Why Phone Sex Works
When you are in a long distance relationship (LDR), or if your significant other (SO) is going out of town for an extended work stay, it can sometimes feel like the relationships is stretched so thin that you'll never reach your special someone again. There is something that bridges that gap, bringing you closer together in spirit until you can finally see each other again. This little secret is phone sex. Why does phone sex help a LDR? Simple. When you climax during sex, you are producing a storm of hormones which help you bond with a person mentally, as well as physically. When you orgasm while on the phone with them, it creates the same storm of hormones, bonding you to their voice -- which coaxed that reaction from you in the first place. In this way, having phone sex can make your long distance connection more intimate.
This also helps your SO see you as an individual who has needs and feelings, and not just as a voice they are holding in their hand that they can summon at the press of a button. Phone sex can initiate other conversations about likes and dislikes, both in and out of bedroom, and it can help you to learn more about your partner without even making personal contact. In a way, those relaxed conversations after orgasm are what helped me to really get to know the real person behind the name. In some areas, I still haven’t had conversations with my own husband that those late night gasping for breath conversations ended up revealing. Some of those areas just never came up when we rolled over after climax and slept. Being on the phone requires that you are more verbal; you have to communicate to each other how you feel and why, rather than leaving it to the silences of real life sex.
This also helps your SO see you as an individual who has needs and feelings, and not just as a voice they are holding in their hand that they can summon at the press of a button. Phone sex can initiate other conversations about likes and dislikes, both in and out of bedroom, and it can help you to learn more about your partner without even making personal contact. In a way, those relaxed conversations after orgasm are what helped me to really get to know the real person behind the name. In some areas, I still haven’t had conversations with my own husband that those late night gasping for breath conversations ended up revealing. Some of those areas just never came up when we rolled over after climax and slept. Being on the phone requires that you are more verbal; you have to communicate to each other how you feel and why, rather than leaving it to the silences of real life sex.
It creates intimacy where you can't have it due to the distance between you. I highly recommend it even for couples that are in the same town.
interesting article. I wonder if climaxing during sex produces the same storm of hormones which help you bond with a person mentally, as well as physically w/ a partner that's just a fuck buddy?
I like to chext my man the positions that I want to do to him. [https://www.afhi.us] helps you do that.
I find phone sex to be quite liberating with my man and I. Also, @Mollycowenx3 I checked out that link and it looks like something my man and I need to do. We're doing the whole LDR thing and it's getting harder and harder to find new things to do. [https://www.afhi.us] was so helpful. Thanks Molly!