The idea behind this toy is dual pleasure. Designed to have the "bulb" inserted into a vagina and held in by her kegel muscles. Can be used on any gender even though it was originally designed for lesbians. My personal experience with the toy thus far is "role switching." I regularly use the Feeldoe to perform anal sex with my male partner. This is also known as pegging for slang.

The design and role switching takes some getting used to if you are a beginner. With that being said, even though I am not a beginner, it still takes some getting used to to get back into the swing of things since we don't use it on a daily basis. Warm up to the toy and your role with it! I find it also takes some practice getting to know which positions are best suited for you and your partner. Normal missionary works well and also with your partner lying on their belly while you work from behind. If thrusting is still too awkward, your partner can ride up top while you're laying on your back. The bulb can also be inserted anally on a male and used for double penetration. I have not tried this personally and haven't heard any feedback on this technique yet.

The Feeldoe is a high grade, quality, silicone toy. When in use, do not use a silicone based lubricant even though Tantus built its Feeldoe to be highly sturdy.

With proper lube being established, I find if there is too much of it the Feeldoe tends to slip out. If you are at all like me, I tend to get really excited and into the sex and I forget to focus on my kegel muscles to keep the bulb in. I find using underwear (if you don't have a harness) and tucking it under the base of the Feeldoe keeps it in well. Using a harness for that extra support in case it does fall out or become "loose" is just as good if not better than the quick underwear fix.

This silicone toy makes it very safe in regards to anal sex because it is completely non porous, reducing bacterial risk immensely. With it being such a high grade silicone, it is completely orderless as well.

A non-realistic feeling toy that has flexible parts. If you are on the receiving end, it might feel stiff and rigid. Grips and almost feels sticky without lube but glides with lube. The gripping is designed to aid in holding it vaginally and to add more stimulation to where the clitoris sits on the ridges. Take precautions and lube up well for your partner! Otherwise a great basic material for all users.

This Feeldoe and its counter parts are not the most realistic looking toys. Comes in a deep purple with a light compliment to a real penis shape. Otherwise it fully compliments the woman's body, hitting the G-spot and with complimentary ridges for clitoris stimulation. Very sleek looking in design. A bit big and the shape might be a little funny to store but it is not completely awkward.

For beginners they might find the bulb to be a bit big upon insertion. It is designed to help keep it in along with the gripping texture. The bulb is about 1 1/2 inches at its widest. The shaft might look big for beginners as well at 6.5 insertable inches and a 1.75 inch diameter. Tantus also supplies the Feeldoe in smaller sizes for anyone who is wary.

It is slightly curved which my partner finds to be painful in some positions. So keep that in mind when finding the most comfortable positions for you and your partner.

Bullet is really basic. Tucks away neatly and completely out of the way when the toy is in use.

Unlike other strap-ons, the strapless feature is amazingly designed in all the right ways for pleasure! Its design allows the giver to really feel like they are a part of the sex, rather than just thrusting in a piece of plastic. As much as I like pleasing my partner in anyway that I can, the Feeldoe's clitoral ridges and bulb really do it for me. With each thrust you can really feel the toy working in your favor granted that it is securely in place and not slipping completely out.

It provides realism in the sense that if you do have strong enough kegels to hold it in place, you don't have to wear a harness. But most importantly it provides the most realism in the sense of role-play and it actually feels like you have a real penis because of the pleasure you are receiving back.

The bullet provides a buzz but it's not that strong for either partner. Overall we completely forgot about it when it died months ago. Never replaced the dead batteries in it since the vibrations are not a must for this toy.

I always highly recommend this toy! We both experience strong orgasms!

Very easy to clean silicone. Soap and water will do the job. Or if you are lazy, use a toy cleaner or throw it in the dishwasher. Bullet is watertight but I suggest taking it out just to be safe, especially if you are going to boil it clean.

I find after cleaning the Feeldoe just collects dust. Although it has a nice smooth surface, the silicone reacts as a sort of sticky surface. I suggest rinsing before using. This might be more noticeable because of its dark purple color.

Since it is a silicone based toy, do not store with other toys as it could warp and ruin the silicone. Any bag should be fine for storage purposes.

Typical clear display cone packaging, not intended for storage. Since I bought mine awhile ago I can not remember packaging details.