Mr. Sexsmith Says: Strapped On Blow Jobs Are Deeply Pleasurable

Just what is it about strap-on blow jobs that turns people on?

Mr. Sexsmith Says: Are Butches Who Have Sex With Butches “Too Gay?”

Gender is, for many folks, a deal-breaker and a key alignment on which they seek partners, but it’s not the only factor. Power, kink interests, cultural familiarities, spiritual beliefs, common values—there are lots of things to consider. Get your shit together, own your orientations because they are legitimate and real and wonderful, and you’ll have interest.

Mr. Sexsmith Says: You Can Get Your Needs Met Within Monogamy

Mr. Sexsmith Says: Get Off While Strapped On

Mr. Sexsmith Says: Bring Your Average-Size Cock, Just In Case

When you use a strap-on, do you bring it with you when you go out? If you use several sizes, how do you know what size to bring? Mr. Sexsmith offers some practical advice for how, when and what size strap-on should tag along when you go out for a good time.

Will the Real Lesbian Please Stand Up?

It wasn’t until a long-time friend confided in her about her a midlife lesbian affair that the author was willing to investigate female sexual fluidity, and not just from a scientific distance — new research suggests a woman’s libidinous nature expands as she ages — but also psychologically.

Mr. Sexsmith Says: From One Butch Top To Another, Here’s How To Get Off More Easily

Tuesdays With Nina: Young Lesbians Interested In Older Women

What do you do when you're a young woman who finds herself attracted to women far older than you? Can you find love? Should you be resigned to settling for girls your own age because you don't have enough experience for an older woman?

Tuesdays With Nina: Lesbian Bed Death, Part 1

What do you do when your partner stops having sex with you? Is it your fault? Is it theirs? Should you try to change or call it quits?

Hollywood Stereotypes Women and Minorities, According to UK Survey

Yes, we're shocked, too. Sex-crazed lesbians, black drug dealers, etc.

College Women Aren't Extra Bisexual (!?)

New study indicates that same-sex experimentation is unrelated to education.

Rihanna, Nicki Minaj: Sex Partners?

Pop star and rapper toy with media over supposed relationship.

Tuesdays with Nina

Nina discusses an email from a viewer who has questions—many, many questions.

Secrets of a Sex Writer: Girl Crushes, Bisexuality and Bi-Curiousness

Fire in the Belly: Self-Love and Navel Gazing

My lover made up a modern proverb: “A woman who loves her belly loves her body.” I don’t think it will catch on. It’s true that women, particularly modern women in Western culture, have a love-hate (or even a hate-hate) relationship with their bellies. Why? What did that sweet bump of skin (located as it is under the two much glamorized and beloved fat-bags) do to deserve such scorn?

Stirring Things Up: Safer Sex for Women Who Love Women

Compared to heterosexual sex or sex between men, sex between women is generally a lower-risk activity. It isn’t however, a no-risk activity.