Love pacifier advanced - sex toy by Cal Exotics - review by Buttercup Green

This Pacifier Is For Adults Only. No Kids.

I seriously cannot say enough good things about this toy. This review has been the easiest to write. Why is that you ask? This toy is unbelievable. It was love at first butt plug.
Inexpensive, silicone, very comfortable, great for that step from beginner to intermediate
That darn seam
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


I will give you one guess as to what this toy is for. Who guessed for the butt? Ding ding! We have a winner. You guys are geniuses. The Love Pacifier Advanced is indeed a butt plug, and a darn good one at that. Have you had a long day at work, and you want some dirty anal play in the shower? Then I am the bearer of good news for you. It is completely waterproof. This toy has a nice tapered head and a nice thin stem. Oh, and did I mention the great handle? The handle is large enough to prevent those lost and hopefully found moments. This is not a toy for the faint of heart. While it isn't too intimidating for those intermediate and expert anal users out there, it is too thick for the beginners. That is why the word " advanced " is in the title. Isn't that clever? This toy is great for solo, couple, and travel play. If you have a roommate, not to worry. This toy is very easy to hide, and does not make any noise. The toy hits all the right places for both men and women.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
    • Travel friendly
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Campus/roommate living
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

What can make this toy anymore awesome? It is made out of silicone! This material is non-porous. It has no smell and no taste. Amazing? I think so. Silicone is very easy to clean and disinfect. When you mix this style of toy and material, you have yourself one pretty flexible butt plug. There is absolutely no texture. It is silky smooth...almost. There is a visible seam. It can be felt with your fingertips. It does not cause any problems when being inserted or while it is in you. As a matter of fact, it feels great when it is in the butt. The seam is not irritating at all. It just takes away from the value of the toy.
    • Flexible
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

It all starts with a tapered head with a diameter of 1 1/2". After you get past the large head, it is smooth sailing from there. The head tapers off onto a slim, but comfortable, stem. The total insertable length is 2 3/4". The stem and head are gently curved to fit your body like a glove. As mentioned before, the flexibility makes this butt plug really comfortable. The curve makes sure that the butt plug stay in. There is no " popping out " with this plug. I walked around the house, did chores, and even went to the store with it in. I have a generous booty so the plug does not show. However, if you are on the skinnier side you might want to stick with jeans when wearing this out in public. Looser fitting bottoms, like sweats or jogging pants, might showcase the handle for you. Try explaining that to the neighbors! The handle varies in thickness. It is very thick towards the stem, but grows quite thin when you move down the handle. This makes for an awkward insertion. I had to hold it by the bottom of the stem to insert it. As stated earlier, this butt plug is not for beginners. I would not say this plug is completely discreet. It is more discreet than other butt plugs, but I digress.
    • Intermediate or expert use only
    • Kind of discreet


This toy has brought me to heaven and back. It is very easy to forget you are wearing it. Yes, it is that comfortable. It is perfect for wearing it for long periods of time. During couples play, it does have its ups and downs. For instance, missionary style felt great for me, but not for my husband. His balls kept hitting the handle. We then switched to doggy style, and all was well. You just need to play around with it, and find what works best for you and your partner. As for solo play, anything goes. I have tried everything I can think off, but it felt great no matter what I did. The one thing that makes this toy not so great is the aforementioned seam. It cannot be felt when inserted, but it is a sore to the eyes. The handle can be a hassle at first, but it does not take away from the toy in my opinion.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use

Care and Maintenance

The cleaning and storing of this toy could not be any easier. Give thanks to the silicone. To clean simply use warm water and antibacterial soap, or you can put it in the dishwasher for a quick rinse. As with all other silicone toys, keep away from silicone lubes. Make water based lubes your new best friend. Silicone lubes can damage the silicone of your precious butt plug. Also store it away from other silicone toys. Thanks to its relatively small size, it is very easy to store. A corner of your drawer would do perfectly, as it does not collect lint or dust.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


If you are looking for discreet packaging, this is not it. It has the name " Love Pacifier " in big red letters, and a picture of the product that takes up most of the front of the package. It says on the front and the back that this toy is angled for your pleasure, it has an " EZ-Pull " handle, and that it is made from 100% silicone. It also states that it is ergonomically shaped to enhance your love making. In the corner of the front, there is the California Exotic logo. On the bottom, it says to wash before and after each use, and to always use water based lubes. The package itself is the normal cardboard box. This makes for easy storage.
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

This was my first step from beginner to intermediate anal play. I could not have picked a better toy. I am 99.9% happy with this product. It has easily become a favorite of mine. Next time I see someone I know who loves anal, I will definitely tell them about this toy.
Follow-up commentary
I still love this toy! I have noticed that it does retain smells. When I notice this, I soak the toy in hot water overnight. This seems to diminish any offending odors.
This has remained one of my favorite toys to use for long term wear. If something ever happened to this plug, I would immediately buy another. I never want to be without one.
I also use it as a warm up plug whenever I want to play with one of my bigger glass plugs.
This product was provided at a discounted price in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • bluekaren
    Thanks for the great, fun review!
  • sexyintexas
    Lol, great review!
  • ToyingCouple
    Excellent review, this toy does look like fun!
  • Buttercup Green
    @bluekaren, sexyintexas, and toying couple- Thanks for reading, and thanks for all of your wonderful comments.
  • The Curious Couple
    Good review, thanks!
  • Kdlips
  • Buttercup Green
    Thanks Curious Couple.
    Thanks for following Kdlips.
  • Upskirt
    Great review!!
  • Buttercup Green
    Thanks Upskirt!
  • Waterfall
    Very nice review! Glad you liked this one, I have the beginner size and it feels really good as well
  • Buttercup Green
    Thanks Waterfall. I am glad you are enjoying the beginner pacifier plug as well. They are wonderful!
  • Linga
    Awesome review
  • Buttercup Green
    Thanks so much LingaLoo.
  • faust
    nice review!
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  • Raizer911
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