Love pacifier advanced - butt plug by Cal Exotics - review by DiscreteKink

Close, but just not for me

While this toy is designed well, its major downfall comes from manufacturing. The seam around the toy was definitely noticeable to me, and caused me to really dislike this toy. Had they manufactured it better, or used a smoother material, this toy would have gotten 4 stars.
Well Shaped
Flexible Neck & Base
Noticeable Seam
Rating by reviewer:
useful review


This toy is best used by inserting it anally and going about further stimulation through other play. You will probably not be able to get off using this toy exclusively, but combined, it may just do the trick.

This toy is going to be good for people who are well versed in anal. Please note the size - 1.5" diameter may not sound like a lot, but let me tell you - it most surely is. Even going from 1.25" to 1.5" is a pretty big change, so be sure to account for that if you plan to purchase this toy.

This toy will be good for anyone that wants that full feeling during play. Because of the base, and the design, it can easily be worn when going out and about -- if that's something you're into.

The toy has a large flexible ring at the base. The ring is oriented so that it goes between your cheeks, as opposed to going sideways. The ring is plenty big to prevent this toy from disappearing in the one place you definitely don't want it to disappear in!
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Everyone
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal

Material / Texture

The toy is made from silicone, although it is not the soft plush silicone that some toys are made from. This silicone feels more close to plastic.

The material is nice for easily sliding in. It does not take much lube to get it slippery enough to slide right in.

The toy is fairly firm, although the neck and base are flexible enough to fit your anatomy easily.

The texture itself is good for everyone, and nothing special needs to be done to account for the material.

Unfortunately, because this toy is made from silicone, I feel that it gets a few points knocked off. I feel that this design works best when the toy is heavy, such as some of the similar toys made from metal. Although you will have the full feeling, you are not going to have the heavy tugging feeling of a heavier toy. This caused me to knock off one star.
    • Not porous at all
    • Rigid
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

This toy is designed with a large bulging tip that tapers down to a thin neck, ending in a loop base.

The shape works well for the intent of the toy. Once in, it is not coming out until you want it to. This is a design commonly used by heavier metal toys to good effect.

This toy is fairly big when talking about anal toys. At 1.5" in diameter, I would only recommend this toy to those people who have dabbled in anal play, and have taken a toy at least 1.25" in diameter. The jump from 1.25" to 1.5" diameter is more than it sounds like!

While this toy is not discreet, it is also not super big, so I would say traveling would not be too difficult with it. Just be sure it's not in an obvious place!
    • Ergonomic


The one major downside to this toy is actually an unintended hazard of the manufacturing process. The toy has a raised joint down each side of the toy where they molded it. This joint is very irritating, and on a large toy, you definitely notice it! I am very finicky about these types of things, because there are a lot of ways you can hurt yourself doing anal, and I don't want to use a toy that can cause unnecessary damage. I feel this is a very major problem, and I knocked off two stars for this.
    • Easy to use
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

This toy is made from silicone, which is smooth and non-porous. Silicone can be fully disinfected by boiling it for 3 minutes, or by throwing it into the top rack of your dishwasher.

This toy is easily stored wherever you want; no special precautions need to be taken.

You should only used water-based lubes with this toy.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store
Follow-up commentary
The uneven ridge down the side has made this toy all but useless for me. Due to it being rather large, the ridges are very noticeable, and cause a lot of pain when trying to use this toy (and not the good type of pain).

This one quickly visited the trash can, and I haven't thought twice about that decision.
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  • travelnurse
    Thanks for the review, sorry it didn't work for you!
  • Rossie
    Thank you for the review, and also for letting us know about that unpleasant seam.
  • kurtster79
    Thanks for the review sucks about the seam
  • Missmarc
    Thank you for the review!
  • Sangsara
    the original looks so much nicer
  • married with children
    good review, thanks for sharing.
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  • Kirill1171
    Thanks for the review.
  • RedKyuubi
    Thank you for the review
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