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4 Golden Rules of Anal Play

Sex Guides and Tips
Restrictions and warnings, regarding anal sex and anal play in general, are overwhelming specialized internet sources, claiming that many people find it rather unpleasant (even the thought of it). Nevertheless, more and more people, both heterosexuals and homosexuals, start enjoying the new sensations of anal fun, uncovered to them so many years under a thick layer of taboo dust. When it comes to anal sex toy masturbation or anal sex, there is one supreme rule everybody should know: lube, lube and lube again. Lubrication is never too much in anal play.

Three other things, concerning anal exploration, that you should remember for once and ever are: communication with your partner, relaxation and, in case it's an adult anal toy, flared base so the toy doesn't get lost in your anal orifice and also seamless surface for a smooth and soft penetration. Another ingredient, that you should have in your arsenal for anal sex, is - patience. Take it slow, especially when it is your (your partner's) first anal experience.

Practically, all dildos available on store shelves and internet sex shops can be used for anal stimulation but make sure your choose one with a flared or large base, so it doesn't slip inside. You might think this is a joke, but unfortunately it's not, the real joke starts when you get into emergency room, that's hell of a fun but not for you. So, to be on the safe side, pick a dildo designed and intended exclusively for ANAL play. With a right toy and a good lube, anal play can become your new favorite pastime.

If you're looking forward to get an anal sex toy and intend to do that via online sex shops, then you're most probably to come across an "Anal Toys" category on every online adult store you pick.

Tamar Loves, a sex expert, says: "Nowadays, the variety of anal toys (dildos) is so enormously vast, that it can mislead even a well informed person what to choose. The diversity of types, designs, sizes, shapes, colors, girths, materials and other factors, that make you choose exactly that toy, is impressive.
 
From classic realistic dildos to new futuristic models that can nudge your imagination for quite a time. Some people enjoy the feeling of fullness inside the anus, which is similar to the sensations women experience during intercourses, so, that's why the choose large dildos or butt plugs, preferring them to vibrating anal toys. Others can't help standing the frictions, which makes them feel better than ever. Whatever your anal toy is going to be, be sure you make your choice according to your desires, necessities and, what's more important, capacities. Take your time to get used to new sensations and avoid any uncomfortable situation. Let your curiosity and patience guide you through the pleasures of anal exploration."

Another advantage of anal toys is, of course, their ability to stimulate prostate, when used on men. There are even specially designed prostate massagers intended for that type of sexual, as well as medical, treatment. Anal fun, as you may realize by yourselves, is a matter of both sexes, thus, women as well as men can enjoy it whenever they want it with a proper toy and a good dose of lubricant. For those who are on the "start line" of anal adventures, best would be to try butt plugs or anal beads, which have a thiner tip, for easy insertion, and go larger towards the base, which is good for stretching your anal muscles.

In conclusion, we'd like to go over and underline once again the basic factors for a fantastic anal exploration: (1) before inserting a sex toy or other items inside the anal orifice, try to relax anal muscles by rubbing your fingers against the anal rim; (2) when choosing an anal toy start with a small size and then gradually skip to bigger sizes; (3) a good lubrication is the key to a pleasurable anal play; and (4) if it's anal sex (with a partner), never hesitate to ask how and what does your partner feel, otherwise it may end up in terrible disaster for both of you, which is the last thing you want to happen, isn't it?