thorough cleaning with warm soapy water, a good drying and you are good to go.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
    • Low maintenanc


The Ice Lady comes packaged as most Fleshlight items, it looks like a flashlight, but a flashlight on steroids... The sleeve is inside the flashlight and does not come out of the packaging, a nice feature if you are in a hurry to get started. Basic instructions are included, but no instructions are needed.
    • Good for storage

Personal comments

As with all personal toys, I do not recommend passing this around to your friends. If you do, please clean and dry it extra well and use a condom--along with water based lubes. Edenfantasys.com sells several toy cleaners and sanitizers. I recommend using 1 of these products to clean your Fleshlight.
Follow-up commentary
Still loving this--the Ice Lady never fails to warm my cockles!!! I highly recommend any of the Fleshlights and I personally find it nice to have a few to change things up now and then.
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