Mr. Softee - dildo sex toy by Doc Johnson - review by LostinLife

Some times being a softee is good

Mr. Softee, I am in love. I wish I would have ordered it sooner, like when I first saw it. This is my go to dildo in my collection. Don't let the name scare you. I would have given it 5 stars if it wasn't porous.
Larger girth, bendable,
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Wow, is the first thing I have to say about the Mr. Softee dildo from Doc Johnson. It's amazing. I was a little skeptical of this toy before I received it, but this has became my go to dildo. The softness of this toy is what makes it so great, I think.

It is great for vaginal and anal play. It is also great to have slapped across your ass. It is a feeling unlike a whip or hand could make. This is a larger girth toy, so I would recommend this to anyone who loves a larger girth toy. This would also be a great start for someone looking to start out on a larger girth dildo. This was my first larger girth toy. If you do use it for anal, be aware that there is no flare on the bottom of this toy. It also gets rather slippery when wet, or used with lube.

If you are looking for a toy to take traveling with you, this would be great. You don't have to worry about replacing batteries. It is also bendable, so you could put it in places in your suitcase or bag that a harder toy may not be able to fit.

  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Travel friendly
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • G-spot

Material / Texture

As the name applies, Mr. Softee is soft. He is so soft that I really didn't think he would be of any use to me -- boy was I wrong. That is one of my favorite things about this toy. Mr. Softee is also a veined toy, and has an almost realistic head to it.

veins on the front
under side of tip

I really don't feel the veins when I am using it, but others may. It does make me feel full due to the girth. I think the texture would be good for beginners, and seasoned players. Once again, I would just be aware that this is a larger girth toy than the normal dildo.

Mr. Softee is made from rubber. To me, Mr. Softee sure does smell like baby lotion or baby powder -- I have not put my finger on it yet, though. Rubber is an elastic hydrocarbon polymer, which occurs as a milky emulsion in the sap of a number of plants. It can also be produced synthetically. Rubber is a porous material, but it it is water-resistant, and it has a long lifetime.
    • Flexible
    • Light odor
    • Porous

Design / Shape / Size

Mr. Softee is 7 1/2 inches long, with all 7 1/2 inches being insertable. The diameter of this dildo is 1 3/4 inches. It weighs a pound. This toy fits me in all the right ways. I didn't think I would be able to take it, but I am very surprised at how easy it was, and at how much I have enjoyed this toy.

This is not a discreet toy; if some one finds it they will know what it is.
    • Partner play


The things that I like about this toy are how soft it is, and the girth. This was my first larger girth toy, and now I am hooked. I would love to try larger girth toys. This is now my go to dildo. When we have company or the kids just won't go to bed, I don't have to worry about anyone outside the door hearing the toy.

I loved the feeling of having Mr. Softee making me cum. My pussy walls can clamp tightly around the toy. I do have to warn that it gets slippery when wet. For this reason, I still have not tried it in the shower -- I am afraid that it is going to slip out of my hands.
    • Comfortable
    • Easy to use
    • Not discreet at all

Care and Maintenance

Since Mr. Softee is rubber, it's porous. If you want to extend the life of your toy, you could use a condom. I don't use condoms on it -- I don't like the feeling. I do clean it with my Before & After toy cleaner spray by Classic Erotica, or I use my EdenFantasy wipes on it. It can be used with silicone and water-based lubes.

I store the toy in the packaging it came in, due to the fact it collects hair and dirt rather easily.
    • Easy to store


top of package

back of package
middle of the back of package
bottom of back
side of front
bottom of front
    • Good for storage
    • Not discreet
    • Very informative

Personal comments

I have also used this along side of my Eden Bullet, and it knocks my socks off. I'm thinking of ordering a back up, just in case some thing happens to mine.
Follow-up commentary
I don't still like this, I still love this. This is my go to dildo. I don't think that I could ever get rid of it.
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