Hottest Sex Fetishes We've Tried That'll Strengthen Your Relationship
Even if you think you’re so vanilla you could be a frosting, I bet you, there is a fetish that’s up your alley. My girlfriend and I thought we're kinky enough, but this experiment led us into a whole new world of sexuality, turning our sex life into a total FETstival. With new practices, new toys and a new view of each other's pleasure, we went on to a new level. Here's my experience, with details and tips, for you to find that kinky bone in your body and STRETCH. IT. GOOD.
The word "fetish" comes from a distorted Portugal word "feitiсo" - it means "spell" or "charm".
Tripsolagnophilia
Sounds menacing, but it’s an all-time fav - the sensual massage. I quickly caught that it's a perfect place to start a fetish game - if you love being touched, you most def have this fetish already. It’s the ultimate fetishistic foreplay and the best way to relax and arouse.
I Recommend
Replete your fet scene with flavorful candles and hot melted wax. I checked it first on my forearm and then smeared it all over her delicious body.
Grab a full massage kit we have in our toy box for an out-of-this-world tripsolagnophilia experience
Gender-Bending
We were hesitant about trying this fetish and changing the power dynamic so drastically. But, boy, was it a revelation. Being so vulnerable, so exposed, with her showing so much dominance and emitting power - it felt intoxicating. So strap on a strap-on and try that table-turning pegging action - you will be ever changed after that, with a deeper understanding of each other's pleasure.
I Recommend
Play out the bulbous head of the strap-on and always aim for the P-spot - a thorough prostate massage can lead to full-body multiple orgasms.
women love being spanked
A survey by Glamour magazineImpact Play
To spank or to be spanked - if you give impact play a try, you’d want both. Either by hand or with the good stuff like floggers and canes, we were all in the spanking game. It brings both physical and mental delight. Oh, I picture those punishment-forgiveness fet scenarios as I write.
I Recommend
Start spanking by hand, then gradually move on to tougher implements and keep an eye on the bum shades - my lovely GF's butt went from juicy pink to scarlet. Those shades are your A-hit.
Vincilagnia
If you are into control games, as we are, the vincilagnia - plainly bondage - is your perfect fet fit. I loved the idea of securing her and not letting her dodge the pleasure, and it turned out fascinating. The variety of scenarios is countless, as well as the array of knots - so be prepared!
I Recommend
For the best vincilagnia play, make safety your priority. Make sure you can fit at least a finger between the skin and the restraint to avoid interrupting blood flow.
I would get this advanced bondage kit for a complete vincilagnia perspective
Americans admit to having a fetish or a kink
A survey by EdenfantasysASMR
Spurring, gyrating, and rolling, sex toys are the ultimate dream for an ASMR fet-fan. Which, apparently, we both are! The arsenal of toys we had has provided us with a symphony of thrilling sounds and different vibration patterns. The biggest perk of trying the ASMR fetish with toys? An orgasm, of course.
I Recommend
To make your ASMR experience complete, eliminate all sounds but the deep rumble of the sex toy inside of you and lose yourself to sensations.
Animal Play
A "fluffy" alias granted us an exhilarating freedom to express the wild passion that lives inside every carnal sexual being. I literally roared on our animal fetish journey. Flirt with the idea of primal instincts overtaking you, and stock on props to complete your furry fantasy.
I Recommend
Think a scenario through before starting the fluffy game and then try to stay in character whatever happens - roar, groan and meow your way to the peak.
Agoraphilia
Hot and bothered in public - that’s agoraphilia, and that's our guilty pleasure. Getting it on at the office or a club gives you cold feet? Take a tip from pros - discreet sex toys never fail - those naughty little hurricanes under your clothes will make your day forecast, with a big chance of big O. Just get a grip of your facial expression.
I Recommend
Make a game out of the agoraphilia fetish - take your toys on a night out with a partner, nibble each other through clothing and try to hold up as long as possible.
Still think fetish is uncommon?
That's how big is the pool of the FetLife social network alone
Endytophilia
Endytophilia is a fetish for sex in clothes - and, trust us, it’s hotter than full nude. For one, clothed sex means hasty, raw, ripping desire. It’s seductive and mysterious, and when she threw on lace and artificial leather, the concept of nudity was BUSTed for me.
I Recommend
Play out the idea of sex in clothes - throw in a striptease show, choose undergarments with strategic openings that are her main weapon now, and enjoy the naughty.
Get my girl's look with this delicious lingerie deal to quench your endytophilia thirst
Polyiterophilia (DP)
Intense and enticing, the fetish for multiple partners, aka polyiterophilia, was a craving of hers. She told that she dreamt of losing herself to an extreme feeling of fullness and pushing over the limits towards the biggest climax - I was happy to oblige.
I Recommend
You don’t need a stranger in the bedroom for a full double penetration experience - realistic toys will play the part perfectly.
Orgasm denial
Playing with your partner’s orgasm, keeping them on their toes, teasing - orgasm denial games and edging are about control and intensifying the pleasure. Balancing on edge and then falling into bliss made it so much more intense for us.
I Recommend
Take full charge and literally control the waves of pleasure - "forbid" your partner to orgasm. I made her beg for it, and she made me, and it was the sweetest reward.
