The Big Boss can really be used to please you internally as well as externally. I was able to utilize it to stimulate my clit and hit that g-spot as well.

As nice as it was externally, it was much nicer internally; a little bit of water-based lubricant, and it worked quite nicely for my pleasure.

Having said that, I do not think that this will be a good fit for everyone. Make sure you know what you are getting into with the Big Boss. It's true to it's name; it's not a little guy: 5.5" around by 9" long 6.5 of which is insertable. If you enjoy a variety of vibrations and a larger toy, then you will most likely love this toy. I think would be a good toy for someone that's looking to go bigger due to its soft feel, and because it is not a rigid design, it is easier and nicer to get where you need it.

The shaft of the Big Boss is made of a velvety silicone and is nice and soft to the touch. It is not discreet and very phalic looking as such, it as well has a a head at the top of the shaft along with added veins set throughout the shaft to add additional sensation with the velvety texture of the boss. The handle is made out of a hard plastic for easy handling.

I do appreciate when I find products that have no discernible taste or smell to it, and this product did not fail me in that regard.

I would have to say the only downside to the velvety texture of the shaft is that it collects lint like crazy, but that is easy to deal with.

I would recommend this type of texture to beginners as well as advanced users. I absolutely loved it.

I really liked the overall design of the Big Boss. It is formed to have a realistic look to it with a bit of a head as well as some veins along the shaft. Though the design has the head and veins along the length of it, with the type of material and feel of the Big Boss I really couldn't feel the added veins of the product. I thought it was nice for a visual but added no benefit for me. The handle was very comfortable for changing the settings while using the product at the same time. It was a very easy and pleasurable design as far as comfort and ease of use goes which makes for a more over all pleasurable experience for myself. The size though it looked a little big and intimidating (With a whopping 9' in length with 6.5 of that insertable. As well the circumference of this Big Boss is 5 1/2" and the diameter of him is 1 3/4 with a weight of 0.75) actually fit and felt quite nice. It was not too big nor was it too small. It definitely worked very nice for me.

The Big Boss is not a discreet toy. Yes, you can hide it in your drawer or where ever it is you keep your toys in at home. I wouldn't recommend this for travel. Though I would take this toy with me for sure, its not necessarily a good "On the go" or "travel" sort of toy. At least, its not if you are one to be embarrassed about what someone might find. This is not a toy you could pass off as a "massager".

I was very pleased overall with this product; the design made for easy use. It is a quiet product which is kind of surprising considering how strong the vibrations that this product brings to the table. I was able to switch the vibrations easily which made the experience that much better instead of having to fumble with twisting nobs on some devices, and the handle's design was a quite comfortable design. It was a comfortable hold which also led to less fumbling around so as to give me more opportunity to enjoy the pleasure of the product and focus more on me and what I was feeling. I think the design of the product itself was my favorite part. Yes, the material it was made out of was quite nice and added to the pleasure as well, but the easy handling and the nice fit hitting the g-spot was the best parts of the toy in my opinion.

Other than the fact that the product collects lint, my only other complaint is the occasional connectivity issues it has while charging. I like that the product is rechargeable, and I also like the fact that it has a sleek design due to the the fact that the charging is done via magnets. But if its not sitting just right, it seems to occasionally lose connection which is not optimal considering I can't sit by it all the time to make sure that it is continually charging.

The Big Boss has a silicone shaft. Silicone and silicone lube is not a suggested combination as it will break the toy down over time. It is recommended that you use a water-based lube which works well with the toy.

As for cleaning, I personally use a toy cleaner to clean all of my toys, but you can also use a 10% bleach solution as well as mild soap and water.

To be honest, I am still fairly new to these items so you are getting a somewhat fresh perspective. I have owned very few toys previously and even less in the way of vibrators until recently. Having said that, I have been able to play with enough to get an idea of what is good and what is bad. Specifically in quality and for my liking.

I tend to mostly utilize the toys on my own as it is a rare occasion when me and my partner utilize them together, so this toy really pleased me with its comfort in handling.