Love pacifier advanced - butt plug by Cal Exotics - review by Voir

The Love Pacifier is meant to be used in anal play, it can be worn simply to acclimatize one's self to penetration, as a tear, foreplay or as the toy for orgasm itself. It should be duly noted that this, and any anal toy, should always be used with lube!

I use this for solo play and to wear around because I am still quite amazed at how comfortable it is to wear! It was a bit difficult to insert at first, more because of my own hesitance at its size and not using enough lube for the first attempt. However, after taking the time to properly relax, use enough lube and prepare, it went in with little problem, although I still took it slowly just to be on the safe side. Once in, the plug practically dropped off the radar--even with the large ring at the base, I could sit down comfortably and hardly noticed the thing. This makes it easy to wear for extended periods of time--in the shower, preparing for the day or, if you're up for it, throughout the day.

Love Pacifier is made from silicone, with no other additives, so the toy is extremely safe for use. However, due to its material, silicone-based lubricants should be avoided.

The head of the toy is firm due to the thickness of the silicone. The neck and ring are flexible to allow comfort, although it does make inserting the plug a bit difficult. The texture is smooth, except for the seam, which I didn't find to be uncomfortable at all. There is little to no drag so long as lube is used--I would say the size provided more friction for me than the texture of the toy.

This toy is interesting in its design, as I've yet to see another plug with a similar design. The head is bulbous and the largest part of the toy, other than the ring. There is a slight taper from the tip to the thickest portion, and then it drops down into the small "neck" between the ring and "head" of the plug.



The plug is roughly 4 1/2 inches in length--in the image above I aligned it with my Xbox controller for a general size reference. About 2 3/4 inches of that is insertable. The circumference of the largest part of the head is 4 3/4 inches and the neck is 3/4 of an inch around. At first look it is an intimidating size, but after a bit of preparation and not-being-intimidated, it is also a comfortable size--and probably a bit on the small side for those more advanced in anal play.

The best aspect of this toy is the large ring at the bottom, which keeps it from being sucked inside the anus--which is a major problem with the other anal toy I own. There is also little concern for this toy falling out, which is another plus, as this seems to be a common problem with anal toys.

I think my favorite aspect is the overall shape--it's comfortable once inserted and can almost be forgotten about! Yet, tugging on the ring or flexing one's anal muscles immediately provides a form of stimulation. I imagine it may provide p-spot stimulation? Yet as I do not have a prostate, I cannot say for certain.

The Love Pacifier is made of silicone and is very easy to maintain. Some soap and water or toy cleaner after and before each use is recommended. Due to it being an anal toy, extra care must be taken for sanitation. When storing, I have noticed a bit of lint likes to attach itself to the toy, so a quick rinse before use should take care of that. Overall, it is very low-maintenance and easy to care for. It also seems quite durable, so the care one would take for glass toys isn't really needed here.

The toy's packaging isn't at all discreet. It is blue and white with a big red image of the plug itself on the front and back. The box is made of cardboard and can be recycled. There wasn't much information on using the toy, however I think it is rather self-explanatory.

Outside of the box, the plug was sealed within a simple plastic wrapping, and that can be recycled as well. There really isn't much to say--it is a simple to open box and a relatively straightforward toy.

Feeling adventurous one night, I used this lovely little plug with the Black Magic Vibrator, L'amour Probe (Beginner), and Zero Tolerance water-based anal lube. I was a bit leery of using the plug without any prior preparation so the L'amour served for that, as I'm not a big fan of using fingers. After the plug was in (with plenty of lube!), I found using the Black Magic Vibe externally around the clit and sides of my vagina while gently tugging on the ring of the plug produced some rather intense sensations!

You could also try double penetration. I had a bit of difficulty and so only inserted the vibe about an inch while wearing the plug. Had there been clitoral stimulation as well, it would have been toe curling. Definitely something I'll likely repeat in the future--it left my legs feeling like jelly afterward.