The Essential Strapless Strap-On

The Feeldoe effectively revolutionized the "strap-on" experience. Whatever your orientation, the Feeldoe provides a heightened level of intimacy by removing the burden of harnesses, o-rings, straps, and all of the pesky interruptions associated with strap-on play. The shape of the bulb provides enough stability to explore a range of sexual positions and the ridges at the base ensure pleasure for both partners. The bullet can either be used inside the dildo for internal stimulation, or freely manipulated for clitoral stimulation. Overall, this toy is a must have for lesbians or couples that love a good pegging.

Silicone is the way to go. This silicone toy allows for a both pleasurable and hygienic experience. Throw it in the dishwasher or clean it with anti-bacterial soap with the comfort of knowing that this toy will not disintegrate.

The texture of the toy tends to lean more toward the rigid side. The material offers some mobility at the base of the shaft, but overall ranks as less mobile than other dildos on the market. Despite this, I have never had a problem using it in a diverse array of sexual positions.

As a lesbian, I personally appreciate the unrealistic aesthetic. It offers a penetrative experience without nude colors or veiny textures. At the same time, the Feeldoe provides stimulating ridges at its base and a ridge at the tip, making it pleasurable for both partners.

I feel most ambivalently about the bulb end of the toy. While the bulb tends to provide a good level of stability, slippage is ultimately an issue. Of course, to some extent stability varies depending on vaginal dexterity. I have used this product with my partner for a long time and usually the bulb slips out a few times during intercourse (and I am much tighter than my partner). I think the best advice is to be cognizant about slippage during use and try to orient sexual positions in such a way that your legs stay slightly closed during more intense bursts of penetration. If you're going at it hard and your legs are too open, the bulb will slip out.

The Violet Feeldoe's size is a "regular" fit. Don't be alarmed by its advertised 9" length. It isn't intimidating and the girth feels appropriate for anyone that has used dildos or strap-ons before. If this is your first time being penetrated or using toys, you might opt for the Feeldoe Slim. Overall the size seems quite standard. As I mentioned, the ridges at the base and insertion ridge at the top make the sexual experience pleasurable for both partners. The design tends to be rigid, but not excessively.

This toy is a must for lesbians. I like my harness, but I like mixing it up with the Feeldoe for heightened intimacy. During penetration, the Feeldoe provides enough flexibility for vaginal to vaginal and clitoral stimulation. The ridges near the base also make "giving" pleasurable. It performs well in any number of sexual positions, although some positions have to be modified to prevent the bulb from slipping out. The bullet provides standard pulsation. It's enough to be used manually or inserted into the base of the Feeldoe for mutual pleasure. The sound is not at all overbearing.

Made of food-grade silicone, the Feeldoe provides a hygienic guarantee. The toy is incredibly easy to clean. Just wash with anti-bacterial soap. You can rest assured that the toy will not disintegrate. Because of the ease of cleansing, the toy can be used interchangeably during sex (of course safe sex should be encouraged).

Comes in the standard plastic packaging. Not anything discreet.

I can't say enough how essential this toy is for any partners. It's easy to use, easy to clean, and offers a level of intimacy that harnesses can't. Also, if you've ever been in the mood for sex and been slowed down by having to put on a harness or insert a dildo, this toy will be your savior. Despite some of the drawbacks, this toy is worth the money.

I mentioned that the bulb often slips. I use this in several different positions, but have modified some with my partner because of bulb instability. For instance, if I am penetrating from behind, I often insert with my legs close together while her legs are spread. By modifying positions like this, you can enjoy versatility without the worry that the Feeldoe will slip out.

I was also initially a bit worried about size, but after using the Feeldoe Violet, I have found it to be the perfect fit. If you aren't that experienced, I still think that it's a good choice because it allows for more longevity. Just ease your way into it initially.