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Toys Aren't a Determination of Social Acceptability

In celebration of ten years of business, we asked community members to tell us what, if anything, EdenFantasys has done for them. This author attributes his complete change in outlook to our members.

Smokedawg’s Adventures in Wanking Part 3: Time to Play With the Toys

Men and toys. Sometimes, they fear them.

Smokedawg’s Adventures in Wanking Part 2: Viscosity’s Better Than Friction

I’m sure someone will cringe at my headline and think, “This man has no idea what the hell viscosity is; it describes the level of friction in a fluid, so it can’t be better than friction. It’s a kind of friction!”

Smokedawg’s Adventures in Wanking Part 1: A Hand’s Best Friend

I’ve never lived or worked on a farm, but I’ve choked many a chicken. Never played one of those Indian flutes while wearing a turban, but I’ve charmed a snake thousands of times. Never worked at a BDSM-friendly water park, but I’ve been known to frequently flog the dolphin.

Body Image and Sex: Are they related?

Body confidence is a huge issue when it comes to being sexual. Study after study, in all areas of the globe, continue to show that more than half of women are concerned about their body image. Many men are affected by this as well, with gay men showing even higher rates of body dissatisfaction than women.

Guys Find it Hard to be Sexy

Do men feel sexy? What does it for them? Our friend AHubbyof2SexualMinds gives us his opinion.

Things That Make People Feel Sexy

This month the writers of SexIs are focusing on the things that make people feel ready for sex. I decided to just focus on the difference between men and women using a purely stereotypical but strangely realistic algorithm ... made up entirely by me.

Science Proves Once Again Men Really Are From Mars

With their propensity for sex-driven war, who else could have fathered them?

Impossible Insertions for One Hundred, Alex

Guys, just quit it. Seriously.

“Donorsexual” Ordered to Stop Giving Away His Sperm

It would have been okay if he were having sex.

Perpetual Erection: The Hard Truth About Priapism

An erection that lasts for hours might sound like a dream come true, but in reality priapism — a condition where your erection lasts for more than 4 hours — can be a nightmare.

From the Dept. of 'Things Not to Do to Your Penis' ...

Silicone injections from a fake doctor? Not surprisingly, someone dies in this story.

N.J. Mayor Resigns in Wake of (You Guessed It) Sex Scandal

The moral of the story is: If you're going to hire a male escort, don't make him mad at you.

Topless Protesters in Kiev Oppose Sex Tourism

Group wants soccer association to raise awareness, educate fans ... or else.

Sex-Related Allegations Helped Drive Cain Out of GOP Race

But he leaves us with a Pokemon quote, which is cute and creepy at the same time.

Former 'Sheriff of the Year' Charged with Trading Drugs for Sex

... and he's held in a jail that was named after him.

Man Calls Out for a Prostitute and His Daughter Shows Up

Fortunately, we can tell you that the story does *not* get worse than that.

In Zimbabwe, Gangs of Women Allegedly Raping Men

Trial of three of them starts today; Police say semen was used for rituals.

Teacher in Trouble for Using Work Laptop for Porn Sites

Yes, we know, she should have used her own. But would that have turned out any different?

Jesse James: Try a Little Honesty Next Time?

If monogamy isn't for you, 'fess up. Addiction doesn't seem like it's the real problem.

Tuesdays With Nina: Gay Is Who You Love, Not What You Do

You and your wife have started playing around, experimenting with anal play, and guess what? You love it! But, now you're worried about your sexuality, doesn't enjoying anal play make you gay?

Gadaffi Loved Viagra and Rough Sex with 'Nuns of the Revolution'

According to aide, some women had to be hospitalized afterwards.

The Citadel Admits Inaction after 2007 Allegation of Sex Abuse

Shades of Penn State: “We regret that we did not pursue this matter further.”

Justin Bieber: 'Baby, Baby, Baby, No?'

Pop star denies everything, says he'll take paternity test.

Former Penn State Coach Charged with Sexually Abusing Boys

School's athletic director and a vice president of the university allegedly failed to report incidents.

Justin Bieber Might be a Backstage Bathroom Baby Daddy

And the mom might be guilty of statutory rape.

Iowa 83-Year-Old Guy Faces Prostitution Charge

We know, everybody's gotta make a buck, but ...

Oklahoma Penis-Pump Judge Loses Pension

It's probably bad enough to be known as the penis-pump judge, but ...

In Mississippi: 'Booty Drop' On-Campus Sex Stories Online

Repulsive? Unreliable? Probably. But ... well, they're college kids ...

Hypersexuality Can be Fun. Or It Can be Rabies ...

Another reason why “When the dog bites” is never a favorite thing.

When Testosterone Sabotages A Man’s Sex Life

If you were to distribute a tablespoon of testosterone to a lecture hall full of young men, you’d have yourself a gang of lunatics chasing and humping everything that moves, my professor said. From that day forward, sex hormones had my full appreciation.

Christian Youth Almost as Likely to Have Sex as Everyone Else

Why? Maybe because they aren't marrying as young as they used to.

First-Date Sex? Here Are the Likely Candidates

Cyclists may pedal furiously but they're spinning their wheels ...

More Women, Proportionally, Turn to Sex Surrogates

Viagra gets the blame, or the credit, for men not seeking help.

Having Sex With Other People's Pool Toys is a Problem

Ohio man's “fascination with plastic” keeps getting him in trouble with the law.

Police Surveillance Cam Catches ... Cop Having Sex

We really don't think having the government watch us all the time is such a good idea, anyway.

Your Ancestors Had Sex with Neanderthals

And it was good for them! Or good for their immune systems, anyway.

$3k a Night Hotel Room Gets a Lot of Action, Apparently

On the carpet? We get that. But on the wallpaper?

Bisexuals Aren't Lying or Confused, Scientists Discover

We didn't really think they were, either, but it's nice that they were ... bicurious.

More Sexual Equality Means More Sex ... Period

Theory of sexual economics totally makes sense to us.

Coming Soon: Possible Cure for Premature Ejaculation

Yes, it's part psychological ... but an anesthetizing spray has promise.

James Franco Won't Watch His Own Sex Tape

“Planet of the Apes” star tells Conan what he wouldn't tell MTV.

In Wisconsin, a $350,000 Lawsuit Over Herpes

Rekindled romance from the '90s has unhappy ending.

Improved Male Birth Control on the Horizon

(And it's about time, wouldn't you say?)

Kelly Shibari Planning a Blow-Out Event

In honor of the Japanese victory in the women's World Cup—free blow jobs, coming up.

Oklahoma's Masturbating Ex-Judge Faces New Charges

We expect he'll leave the penis pump at home, this time.

Alpha Male Baboons Get Laid More, But Stress Out

Beta males may actually be happier in the long run. Huh.

Exotic Wildlife Owner Reportedly Chokes to Death on a Sex Toy

This is after he recovered from being mauled by his pet bear ...

Nazi Sex Doll May Have Been Prototype for Original 'Barbie'

We can understand why marketing would not play this connection up.

How to Tell a Man's Penis Size by His Fingers

Yes, we've heard this one. But those scientists are at it again, measuring and stuff.

'Sexomnia' Apparently a Legal Defense Against Rape Charge, In Wales

We weren't there, but we're not sure about the “Not Guilty.” You?

Michigan Inmate Sues to Get Porn in Prison

We're trying to be a little sympathetic but, with some people, that's hard to do.

'National Enquirer' Catches ... the 'Catch a Predator' Guy

(Yawn) ... Excuse us, are we supposed to be personally offended? Again?

Women Catching Up to Men in Infidelity

... but it all depends on what you mean by “infidelity,” doesn't it.

Tuesdays With Nina: Help! It Takes Me Forever to Come!

Nothing is quite as frustrating as not being able to cross the finish line in a reasonable amount of time. For some women, this can be a common problem, but even men find that orgasm is sometimes too far down the road.

"Sexting" Not Really Enough for Those on Infidelity Website

Survey at AshleyMadison.com shows respondents want face-to-face contact.

Northeasterners Have the Most (and the Safest) Sex

Trojan Sex Census indicates the Internet, social networking are increasingly part of American sex lives.

South African Women Becoming More Sexually Adventurous

The guys ... well, 9 percent can't find the clitoris, and that's too many.

Communication, Self-Esteem Key to Great Sex, Researchers Say

"Duh" science strikes again, but it's always good to double-check.

Solicitation: The Secret Life of Johns, Part Six — If It Wasn’t A Secret, Would It Exist?

Would there be sex work in a sexually non-repressed society? It's one of those philosophical questions to wax over, in all of its unicorn-like glory. After all what does “sexually non-repressed” society even mean? Would we all be polyamorous...wearing fig leaves for clothes?

Lack of Sleep Can Wreck a Guy's Sex Life

Testosterone levels plummet on five hours a night, in just a week.

CSI, Hangover Actor Arrested for Imitating Cop to Score Booty

His biggest role is in real life, as sleazy con man ...

John Edwards Indicted Over Covering Up Affair

Yes, we know it was stupid and ugly. But was it criminally stupid and ugly?

Tuesdays With Nina: Combating and Coping with Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation — two words that can strike terror into the average man's heart. Odds are you've been there and done that at least once in your sexual lifetime, but fear of humiliation and feelings of inadequacy do not have to ruin your time in the sack.

Spider's Bite Works as Well as Viagra

Unfortunately, it also can hurt and possibly kill you.

Women Choose Bad Boys Over Smiley, Happy Ones

Quick, guys. Time to change your profile picture.

So-Called 'Viagra Condom' Might Not Really Work

We wanted to believe, too, but we'll go with a doctor's opinion for now.

Psychic Rapist Faces Charges in Zimbabwe

The technical, local term for this is “mubobobo.” Which sounds really bad, huh?

German Insurance Agents were Rewarded with Bathhouse Sex Party

Four years later ... Oops. Shouldn't have done that.

EduHookUps.com Apparently Sold, Under New Management

College sex-dating site apparently had security problems.

Connecticut Doctor Allowed to Practice After Conviction of Soliciting Minor for Sex

Okay, he's not a pediatrician. But do we hold doctors to a higher standard?

Research Reveals that Men Do NOT Think about Sex Every Seven Seconds

We know that you thought they did, and you were apparently wrong.

Taking Dirty Pictures

In preparation for a new collection of short stories to be published, Johnny Murdoc embarks on a new experience, shooting a nude pictorial, which will be included in the upcoming book.

Penis Size Doesn’t Matter—or Does It?

I’ve never whipped out a measuring tape in bed so I can’t give you precise numbers, but I think I can safely say I’ve slept with men with penises ranging from very small to gigantic. Most have been somewhere between those two extremes and the big lesson I’ve come away with is: size is not what makes someone good in bed, not by a long shot.

Dad, 80, and Daughter Caught in Prostitution Sting

And it was going to be such a nice Easter present, too ...

Shocking Survey: Not All Men Want Only One Thing

Some guys actually want less sex. Okay, so it's really not that many.

Soderbergh to Direct Film about Channing Tatum's Days as a Stripper

“Sexy, funny and shocking” … is Hollywood ready for this? We are.

Los Angeles Parking Officers in Trouble for Porn Performance

Apparently having sex on the job, on camera, is a bad thing. Who knew?

Want to Know About a Guy? Look at His Hands

Longer ring finger means more attractive. (And more likely to go to prison.)

Hookup Samaritan Helps College Seniors Get Laid

Quinnipiac University website launched in time for a few pre-graduation flings.

Men: Are You Suffering from “Short Penis Syndrome”?

We're so glad they finally came up with an official name for this ...

Cops Arrested in Peoria Strip Club Brawl

Yes, Peoria. Where they just tried to outlaw a swingers club ...

3.37 Million Adult Americans Share Sex Lives on Facebook

It's just 2 percent, but we do the math so you don't have to.

Man Catches Fire in Private Porn Booth

Okay, not funny. But we're thinking that the porn wasn't *that* hot.

Online Revenge Plot Linked to Long Island Sex Worker Slaying

Stupid bravado, or a clue to serial killer? Police aren't commenting.

Prison Sex Might Not Be as Bad as You Think

But we're not keen on using condom lubricant for hair gel.

Pleasure Theory and the Shamelessly Sexual

What if everything we’ve ever learned about our basic motivation to have sex — the procreation of the species — is unequivocally wrong? What if making babies is a byproduct of the real purpose of our couplings?

The Man Project: Danny Wylde

Meet your newest porn-crush. Danny Wylde has a blog in which it’s all too easy to lose hours while engrossed in his writing. He writes honestly and articulately about what he does for a living: starring in porn. Danny's been in mainstream adult films, was around for the heyday of alt porn and often stars in feminist films. Through it all, he has quite a following among female fans of porn.

America's Dating Profile: West Virginia is for Kink

New Yorkers seem to have their own special dating patois.

The Uncontrollably Horny Pablo Picasso, in Vanity Fair

Artist preferred mistresses short and submissive; And he had that hypnotic stare ...

NYC's Mr. Cee, Rap Deejay, Caught Having Public Sex, Police Say

We're mostly hoping that his fans have eased up about the gay thing.

Don't Call Her Honey. Don't Call Him Sweetie Cakes.

Authors say pet names can take the heat out of a relationship.

So-Called “Penis Pills” Recalled from Market

Rock Hard Extreme? The Best Enhancer? Send 'em back.

Solicitation: The Secret Life of Johns — Part 1

In the last few years the media has become inundated with stories about sex workers: feminist sex-workers; high-end, blogging call girls; coerced trafficking-victims. But in each, the buyer remains faceless. Even the word “John” conjures a shady, hidden, back alley-image. This is what I set out to uncover.

USC Frat Boy Suspended for Rooftop Public Sex

Cell phone photos start an Internet furor.

Convicted Sex Offender Charged in Bathroom Stall Masturbation Incident

Police found him napping, pants down, porn all around. Oops.

Connecticut Police Close Alleged Prostitution Business

Authorities believe illegal immigrants were working as sex slaves.

Rikers Island Novel: Fuel for Role Play and More Porn?

“Taboo,” by former prison guard, portrays lusty life behind bars.

Facebook of Sex? University of Chicago Site has Possibilities

When social networking is recognized as sexual networking, this is what happens.

Colorado Lawmakers Propose Schools for Clients of Sex Workers

Johns could be fined up to $10,000 and then, well, they'd get an education.

Howard Stern Says He Doesn't Need That Much Sex

But shock jock still “sort of” admires Charlie Sheen.

Berlusconi Sex Scandal, Served with Pizza

More allegations, and some tasty-sounding toppings.

Harvard Doctors Say Obesity is “Unmanly”

The facts are on their side, but we're wondering about their tact.

Chimp Penises Sort of Like Sex Toys

They've got nubs. Humans don't. Thanks, science!

Book About What Men Think About (Besides Sex) is an Unexpected Hit

Two hundred blank pages. We might have guessed.

Guys, Get Out Your Rulers

There's something you can measure that really does matter.

Prostatectomy Goes Horribly Wrong

If you are a guy, you probably should not read this.

Italian Leader Ordered to Stand Trial

Berlusconi charged with paying underage girl for sex.

Italy Has Better Sex Scandals Than the U.S.

Berlusconi prosecutors claim evidence of underage prostitutes, orgies, perjury, abuse of power, etc.

Drive-Thru Adult Store Trades Sex Toys for Guns

It's the latest twist on “Make love, not war”

Is There Sex After College?

College, for those who embrace it, can be a full-on smorgasbord of awesome. At no other time in your life will you have such easy access to all things indulgent and sinful.

Sexual Preference Matters in Cheating

Girl-on-girl not as much of a deal-breaker as boy-on-boy.

Ashley Madison Super Bowl Ad Rejected (Again)

“Have an affair” site turned down by Fox.

Some Guys Allergic to Their Own Semen

Men suffer from “post orgasmic illness syndrome” (We're not making this up.)

$800 Silkworms Said to Cure ED

Even sellers say that high-priced condiment is over-hyped.

Post Mature Ejaculation

Synopsis: Middle-aged man experiences the joys and terrors of rediscovering multiple orgasms. His own.

Playboy, Once Again, Belongs to Hefner

Founder takes financially troubled company back from shareholders.

“I Quit”

The Whore Journals, Part 23: Saying Goodbye, Saying Hello ...

Controlled, Conflicted & Stressed Out Over Sex

Modern relationships can be complicated. Sometimes when things don’t work out, it’s not always a simple matter of just being able to walk away. What happens when love dies and your sex life seems over, but you’re stuck in a situation you can’t leave?

What Would the Other Moms Think?

The Whore Journals, Part 21: Every Client Has His Kink

Tuesdays With Nina: The Great Condom Conundrum

Skin on skin... What could be better, right? Arguably, nothing, but sometimes the jimmy needs to wear a hat. Condoms may decrease sensitivity, however in the course of lovemaking they are often necessary. So what do you do if your man does not want to wear one?

The Whore Journals: Part 20—Spoiling Things

Boys' Toys; Dating’s Deadliest Dealbreakers; Scotland Yard vs. Sex Ads

Marketers want to erase the stigma of sexual aids for men.

The Naked Reader Presents: Vanilla Gone Wild

For some, third base is a handjob. For others, it’s knife play and Velcro sheets. Regardless of where your line is, you know you’ve thought about crossing it. To those bold enough to step over, I raise my sugar cone in salute.

The 50-Year-Old (Sort of) Virgin

If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, does it make a sound? If a man has only had sex that he's paid for, does it still count? The answer to the first question is yes.

The Whore Journals: Part 19—Moby, Then The Pig-Man

The Whore Journals: Part 18—From Slut to Whore

The Whore Journals: Part 17—A Very Busy Day in the Life

The Whore Journals, Part 16: Clothespins, Jesus and Crackheads...

It's all in a day's work.

The Whore Journals, Part 15: Played and Playtime

Brit Faces Sex Harassment Charges; Google Instant Wants to Erase Your Penis; Fatter is Sexier

In another sordid turn of Britney Spears’ personal life drama, a security guard under her employ is taking her to court for allegedly harassing him in a sexual manner.

The Whore Journals, Part 14—My First John!

The Whore Journals, Part 13—A Threesome With Santa

Ho, ho... oh, no....

Tuesdays With Nina: One Is The Loneliest Number

Everybody deserves love, but the reality is that not everybody finds it. Sometimes, it's insufficient social skills, sometimes it's the aftereffects of a traumatic childhood, but whatever the circumstances, there will always be people who just can't connect with others for romantic intimacy.

The Whore Journals, Part 12: Ho in Overdrive

Chastity for Dudes

The Whore Journals, Part 11: The Day of the Slut

The Man Project: Grant Stoddard

The Whore Journals, Part 10: My First Foot Job

The Whore Journals, Part 9: John Speak

It's not so much the words as the meaning behind them.

The Man Project: Michael Alvear

Sexis debuts The Man Project with an opening salvo from relationship expert, Michael Alvear, and learns that the true test of a man is about much more than the level of his testosterone.

The Whore Journals: Part 7: Further Reflections on Whoring Around...

Pussy worship and the eyes of a wolf. Growl!

SexFeed: Explicit Porn an Option for Increasingly Infertile Men

The Whore Journals, Part 5: A Donation For My Shoe Fund

The lawyer, the peach eater and a date for coffee…

From Hung to Humiliated: The Dark Side of Cuckoldry

Dr. Dick on Demand—Remedial Jerkology: A Better Way To Handle Yourself

In the last installment of my series on male masturbation, we discussed problematic masturbation styles—how they can get in the way of satisfying partnered sex, and offered a surefire way to resolve these problems. This time around, I’d like to offer suggestions on how men can use different styles of masturbation to overcome certain dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation.

Dr. Dick on Demand: Masturbation and Men—The Double-Edged Sword

For some men, this freelance sexual investigation can, and often does, produce some very interesting, unique and even downright strange styles of self-pleasuring, that sadly, often do not lend themselves to partnered sex. But according to Dr. Dick, with proper motivation and some focused redirection, men can learn to climax with a lover as well as on their own. And you won't even need a male masturbator for that.

Diary of a Sex Surrogate: The Devirginizer

Not every woman in their late 30s can say they devirginized four men in one year. I can. Over the course of several months, I spent intimate time with four adult male virgins, from 24 to 38 years of age. Two had overwhelmingly positive outcomes, and two did not.

The Kink Corner with Kal Cobalt: CBT

CBT: It all makes sense until that last letter. Cock and ball...torture? Really? If you were raised on “guy gets smacked in the junk” clips on America's Funniest Home Videos, or if you possess junk that prefers a little tenderness to the crotch equivalent of Fight Club, this one might take a little explaining.

Diary of a Sex Surrogate: Come One, Come All...But Not So Fast, Gentlemen!

Did you know that the average woman takes about 20 minutes to achieve orgasm? The majority of men, on the other hand, don’t have a problem coming in 5 minutes. If a woman can orgasm during intercourse (though not all do), she’s going to require more time than most men need. Basically, a woman’s orgasm is like a symphony, whereas, a man’s is more like a rock song.

Shoot: The Education and Evolution of a Pornographer

For more than five years, my working life revolved around framing acts of public copulation. I’ve pushed cameras and microphones into dwellings no machines should ever go. I’ve been granted a front-row seat to scenes of startling intimacy. I’ve helped pick up thousands of used baby-wipes. And somewhere along the line, I learned a lot about how men and women perceive each other.

Dr. Dick on Demand: The Well-Pierced Penis

Nowadays, body piercings are all the rage. And, as we all know, some fellas can’t stop with just a few—which can lead to some humorous predicaments when being wanded by airport security. While I firmly believe in the right of every man to augment, embellish, or in any other way customize his equipment, it’s a personal decision. If it makes you happy, go for it. If it ain’t for you, just say NO.

Size Matters…In Your Head

This week, Sexis' own friendly e-neighborhood sex surrogate takes on a BIG problem—penis size...or, rather, the size of men's anxieties over penis size.

The Hard and Soft of It: One Sex Surrogate’s Experience with Erectile Dysfunction

Hey, fellas—when’s the last time you sported a boner? Have you ever noticed how annoying spontaneous erections are for teenage boys, and how annoying lack of erections are for older men?

Little Plastic Rings: The Ethos and Eros of Foreskin Restoration

On the L in Chicago, an average thirty-something man sits quietly in his seat. Suddenly a little plastic ring falls out from his pant leg and rolls along the floor. There are thousands of men all over the country walking around secretly rigged up with devices in their pants—made of plastic, metal, tape and other items that yank the skin of the penis. And no, this isn’t some sexual fetish or kink.

The Hand-Off: Handjobs, Him & You

Men jack themselves off constantly. They can probably coax an orgasm out of themselves better than most women can because they know every nuance—the exact amount of pressure and stimulation needed—right? Well, no, actually.

Jack of Both Trades: Male Bisexuality & Bicuriosity

It's not easy for a guy to question his sexuality, but it's something almost all guys do at some point. Exploring your sexuality is a human right - and it can even be a lot of fun!