Share - double-ended dildo by Fun Factory - review by mouse

As a gender queer/androgynous/autandrophilic individual, I've been searching my whole life for this toy. It finally lets me give my man some lovin' in a way that I can feel as well, free of an annoying harness. I just love wearing it and looking down at myself. It really feels like a part of me and when it's in, I think to myself that finally, I have my very own erection. Even though it doesn't look lifelike in the least, this isn't a problem for me personally.

The first time I put this toy in (it takes some stretching and too often I rush it and hurt myself), I was able to come just from stroking it like I would if it was my own cock. The small ridge hits my clit just right. I fuck my boyfriend with this toy and it feels completely natural and sturdy, especially if I keep my legs together. It can also be sucked on. I enjoy sort of jiggling it, as this sends awesome vibrations up into my vagina along with the penetrative sensation.

This toy is an extremely firm and sturdy chunk of silicone; it really feels well-made and like a good investment. It has no odor or taste. The surface holds a ton of lint and stuff which is a huge pain, but it's so easy to clean that it's ok.

Its shape is really beautiful and sculptural and I feel proud to own it. I'm glad it came in black because I hate stupid pink and lavender, especially for something that's supposed to be my cock. The bulb to be inserted into the wearer is rather large. I find it's no problem to get in once I've had vaginal sex. It's quite hard to get it in before then for me. Many reviews say it falls out but that's only happened when I was really stretched out and really wet. It's all relative I suppose.

The slight upward curve and larger head make it "weird" to suck on. It is hard to use on a mouth unless the person is at the right angle, but it can be forced to point straighter (it's not totally rigid).

In my experience in using this to penetrate someone anally, the size is excellent -- filling but not too much. I have not used it on a woman but I have sampled both ends and they're both great for their own purposes. The "cock end" hits all the right places and is a comfortable size, the "bulb end" is filling.

My only complaint is that I wish it was sturdier at the bend. When supported only by the bulb, the cock hangs downward, leaving an inch-or-so gap between the toy and my body. I usually hold the base to compensate for this, or wearing a pair of undies that have a fly to stick it through works excellently. At any rate, it's better than a harness.

I love its sturdiness and quality, along with the ergonomic shape of the "bulb" end and the way it hugs right up to my vulva and clitoris. It's unfortunate that I have to hold it up to myself to reach these areas, though. It couldn't be better for actual sex and has yet to disappoint. I wish the cock end was less upward-curving. Even though this is nice for sex, it's awful for oral sex "simulation" that I attempt. This thing is also pretty big, so make sure you have somewhere to put it.

Silicone rocks! I just use handsoap and water and it's totally clean in a second. For several months, I just stored it in its original packaging, but that fell apart. Now it lives in a toiletry case quite happily. It's a pain to keep lint off it, but a quick rinse solves this. Water-based lube works wonders.

This comes in a really well-designed box with a clear window in front and a panel that's held down with magnets. A cardboard "tray" slides out of the top of the box, holding the toy. I used this for storage for a while but it fell apart (thin cardboard). It would probably hold up fine for storage for a more-careful person. I had also stuffed several toys in there at once which didn't help.

This toy finally let me feel more like a man without feeling so uncomfortable in a harness. It's not perfect, especially since it dangles unless supported, but it definitely gets all its jobs done.

The large bulb end keeps it in, but this also means it's hard to insert. Using it is like a whole production. Instead of being able to whip it out in the spur of the moment we really have to decide if we want to (if we have the patience, etc). This size also means I start to ache after a while, especially if I annoyed my urethra on the way in.