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The Deep Throat Dairies Sex Guides and Tips
by Chris

Before

I want to be able to deep throat my partner while giving him oral sex. I have accomplished it before using a desensitizing cream to numb my throat. However, a product specialist at EdenFantasys.com turned me away from that method by informing me of the health risks.

It makes sense; a numbing cream could be dangerous in that it would mask potential injury. I could be hurting myself without knowing it due to the numbing effect. That was enough incentive for me to learn how to perform au natural.

The issue is the severity of my gag reflex paired with the size of my partner′s penis. My throat is quite reactive, and he is rather well endowed – not the best combination for deep throating success.

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The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio

So I did the research. I read Blow Him Away by Marcy Michaels and The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio by Violet Blue. Blow Him Away is rather unimpressive and seems to be geared toward people who can barely wrangle their own mouths in general, much less do anything sexually pleasing with them. If your tongue is gray because the muscle is not toned enough, perhaps you should not be considering assaulting someone with oral sex. Michaels skims deep throating briefly at the end. The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio is a fabulously detailed and open-minded guide that not only covers almost anything imaginable relating to fellatio, but devoted an entire chapter to the deep throat technique.

Both books discussed mastering the gag reflex and suggested positions to straighten and elongate the throat. The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio delves deeper to include breathing techniques, practice options, and ways to cope when the gag reflex rears its ugly head during fellatio.

I am particularly intimidated by one position. Both books suggested I lay on my back with my head over the edge of the bed, couch, whatever and have him enter my mouth from there. My apprehension towards this pose lies in its inevitable immobility and vulnerability. I am nervous about the idea of not only tempting myself to choke, but to do it when I am not in control of the motion.

Yet it seems this position is the most recommended. So I talked to my partner about it. I talked to him about everything I read and focused on my fear surrounding this position. He responded well, telling me we could try it only if I wanted and go very slow. Having discussed it, his response put me more at ease and made me want to experiment with him even more.

My partner is home now, and the trials will soon begin. I only wish I could have practiced on an inanimate object (beyond the lonely deformed banana that survived in my kitchen), but I lacked the equipment or the time to acquire it. But armed with my System JO H20 flavored lubricant, I′m ready to try.