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Your ticket to the Bondage Train

Sex Guides and Tips
"There's nothing more exciting than having someone at your mercy" - claim those interested and intrigued by bondage temptations. As soon as you restrain a person and have him/her at your mercy you can feel your blood rushing through your veins and your heart pulsating thrice faster than usual. That's what they call - bondage/BDSM. Bondage or SM play can vary very much from one another, it may be a light BDSM session with blind-folders and feather tickling or you can have a power play SM session with all those paddles, and whips, and nipple clamps for punishment and torture.

In most of the cases, bondage and other similar activities of the BDSM art are nothing more than people's stylized fetish fantasies. Everything in a bondage play is discussed in advance: roles, rules, directions, equipment and accessories to be used and boundaries that shouldn't be crossed. Also partners agree on a special signal/sign which means someone crossed the "line". Thus, if the "outfit" of a bondage play may seem to someone rude and rough, the "inner infrastructure" is very well organized, paying attention to every detail.

Usually, bondage players have more than one "safe-word" for their SM plays. There's one certain word/sign standing for "IMMEDIATE STOP" and there are couple of others with different meanings like: "SLOW DOWN, COWBOY." or "OUCH, THAT HURTS!". Such safe-words and other signals, should be taken very seriously during a bondage session.

Also, pay attention your partner is not retrained way too tightly.
 
Make sure you have prepared in advance a so called "set free kit" with necessary tools corresponding to the equipment you're going to use. In case it's a rope, then you should definitely have a knife or a pair of scissors, by your side, to liberate your partner in case something unexpected occurs. Note, the top-rated reason why people require a medical treatment, after a bondage session, occurs due to incapacity of preventing the bounded person falling down. Also, if you (your partner) are a novice in the business, then it is recommended to avoid restraining partner's nose or mouth and also making tight loops around the neck. His/her airways should always be uncovered.

Bondage play, just like any other activities of BDSM art, ought to be introduced gradually into your sex life. Let your first step into bondage pleasures be a light BDSM play with some plush or furry cuffs and a soft flogging toy. If both partners have enjoyed a bondage debut, then it's a good sign to carry on playing the kinky bondage games. At this very point, it's just about time to try something new. Use another pair of cuffs to restrain also your partner's legs, get a blind-folder and other more sophisticated bondage accessories. Remember, TRUST is the key element to a mutually pleasing bondage experience. Discuss every little things before starting an SM play, so it is consensual for both.

Hurry up, the train's leaving. Have a nice trip.