Almost everyone thinks in the back of their mind, "I wish he or she would give me more oral." In my opinion when it comes to oral, giving is receiving. Now with that being said, just because you aren’t receiving oral doesn’t mean they don’t want it.
The first and foremost important thing about oral is hygiene. Who wants to give someone oral that doesn’t smell the best down there? I know I don’t. Even if I took a shower that morning, I still like to wash off before I do any kind of sexual relations. It also gives me a greater sense of security. I feel better about myself. See, freshening up more often helps with oral.
Something that I felt helped me with oral is shaving or trimming your hairs down there. No judgment to those who like pubic hair; it’s just my opinion. When it comes to me giving oral, I don’t want to be in the middle of it and have to stop to get a hair out of my mouth. I know that it sounds gross, but it’s true. It really does happen. Shaving or even making a design is sexier to me, a big turn on. It also helps with hygiene because odors can get trapped in hair and you sweat a lot. Try it once and see if you and your partner like it. Remember, it's only hair. If you don’t like it, it will grow back.
Noise and movement is very important to me, not to mention very sexy as well. Just think about it. If your partner isn’t making any sounds or movements while you’re giving oral, it would make you think you aren’t doing a good job. When you are receiving oral, make it known that it feels good. Pull their hair, moan, do something, anything. When my man does this, it turns me on all the way. It makes me get more into it and I want to make him move even more. It improved our oral, so just give it a try. It might help yours as well.
Last but not least, giving is receiving. Everyone knows what I mean by that. The more oral that you give to your partner, the more likely they are going to give it back. I’ve made mistakes before where I wouldn’t give it back. Guess what happened. I stopped receiving it. So I decided right there that I needed to start giving more in return. And did it help me in return, YES!! If you don’t like giving oral, try to switch up the position a little. Give it at the same time in a 69, lie on your side and give it, or even doggy style on your knees. There are a lot of possibilities. Give one of them a try; it couldn’t hurt. They even make flavored lube to make giving and receiving oral more pleasurable. So don’t knock oral just yet, give some or all of my suggestions a try and see if your mind doesn't change about it.
The first and foremost important thing about oral is hygiene. Who wants to give someone oral that doesn’t smell the best down there? I know I don’t. Even if I took a shower that morning, I still like to wash off before I do any kind of sexual relations. It also gives me a greater sense of security. I feel better about myself. See, freshening up more often helps with oral.
Something that I felt helped me with oral is shaving or trimming your hairs down there. No judgment to those who like pubic hair; it’s just my opinion. When it comes to me giving oral, I don’t want to be in the middle of it and have to stop to get a hair out of my mouth. I know that it sounds gross, but it’s true. It really does happen. Shaving or even making a design is sexier to me, a big turn on. It also helps with hygiene because odors can get trapped in hair and you sweat a lot. Try it once and see if you and your partner like it. Remember, it's only hair. If you don’t like it, it will grow back.
Noise and movement is very important to me, not to mention very sexy as well. Just think about it. If your partner isn’t making any sounds or movements while you’re giving oral, it would make you think you aren’t doing a good job. When you are receiving oral, make it known that it feels good. Pull their hair, moan, do something, anything. When my man does this, it turns me on all the way. It makes me get more into it and I want to make him move even more. It improved our oral, so just give it a try. It might help yours as well.
Last but not least, giving is receiving. Everyone knows what I mean by that. The more oral that you give to your partner, the more likely they are going to give it back. I’ve made mistakes before where I wouldn’t give it back. Guess what happened. I stopped receiving it. So I decided right there that I needed to start giving more in return. And did it help me in return, YES!! If you don’t like giving oral, try to switch up the position a little. Give it at the same time in a 69, lie on your side and give it, or even doggy style on your knees. There are a lot of possibilities. Give one of them a try; it couldn’t hurt. They even make flavored lube to make giving and receiving oral more pleasurable. So don’t knock oral just yet, give some or all of my suggestions a try and see if your mind doesn't change about it.
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