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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Feb. 08, 2012
The best way to turn me on is to be yourself, whoever that is. Way too many people posture and try to seem like someone they’re not, and I find that confusing.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 07, 2012
Dateless? Don’t sulk. Buy yourself an Oreo cheesecake, a pair of shoes or a night at the girly bar and count yourself lucky this stuff isn’t happening to you.
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by Mollena,
Feb. 03, 2012
The sting of the needle is exquisite agony. The sting of 104 wounds may be too much agony to bear.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 03, 2012
What would you give up if someone would pay your bills?
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by The Bloggess,
Feb. 02, 2012
Once again, twitter has gone crazy with the bad sex trends and has basically written my column for me. This time there were a few gems worthy of sharing and a whole lot of shit that makes me glad I’m not single.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 01, 2012
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 31, 2012
Everybody makes jokes about how once you get married, you stop having sex, but it's really no joke when a couple struggles with issues that prevent them from having a satisfying sex life or in the case of some couples, any sex life at all.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 31, 2012
How about an ultrasound to make your sex safer?
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by Midori,
Jan. 30, 2012
Kinksters talk quite a bit about the inherent risk of bondage and other kinky play. They learn the proper procedure, to mitigate that risk — but rarely do you hear about the stark reality that no matter what precautions you take or how safe you play, people can still get hurt.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 30, 2012
With their propensity for sex-driven war, who else could have fathered them?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 25, 2012
Maybe some soundproofing is in order?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 24, 2012
Much, much less than you'd think.
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by Mollena,
Jan. 20, 2012
People are often curious as to why a particular play-style, pervy activity or kind of kink appeals while others leave you cold. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but I’ll tell you about why I so love bottoming to rope bondage.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 19, 2012
Stepping out into the world of dating at the age of 18 is scary enough without adding the worry that your kinks will make people think you're a freak. Mr. Sexsmith offers some sage advice on coming to terms with who you are and building up the courage to step off the dating curb.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 19, 2012
Guys, just quit it. Seriously.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 18, 2012
It would have been okay if he were having sex.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 17, 2012
Nothing can be so frustrating as a condition that keeps you from enjoying your favorite sexual position!
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by Midori,
Jan. 16, 2012
Let’s start the New Year, the year of the Water Dragon, with an erotic Japanese cultural lesson! Tenugui is a beloved traditional item in Japan with a thousand practical uses. Sex uses abound for these and inventive lovers in Japan use them well. But most Westerners, unless they’re hooked up with Tenugui-savvy Japanese sweethearts, are likely to never appreciate its pleasures.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 13, 2012
Now your toothbrush can be used for what it was meant for: Your teeth.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jan. 12, 2012
An erection that lasts for hours might sound like a dream come true, but in reality priapism — a condition where your erection lasts for more than 4 hours — can be a nightmare.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 12, 2012
Now you can have sex with your partner while they're overseas! Sort of.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 11, 2012
The biggest thing I learned about sex in 2011 is that, like life, it's unpredictable. Every time I thought I had a handle on my desire(s), on what I'm looking for, and not looking for, the universe threw me a curve, a challenge, a dare. I was engaged in a power play scene with the universe and it was my master, big time.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 10, 2012
What if you merged politics and the Kama Sutra?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 09, 2012
Somehow getting older is a little less scary.
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by Mollena,
Jan. 06, 2012
Mollena shares a deeply personal conversation with her mother about just exactly why she lets people hurt her.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 05, 2012
Rachel recently sat down with Preston Charles (you know, the black gay guy from The Real World, New Orleans) to talk about his recent MTV special, Coming Out, his own coming out and well, then things get a little out of hand...
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 04, 2012
When you use a strap-on, do you bring it with you when you go out? If you use several sizes, how do you know what size to bring? Mr. Sexsmith offers some practical advice for how, when and what size strap-on should tag along when you go out for a good time.
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by Em & Lo,
Jan. 03, 2012
If we had to distill our entire body of sex advice into one word, it would probably be this: communicate. Before sex, during sex, after sex — speak up, people!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 03, 2012
There's more to Mongolia than Genghis Khan and Buddhism.
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by Barak & Sheba,
Dec. 30, 2011
The temptation to make something up when confronted with questions about your kink can be strong, but most often, the truth in some form is better than trying to get away with the little white lie.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 30, 2011
Says the Internet kept him honest. Thanks, Internet!
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 29, 2011
LA voters may be asked for their opinion.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 28, 2011
As I look back on 2011, I realize one thing I’ve come to understand more this year is that our society is a lot more prudish than we like to think it is. First let me say that I think everyone should have a clear idea of what's right for them when it comes to sex. Navigating how and when and why you're getting it on is important; telling other people what to do, however, is offensive.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 27, 2011
Nina is wrapping up the year with a collection of questions on several topics.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 26, 2011
We're betting the missus is grateful.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 26, 2011
What’s worse? The principal doesn’t see the problem.
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by Mollena,
Dec. 23, 2011
There is no one rulebook for how to do this thing we call BDSM, Power-Exchange, Master/Slave relationships, etc., etc. One of the things I most enjoy about perverts is our limitless capacity to forge our own damn path, thank you very much! I’ve done a lot of weed-whacking through the jungles of kink in order to find ways that work for me.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 22, 2011
Winter Solstice, meet your kink. A dendrophiliac is a person who is attracted to trees, who has romantic, sensual, sexual encounters with the forest. So, in this (most wonderful) time of year, when the evergreen tree becomes a decorated centerpiece of the Holiday Season, why not draw our attention to those who have a very personal relationship to trees?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 21, 2011
Court cites spirit of the law rather than letter.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 20, 2011
Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be rapists.
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by Midori,
Dec. 19, 2011
What’s with all the alien or monster tentacles in Japanese porn and anime?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 16, 2011
Phone sex, raunchy emails, and sexting are classics now. What can you do that hot-and-heavy partners couldn’t do ten years ago? Plenty, as it turns out. Have a quick peek at five stars of the new generation of sex tech ready and waiting for your sweaty mitts.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 13, 2011
What do you do if you hate sex, but still want a relationship? is it normal to want nothing to do with sex? Is it possible to find a companion who can accept this or perhaps even shares your lack of desire?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 13, 2011
It's sort of hard to find someone to root for, in this battle.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2011
Marriage. Divorce. Dating. Sperm Donors. Insect Sex. November had a little bit of something for everyone to be thankful. Break out the leftovers and dig into the best of SexIs from November.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 12, 2011
Silicone injections from a fake doctor? Not surprisingly, someone dies in this story.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 09, 2011
No, this was not BDSM college; Virginia man gets two years in jail.
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by Mollena,
Dec. 07, 2011
There is no one rulebook for how to do this thing we call BDSM, Power-Exchange, Master/Slave relationships, etc., etc. One of the things I most enjoy about perverts is our limitless capacity to forge our own damn path, thank you very much! I’ve done a lot of weed-whacking through the jungles of kink in order to find ways that work for me.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 07, 2011
"Control Tonight" tries to be helpful but is utterly tone-deaf on sexual assault.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 06, 2011
The moral of the story is: If you're going to hire a male escort, don't make him mad at you.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 06, 2011
Apparently no need to get hysterical about teens and their sexy cell phone messages. Which we weren't.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
Fake profiles of babies will probably all get deleted ... someday, somehow.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
Group wants soccer association to raise awareness, educate fans ... or else.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
But he leaves us with a Pokemon quote, which is cute and creepy at the same time.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 02, 2011
... and he's held in a jail that was named after him.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 02, 2011
We doubt if being all over the Internet was part of this particular fantasy.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 01, 2011
Fortunately, we can tell you that the story does *not* get worse than that.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 01, 2011
Though chronic pain has become a more medically-recognized condition, whether as a complication of another diagnosis or an unexplained phenomenon existing by itself, one frontier remains: How do people with chronic pain and their partners maintain a healthy, exciting sex life?
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Nov. 29, 2011
Vaginal pain is the number one reason why marriages are unconsummated, but treating and healing this condition is possible. Tinamarie discusses this all-to-common problem and reveals publically for the first time her experiences with a sexually debilitating condition.
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 29, 2011
Is worrying that your penis isn't big enough a universal concern? We suspect more men are worrying than should be. How else do you explain all the Penis Enhancement spam in our inbox?
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by Roland Hulme,
Nov. 28, 2011
The more the sex positive community talks about the importance of respecting boundaries, the more alarming it becomes when, in mainstream dating, some women have been encouraging men to do the opposite for decades.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
Trial of three of them starts today; Police say semen was used for rituals.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
Sam's Club washes its hands of "The Brick Testament."
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by Mollena,
Nov. 23, 2011
When you look at “Power Exchange” relationships – that is, relationships that are based on someone giving over control of some facet (or all aspects!) of their lives to another person – it seems obvious whose needs, wants and desires come first. The master over the slave, the dominant over the submissive, top over the bottom.
Or is it?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 23, 2011
Reunited with ex, they share their story with tabloid press.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 23, 2011
Pastor starts public kissing competition for married couples, and we watch approvingly.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 22, 2011
You think you’ve got romantic problems.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 22, 2011
Adult companies sue to stop monopolistic conduct, price gouging for addresses.
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by Midori,
Nov. 21, 2011
When you find it, the desire to jump into the deep end of the BDSM pool can be irresistible. The excitement of new found friends, playmates and activities can drive a submissive off track and into dangerous situations for mind, body and soul. In this letter to my submissive friends, I offer some advice to avoid the pitfalls during your adventures.
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by TinaV,
Nov. 18, 2011
Recently, Loperfido and Lazer took the time to speak to TinaV about their new blog and the specifics of their open relationship.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
And then there's the AT&T “Vivid,” which was a trademark lawsuit (or partnership?) waiting to happen.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
Let's face it: Some kids make it a little too easy.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 17, 2011
Sexuality educator Marylou Naccarato waxes on the importance of sensuality to happiness and creative uses for low, Japanese tables that don’t involve sushi.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 17, 2011
Yes, we know, she should have used her own. But would that have turned out any different?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 17, 2011
Unnamed hackers blamed for “coordinated spam attack.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 16, 2011
If monogamy isn't for you, 'fess up. Addiction doesn't seem like it's the real problem.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 16, 2011
Revenge backfires, big-time, for Pennsylvania man.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 15, 2011
Lady spiders, take note. There are cheapskates out there.
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 15, 2011
You and your wife have started playing around, experimenting with anal play, and guess what? You love it! But, now you're worried about your sexuality, doesn't enjoying anal play make you gay?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 15, 2011
According to aide, some women had to be hospitalized afterwards.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 14, 2011
Shades of Penn State: “We regret that we did not pursue this matter further.”
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 11, 2011
Defending Joe Paterno to 8 million followers didn't work out well for him.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Nov. 11, 2011
Hey guys, you think you've got the online dating thing figured out, you think you have game, but really, you don't. Nikol says you're "gaming yourselves out of the game" and there are three things you need to stop doing.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 11, 2011
Student, age 60, files complaint about class in human sexuality. What was she expecting?
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Nov. 10, 2011
It wasn’t until a long-time friend confided in her about her a midlife lesbian affair that the author was willing to investigate female sexual fluidity, and not just from a scientific distance — new research suggests a woman’s libidinous nature expands as she ages — but also psychologically.
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by Mollena,
Nov. 09, 2011
Get to know our newest columnist, Mollena Williams.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 09, 2011
Melting the Stone wants to know if she can ever move past childhood abuse and allow herself to be touched by others, or if she's doomed to a life lacking physical intimacy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 09, 2011
He dug them up, took them home and dressed them up. Not kidding.
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 08, 2011
October was boob month. Breast Cancer Awareness Month sparked somber inspiration for many of our writers and columnists and the subject was clearly on the minds of many of our readers. Still, we tried to approach the topic as a celebration of not only surviving the disease but of breasts themselves.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 08, 2011
Pop star denies everything, says he'll take paternity test.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 08, 2011
This still sounds like legalized extortion to us.
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by Midori,
Nov. 07, 2011
Just a stone’s throw and a short town car ride away from the Upper East Side, hides an elegant gem of a kinky pleasure retreat called The Iron Bell Academy. It’s a private membership based dungeon society catering to the aesthetically rigorous bondage and BDSM aficionado.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 07, 2011
School's athletic director and a vice president of the university allegedly failed to report incidents.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 04, 2011
And the mom might be guilty of statutory rape.
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by Barak & Sheba,
Nov. 04, 2011
Let’s spend a moment on Oral Sex. We don’t mean the licking, slurping, sucking kind; although we love that kind too! We mean opening up your soft, warm lips and sending luscious vibrations through those little white chords that say, “I want you to fuck me. Slow. Fast. Long. Hard.” And, “Please, make it hurt… just a little.” Want to talk about that? We do.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
We know, everybody's gotta make a buck, but ...
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
Compared to seniors in the '70s, they're also more sociable ... yet lonelier.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 02, 2011
Age has been on my mind since I'm about to turn 36 on November 10th. I'm often told I don't look my age, and I certainly don't feel my age, but I can't deny that what I want out of sex and relationships has changed since I was 26, and even from when I was 30. Sometimes I think the older I get, the less I know about how sex works — not so much the physical side, but the rest of it.
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 01, 2011
Is a woman frigid if her partner can't get her off? This common problem can be a source of great stress in a relationship. He feels like a failure for not being able to get her off. She feels frigid and ashamed. How can an otherwise happy couple solve the problem of no big O?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 01, 2011
It's probably bad enough to be known as the penis-pump judge, but ...
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by Em & Lo,
Nov. 01, 2011
Before Facebook, MySpace, Google, et al, the “one who got away” (OWGA) was rarely more than a passing daydream — or a handy bit of masturbation material.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 31, 2011
Adult stars happy they did it and pilot is in no trouble. So plan your jump now?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 28, 2011
Look for yourself. What else could they be doing?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 27, 2011
Repulsive? Unreliable? Probably. But ... well, they're college kids ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 26, 2011
We know, that sounds kind of obvious. But ... read on ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 26, 2011
Controversial group vows to continue to crash targeted servers.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 26, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 26, 2011
Others might be jealous, but we think we get it ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 25, 2011
Halloween is without question the best of all possible holidays…there’s no family BS, no gift guilt, just tricks, treats and terror. But let’s face it…trying to squeeze something sexy out of it is like trying to take candy from Rosemary’s Baby.
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by Midori,
Oct. 24, 2011
Sydney Australia – A world class city, with gorgeous beaches, beautiful people, and brilliant food. But there’s more to this city than what the guidebooks share. If you want to take the time to go find the naughty side of Sydney, it’s there for the taking. Nude beaches? SM parties? Cruise bars? Swingers clubs? Wacky drag queens and drag kings? Legal brothels? They’ve got it!
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 24, 2011
Another reason why “When the dog bites” is never a favorite thing.
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by TinaV,
Oct. 21, 2011
Queer porn director, producer, and performer Courtney Trouble has spent the last ten years changing the face of the porn industry with her sites No Fauxxx and Queer Porn TV that feature performers of all ethnicities, body types, genders, and sexual orientations coming together in one hot, steamy sex pile. Trouble is breaking new ground by declaring today International Fisting Day.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 21, 2011
“So putting your foot in a heel, you are putting yourself in a possibly orgasmic situation.”
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 20, 2011
Scientists are at it again. And “the older they got, the more likely they were to choose ‘unlabeled.’”
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 19, 2011
And guys want healthy, happy little swimmers, right?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 19, 2011
Proposed law would make it a crime even when both are adults.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Oct. 19, 2011
The classic Hitachi Magic Wand is the old reliable, go-to vibrator for many women, for so many reasons.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 18, 2011
Yes, we had the same reaction. Is NOTHING sacred?
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 18, 2011
Nothing can temper the joy of a baby on the way like being told you can't have sex until they arrive.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 17, 2011
Well, we think so, anyway. Maybe there's a new career in it?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 14, 2011
This probably doesn't work for just anyone, of course ...
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by Nikol Hasler,
Oct. 14, 2011
I date a lot of musicians. And by date, it usually goes like, "Hey, I like your style. Wanna go out?" We then got to a handful of shows and parties at which I'm one of the oldest women there, we get crazy drunk, we have sex, then we become friends. That's because I have trouble finding a way to be the kind of girlfriend a musician needs.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Oct. 13, 2011
If you were to distribute a tablespoon of testosterone to a lecture hall full of young men, you’d have yourself a gang of lunatics chasing and humping everything that moves, my professor said. From that day forward, sex hormones had my full appreciation.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 13, 2011
This hasn't happened to us and we're not sure we'd mind. You?
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by Lady J,
Oct. 12, 2011
It's possible there are as many myths and misconceptions about sex and pregnancy as there are babies being born. So what's fact and what's fiction? In this three-part series, Lady J, as a part of her own pregnancy journey, takes us through sex and pregnancy, one trimester at a time.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 12, 2011
Mary's struggling with the gender roles and sexual top and bottom roles within her relationship and getting her partner to fill the role of top is proving to be a challenge.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 11, 2011
Dr. Drew's Celebrity Sex Rehab has brought focus to sex as an addiction, an idea with which many disagree, including some of his former celebrity patients.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 11, 2011
Former babysitter caught on camera.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 10, 2011
Oops. Surgeon leaves names on before-and-after photos.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 07, 2011
Good for grandma, right? Well, maybe not. The cops don't approve.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 07, 2011
We get the point. But the road to censorship is paved with good intentions, you know?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2011
Nothing polarizes debate like birth control. Though many high-profile arguments rage on about abortion, the “morning-after” pill, and insurance payments for birth control pills, sterilization is an often overlooked but equally charged form of contraception.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 05, 2011
Study of African couples under review by World Health Organization.
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 04, 2011
The Naughty Nurse, the Sassy Schoolgirl, The Prison Guard, The Perverted Professor...most of us have a role that really gets us hot, but how do you get into character and get comfortable with the scene that your partner is into, but you find makes you feel ridiculous?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 03, 2011
FakeGirlFriend.co is for when you're really lame, or really need an excuse.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 30, 2011
Mexico City mulls offering temporary licenses. Can we call them learners' permits?
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by Barak & Sheba,
Sep. 30, 2011
From an innocent tickle and slap on the ass to whips and chains or masters and slaves, the world of kink and BDSM is hardly the same for everybody involved. But what all kinky folk do have in common is the desire for what's at the heart of all kinky activity: creative sexual expression.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 30, 2011
Just good ol' boys sharing some porn, right? Wrong.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Sep. 29, 2011
This author thought she had the street smarts to avoid sexual scam artists. The only problem was, this one came wearing a faux halo and rugged six-pack.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 29, 2011
Why? Maybe because they aren't marrying as young as they used to.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 28, 2011
You've got questions on gender, relationships, strap-on sex and everything in between. Mr. Sexsmith returns with advice, opinions and insights for all in his new column Mr. Sexsmith Says...
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 28, 2011
Irish dude tells her to take off her clothes somewhere else. Presumably, she does.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 26, 2011
Probably you ought to ask him, instead of your smartphone.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 22, 2011
... but his wife calls younger woman “a predator” as divorce looms.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 22, 2011
And it's 95 percent effective ... as long as you don't forget.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 21, 2011
They've had this problem before, and it might be the same guy.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Sep. 21, 2011
These days, you don't really have to go on a first date with a total stranger. You can Google, you can hunt them down on dating review sites, you can get a glimpse into who they are before you ever get a glimpse of them at all. But is this really the best way to get to know someone, or the most accurate for that matter?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 20, 2011
New York prosecutor under investigation after her double life is exposed.
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 20, 2011
What do you do when you're a young woman who finds herself attracted to women far older than you? Can you find love? Should you be resigned to settling for girls your own age because you don't have enough experience for an older woman?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 20, 2011
It's really kind of a brilliant idea, when you think about it.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
Drastic? Sure. But it works, you betcha.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
Crowdsourcing helps figure out structure of key enzyme. FTW!
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by Dave Gammon,
Sep. 16, 2011
The Internet has made privacy and protecting your personal information a difficult challenge, even for the average citizen. But when you make your living in front of the camera, it paints a large target on your back and can invite people to target you for harassment.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 14, 2011
And of course there's video. There's video of everything these days.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 14, 2011
If you’ve ever had one of those “I never knew my smartphone could do that!” moments, you know how much fun it is to discover those little tricks that can change an activity forever. Even when your between-the-sheets life is off-the-charts awesome, the novelty of a new “tweak” can be a pleasure in and of itself. Check out these six sex hacks and add some of your own!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 14, 2011
Kids are urged to learn to identify trustworthy sites. We have a list, of course.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 13, 2011
Cyclists may pedal furiously but they're spinning their wheels ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 13, 2011
She claims requiring viewers to pay would help adult industry.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
We're not going to let it bother us, though.
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by Midori,
Sep. 12, 2011
It seemed like a good idea at the time...
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
Viagra gets the blame, or the credit, for men not seeking help.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
Yes, they changed it. Can you say misogynist? Sure you can ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
Japan's latest fetish: Cute girls licking doorknobs.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Sep. 09, 2011
Teaching kids about sex can be the toughest job for a parent. You want to make sure they have all the information they need, but sometimes it would just be awesome if someone else could deliver the message.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Sep. 08, 2011
This is, at a basic level, the narrative of cats. Were it not for experiments on felines that led to the discovery of oxytocin, we might disregard sacrifices from the animal world that have taught us about human sexual relationships.
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by Em & Lo,
Sep. 07, 2011
Last month we reviewed the blow job basics. This month, it's time for your cunnilingus refresher course. Like getting in shape or getting rich, there's no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to going downtown on her.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 07, 2011
As for the rest of us, well ... the porn ghetto launches next month.
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 06, 2011
Setting up a scene that involves multiple partners and making the space that allows for everyone’s feelings and expectations can be tricky, but it's important to make sure all involved are comfortable and understand the rules if you want to pull it off without acrimony or fostering resentment.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 06, 2011
In France, they apparently take lack of sex very, very seriously.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 05, 2011
We think being forced to drive a getaway car deserves at least a nomination.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 02, 2011
Ohio man's “fascination with plastic” keeps getting him in trouble with the law.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 02, 2011
Law firm's tactics on behalf of adult film companies amount to extortion, critics say.
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by Barak & Sheba,
Sep. 02, 2011
You've considered it. Maybe you've even talked about it, but how do you actually go about opening your relationship to include other people? The direction and design depend on you, but there are important principles to keep in mind to ensure success.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 02, 2011
Nexus, Aneros reach agreement in patent dispute.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 31, 2011
Thanks to the Internet, we'd say this is wishful thinking.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 31, 2011
We really don't think having the government watch us all the time is such a good idea, anyway.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 30, 2011
Have stubble? Like anal sex? You might be her guy.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
Experts suggest you choose between your laptop and your lover ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
We knew. You knew. Scientists lag behind?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
Oops. These things just happen, you know?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 26, 2011
And it was good for them! Or good for their immune systems, anyway.
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by Midori,
Aug. 25, 2011
Once a year, tens of thousands of people come together in Nevada's Black Rock Desert to create Black Rock City, dedicated to community, art, self-expression, and, of course, having a good time. But there are some guidelines to be followed when setting off for a sex adventure in the desert.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Aug. 24, 2011
Rachel White's Kinseyesque scale for measuring the degree of your submissiveness offers insights into more than just how submissive you might be in the bedroom.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 23, 2011
And now we want to go see her in “Hysteria.” Who wouldn't?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2011
On the carpet? We get that. But on the wallpaper?
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 23, 2011
Your boyfriend has only made you come once in a year? Is that his fault or is it yours?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 23, 2011
We didn't really think they were, either, but it's nice that they were ... bicurious.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
... Because we're all a little stressed, sometimes.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
Actress says hormone replacement keep her youthful, at 73.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 18, 2011
These things always seem to backfire, don't they ...
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Aug. 18, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 17, 2011
What for? Um ... That would be up to you.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 17, 2011
No, we don't know if his credit card was billed for that service ...
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by Veronica Monet,
Aug. 16, 2011
Do you feel positive emotions when you hear the word “No?” If kink is your preference, you may have eroticized this word but taken out of the context of role-play, the word probably still causes you to wince. “No” signals that you may not get something you want and that is rarely cause for celebration.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 15, 2011
Theory of sexual economics totally makes sense to us.
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by Midori,
Aug. 15, 2011
As kinky folks, most of us have heard of the risks associated with certain activities we like: rope cuts off circulation, bruises invite suspicion and speculation, infected wounds or bites just plain suck and breath play can flat out be deadly... but there's more.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 12, 2011
Where there's a will, and love, there's often a way.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 11, 2011
Yes, it's part psychological ... but an anesthetizing spray has promise.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 11, 2011
“Planet of the Apes” star tells Conan what he wouldn't tell MTV.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 10, 2011
Family claims it was murder; coroner says otherwise.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 10, 2011
Yes, you do still have to have sex to have a baby. But ...
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 09, 2011
It's only fair, isn't it? You go down on your partner and then it's your turn right? Tit for tat. Quid pro quo. So what's the deal, why aren't you getting yours?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 09, 2011
Whether it is, or it isn't—expect there to be lawyers involved.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 08, 2011
Who's checking your email and text messages besides you? Shhh.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 08, 2011
Somehow, we think this happens a lot more than they think.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 08, 2011
If we had an MRI machine, this is totally what we'd use it for.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 05, 2011
It's a long story. Long enough for a book, in fact.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 05, 2011
Maybe it depends on when you ask?
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by Barak & Sheba,
Aug. 05, 2011
Seeking new connections through kinky social networking sites can be fraught with drama, dissatisfaction and potentially danger. Keeping a few important tips in mind can help improve your experience and find what you're really looking for.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 04, 2011
However, the company's copyright case against a file-sharing site advances.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 03, 2011
Evital not approved, shouldn't be used, might have side effects.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 03, 2011
Adult industry still calling for boycott of new domain extension.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 02, 2011
More recent college grads make “arrangements” to pay off loans and bills.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 02, 2011
It really has not been a good week at the University of Northern Virginia.
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by Em & Lo,
Aug. 02, 2011
Sometimes it's good to review the basics -- you know, take a refresher course on a sexual staple like fellatio, especially if it's been a while or you've gotten into a rut or you're simply not as confident as you'd like to be in the oral skills department.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 02, 2011
Thirty guys. Ninety minutes. Shoots, and scores ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 29, 2011
Women stand out by being more expressive.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 29, 2011
It's what every geek wants this summer: an invite to the beta of Google Plus, the social network du jour. As with any beta, problems abound — but one in particular is causing quite a fuss. Why is Google Plus the latest accidental foe to the transgendered/genderqueer community and the current enemy of sex writers everywhere? Read on.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 28, 2011
Rekindled romance from the '90s has unhappy ending.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 27, 2011
Okay, so this is just getting mean ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 26, 2011
“S&M” allegedly based on work by David LaChapelle.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 26, 2011
You know the saying "it's not the length, it's not the size..." but when it comes to anal sex, size becomes important in a whole new way.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 26, 2011
Controversy in LAN party land mostly reinforces stereotypes.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
Conservative groups making this stuff up, again.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
(And it's about time, wouldn't you say?)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 22, 2011
In honor of the Japanese victory in the women's World Cup—free blow jobs, coming up.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 21, 2011
Here's a tip, though: Don't store those XXX phone pics on Facebook ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 21, 2011
We expect he'll leave the penis pump at home, this time.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 21, 2011
“When you're 17, you don't even know how to operate what's going on down there ...”
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by Rydell Johnson,
Jul. 20, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 19, 2011
A woman with a nipple on the bottom of her foot. Really.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 19, 2011
Huge lifestyle convention will be broadcast live by Porn Life Radio, online.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 19, 2011
Do you find yourself losing your mood just when foreplay gets going? Do the advice experts fail to provide useful information to help keep your head in the sexual game?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 19, 2011
So says Summer's Eve. Of course, they want to sell you stuff. But this is still fun.
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by Midori,
Jul. 18, 2011
Getting tied up isn’t for wimps. To bottom gloriously takes mad skills.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 15, 2011
Beta males may actually be happier in the long run. Huh.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 15, 2011
Press freedom advocates oppose restrictions and say the new law will weaken media critics of government.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 14, 2011
We're open-minded and all, but there are things the grandkids don't need to see.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 14, 2011
A gift basket of lube from a CEO can turn a singer on, you know?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 14, 2011
This is after he recovered from being mauled by his pet bear ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 13, 2011
Company says new Internet web space will drive up costs as adult industry resists segregation.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 13, 2011
Bree Olson Talks to Playboy ... we notice she did not say “great”? Pass the Tiger Blood, please.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jul. 13, 2011
You know the phrase, “Taken out of context, I must seem so strange?” That goes double for pulling random bits of erotic conversation, texted or otherwise, and analyzing them as if they told a whole story. Without the motivation of the person sending and receiving them, you really don’t know anything.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 13, 2011
We can understand why marketing would not play this connection up.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 12, 2011
Irish man charged with buggery and faces possible life sentence.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 12, 2011
There are some red faces in Redmond, presumably ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
Case of Jennifer Leigh Jones got a federal law changed, but no court victory.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 08, 2011
Vivid offer rescinded; Apparently, she's considered too despicable for XXX.
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by The Bloggess,
Jul. 07, 2011
Every month I am flooded with emails from friends and strangers with the subject line “Saw this and thought of you,” immediately followed by the most fucked-up, confusing shit you could ever possibly imagine.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 06, 2011
Yes, we've heard this one. But those scientists are at it again, measuring and stuff.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 06, 2011
Don't try smuggling your spouse out of prison in a suitcase. Most people would not need to be told, we know.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 06, 2011
Free music? Hot girlfriend porn? It's probably too good, or bad, to be true.
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by Em & Lo,
Jul. 05, 2011
If you want to feel like it's the very first time, then it's important to keep sex surprising and try new things regularly. You can’t get lazy. So give the following steps a try every now and then. You might feel silly being "experimental," but the occasional awkward moment is a small price to pay for unexpected pleasure.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 05, 2011
We weren't there, but we're not sure about the “Not Guilty.” You?
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 05, 2011
We're trying to be a little sympathetic but, with some people, that's hard to do.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 05, 2011
Oops. We actually do not think everyone needs to know how many calories we've burned by having sex.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 01, 2011
Soon-to-be "Two and a Half Men" man blames ads for sex slavery.
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by ErinORiordan,
Jul. 01, 2011
In a perfect world, every child-guardian relationship would be punctuated with down-to-earth, all-your-questions-answered talk about the young person’s emerging sexuality.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 30, 2011
(Yawn) ... Excuse us, are we supposed to be personally offended? Again?
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by Barak & Sheba,
Jun. 30, 2011
You meet someone new and you wonder...is he kinky? Will he run screaming into the night when I let slip my taste for being tied up? Now is not the time to panic, now is the time to sit back and carefully consider how to introduce your kink to someone you think is vanilla.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 29, 2011
... And the kink and dom responses come rolling in. Predictably, trouble ensues.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 29, 2011
Joan Price is 67 and wants you to know that sex doesn’t stop at 50—or 60, 70 or 80 and 90!
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 28, 2011
What do you do when your partner stops having sex with you? Is it your fault? Is it theirs? Should you try to change or call it quits?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 28, 2011
Accused rapist in S&M-related case remains jailed in lieu of $350,000 bond.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
John Lindsay apologized, sent flowers.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
New book tells the stories that used to go untold.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 24, 2011
What you do with your bandwidth is your own business, in the Netherlands.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jun. 23, 2011
We explore modern and ancient views on virginity and ask: when did a flap of skin come to mean so much about a woman’s worth?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 23, 2011
When you fire the IT guy, you really need to be a little more careful ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 22, 2011
... but it all depends on what you mean by “infidelity,” doesn't it.
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by Veronica Monet,
Jun. 21, 2011
I like to say ALL sex is sacred. Of course anytime you make sweeping generalizations like that, there is a lot of room to disagree. Given the right mood, I'd be the first to disagree with myself. Still, I want to explain the kernel of truth in the statement “all sex is sacred.”
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 21, 2011
Nothing is quite as frustrating as not being able to cross the finish line in a reasonable amount of time. For some women, this can be a common problem, but even men find that orgasm is sometimes too far down the road.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 21, 2011
We think this will be the last time Crystal Harris makes the cover.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 20, 2011
Survey at AshleyMadison.com shows respondents want face-to-face contact.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 20, 2011
Common Asian herb boosts male libido, according to new scientific research.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 20, 2011
You've made the decision to take the plunge: you're going to your first kinky party. Half of what you hear is talk about how important etiquette is, and the other half is about how you should just relax and be yourself. How do you manage to relax enough to "be yourself" when there are so many rules? Read on for your survival guide.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 17, 2011
We know, there are other opinions out there. We even have one.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 16, 2011
A relieved Congress is again pervert-free. (Right.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 16, 2011
Is there a right age and a right way for talking about sex in schools on which everyone can agree? Probably not.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 16, 2011
Michigan, Washington, Maryland and Arizona top the list for video-on-demand porn.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 15, 2011
Congratulations, dude. You've offended us, and that's not easy.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 15, 2011
Trojan Sex Census indicates the Internet, social networking are increasingly part of American sex lives.
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by Midori,
Jun. 13, 2011
Imagine a weekend at the friendliest place on earth, with the nicest people, who are sharing and playing well with each other. Now remove the acoustic guitar and accompanying folk music from that image — and replace it with hemp products. In this case hemp is used for ropes and tying, not smoking, because we’re at ShibariCon .
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 13, 2011
The guys ... well, 9 percent can't find the clitoris, and that's too many.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 10, 2011
"Duh" science strikes again, but it's always good to double-check.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 09, 2011
Thank you, Google Maps. This is why they made you.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 09, 2011
If she's real, we hope she's okay. If she's fake ... we still hope she's okay.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 08, 2011
Would there be sex work in a sexually non-repressed society? It's one of those philosophical questions to wax over, in all of its unicorn-like glory. After all what does “sexually non-repressed” society even mean? Would we all be polyamorous...wearing fig leaves for clothes?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 08, 2011
Canadian resident remains jailed in Tehran pending review of case.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 07, 2011
Testosterone levels plummet on five hours a night, in just a week.
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by Em & Lo,
Jun. 07, 2011
Today we are going to talk about “sensual bondage.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 07, 2011
His biggest role is in real life, as sleazy con man ...
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 07, 2011
We've all been in this position at least once in our lives. Life is stressful and sometimes you just can't slow down and focus on the task at hand — reaching orgasm. But what if you've never been able to relax enough with your partner to come?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 07, 2011
Her second-favorite might also be sex. Or maybe baseball.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
He's embarrassed. Yes, it figures. But so what?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
Yes, we were offended, too. But we're backing off, a little.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 03, 2011
We're expecting a site for choosing the hottest members of Congress, soon ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 03, 2011
Yes, we know it was stupid and ugly. But was it criminally stupid and ugly?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
Ex-WWE star coming out with Vivid DVD.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
You'd think he could just make her disappear ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
Have you changed your password lately? Because this could happen to anyone, right?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 02, 2011
Apparently, anything that might lead inmates to masturbate is not allowed.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 01, 2011
Sufferers from excruciating genital pain can find relief.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 01, 2011
At first glance, the depiction of Renly and Loras as a homosexual couple in the Game of Thrones appears to be a radical departure from the novels on which the televised version is based, but upon closer inspection, it was there, it just wasn't so...outthere.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 31, 2011
Premature ejaculation — two words that can strike terror into the average man's heart. Odds are you've been there and done that at least once in your sexual lifetime, but fear of humiliation and feelings of inadequacy do not have to ruin your time in the sack.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 31, 2011
Well, of course it isn't. These things happen all the time.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
This couldn’t be because it’s a really traditional dating site, could it?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
Public hearing scheduled for next week; industry remains opposed.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 27, 2011
It's all innocent, even a little saccharin. Okay, a LOT saccharin ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 27, 2011
Provides for teaching about contraception, not just abstinence.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 26, 2011
Unfortunately, it also can hurt and possibly kill you.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 26, 2011
Unwedded coupling on the rise, according to 2010 census data.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
May. 25, 2011
Prostitution hurts marriage, doesn’t it? This has often been used as an argument against sex work — it’s not only demeaning but endangering to unknowing wives. But, this isn’t an argument about the morality of sex work — it’s about the morality of cheating. Still, when talking to Johns, I had to ask: How are the wives actually affected?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 24, 2011
Quick, guys. Time to change your profile picture.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 24, 2011
We wanted to believe, too, but we'll go with a doctor's opinion for now.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 24, 2011
In general, masturbating in public is not a good idea. In case you didn't know.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 24, 2011
There are many roads to bring pleasure to a woman. The ways to bring a woman to orgasm are practically endless and perineal massage is just one technique you can use to help build toward that goal.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 20, 2011
Rapturous sex. A little looting. Maybe some last-minute errands ...
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 20, 2011
Consenting adults, beware ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 20, 2011
Senator opines that fetishist is capable of holding a job.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 20, 2011
The technical, local term for this is “mubobobo.” Which sounds really bad, huh?
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 20, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 19, 2011
Four years later ... Oops. Shouldn't have done that.
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by Rydell Johnson,
May. 19, 2011
Getting in touch with one’s inner slut offers a new world of empowerment, liberation, and … fun.
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 19, 2011
It’s more and more common these days. If you don’t suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome or its familiars, one of your partners probably does. And CTS is a bitch to deal with in the sack. But never fear: as with all other limitations, there are ways to work around the pain.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 18, 2011
College sex-dating site apparently had security problems.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 18, 2011
True confession time: I have trouble with orgasms. By which I mean, I am not the queen of the multiple orgasm, or even the single orgasm. I like them, sure, but they don’t always like me back.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 18, 2011
We love innovations in safe sex. Doesn't everyone?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 18, 2011
Okay, he's not a pediatrician. But do we hold doctors to a higher standard?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 17, 2011
Proposed bill raises concerns about individual rights.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 17, 2011
We've got shocking news. Not everybody who enjoys giving blow jobs enjoys swallowing. It's just not something they are willing or happy to do. For those on the receiving end of oral sex, this can result in an anti-climactic conclusion. So what's a guy to do? Does Nina have the secret to convincing your partner to swallow?
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by Cole Riley,
May. 16, 2011
Like most men, I’m baffled by the nature of love. Lust, I can understand. But I’ve not done well in my efforts in my love life. An ambitious stripper, a snarky teacher with a jealous ex, a professional dancer with a nose candy problem, and a loopy reporter one step from the bughouse. All strike-outs.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 16, 2011
“I wished to have the possibility of breaking the judgment behind what you might call a slut.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 16, 2011
Unfortunately, there's only one way to find out.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 13, 2011
... but we knew it had to be part of the story, somehow.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 12, 2011
Who wouldn't want to masturbate during a brain scan?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 12, 2011
It's a scandal! Right? Well. for cricket, maybe.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 10, 2011
Plus, they allegedly don't break or leak. Coming soon!
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by Liz Langley,
May. 10, 2011
Just as most of the world will never forget where they were when they heard Osama bin Laden was dead, I will never forget where I was when I heard that people like to have sex dressed as Tigger.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 10, 2011
How does Nina Hartley or any other porn star avoid getting STIs ? The short answer is, sometimes you don't. The only sure way to avoid getting STIs is to not have sex. But who really wants to go through life without sex?
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by ErinORiordan,
May. 09, 2011
Perhaps it’s a cliché, but it‘s eternally true: springtime brings thoughts of new life, birth, and evidence of sexual reproduction. As real chicks hatch from birds’ nests, we eat sugar-coated marshmallow chicks delivered by a mythical bunny (and we all know what bunnies like to do in their spare time).
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 09, 2011
We think we already know the answer is “No.” You know?
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by Midori,
May. 09, 2011
Aftercare is a much debated topic among those who are into the rough and tumble play of BDSM. Whose responsible, what is needed and how long it should last are often discussed, but with the submissive in mind. Dominant aftercare is a phrase you almost never hear.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 06, 2011
We know that you thought they did, and you were apparently wrong.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 06, 2011
Yeah, we SO want THAT job on our resume ...
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 05, 2011
“The whole lifestyle will just disappear unless we attract a younger crowd.”
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by Johnny Murdoc,
May. 05, 2011
In preparation for a new collection of short stories to be published, Johnny Murdoc embarks on a new experience, shooting a nude pictorial, which will be included in the upcoming book.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 05, 2011
No, we didn't think you could be jailed for that, either.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 04, 2011
I’ve never whipped out a measuring tape in bed so I can’t give you precise numbers, but I think I can safely say I’ve slept with men with penises ranging from very small to gigantic. Most have been somewhere between those two extremes and the big lesson I’ve come away with is: size is not what makes someone good in bed, not by a long shot.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 04, 2011
AIM Healthcare blamed for “Patient Zeta” and data security fiascos.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 04, 2011
Neighbor: “… it frequently doesn't sound as pleasurable as it is.”
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by Em & Lo,
May. 03, 2011
We constantly hear how we should avoid getting into a sexual rut and keep trying new things. But just as important is to develop some good sexual habits — things that you should be engaging in on a regular basis with your partner (whatever regular means to you) — now and always.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 03, 2011
Somehow, we’re thinking that the “penis sock” is not going to catch on.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 03, 2011
And it was going to be such a nice Easter present, too ...
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 03, 2011
Do you find it difficult to let your partner know that they've stopped short of pleasing you in the bedroom? Communicating the specifics of what you want and need in the bedroom can be, for many, a seemingly insurmountable hurdle. What do you do if you're too terrified to utter those all-important words "Don't stop!"?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 02, 2011
Some guys actually want less sex. Okay, so it's really not that many.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 02, 2011
“Sexy, funny and shocking” … is Hollywood ready for this? We are.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 02, 2011
Apparently having sex on the job, on camera, is a bad thing. Who knew?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 02, 2011
Maybe a little more communication with parents is in order, here ...
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by Roland Hulme,
May. 02, 2011
One of my hobbies is perusing Internet erotica. I churn through sites like ASSTR.org — filled with erotic offerings from thousands of anonymous authors — and try to discern the psychology behind the fantasies.
And you know what? They scare the crap out of me.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 29, 2011
Longer ring finger means more attractive. (And more likely to go to prison.)
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 29, 2011
"The Daily Beast" tells us what it means for The Royal Sex Life? Seriously ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 28, 2011
McDowell apologizes for response to “heckling fans.” Oops. Classy, huh?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 28, 2011
At least they were, in 1949. Something to tell your parents, or grandparents ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 27, 2011
Quinnipiac University website launched in time for a few pre-graduation flings.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 27, 2011
Sex education website outrages some conservatives.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 26, 2011
Finally, a place where it's totally okay to fabricate a dating profile.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 26, 2011
We're so glad they finally came up with an official name for this ...
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Apr. 26, 2011
To be simultaneously funny, sexy, seductive, and shocking is no easy task, but burlesque dancers manage to get a rise out of an audience, one way or another. New York’s Museum of Sex celebrates burlesque, past and present in the their recently opened exhibition "The Nudie Artist: Burlesque Revived," which not only explains the history of burlesque, but how it has become an art form in itself.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 25, 2011
Policy established in 2008 is finally put into practice.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 22, 2011
But princess-to-be Kate has already had pole-dancing lessons.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 21, 2011
Yes, Peoria. Where they just tried to outlaw a swingers club ...
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 21, 2011
In the middle of a ritzy Chicago neighborhood, among old brownstones and French bistros stands the Bijou — the oldest gay XXX theater in America. The Bijou celebrates it's 40th anniversary this year. Founded before the boutiques or the elementary school next door, it's cultivated a rich history and some unbelievable stories: prison sentences, a patron death, a tragic connection to a serial killer.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Apr. 20, 2011
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how one’s sexual experience shapes their outlook on sex and relationships. Is more experience, not necessarily your “number,” but practical experience with other sexual partners, helpful when it comes to knowing what to do with a new partner?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 20, 2011
Facebook page with 290,000 fans deleted by man who now supports civil unions.
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by Veronica Monet,
Apr. 19, 2011
There's a unique connection between love and sex—though they don't always go together.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 19, 2011
Protest at London bar goes global after social network deletes a picture. (Update: Facebook apologizes.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 19, 2011
Ex-husband and judge figure out she's not exactly disabled.
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 19, 2011
For some, orgasm is elusive. No matter how hard you try, how many toys you buy, you just can't seem to reach the pinnacle of orgasm. Is it mental? Is it physical? Is it a matter of technique? Just what is it that is keeping you from finding the big O?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Apr. 18, 2011
Plenty of folks are eager to warn you of the dangers of vaginal fisting: you'll either tear something, be loose forever, or end up desperate to find bigger and stranger insertables until the point of absurdity, right? Wrong! In fact, you might actually find some health benefits to the gentle act of handballing. Let’s check it out.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 18, 2011
It's just 2 percent, but we do the math so you don't have to.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 18, 2011
Okay, not funny. But we're thinking that the porn wasn't *that* hot.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 18, 2011
Stupid bravado, or a clue to serial killer? Police aren't commenting.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 15, 2011
We feel awful for her and disagree with her at the same time.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 14, 2011
But we're not keen on using condom lubricant for hair gel.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Apr. 14, 2011
What if everything we’ve ever learned about our basic motivation to have sex — the procreation of the species — is unequivocally wrong? What if making babies is a byproduct of the real purpose of our couplings?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 13, 2011
Coldplay, Adele, Gaga—not so much, according to music dating site survey
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 13, 2011
If a “John” is a guy who buys sex, is a woman who buys sex a “Jane”? The last installment of “The Secret Life of Johns” asked: Who are these men that buy sex and why do they do it? But now I propose the question: Does “Jane” exist?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 13, 2011
Club 307—This means you. You've got 10 days.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 13, 2011
The defense? “These men are crack addicts …” Yikes.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 12, 2011
City council voting on ordinance that could shut down “lifestyle” club.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 12, 2011
She allegedly proved she was 19. Is that enough of a defense?
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 11, 2011
Meet your newest porn-crush. Danny Wylde has a blog in which it’s all too easy to lose hours while engrossed in his writing. He writes honestly and articulately about what he does for a living: starring in porn. Danny's been in mainstream adult films, was around for the heyday of alt porn and often stars in feminist films. Through it all, he has quite a following among female fans of porn.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 11, 2011
Parents notified, Internet filters upgraded, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 08, 2011
Simulated bestiality apparently doesn't go with PG-13.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 07, 2011
New Yorkers seem to have their own special dating patois.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 06, 2011
Artist preferred mistresses short and submissive; And he had that hypnotic stare ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 06, 2011
We're mostly hoping that his fans have eased up about the gay thing.
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by Em & Lo,
Apr. 05, 2011
There comes a time in every guy's life when he wants to pull out and impersonate Old Faithful, just for the visual. Or perhaps there come -many- times. Women, too, may appreciate the visual — just like the hickey, it’s a spectacle (though hopefully not one that your co-workers will spot the next morning).
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 05, 2011
Orgasms are tricky business. Because every woman is different, no two women reach orgasm the same way and for that matter often the same woman takes a different path to orgasm from one session to the next. But, what happens when you find that the more often you use your vibrator, the more power you need to reach orgasm?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 04, 2011
Alternative sex columnist Dan Savage suddenly finds himself in the mainstream.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Apr. 04, 2011
You've heard the roles before: naughty nurse, horny pizza guy, frisky babysitter, suave pool boy...but what if the roleplay you're into doesn't fit into porn's top ten? Whatever your ideal fantasy scenario is, you can accomplish it with a little work.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 01, 2011
Media pursues woman's identity ... We're fascinated but mostly appalled.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 01, 2011
Authors say pet names can take the heat out of a relationship.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 31, 2011
Rock Hard Extreme? The Best Enhancer? Send 'em back.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 31, 2011
British group lists dietary passion-killers.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 30, 2011
Chocolate? Not really, researchers say. Hmph.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Mar. 30, 2011
In the last few years the media has become inundated with stories about sex workers: feminist sex-workers; high-end, blogging call girls; coerced trafficking-victims. But in each, the buyer remains faceless. Even the word “John” conjures a shady, hidden, back alley-image. This is what I set out to uncover.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 30, 2011
Company says someone must have hacked them, because they'd never do that ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 30, 2011
Cell phone photos start an Internet furor.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 29, 2011
Nina offers advice and thoughts on how to go about sharing or discussing your sexual fetishes with family members, friends or new sexual partners.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 28, 2011
Yes, we're shocked, too. Sex-crazed lesbians, black drug dealers, etc.
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by Lady J,
Mar. 28, 2011
Are there occasions when you owe your partner the obligation to have sex with them?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 28, 2011
Police found him napping, pants down, porn all around. Oops.
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by Midori,
Mar. 28, 2011
How do you get the best photos for your profile on erotic social networks or kinky dating sites?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 28, 2011
Authorities believe illegal immigrants were working as sex slaves.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 25, 2011
LA Weekly exposes opponent of Craigslist and adult online ads.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 25, 2011
Or would you rather read about molecular regulation and serotonergic neurons?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 25, 2011
Fairview, Illinois tries to close barn door after harmless fetishists have already left town.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 25, 2011
If you're offended by an iPhone or iPad program, just let them know.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 24, 2011
And we encourage Seattle University to keep doing what it's doing.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 23, 2011
“How often” is often the subject of dispute in long-term relationships.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Mar. 23, 2011
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Mar. 22, 2011
Inga Muscio came into my life on my first trip to New York City. A daft, nineteen-year-old, budding feminist, I scanned the shelves of St. Mark’s Bookshop and one bold title caught my eye: Cunt. I plucked the book from its resting place to view its pink daisy laden cover and the words “a declaration of independence.” Clearly, I had to read this book.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 22, 2011
Government goes after taxes in red-light district.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 22, 2011
If you are in a relationship with someone and fall in love with someone else, is that a betrayal? If you don't share these feelings with your significant other, is that a transgression?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 22, 2011
Exodus International's "ex-gay" for iPhone, iPad offensive to more than 127,000, so far.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 21, 2011
“Taboo,” by former prison guard, portrays lusty life behind bars.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 21, 2011
When social networking is recognized as sexual networking, this is what happens.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 21, 2011
Johns could be fined up to $10,000 and then, well, they'd get an education.
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by Roland Hulme,
Mar. 21, 2011
Should porn performers use condoms? Surely the answer’s obvious.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 18, 2011
New study indicates that same-sex experimentation is unrelated to education.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 17, 2011
More than 1,000 arrests expected; adult porn sites assisted investigation.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 17, 2011
But shock jock still “sort of” admires Charlie Sheen.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 16, 2011
Teens caught sending racy photos would no longer be considered child pornographers.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 16, 2011
More allegations, and some tasty-sounding toppings.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 16, 2011
Video of condom use preferred to personal demonstration. (We think.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 16, 2011
... and then backs off after furor over privacy.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 15, 2011
Mail-order vibrator was making “strange ticking noise.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 15, 2011
The facts are on their side, but we're wondering about their tact.
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by Veronica Monet,
Mar. 15, 2011
Awakening those deep, inner orgasms through G-spot, A-spot and P-spot stimulation can be frightening to some, others believe it's simply not possible, but peak sexual experiences often entail a level of emotional risk and vulnerability.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Mar. 11, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 11, 2011
Sex-positive Christian message spreads to Indiana.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 10, 2011
NBC reports on market for fake hymens, reconstructive surgery. Are we so different?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 10, 2011
The abstinence-only crowd is predictably appalled.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Mar. 10, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 10, 2011
They've got nubs. Humans don't. Thanks, science!
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Mar. 09, 2011
The last time I had sex was January 12th. Well, that is if we’re defining “sex” as physical, genital contact with another person. In January, I also had phone sex and cybersex, but since February 1st, have stayed away from all of that. The most action I’ve gotten, by choice, is a kiss goodnight on a street corner.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 08, 2011
Two hundred blank pages. We might have guessed.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 08, 2011
Okay, so not really. But they're calling it that.
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by Cole Riley,
Mar. 08, 2011
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 08, 2011
We've all heard the cliche about there being no sex after marriage. But what if you're not willing to live with that? You want to save your marriage, you want a satisfying sex life, but your spouse is resisting you every step of the way because he suffers from the emotionally painful idea that he's too small? What's a woman to do to save her marriage and her sex life?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 08, 2011
If you can't post them in the bathrooms, where can you post them?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 07, 2011
There's something you can measure that really does matter.
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by Roland Hulme,
Mar. 07, 2011
When the details of one's kinky life become public, it can be embarrassing, to say the least. But for some, it can lead to more dire consequences—loss of a job or place to live. Minority groups are protected from this kind of discrimination. But what about kinksters? Do they deserve the same protection from discrimination because they do things others consider objectionable?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 04, 2011
He's a kid. He had sex. Let's not traumatize him for life.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Mar. 04, 2011
You have a cat, you know the deal: ownership goes both ways. Your furry companion has some ideas about when and how you should offer up affection, entertainment, and snacks. Often, those of us with cats fancy ourselves as the center of their universe, while they seem to think of us as personal assistants barely earning our keep—and that can make bedroom shenanigans complicated, to say the least.
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by Bill Allen,
Mar. 03, 2011
Still unanswered: Why they don’t come in gray, or sag a bit? Or louder! Louder would be good … so we know they’re working.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 03, 2011
Human sexuality class goes all the way.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 03, 2011
If you are a guy, you probably should not read this.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 02, 2011
Is Sarah White just another webcam girl? We're fine with that ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 02, 2011
So is it voyeurism to film the love lives of tiny deep-sea crustaceans?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 01, 2011
We know, you're shocked again. Well, maybe you are if you haven't had a baby.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 01, 2011
... And in other Lady Gaga news, she likes monogamy.
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by Em & Lo,
Mar. 01, 2011
It's happened to all of us: You meet someone charming, intelligent, miraculously modest, well-off, and, most importantly, smokin' hot. The evening finally comes when you will seal your budding relationship with a full-body kiss. You're eager with anticipation and expect nothing less than sheer bliss. But then your new partner's tongue attacks you like a leaping lizard's would a fly.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 01, 2011
“Baby Gaga” confection not to everyone's taste, perhaps.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 28, 2011
Game in Europe only, no plans for release in U.S.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 28, 2011
A cautionary tale ... Be careful with the candles, boys and girls.
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by Midori,
Feb. 28, 2011
Dominant, kinky women are frustrated, and not in the good way. They’re getting prickly and thorny.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 24, 2011
It might not seem obvious, but tea can be intensely sexy. If you're looking for a warm, sumptuous drink to share with your partner(s), there are teas that will knock your socks off. Some teas are great options for caffeine-sensitive sweeties or sober partners. Whether you're looking for a pick-me-up or a calm-you-down, there is a tea that can improve your evening (or morning) of carnal delights.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 24, 2011
Actress tells Kimmel how she feels about “dirty movies.”
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 22, 2011
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 22, 2011
Is there such a thing as masturbating too much? Is spending two hours a day on masturbation and watching porn an addiction? It might sound like too much to you, but is it really? The question of how much is too much is not always as easy question to answer.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 22, 2011
A day for talking about porn and masturbation, for girls only.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 21, 2011
We're thinking it's a keeper, but maybe we're just vocabulary anarchists.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 21, 2011
Police recover stash of stolen items in man's attic.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 21, 2011
Billboard, video series and, yes, mysexlifesucks.org all part of the message.
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by Roland Hulme,
Feb. 21, 2011
Anonymous blogging has risks, but also advantages. The sex blogging community itself wouldn’t be such a rich and thriving place if everybody’s salacious sexual stories were easily linked to their names, faces and the website of the schools their kids attended.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 18, 2011
Social network expands relationship status labeling choices.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 17, 2011
Newspaper reporter goes inside the doors to find out.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 16, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 16, 2011
Survey says many want support after treatment but few ask.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 15, 2011
City launches IPhone/Android app in support of safer sex.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 15, 2011
Berlusconi charged with paying underage girl for sex.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 15, 2011
Valentine's Day sex advice off the mark.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Feb. 11, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 11, 2011
Berlusconi prosecutors claim evidence of underage prostitutes, orgies, perjury, abuse of power, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 11, 2011
Storylines, respect and realism appeal to broader audience.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 10, 2011
Anonymous woman spills all to Gawker, speculates on why Lee resigned.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 10, 2011
If your car only started half the time or your computer only worked on alternate days, what would you do? If you found you were only getting half the channels on your cable you’d call up the company and raise holy hell, right?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 10, 2011
We vote for funny, but politicians, of course, are split on the issue ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 09, 2011
XXX social networking thrives on those itty-bitty messages.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Feb. 09, 2011
Last week, I lost my Skype virginity. To summarize my extremely non-scientific findings: Skypeing can be very sexy, just make sure you’re ready to handle it.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 09, 2011
Florida man apparently takes porn break during alleged theft attempt.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 09, 2011
Anti-porn minister helps those who want to stay visually pure.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 09, 2011
It's the latest twist on “Make love, not war”
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 08, 2011
New reality show will feature “the lifestyle,” 2011 style.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 08, 2011
Staying married for 28 years requires love, commitment and let's face it— hard work! For most, sex is a vital part & one of the rewards of being married. Imagine that 28-year marriage without the sex. Could you stay faithful? You love your spouse, you don't want to leave them, but would you seek sexual satisfaction outside your marriage? Could anybody blame you? Or are you just a cheating louse?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 07, 2011
What's true for the birds may be true for humans as well.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 07, 2011
Relax, we're talking about 12 generations of mice—not your partner.
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by Liz NuMe,
Feb. 07, 2011
If someone had told me a couple of years ago that my sex life could be completely different—better than it’s ever been—I probably wouldn’t have believed them, and worse, possibly not even cared.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 07, 2011
French dating site looks at Wisconsin, Pennsylvania for clues.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 07, 2011
Not everyone is a “roses-n-chocolates” kind of lover. Some of us are even irked by the idea of a greeting-card-industry “holiday.” But that doesn't have to stop them from making the most of the sexy mood permeating everything from grocery stores to restaurants come February 14. Here are some suggestions for enjoying V-Day for those of us with darker tastes & kinkier vibes (including singles)!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 04, 2011
Some people just have the greatest jobs, don't they?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 03, 2011
Cool, free dating site now the property of not-nearly-cool, paid site.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 03, 2011
New site launches in New York as “the fun way to discover the gay world.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 03, 2011
RedTube.com prevails in case brought by pay-porn webmaster.
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by RalphieGuy,
Feb. 02, 2011
My Visit To A Play Space In The Wilds Of Suburbia
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 02, 2011
Documentary looks at pharmaceutical industry and medicalization of sex.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 02, 2011
Prosecuted for release of home sex videos he says were stolen.
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by Em & Lo,
Feb. 01, 2011
As many as 10 percent of women have NEVER had an orgasm, and many more than that have never had an orgasm with a partner. And the more women fake, the worse these statistics will get. It’s time to take our orgasms into our own hands—quite literally, if need be. Stop the madness, ladies, and start the ecstasy!
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 01, 2011
We all have different reasons for seeking companionship. Sometimes two people end up together and find out their goals for the relationship are not the same. Can two people who want different completely different things find compromise or should they find new companions?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 01, 2011
Protests lead to cancellation of appearance at Washington University.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jan. 31, 2011
We never could have come up with these, but we're glad someone did.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jan. 31, 2011
College, for those who embrace it, can be a full-on smorgasbord of awesome. At no other time in your life will you have such easy access to all things indulgent and sinful.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jan. 31, 2011
Girl-on-girl not as much of a deal-breaker as boy-on-boy.
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by Midori,
Jan. 31, 2011
Midori unleashes her alter ego, a psychotic clown nurse, clad in a white leather-hood with stitched up mouth, upon the party-goers at the Japan Fetish Ball, an annual extravaganza hosted by the Tokyo Kink Society.
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by Gary,
Jan. 27, 2011
Our third Porn Club discussion was a lively and enjoyable evening. We had a large number of attendees, including the star of Girl Talk and Love & Marriage, Kayden Kross.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 27, 2011
The humble banana has been the butt of many sexual jokes, but who says sex—or the meal in advance of it—has to be serious? Or that bananas can’t be classy? Bananas really can shine in the starring role of your date-night nibbles, no matter what mood you prefer. (It’ll even work if your date is with your hand or your Hitachi.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 27, 2011
After 18 years of marriage, he's had enough ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 27, 2011
Florida man confesses in apparent asphyxiation case.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 26, 2011
Survey says most of us believe that, anyway.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 26, 2011
When it comes to sex and dating, social media is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it’s, well, social, and therefore, has the potential for fun, flirting, meeting people and getting to know dates, significant others, fuck buddies and those who hold the potential to fall into those categories.
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by Mona Fox,
Jan. 25, 2011
In the best of all possible worlds, we could do whatever we want, with whomever we want, whenever we want... but for those of us who live in the real world, having sex can be a process of negotiation—especially when the real world includes sharing your living quarters with others.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 25, 2011
If you've negotiated a monogamous relationship with your partner, you've probably set up some ground rules. For most, that means no sex with someone who isn't your significant other. Sounds simple, right? Well, "it ain't necessarily so."
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 24, 2011
Your ear has a G-spot and they can find it ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 24, 2011
Love bites can be a lot worse than just embarrassing.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jan. 24, 2011
Let me ask you this: Have you ever:
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 21, 2011
“Have an affair” site turned down by Fox.
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by Lady J,
Jan. 21, 2011
I know how many sexual partners are lurking in my husband’s past. I know one had MY first name. Another is heir to a well-known salad dressing fortune. I know he never contracted a sexually transmitted disease. This is all I know. This is all I WANT to know.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 20, 2011
In the early days of blogging, writers only had to “self censor” if they thought their mother or pastor might be reading their ramblings. Now, it’s all too common to find employers perusing your posts, too…and taking notes—which is why many bloggers have decided the only way to be secure expressing opinions is behind the mask of anonymity.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 20, 2011
Access is through browser, not an app.
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 20, 2011
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 19, 2011
We can't watch. Well, maybe we can. Do we have to?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 19, 2011
Inane advice for the desperate: It's everywhere.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 18, 2011
Men suffer from “post orgasmic illness syndrome” (We're not making this up.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 18, 2011
Pop star and rapper toy with media over supposed relationship.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 18, 2011
While the glut of media mumbo jumbo makes it hard to believe that in this day and age there might exist a sexually active grown female—at least one who is heterosexually oriented—who has never taken the road south to explore the ins and outs of orally gratifying a man, blowjob virgins do exist… and it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 17, 2011
“My mistress may be the sea, but the thing is ... that's just an expression.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 17, 2011
Aussie couple rescued from raging river.
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by Midori,
Jan. 17, 2011
You don’t need a gym membership to stay sexually fit. A few simple exercises, performed regularly, can boost your performance, pleasure and orgasm quality! And these routines can be done at work, on your commute, while doing chores, taking care of the kids or even while watching TV.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 17, 2011
Even sellers say that high-priced condiment is over-hyped.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 16, 2011
Game features drunken space marines seeking elf pussy.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 16, 2011
Site now earns a profit from 50,000 penises per day.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Jan. 14, 2011
... among other things. Accepting that some things about your body are beyond your control.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 14, 2011
$2M sought in lawsuit over explicit pics.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 14, 2011
PowerPoint presentation is sexy—but then, you're screwed.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 13, 2011
NASA declines comment on hypothetical Mars mission and sex.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jan. 13, 2011
For normal people, sex is an enormously pleasurable act; and then there are the scientists, for whom sex seems to be just another human behavior to scrutinize and analyze.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 13, 2011
Even some kink-friendly critics disappointed by implications of live deflowering event.
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by Bill Allen,
Jan. 13, 2011
Synopsis: Middle-aged man experiences the joys and terrors of rediscovering multiple orgasms. His own.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 13, 2011
Some LGBT sites allowed but others deemed too explicit.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 12, 2011
Local government wants to know about employee affairs.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 12, 2011
New love, mature love look the same in our brains.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 12, 2011
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 11, 2011
Founder takes financially troubled company back from shareholders.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 11, 2011
Anyone who has seen porn is familiar with the kind of orgasm that is heralded by lusty cries of: "Yes. Yes. Yes. Oh, God, Oh, God. There. Right THERE! Yes! Yes! Yes! Oh, fuck, YES! OH, FUCK ... YESSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!" But what happens when the big bang isn't... well... big?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
Tunes, like chocolate and sex, release dopamine.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jan. 10, 2011
The Whore Journals, Part 23: Saying Goodbye, Saying Hello ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
“60 Sex Tips” turn into “The Male Brain.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 07, 2011
Chemical signal in women’s tears apparently says, “Not interested.”
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by Dorian Darque,
Jan. 05, 2011
Wrapped up the psyche of satisfaction is the psychology of sex. Superior sex is only in small part physical; the rest is in the minds of you and your partner and how you perceive each other.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 05, 2011
He plays a stalker in “The Flying Pink Pig”
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by Em & Lo,
Jan. 04, 2011
When you write about sex for a living, it’s easy to get caught up in the idea that we should always be inventing a new position or discovering a new erogenous zone. But sometimes it’s good just to remind ourselves of some basics. These 15 tips never go out of style—and they’re way easier to pull off than the Wheelbarrow, too.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 04, 2011
One small request generates an outpouring of support for those in need.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 04, 2011
Sure-fire ways of bedding a pro athlete?
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 04, 2011
Size differential. She’s tiny, he’s big. It hurts. Is there hope for them?
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by Sexis Editors,
Jan. 03, 2011
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for our Special Holiday Edition: New Year's sexual resolutions—What will you be doing to improve your sex life in 2011?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 03, 2011
Self-expression and individual growth are key for happiest couples.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 03, 2011
Clowns are people in silly costumes with squeaky noses who entertain children. Klowns are people who “entertain” adults wearing the same silly outfits.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 31, 2010
The best ways to ring in the new year in the Big Apple.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 31, 2010
TSA turns down her offer to strip.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Dec. 31, 2010
Novelty condoms put the funny back in fucking. Just be mentally prepared for that initial burst of laughter when you climb into bed with your blueberry-scented schlong.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 30, 2010
Pomegranates: They’re sexy, they’re mysterious, and they’re completely impenetrable to pomegranate virgins. How the hell do you eat them, and are they worth the work? If you’re a sensual foodie, absolutely!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 30, 2010
OK City man accidentally shoots wife during sex.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 29, 2010
Taking a breath, after riding the roller coaster that was 2010 ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Cable company says it has more important things to do.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Survey says bad underwear can ruin your whole day.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Lil Jon: “The butts don’t lie.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 28, 2010
This could happen! (Oh, wait. Not really.)
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Dec. 28, 2010
Science offers clues, but doesn't have the answers—maybe because “desire” is what a woman says it is.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 28, 2010
Maybe, just maybe, you're a girl who's kissed a girl ... or wanted to. Maybe, just maybe, you wanted more than just a kiss. You're curious. Maybe you're more than curious. So what the hell do you do now?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 27, 2010
Most would rather not eat in front of their partner.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 27, 2010
Suddenly Fem says it's giving the customers what they want.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 27, 2010
Lawyer aims to empty our inboxes of dreck.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Dec. 27, 2010
BDSM is on the menu at this fund-raising event, where awareness is elevated, expectations evolve, inhibitions crumble, and sex positivity reaches a higher plateau.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 27, 2010
Students would rather get information on the Internet.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Dec. 27, 2010
The Whore Journals, Part 22: The end is at hand.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 24, 2010
Web site lets you make a greeting full of (censored)
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by Roland Hulme,
Dec. 24, 2010
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 24, 2010
Apparently, you have to watch out for this kind of thing in Ghana.
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by Twanna A. Hines,
Dec. 23, 2010
Twanna A. Hines: Sleeping Around—The FUNKY BROWN CHICK Perspective on Sexy Stuff
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 23, 2010
Kinky coach? So what, and who deserves this?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 23, 2010
We're looking for some second opinions, here ...
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by ErinORiordan,
Dec. 22, 2010
Over one billion questions answered … including “Can I sodomize you?”
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 22, 2010
Some people just like to start the New Year with a random bang.
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by Veronica Monet,
Dec. 21, 2010
Last month, we looked at how both acting out or suppressing anger can lead to angry sex or no sex at all. Today we delve into anger management. By learning to channel "darker" emotions in a positive way, you can actually boost intimacy and sexual response.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 21, 2010
Company pulls erotic service section from web sites.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 21, 2010
Modern relationships can be complicated. Sometimes when things don’t work out, it’s not always a simple matter of just being able to walk away. What happens when love dies and your sex life seems over, but you’re stuck in a situation you can’t leave?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 20, 2010
Can they do that? Perhaps.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 20, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Readers' choice. Whatever tickles your fancy, floats your boat or otherwise gets you off...
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 20, 2010
What happens when society at large takes a fancy to your fetish, without any real idea what it's about?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 20, 2010
Ah, that sweet sound of warplanes at night ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 20, 2010
Company says Xbox will stay “family friendly”
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by Midori,
Dec. 20, 2010
Study hard, unless you want us to tataku you with a shokushu.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 17, 2010
Clever idea, and we're so glad it wasn't one of ours.
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by Alan & Michele,
Dec. 17, 2010
Ever hear that phrase: “Can’t find your arse with both hands and a flashlight?” That may be true for some folks, but if they’re looking for the clitoris, the Extase Liberte has both a light and a user-friendly design that will help even the uneducated find their way.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 17, 2010
If you haven't gotten sex advice from Chip Womack, you can't really say that you've heard it all.
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by Cole Riley,
Dec. 16, 2010
Toni Bentley is, among other things, a sensualist. A purring, sexual tigress, who does not withhold her claws, Bentley loves to take it in the ass—and has found an enduring erotic ecstasy in being a bottom.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 16, 2010
Company apologizes for embarrassing glitch with images.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 16, 2010
Electronic fondling system is up and running.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 16, 2010
Emma Stone workout triggers asthma attack, Golden Globe nomination.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 15, 2010
Documentary filmmaker explores complex marital relations in the Land of the Pharaohs.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 15, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 14, 2010
Over-the-counter/online libido enhancer reportedly isn't all herbal.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 14, 2010
We've all heard the math jokes: 20 goes into 60 a lot more times than 60 goes into 20, but for couples who are dealing with a sizable age disparity, the day to day realities—from functionality to family or peer pressures—can be daunting.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: When I was younger, I would have been so much happier with sex, if only I had known... what?
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by Lori Selke,
Dec. 13, 2010
Landmark San Francisco organization faces challenges due to its hands-on nature and pansexual audience.
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 13, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Dec. 13, 2010
The Whore Journals, Part 21: Every Client Has His Kink
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 10, 2010
Nina Hartley is a lot of things to a lot of people: A pioneering porn star who made the crossover to mainstream films; a wife, a nurse, a sex positive feminist and a champion of free speech. For the last year, SexIs has been bolstered by her regular contributions each week with the thoughtful advice she provides in Tuesdays With Nina.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 10, 2010
Somehow, we think there's going to be a long line ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 09, 2010
Sea World says Mötley Crüe drummer is off his rocker.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 09, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 09, 2010
(This probably works for well-adjusted singles, too.)
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by Mona Fox,
Dec. 08, 2010
I’ve already told you about the purple stripes that crisscrossed my backside after my first flogging. They were thick and wide as the suede strips of the flogger, and concentrated on the roundest part of my ass.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 07, 2010
Why wait for the DVD? We couldn't.
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by Em & Lo,
Dec. 07, 2010
If you want to start eating healthy, you know that changing your relationship to food is more effective than a crash diet. The same is true with your sex life.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 07, 2010
More than half of those surveyed enjoy sex in their 70s and beyond.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 07, 2010
Nina Hartley is a lot of things to a lot of people: A pioneering porn star who made the crossover to mainstream films; a wife, a nurse, a sex positive feminist and a champion of free speech. For the last year, SexIs has been bolstered by her regular contributions each week with the thoughtful advice she provides in Tuesdays With Nina.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 06, 2010
Say it ain't so ... Moe?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Dec. 06, 2010
Einstein’s definition of insanity was doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. Applying the same principle to your love life is a proven method to madness.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 06, 2010
MPAA accused of double standard (again).
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by Midori,
Dec. 06, 2010
In Japan, petting pussy has its price ... and can be both decadent and tame.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 03, 2010
Lingerie company models sing carols, or anything you want ...
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 01, 2010
When my editor asked me to write about AIDS in conjunction with World AIDS Day (today, December 1st), I will admit, I panicked a bit. It would be a lot easier for me to write about this topic if I could tell you that I get tested regularly, that I’m extremely careful about my safer sex practices, but that wouldn’t be the truth.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 30, 2010
Poll shows most Americans in favor of allowing LGBT to serve in military.
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 30, 2010
Skin on skin... What could be better, right? Arguably, nothing, but sometimes the jimmy needs to wear a hat. Condoms may decrease sensitivity, however in the course of lovemaking they are often necessary. So what do you do if your man does not want to wear one?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 29, 2010
Keyes, Gaga, Timberlake to cut social networking until $1M goal is reached.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 29, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 26, 2010
Marketers want to erase the stigma of sexual aids for men.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 25, 2010
You'd think there isn't much sexy about turkeys and Pilgrims, but you'd be wrong.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 24, 2010
The human appetite is a curious thing. For those with a fetish for cannibalism, the term, "Eat me," carries heady connotations. Keeping in the holiday spirit, as part of the Appetites Project, we offer up a very different kind of Thanksgiving feast. Bon(e) Appetit!
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 24, 2010
Drug, when taken regularly, substantially reduces risk of infection—at a price.
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by Veronica Monet,
Nov. 23, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 23, 2010
Sex should be one of the most natural things in the world, but when medication becomes part of the equation, sometimes, it doesn't come so easily—particularly the “cumming” part...and especially for women.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 22, 2010
For some, third base is a handjob. For others, it’s knife play and Velcro sheets. Regardless of where your line is, you know you’ve thought about crossing it. To those bold enough to step over, I raise my sugar cone in salute.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 22, 2010
Pontiff, in new book, says that prophylactics may be permissible (under the narrowest of circumstances.)
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by Alan & Michele,
Nov. 19, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 18, 2010
Hefner's channel hopes to attract more female viewers, maybe even couples.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 16, 2010
A third of women taking sugar pills report improvement in their sex lives.
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 16, 2010
If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, does it make a sound? If a man has only had sex that he's paid for, does it still count? The answer to the first question is yes.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 15, 2010
I am surrounded by male energy. To be clear: I am surrounded by hot guys, lubed up in skimpy rubber outfits. It’s the 14th annual Mr. International Rubber (MIR), a skin-tight fetish event in Chicago, that draws rubber-boys from all over the world.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 15, 2010
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by Nikol Hasler,
Nov. 12, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 10, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 09, 2010
Women have been told that they reach the top rung of the sexual ladder later than men do, but what does that really mean? Is it possible to quantify the female libido chronologically?
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 08, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: “The kink that (almost) got away.”
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by Lady J,
Nov. 08, 2010
When you're trying to have a baby, you can take all your “preconceived” notions about the birds and the bees... and toss them out the window.
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by Midori,
Nov. 08, 2010
Non-profit Danish kink association is public spirited, tolerant ... and all about the fun.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 03, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Nov. 03, 2010
(Editor's Note: Yes, we are aware that it's Wednesday. What can we say? Gremlins... and the irony that the column is about penis size, and we “couldn't get it up” did not escape us.)
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by Em & Lo,
Nov. 02, 2010
We hope we don’t need to point out that just one orgasm, for one partner, is not the finishing tape of a sex run. Instead, think of sex as a three-legged race—your partner can neither compete nor cross the finish line without your help, and vice versa. Each partner should make a concerted effort to satisfy the other partner before throwing in the towel.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 01, 2010
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by Dorian Darque,
Oct. 29, 2010
Have you ever walked alone into a darkened room and got that anxious, foreboding feeling something shouldn’t be there; something in the shifting shadows just out of sight, something with unknown motive and malevolent intent? Or does imagination just get the better of us sometimes?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 28, 2010
Steak is a no-brainer. We all know of it as a decadent food, but how do you make a truly sexy steak? And if your honey is vegetarian, what then? Let’s talk about meat, baby. What’s on your plate (veggie or otherwise) can make a difference to what happens in your bed!
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by The Bloggess,
Oct. 28, 2010
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by Mona Fox,
Oct. 27, 2010
When you take kink, not just to the next level, but to the next life—or even outer space—the paranormal erotica that emerges can have a startling effect on your sex life. In a good way!
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 27, 2010
Rub a little on your belly, thighs, arms or shoulders ... it may be the next thing in birth control.
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 26, 2010
"The course of true love never did run smooth," Shakespeare once sagely said, but for the young man who is seeking advice today, the booty train has spotty service at best, and might be headed for derailment. Can Nina help him get his love life back on track?
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by Rydell Johnson,
Oct. 25, 2010
Or come as you really are. Or come as a massive vagina. It doesn’t really matter, and that’s what makes Halloween so great.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 25, 2010
Same-sex competitor says: “This is the most natural thing to do.”
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by Midori,
Oct. 25, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 22, 2010
The Internet domain sex.com changes hands yet again, for $13 million.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Oct. 22, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 20, 2010
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 19, 2010
For once, I’m not writing about getting laid. Kinda.
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 19, 2010
It seems simple: Tips for exploring the wonderful land of sex. But sex is a country that has many destinations worth exploring as well as rules of road, local customs and attractions. Do you feel like a stranger in a strange land? Not sure what to bring along; what to leave behind? Or how to get to the top of the local monuments? Let Nina be your guide.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 18, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Oct. 18, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Oct. 14, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 12, 2010
Last week, we met a young woman who was new to marriage and new to sex. Due to a conservative background, she has yet to spend a lot of time exploring her sexuality and the things that please her. She wants to grow the intimate relationship she has with her husband, and has come to Nina for advice.
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by Midori,
Oct. 11, 2010
You’ve heard about kinky weekend events, haven’t you? Maybe it was someone’s elated Facebook post, or that friend who breathlessly told tales of her wild, naughty adventures? Perhaps you’d read a local newspaper article decrying the shocking and amoral activities, full of scantily clad women with whips and chains, happening down at a local convention center. You want to go, don’t you?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2010
For the past three years, Apple’s iPod Touch has been the company’s biggest success with consumers under 18. Now that the device’s newest upgrades include the same video chat feature in the iPhone that was immediately adopted by the phone sex industry, what does this mean for the “kid-friendly” entry in the Apple empire—and for the ubiquitousness of tech and sex, no matter what your age?
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by The Bloggess,
Oct. 07, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Oct. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 06, 2010
High court to address latest in long line of free speech cases: Is Westboro Church over the line?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 06, 2010
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by Em & Lo,
Oct. 05, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 05, 2010
Adam and Eve were tossed out of the Garden of Eden for taking a bite out of the apple that fell from the Tree of Knowledge. Trouble was, and still is, that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, especially when it comes to sex. So what do you do when you've been raised in a conservative environment and have not been exposed to deeper learning about the carnal world? Ask Nina, of course!
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Oct. 04, 2010
It's all in a day's work.
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by Veronica Monet,
Sep. 28, 2010
Today we welcome Veronica Monet to the SexIs crew. If you just don’t get the opposite sex, don't worry. You CAN learn to understand your partner. Whether you’re straight or gay, vanilla or kinky, monogamous or poly, Monet says we all have something to learn about “cross-cultural fertilization.” Life’s a journey. Let our expert tour guide help you make the most of your travels in Libido Territory.
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 28, 2010
Being treated for bipolar disorder or other medical conditions can complicate your sex life. Drugs can have an impact on your libido in ways that make it less responsive, or knock it out altogether. So, do you give up sex entirely, or are there solutions for improving the quality of your sex life?
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by Sexis Editors,
Sep. 27, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: The soundtrack of your sex life.
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by Midori,
Sep. 27, 2010
Welcome to Wicked Grounds—America’s singular adults-only kinky café. It also happens to be my one of my top two favorite cafés in San Francisco. You’ll often find me there, writing or hanging out with other sexy freaks. The coffee’s superb, Wi-Fi’s free, no children are allowed (except those adults enjoying age play), and I can say and do most anything. What’s not to love?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 23, 2010
What’s fueling your next naughty romp? If you’ve ever tried to get down with an empty stomach or felt frisky after a heavy meal, you know that the state of your stomach has a lot to do with the success of your sex. How do you make sure that you have enough fuel for a night of mattress marathons without getting sidelined by the need to digest?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 22, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 21, 2010
You can climax with a vibrator—alone in your bedroom, just you and your fantastical thoughts—no problem. But slide into bed with another human being and all bets are off?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 20, 2010
White power. Black power. Power to the people. Exceptionally potent phrases, all.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 20, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 14, 2010
Anal-oral sex, analingus or rimming. No matter what you call it, some find putting tongue to anus a very pleasurable experience.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 13, 2010
In the first installment of this interview, we met up with Molly Ren, who has a very special relationship with food as it relates to sex. While many foods are known to function as aphrodisiacs, for Ren and others who share this fetish, it is the act of eating and feeding, rather than the food itself, that leads to the ultimate gratification.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 13, 2010
A survey commissioned by an unnamed pharmaceutical company is trying to debunk the idea that the French are the best lovers in the world—by pointing out Parisians’ “miserable” sex lives.
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by Midori,
Sep. 13, 2010
If you’re from south of the border—the Canadian border, that is—and have never visited Toronto, you’re missing out on a lot of fun...both vanilla and kinky.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 09, 2010
In another sordid turn of Britney Spears’ personal life drama, a security guard under her employ is taking her to court for allegedly harassing him in a sexual manner.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 09, 2010
It’s easy to make healthy choices about dildos today. Whether you’re concerned about the phthalates in rubber, have a latex allergy, or want a toy you can throw in the dishwasher between partners, there’s something on the market for you. It wasn’t always so, though; the technology behind safe and healthy dildos has come a long way.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Sep. 08, 2010
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by Em & Lo,
Sep. 07, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 07, 2010
Imagine that the love of your life, your spouse, your husband... tells you he wants to be a woman. What does a couple do when one of them needs to transition from male to female and the other is not attracted to women?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 06, 2010
Thousands of Americans across the nation are enjoying the extended weekend to rest, travel, reflect—or job hunt—but, according to one dubious “news” source, today’s a great day to just lie around and have sex.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 06, 2010
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by Lady J,
Sep. 03, 2010
The sea of online love is vast, and there are a lot of fish in the ocean. If you don't want to wind up looking like a bottom feeder, you have to have to dangle the right bait. So, put away those night crawlers and read on.
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by Elizabeth Black,
Sep. 01, 2010
When it comes to sex therapy, pretty much anyone with an opinion can hang out a shingle and call themselves an “expert,” but how do you separate the spin doctors from the real deal? In the days ahead, SexIs will be speaking to some of the most respected “sexperts” in the field to separate pros from the poseurs—and get the skinny on how to have great sex.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 31, 2010
Last week, we launched The Appetites Project with Liz Langley's feature, “I Eat, Therefore, I Am.” In this installment of the SexIs feederism series, The Beautiful Kind talks one-on-one with a practitioner of the fetish, Molly Ren.
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 31, 2010
When a man has trouble getting it up and keeping it up, there can be any number of reasons. Nina takes a look at some of the causes—physical and mental—for men who can't achieve or maintain an erection.
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by ErinORiordan,
Aug. 27, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 26, 2010
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Then again, innovation is always propelling us forward into realities we couldn’t possibly have imagined. The concept of orgasm on demand has been around for a long time, but how close are we to that reality?
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 24, 2010
The intimate lives of those with a disability or debilitating disease is not something people typically talk about openly, but of course, the challenges these men and women—and their partners—face when seeking sexual satisfaction can be more daunting than most. Today, Nina talks about the realities of making love with a disabled partner.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2010
Most of us have some kind of issues involving food and many are forever trying to lose weight thinking it will help achieve sexiness, so there’s probably nothing more socially subversive you could do in America in 2010 than to gain weight on purpose.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 23, 2010
Ho, ho... oh, no....
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by Liz NuMe,
Aug. 19, 2010
Whether it’s the first flicker of sexual attraction, or deep in the throws of passion, it’s a good bet that when you’re in the moment, you’re not worrying about the chemistry of desire.
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by The Bloggess,
Aug. 19, 2010
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by Mona Fox,
Aug. 18, 2010
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by Lori Selke,
Aug. 17, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 17, 2010
Everybody deserves love, but the reality is that not everybody finds it. Sometimes, it's insufficient social skills, sometimes it's the aftereffects of a traumatic childhood, but whatever the circumstances, there will always be people who just can't connect with others for romantic intimacy.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 11, 2010
iPhone users have more sex—at least, that’s the bottom line of a highly technical and quantifiable statistical project published on the web yesterday by…OKCupid?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 09, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 06, 2010
“The female blogger is one of the most powerful communicators in social media today.”
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by The Bloggess,
Aug. 05, 2010
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by Em & Lo,
Aug. 03, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 03, 2010
A Indian man, deeply dedicated to his wife, has written to Nina to ask if it's normal for him to be masturbating when his wife is gone for a few days. Nina addresses his concerns, and also offers food for thought on how masturbation can be use to improve sex between husband and wife.
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by Jeff Schult,
Aug. 02, 2010
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by Sam Benjamin,
Jul. 30, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 29, 2010
Oh, technology. You bring us fabulous new discoveries, connect us with humans across the globe, and make sex scandals much, much juicier. What once were salacious accusations without evidence are now proven indiscretions displayed in excruciating detail, thanks to the way technology has insinuated itself into our most intimate moments. How do you keep your naughty bits out of technology's bytes?
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by The Bloggess,
Jul. 29, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jul. 28, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 27, 2010
You know your friends are kinky, but when they show up with bruises, do you fear they are being abused? Does it seem strange, worrisome or flat out wrong to you that some people enjoy pain during sex?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jul. 26, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 23, 2010
All those billions of dollars spent on HIV research have yielded results, as scientists have now identified three new antibodies that neutralize 91 percent of HIV strains.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jul. 22, 2010
They say you never forget your first: That initial surge of blood as your heart begins to hammer, those small moans of pleasure, your mouth actually watering as your lips embrace the object of your desire.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jul. 20, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 20, 2010
This week, Nina tackles the myth, the legend, the ultimate in oral sex positions: 69. You might be surprised to learn that not everybody finds it to be a magic number. Nina offers her ideas on how to improve your dual-oral adventures, and shares some insights from a viewer who was inspired to write in about his own experiences as a 58-year-old man dating a 72-year-old woman.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 19, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Dénouement.
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by Midori,
Jul. 19, 2010
Where is the sexiest city? Do images of lovers cavorting on beaches, romantic walks along quaint cobblestone paths or luxurious hide-away hotels come to mind? If you think “the sexiest city” is an easy question to answer, your buying the hype of travel advertising.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 15, 2010
Technology is widely touted as the anti-censor, opening up realms of knowledge from the mundane to the sublime to all people with unlimited access. But all Internet connections are not created equal, and the controversy over sexual materials has only intensified on the digital stage. From iPhones to censorwalls, the battle over freedom of information rages on.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 14, 2010
Dita Von Teese is coaxing audiences into a very sexy Perrier fixation, thanks to a viral video marketing the brand.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 13, 2010
This week, Nina tackles the concerns of a woman diagnosed with hypothyroidism and her resulting inability to achieve orgasm. People with this condition often have a reduced libido and diminished ability to climax—which can be distressing to both you and your partner. Nina has consulted sex expert, Dr. Robert Lawrence, for tips on how to cope with a thyroid that's putting a damper on your sex life.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jul. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 08, 2010
Recent studies have discovered that those taking medications to combat erectile dysfunction have higher risk-taking behavior during sex, and are therefore twice as likely to contract a sexually transmitted disease.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 06, 2010
During a House of Commons debate on improving government transparency, it came out that a London hospital had loaned out one of its wards for the filming of a pornographic movie.
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by Em & Lo,
Jul. 06, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 06, 2010
You know the old saying: “Do the curtains match the carpet?” What if your drapes and rug aren't alike, but you'd like them to be? Or what if you kinda hate that “matchy-matchy” look, and would rather get a little crazy with the color down below? This Tuesday, we’re dedicated to the DIY of dying your pubes, and Nina’s got the must-know tips and safety information you’ll need before getting started.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 05, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Simultaneous Sexual Combustion.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 05, 2010
It was only a matter of time before the sizzling sexploits of accused Russian agent Anna Chapman—a.k.a. Anya Kushcenko—became fodder for tabloid fare.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 05, 2010
If there’s anything that can rival the intoxication of nude bodies grinding together in a rush of passion, it’s bodies that were so wild with desire they didn’t have time to get nude.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Jul. 02, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jun. 30, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 29, 2010
She's 21, he's 55. She's new to the game and he’s been around the block a time—or 10.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 28, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: What is the taste of a woman that's most enticing to your tongue?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jun. 28, 2010
For a sexual position that so majestically mirrors the harmonious Yin-Yang, the 69 sure stirs discord between the sexes.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jun. 28, 2010
It's not so much the words as the meaning behind them.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 22, 2010
You ache for your partner to be more adventurous in the bedroom, but they just don't seem willing to stretch the boundaries. Or maybe YOU want to explore your inner exhibitionist, but you can't quite take that first step. Whether it's apprehension, agitation or anxiety holding you back, Nina's got some advice that just might bring out that sense of adventure—in either, or both of you!
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 21, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: The Flavor of man is like...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 21, 2010
Yankee General Manager Brian Cashman has gone on record absolving Lady Gaga for any wrongdoing after she entered the Yankee clubhouse this weekend... wearing no pants.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 17, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Jun. 17, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 16, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 14, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: "You taste like..."
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 14, 2010
A dozen years have passed since a curvy intern and the President of the United States launched an infamous sex scandal that left a mark infinitely more indelible on our culture than a telltale DNA stain on a blue dress.
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by The Bloggess,
Jun. 10, 2010
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 09, 2010
Sexis debuts The Man Project with an opening salvo from relationship expert, Michael Alvear, and learns that the true test of a man is about much more than the level of his testosterone.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 08, 2010
Nina discusses an email from a viewer who has questions—many, many questions.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 07, 2010
June is a month that honors many things. Among its most delightful designations: Oral Sex Month. In honor of this fine tradition, in the coming weeks, our Naked Reader selections will be consumed with all things oral, sensual and pleasurable.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 07, 2010
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by Rydell Johnson,
Jun. 04, 2010
Professional sexy photo shoots for “regular” gals have gone mainstream. The resulting images make gift giving easy, but what’s really in it for you? Well, as the author’s wife says, “Hanging out in my lingerie all day was pretty damn nice.”
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 02, 2010
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by Em & Lo,
Jun. 01, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 01, 2010
Sometimes, "aural sex" can be really hot, but how do you know what to say, and when to say it? How do you keep from cracking up? Learning the language of love can be difficult, but it's also dirty and fun. Just ask Nina.
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by Sexis Editors,
May. 31, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: "I want you, but I can't tell you."
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 31, 2010
Pussy worship and the eyes of a wolf. Growl!
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by Dorian Darque,
May. 28, 2010
There may be nothing you can legally do with your body more exciting and sensual than grabbing your partner and jumping on a motorcycle, at least in public. No other human experience heightens the senses and ignites instincts like climbing atop a great chuffing beast and heading out on the highway.
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by Liz Langley,
May. 26, 2010
Like certain other physical activities—surfing, yoga, running—belly dance more than just exercise; it becomes a way of life for some people—a way of carrying yourself, enjoying your body and moving proudly and sensually through the world.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 25, 2010
This week, Nina's taking on mutual masturbation. The timing is perfect, since May is Masturbation Month! How do you step out of your comfort zone and invite your partner to share in pleasures you previously kept to yourself?
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by Sexis Editors,
May. 24, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: The Unknown
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by Midori,
May. 24, 2010
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 21, 2010
First date: coffee or dinner and a movie. Second date: things begin to warm up. While traditionally the third date is "the one we do it," sometimes second dates are all it takes...
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 19, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 18, 2010
When explaining to a young friend the merits of taking older women as lovers, Ben Franklin once remarked, "In the dark, all cats are grey."
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 17, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 17, 2010
Musings on sex and Las Vegas Amusements...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 14, 2010
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by Johnny Murdoc,
May. 14, 2010
The Internet has done what all great tools of communication do: fundamentally transformed the way we interact with one another—and that’s just as true of our discussion about sex as it is anything else. The games we play haven’t changed, but how we play them has.
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by Monica Shores,
May. 13, 2010
Things that look human but aren’t, are creepy. Or loveable, depending on your capacity for anthromorphism. Or beautiful, depending on your aesthetic. Or perhaps a bit of all three at once, which explains the American public’s conflicted fascination with life-sized sex dolls and even the first impressions of doll users themselves.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 12, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
May. 12, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
May. 11, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner up and the outstanding entries for last week's topic: Solo Sex. How tweet it is!
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 11, 2010
When it's good, it can be really good. But when it's bad, it can be a deal breaker.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 10, 2010
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by Forbidden Light,
May. 10, 2010
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 07, 2010
A recent story in the UK’s Telegraph reports that Facebook is cited in roughly one in five of the country’s online divorce petitions, but millions of avid users swear the reconnections are mostly harmless fun. Have these quantum leaps forward in technology created a society addicted to its past?
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 06, 2010
Technology and porn have always been butt buddies, but the most prudish mobile device out there is the one in everyone’s pocket. The iPhone acts like your paranoid Aunt Marge when it comes to sexy apps, even though its own browser puts the World Wide Wank at your fingertips. How did we get here, and what does it mean for the future of digital sex?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 04, 2010
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by Em & Lo,
May. 04, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 04, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 03, 2010
The lawyer, the peach eater and a date for coffee…
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by Liz Langley,
May. 03, 2010
It might be a graceful phrase from Anais Nin or Pat Califia, sought out or stumbled on, but as with any sexual attraction, once it chooses you, your heartbeat quickens, you’re aware of your breathing, and you become a bit stupid with horniness. That’s what reading erotica does to you—at least good erotica.
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 27, 2010
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by Alisa Bowman,
Apr. 26, 2010
Is that a sex toy in your pants, or are you just glad to see me?
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by G.L. Morrison,
Apr. 26, 2010
When the rules of society overrun the path to sexual satisfaction, sometimes, the only way to get back on track is with a little—or a lot—of hands-on help.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Apr. 22, 2010
With all the mainstream exposure, has Chatroulette remained the edgy, dangerous place we first heard about?
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 20, 2010
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by Rydell Johnson,
Apr. 19, 2010
In fiction, you get to push the envelope—and whether that's testing the waters of polyamory or having an affair—the chickens don't come home to roost in real life. That's what happens when art imitates life, but when life imitates art? That is an entirely different thing altogether.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Apr. 19, 2010
It's my very first professional sex for pay encounter, and I'm having a strange sense of déjà vu. Guess you never know how small the world is... until you meet your first client.
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by Monica Shores,
Apr. 16, 2010
A look at women who pay for their pleasure, and the sex workers who satisfy their cravings.
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 13, 2010
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by Dr Dick,
Apr. 12, 2010
Many women prefer oral sex to intercourse, because it has the potential to give them exceptional orgasms. And for those of you who need loads of direct clit contact to get off, mouth-to-clit stimulation is one of the easiest, most enjoyable ways to get make that happen.
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by Forbidden Light,
Apr. 07, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 06, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Apr. 01, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 30, 2010
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by Dr Dick,
Mar. 29, 2010
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by Yvette Safire,
Mar. 23, 2010
One definition of insanity is trying the same thing and expecting different results. The years that I’ve been sexually active have been great, but leave something to be desired. I’ve been getting it in, but I haven’t been getting off. Simply put: I have never experienced climax as a result of intercourse.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 23, 2010
So, you've got your period, you want to have sex but you aren't crazy about the mess? There are options for those who don't want to give up sex for a week just because Aunt Flo's town. This week, Nina talks about ideas on how prevent the mess while enjoying sex on your period.
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by Elly Lonon,
Mar. 22, 2010
At 31, she was diagnosed with Primary Mediastinal Large B Cell (Non Hodgkin’s) Lymphoma. Described at times as “diffuse” and “aggressive,” this cancer targets white chicks in their early thirties. Now, 16 months into remission, the author looks back on her road to wellness, including some sexual detours along the way.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Mar. 22, 2010
It’s all well and good to decide to become a paid sex worker, but going from theory to practice can be a lot more complicated than you might imagine.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Mar. 19, 2010
It’s a safe bet to say that the anus is the most disowned area of most people’s bodies. To say that the anus and anal sex are taboo does not begin to capture how personally directed the fear and disgust of the anus is.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 16, 2010
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by Dr Dick,
Mar. 15, 2010
In the last installment of my series on male masturbation, we discussed problematic masturbation styles—how they can get in the way of satisfying partnered sex, and offered a surefire way to resolve these problems. This time around, I’d like to offer suggestions on how men can use different styles of masturbation to overcome certain dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation.
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by Morgan,
Mar. 12, 2010
When you’ve spent most of your life fighting to be taken seriously as a woman, it can be extraordinarily grating to discover that you want to call any man “sir.” This, then, is the plight of the feminist sexual submissive—how do you maintain your identity as a strong, intelligent, independent woman when you also get off on letting people push you around?
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Mar. 10, 2010
In her witty, tongue-in-cheek tale, Cutting Up Playgirl: A Memoir of Sexual Disappointment, author Carrie Jones chronicles a life without orgasms and her quest for the ever-elusive climax to her story.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 09, 2010
Great sex is easy... when you're Nina Hartley, but even Nina says there's a lot to be learned from reading. This week, Nina tells us which books are essential to educating your libido.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Mar. 09, 2010
On the 115th anniversary of his death, we still have much to learn about sex, power and the true nature of love from the man for whom the term “masochism” was invented.
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by Alisa Bowman,
Mar. 08, 2010
UTIs (Urinary Tract Infections) are not “teh sexay”—to some, they are the TMI of sex; but nonetheless they are a fact of life. But when they start showing up more frequently than syndicated episodes of Seinfeld, there has to be a solution.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Mar. 08, 2010
She was smart, attractive, unemployed…and good in bed. Fed up with getting screwed by the corporate world, she decided to take destiny in her own hands, have sex on her own terms, and put a new twist on the world’s oldest profession.
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by Forbidden Light,
Mar. 03, 2010
In every city, hundreds of beautiful men and women are including sexual activity into their massage practice. Alternatively, could it be that they are involving massage in their sex work? Nudity, mutual touch and sexual stimulation are becoming common complementary features to therapeutic touch…. There’s always been a thin line between massage parlors and cathouses—if any distinction at all.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 02, 2010
When you're raised in a very conservative environment, it often throws a monkey wrench into your sex life. Thankfully, you can overcome early sex-negative training and learn to embrace a robust means of healthy sexual expression.
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by Liz Langley,
Mar. 01, 2010
Today, women take contraception for granted. Many even consider having to take a daily dose a chore. In response, a proliferation of once-monthly, and even once-quarterly forms of birth control have flooded the marketplace … but it wasn’t so long ago that sex minus fertility wasn’t an option—even if you were married. How the introduction of one little pill changed the modern world.
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by Dr Dick,
Mar. 01, 2010
For some men, this freelance sexual investigation can, and often does, produce some very interesting, unique and even downright strange styles of self-pleasuring, that sadly, often do not lend themselves to partnered sex. But according to Dr. Dick, with proper motivation and some focused redirection, men can learn to climax with a lover as well as on their own.
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by ErinORiordan,
Feb. 26, 2010
Lesbian? Gay? Bi-curious? Straight. Sexual identification isn’t always etched in stone. Sometimes, you can’t tell who the players are, even when you have the scorecard.
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by The Bloggess,
Feb. 25, 2010
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by Yvette Safire,
Feb. 23, 2010
You could say skin holds a certain magic that’s frightened us and attracted us since forever, right from the very beginning.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 23, 2010
Who is responsible for you having a happy sex life? Hint: It's not your partner. Nina explains that without a healthy emotional state, good communication, and mutual respect for one another, no amount of bedroom acrobatics will save a bad sex life.
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by Zoeyjane,
Feb. 22, 2010
Who knew that one little pill daily—a mere 20 milligrams of the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI) Paxil—would cause my entire world to come crashing down?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Feb. 22, 2010
Not every woman in their late 30s can say they devirginized four men in one year. I can. Over the course of several months, I spent intimate time with four adult male virgins, from 24 to 38 years of age. Two had overwhelmingly positive outcomes, and two did not.
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by Ymagine,
Feb. 19, 2010
Women love men. Men love porn. While some wives hate their hubby’s smut habit, others have learned to embrace it… with some very satisfying results.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 17, 2010
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 16, 2010
And why shouldn’t they? Haven’t they earned it, for Pete’s sake? And if nothing else, the prospect of aging does seems far more tolerable if oral’s still on the table.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 16, 2010
When you're in bed, how often do you find yourself saying "no" to something that might actually be pleasing? A little too often? Find out why Nina says learning to give, accept and offer permission is the path to embracing your true potential, and unlocking the pathway to untold sexual pleasures.
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by Lady J,
Feb. 15, 2010
Scientists do many things in the name of progress. They seek cures for diseases; explore the nature of the universe, and the universe of nature. But sometimes, their findings can be flawed, faulty—or downright eff’d up. In other words: Put back that planet, and take your paws off my G-Spot!
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by Dr Dick,
Feb. 15, 2010
When it comes to producing natural lubrication, no two women are exactly alike. And since lubrication is essential during sex—no matter how aroused you are—it’s more than a good idea to have a bottle nearby.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Feb. 11, 2010
Unsatisfied with the fare dished out by mainstream media, many gay voices are seeking out and creating their own vehicles of self-expression—and in the process, re-inventing print in their own image.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 10, 2010
CBT: It all makes sense until that last letter. Cock and ball...torture? Really? If you were raised on “guy gets smacked in the junk” clips on America's Funniest Home Videos, or if you possess junk that prefers a little tenderness to the crotch equivalent of Fight Club, this one might take a little explaining.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Feb. 09, 2010
To hell with the young ones that don’t know their G-spot from their clit, or who think that perky tits and a flat tummy are the keys to getting a date. Give me a little of that Cougar spirit!
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 09, 2010
This week, Nina takes on two very different questions. First, she tackles the issue of clit sensitivity. Does it diminish as we age? Can a clit piercing enhance pleasure? Next, a considerate young man wants to please his lover, but is worried that he's climaxing too fast. Find out why Nina says: "There's no such thing as coming to soon."
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by G.L. Morrison,
Feb. 08, 2010
My lover made up a modern proverb: “A woman who loves her belly loves her body.” I don’t think it will catch on. It’s true that women, particularly modern women in Western culture, have a love-hate (or even a hate-hate) relationship with their bellies. Why? What did that sweet bump of skin (located as it is under the two much glamorized and beloved fat-bags) do to deserve such scorn?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Feb. 08, 2010
Did you know that the average woman takes about 20 minutes to achieve orgasm? The majority of men, on the other hand, don’t have a problem coming in 5 minutes. If a woman can orgasm during intercourse (though not all do), she’s going to require more time than most men need. Basically, a woman’s orgasm is like a symphony, whereas, a man’s is more like a rock song.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 03, 2010
Leather has a well-established niche in gay history. A look at the macho pioneers—from military men to bikers and artists—who shaped leather culture as we know it today.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Feb. 02, 2010
For more than five years, my working life revolved around framing acts of public copulation. I’ve pushed cameras and microphones into dwellings no machines should ever go. I’ve been granted a front-row seat to scenes of startling intimacy. I’ve helped pick up thousands of used baby-wipes. And somewhere along the line, I learned a lot about how men and women perceive each other.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 02, 2010
This week, Nina discusses some of the better sex advice books available, from Tristan Taormino to Carol Queen, and even Nina herself! She also gives a few tips on how to enjoy a rewarding sex life with a partner with MS.
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by Dr Dick,
Feb. 01, 2010
Nowadays, body piercings are all the rage. And, as we all know, some fellas can’t stop with just a few—which can lead to some humorous predicaments when being wanded by airport security. While I firmly believe in the right of every man to augment, embellish, or in any other way customize his equipment, it’s a personal decision. If it makes you happy, go for it. If it ain’t for you, just say NO.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Jan. 28, 2010
Snip-snip, the Big V, or voluntary sterilization. No matter how you slice it (good one, right?), a vasectomy is a major decision. Fortunately, it’s a minor procedure—and a great excuse to spend the weekend on the couch.
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by Citi Kittie,
Jan. 27, 2010
All the pick-up guides I read (and I read a lot) focus on small talk. What to say, how to say it, how much to say, how little to reveal. But sometimes it’s easier to say nothing at all. Sometimes the best way to meet people is to leave language aside and just bark, mew, whimper, or pant. *Sniff, sniff*
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by Elizabeth,
Jan. 27, 2010
Compared to heterosexual sex or sex between men, sex between women is generally a lower-risk activity. It isn’t however, a no-risk activity.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 26, 2010
Today, Nina talks about how to conquer the Cowgirl position—or, to be more precise, how to do the “butt shimmy"—in a way that will make everybody happy!
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by Alisa Bowman,
Jan. 25, 2010
As a happily married woman who had spent a considerable amount of time learning how to do a striptease, I figured it was high time to go see the real thing. Yes, Virginia—it’s time to find out what really goes on at the strip club!
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jan. 25, 2010
Big budgets, top names and sleek production values aside, in its never ending quest to be hot, hotter, hottest, traditional adult movies have become predictable, thus leaving the door wide open for a new breed of amateur auteurs to infiltrate the market with reality-based fare many viewers say they can’t get enough of.
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by Yvette Safire,
Jan. 21, 2010
In Gilda (1946), Rita Hayworth slowly peeled off a single elbow-length black glove to evoke all the magic and sensuality of the striptease, to the delight of viewers and the press. Roughly sixty years later, hardcore pornography lurks in every corner of our Web browsers. But are our lightning-fast Internet connections really helping us do sex better, faster, and more efficiently?
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jan. 20, 2010
Fight Club. Rugby. MMA. Let’s face it—we live in a society where it’s okay to be physically combative in a competition for superiority. But what happens when the fighting takes on an overtly kinky overtone? You’ve got what some refer to as Rough Body Play, or “Thug Play”—an old fashioned beatdown, not to the death, but until someone gets tired or cries “uncle.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 20, 2010
If you've ever filled out a BDSM checklist, chances are you've seen a question about whether you enjoy “serving as furniture.” Or you might have run across someone who gets hot when referred to as “it.” What's the allure of objectification? Let's take an objective (sorry) look at this very stationary fetish.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 19, 2010
Today, Nina dishes on the biggest sexual organ of all...the brain!
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Jan. 18, 2010
When I moved in with my partner, I did something unthinkable: I stopped masturbating. Though we’d been sexually active before we moved in together, but I still masturbated occasionally, and, at 21, I needed to orgasm more than once a week. Still, I felt bad when I did it—almost like it was a betrayal of our relationship, and I promised myself that I’d stop when we moved in together.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jan. 15, 2010
On a 1 to 10 scale of Internet freakydeaky, I’d personally place period fetishes at a rather tame three or four. And if any of you wonderful readers have a lust for the moon blood, alas, this is not your story, but a quest to discover how many people are unwilling to go to town when Aunt Flo’s in.
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by Mrs Melee,
Jan. 14, 2010
I love strippers. I love their well-fitted bikinis. I love the way the move in high heels. I love the their upper body strength and flexibility. (Oh, the flexibility.) I love the bravery and unfettered sensuality. Showmanship turns me on. Tina Fey would never approve of me.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Jan. 13, 2010
The recession is upon us; no one sane would dare doubt it. The auto industry’s long since moved overseas, and despite government bailouts, no one in their right mind would buy a Ford. Pilots are working longer hours for 50% pay; 127 banks have failed. But are industries we previously thought to be recession-proof feeling the punch too? If porno fails, says the soothsayer, the nation fails…
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by Citi Kittie,
Jan. 13, 2010
I ended up the collared pet of a woman I never met, never talked to on the phone, saw on webcam only a handful of times, but communicated with almost daily. It's not easy turning your life over to another person, and maybe not all that healthy. But its allure was as strong as any drug and I just couldn't resist.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 12, 2010
Nina answers a few viewers’ questions on yeast infections, excessive masturbation, and...Nina dishes on her favorite sex toy!
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by Dr Dick,
Jan. 11, 2010
Getting ready to marry and finding yourself with a case of the cold feet? Never fear; Dr. Dick is here, with a primer for all you betrothed to-be to find your own sexual success.
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by Zoeyjane,
Jan. 08, 2010
My sex life was completely, 100 percent, definitely no question about it attributed to my high and low moods. So, I stepped away from the computer and told a doctor in real life. I was easily diagnosed as bipolar, in part because of the record setting, in addition to the fact that I was unbalanced and moody. Since, bipolar has been written on my metaphorical psychiatric permanent record.
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by Yvette Safire,
Jan. 08, 2010
The Victorian Era added an important term to the sexual lexicon, other than merkin. When a family shared a bed, Mother and Father would instruct the kiddies to squish together and lie on their sides facing the same direction. Everyone stayed warm and more children could fit in the bed. Thus, spooning was born.
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 07, 2010
Hi. My name is Jenny and people email me weird-ass shit. Almost all of emails begin “You don’t know me but I saw this and thought of you”. Then I feel a little bit sad at the direction my life has taken. But then I look at the links and it makes it all worthwhile. Except for the ones that make me question humanity. And then I share the links here. Then we all suffer and rejoice together.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 06, 2010
Some of us have a fetish—a very particular fetish, that is—a fetish for latex and PVC, which is often associated with the realms of BDSM or S&M. But this particular fetish isn’t about BDSM. It’s just for ‘the look.’ Or, as renowned designer The Baroness puts it, “the other S&M: Stand and Model.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 06, 2010
Is there happiness in slavery? When a collar isn't just jewelry but means something, what does it mean? Let's talk fact and fiction when it comes to living under contract.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 05, 2010
How does a couple prepare for a threesome? How do you know if it’s right for you and your partner? Why is the fantasy often better than the reality? Nina explains it all!
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 04, 2010
Known for his legendary libido, Greek god Pan left a trail of ravished woodland nymphs in his wake. In modern times, does the aphrodisiac that bears his image live up to the horny hype, or is it another myth waiting to get busted?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jan. 04, 2010
This week, Sexis' own friendly e-neighborhood sex surrogate takes on a BIG problem—penis size...or, rather, the size of men's anxieties over penis size.
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by Dr Dick,
Jan. 04, 2010
All phobias can be overcome with some effort. The same is true for conquering a fear of sex. Here, I walk a young gay man through his trepidation. We take simple, easy to accomplish steps to build confidence and dispel his apprehensions.
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by Elizabeth Black,
Jan. 02, 2010
When I heard about figging, I was fairly certain that I’d enjoy it. Figging is inserting a plug of fresh ginger root into your ass to enhance sexual pleasure. The ginger’s juices soak into your anal tissues, resulting in a burning sensation that is both arousing and excruciating. This practice took root in Victorian times—and you know those prim folks engaged in some very kinky pastimes.
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by Alisa Bowman,
Dec. 29, 2009
Last year, on Christmas Eve, I dressed in red lingerie, fishnets and heels, sauntered up to my husband, and said, “I am here to satisfy you in every way.” He rather enjoyed that gift, so I decided to make it a yearly tradition. This year, however, I wanted to take things up a notch. Rather than just dress up, I was going to perform. I would give him a strip tease to be remembered.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 29, 2009
How do adult performers make anal sex look so flawlessly clean? Nina dishes on a few tricks of the trade.
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by Dr Dick,
Dec. 28, 2009
One of the most difficult things for me to deal with as a therapist is the aftermath of sexual trauma. And I know that the trouble I have with this is only a tiny fraction of the difficulty my client has as he or she faces his/her past.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 23, 2009
White coats, stethoscopes, and nurses standing by? Ooh la la! A surprising number of folks get faint at the thought of a little medical porn, or medical equipment—and those are two very different kinks. The doctor will see you now, with five examinations of this very popular kink.
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by Bella Bell,
Dec. 22, 2009
When faced with the task of investigating what goes on it the Japanese sex clubs, I never for a moment thought that it would be easy. But who’d have thought that it’d be so hard to catch a ride on ‘the touching trains’?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Dec. 21, 2009
Hey, fellas—when’s the last time you sported a boner? Have you ever noticed how annoying spontaneous erections are for teenage boys, and how annoying lack of erections are for older men?
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by Liz NuMe,
Dec. 18, 2009
An education in orgasms, from beginner to expert.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 16, 2009
Of all the things crammed into pussies and asses through the ages, the fist maintains an underground popularity that's baffling from the outside. What is it about fisting that captures the minds (and hands) of its devotees? And why exactly is the whole country terrified of its own ass?
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 15, 2009
This week, Nina expounds on the art of proper breathing techniques during sex, in order to open up the body to maximum pleasure.
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by Elizabeth Black,
Dec. 14, 2009
To shave or not to shave—that is the question. I've always sported hair in my southern hemisphere, so when I saw porn where the models are bare except for a landing strip, I wondered what it would be like to be clean-shaven. I trim during the summer to keep my little curls from saying "boo!" when I wear a swimsuit, so when my husband begged me to let him shave me, I figured it might be fun...
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by Rydell Johnson,
Dec. 11, 2009
What’s better than a daydream about a porn star, a pop star, or simply Star (she’s the new redhead in accounting)? Try some erotic make-believe starring your significant other.
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by Mother May I?,
Dec. 10, 2009
I used to be a prude, but I didn’t know it. I had what I thought was good sex. My husband then (now ex) and I played around a little bit, did things like “69” and the occasional blindfolding. Seemed shocking and kinky at the time.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Dec. 09, 2009
BDSM is rarely considered from anything other than its purest physical aspect; even rarer still is it presented as something other than a pagan or non-mainstream religious set of beliefs. But what happens when someone who has deep faith and belief in more traditional, conservative religion finds that their sexual interests don’t exactly fit in with that lifestyle?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 09, 2009
Knives and sex with no felonies involved? It's possible. It can even be part of a fun Friday night. How do you mix sharp blades with tender bits? Here are five points (I'm sorry) for living on the edge (I'm so, so sorry) with erotic knife play.
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by Alisa Bowman,
Dec. 08, 2009
Last I wrote, I was feeling like an old, haggard, dull excuse for a wife—the very type of wife who might have a husband who wasn’t particularly interested in bedding down with her. I can tell you, worrying that you may no longer be attracted to your husband is one problem. Worrying that he may no longer be attracted to you? That’s a problem of an entirely different magnitude.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 08, 2009
The old saying goes, “Them that can, do; them that can’t, teach,” but sometimes there’s that one in a million who can do both—and SexIs has her. Each week, adult actress, activist, auteur and legend Nina Hartley answers your questions on all things sexual. Vlogging will never be the same.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Dec. 07, 2009
One woman’s up close and personal mission to help others work the kinks OUT.
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by Elizabeth,
Dec. 01, 2009
Two decades as an HIV educator and counting.
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 30, 2009
World AIDS Day brings into focus the micro-strategies needed to combat a macro problem.
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by minivanlibertine,
Nov. 25, 2009
Sage sexuality south of the Mason Dixon? Boy, howdy!
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by Liz NuMe,
Nov. 24, 2009
When it comes to verbal communication, my husband generally have no problem finding things to discuss. Actually, one of the things I love most about him is that he truly listens to me and respects my opinions. But there’s one topic we both stumble over—sex. Actually, it isn’t the topic of sex per se, but being able to effectively communicate our wants and needs.
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 23, 2009
Have you ever wondered about the term sex positive? If you’re like me, you see it all over the place, especially on sex-related sites. I confess I use it way more often than I should. It’s become one of those industry buzzwords that has, over time, become so fuzzy around the edges that to some, it’s now virtually meaningless.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 23, 2009
On the L in Chicago, an average thirty-something man sits quietly in his seat. Suddenly a little plastic ring falls out from his pant leg and rolls along the floor. There are thousands of men all over the country walking around secretly rigged up with devices in their pants—made of plastic, metal, tape and other items that yank the skin of the penis. And no, this isn’t some sexual fetish or kink.
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by Liz NuMe,
Nov. 18, 2009
Hello. My name is Newme…and I’m a closet kink. If you saw me walking down the street, you would probably think, preppy mom. I’m top to bottom J. Crew—cardigan, tee and jeans. Mother of four who home-schooled her kids, drove them to all their activities in a Honda Accord, worked hard for a living, helped my husband start his own business. Nothing special, just your typical person on the streets.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Nov. 18, 2009
Bondage is often devious, but no bondage is quite as sly as predicament bondage. Every minute is a mind game and every movement an act of will. Here are five whys and hows of this nasty little game.
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by Yvette Safire,
Nov. 17, 2009
Preparation for my boyfriend’s long-awaited visit to the Dominican Republic required more than just a pedicure and bikini wax. He was traveling with friends and there was no way I could sneak him into my host family’s home, so I had to find a place for us to reunite properly. This was the perfect opportunity to investigate the possibilities of the Dominican's many clandestine sex cabañas.
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by Alisa Bowman,
Nov. 17, 2009
Was he no longer attracted to me? I’d gained some weight. I knew that. My clothes were tight on me. Only one pair of pants fit comfortably. Was it the fleece? Or was it the sex?
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by Elizabeth,
Nov. 16, 2009
When it comes to STDs, for many people, it’s much easier simply not to know.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 13, 2009
The ins and outs of sex on the go.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 11, 2009
Or, if you prefer, urolagnia. Okay, maybe you aren’t familiar with the word, but I’ll bet you’ve heard of the fetish more commonly known as “water sports” or “golden showers.” Since researching this practice, I’ve found urolagnia dripping into my own sexual fantasies.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Nov. 11, 2009
“The sweetest romantic comedy about S&M since, well...ever,” says Blackbook of the then-quirky, now-seminal film Secretary. Was it a massive step toward the mainstreaming of kinky culture or a lopsided portrayal that did more harm than good? Seven years later, people’s opinions remain sharply divided.
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by Mother May I?,
Nov. 09, 2009
Why is talking to our progeny about sex so awkward? Does it have to be?
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 09, 2009
Let’s pick up where we left off last week, on the perils young people face as they navigate the expectations of virginity and sex, and begin to consider their first forays into partnered sex.
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by RalphieGuy,
Nov. 07, 2009
To paraphrase Andrew Vachss: A man who has a fetish will seek out women who he wouldn't normally find attractive if those women agree to and provide that particular fetish. In fact, that man might even prefer these women to those more attractive to him-more his “type”—if the ‘less’-attractive women provide him with his fetish more than women he's normally attracted to.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Nov. 05, 2009
Once the realm of just dudes, strip clubs are now increasingly the domain of frisky couples with a hankering for a bit of harmless naughtiness.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Nov. 04, 2009
Jack and Bob meet at a kinky party; they go off into a corner where Jack gets whipped for an hour by Bob, wielding a big leather flogger. Yet, somehow, Jack is smiling at the end of it—and the noises he is making sound less like a man being tortured, and more like a man having sex. But why is he enjoying it? What is it about kinky pain that makes it different from regular pain?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 04, 2009
Vanilla. To the epicurious, it’s one of the world’s most prized spices. In the bedroom, however...well, nobody seems to know what it is. Except that they either are or aren’t vanilla. The Beautiful Kind takes a look at vanilla...and in the process, bakes a very special cake...
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by Liz NuMe,
Nov. 03, 2009
Or, to put it another way, someday they will leave...
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by Alisa Bowman,
Nov. 03, 2009
That’s what I’ve been telling myself...let's see if I can make it happen.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 30, 2009
I’m not just a sex writer. I’m a horror movie enthusiast. Which I suppose makes me an exceptionally bad girl. So figure if this story were a slasher flick, I’d be dead about 750 words in.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 28, 2009
Corsetry isn't just for Victoriana enthusiasts. The dramatic lines of a corseted figure is custom-made for the high-fashion fetishwear subset of BDSM culture, and the restrictive nature of the garment allows for all kinds of power-trippy fun. How did getting laced up into something restrictive and sexy get mixed up with kink? Read on for five lace-'em-ups about this deceptively beautiful fetish.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Oct. 28, 2009
Nobody just wakes up one day and decides “Gee, I think I’ll be kinky!” So, why do people go there? How many do? And darn it, is it better than straight sex, or is it all just propaganda?
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by GeekyLove,
Oct. 27, 2009
Gamers and sex. I know these two words aren’t often paired in popular lexicon. Nonetheless, I feel it is my duty to inform you that gamers are having sex, lots of sex. While there are many things to be learned from the Gamer Sutra, today I’d like to focus on cybersex.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Oct. 27, 2009
These days, not even poets are squeezing their hearts into love letters. We live in a fast-food world. And while love still isn’t something you can order from the drive-through, modern courtship is a reflection of the way we live: fast, easy, and a little out of control—like a quick email, an instant message—or a throng of twenty-first century Cyranos Twittering their love...in 140 characters.
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by Lady J,
Oct. 26, 2009
At 6:00 each morning, you are likely to find me out cold. My husband on the other hand, is most likely laying next to me, wide-awake, trying to cajole me into a daybreak quickie. At this time of day I am barely capable of keeping my eyes open, much less my legs, and he knows this. However, this doesn’t stop him from trying—and hasn’t stopped him from trying for the last six years.
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by Dr Dick,
Oct. 26, 2009
I’m receiving a startling number of correspondences lately from older men and their partners, highlighting the sexual difficulties of the aging process. It’s not surprising that these people are noticing the changes in their sexual response cycle as they age, but it is astonishing that they haven’t attributed the changes to andropause.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 24, 2009
Crush, obsession, or the real deal? One woman’s journey to decipher the difference.
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by L. Jade,
Oct. 23, 2009
Or, for you Italo Calvino fans, if on a winter’s night a traveler...with a carry-on full of sex toys...
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by Elizabeth Black,
Oct. 22, 2009
News flash, folks: You may think you’re a powerhouse in bed who can get any partner off, but according to a University of Kansas study, of students they interviewed who were sexually active, 67 percent of women—and 30 percent of men—faked orgasms.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Oct. 21, 2009
Who doesn't remember their first crush? I was four years old; she was my Sunday School teacher, tall with pale skin and long sandy brown hair nipping just above her waist. I remember feeling excited by her, romantic toward her. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with her but I had fantasies of grandly sweeping her away to do...something.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 21, 2009
Have you ever found yourself confronted with a piece of latex fetishwear and wondered what that familiar tingle was all about? Chances are, your brain recognized the basic scent of condoms—ooh la la! So what is it that entices some to take latex out of the realm of Trojans and into the realm of full-on bodywear? Read on for five fabulous finds on why lovers love latex.
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by Yvette Safire,
Oct. 20, 2009
It’s a tradition as old as the internet itself—the act of selling one’s own used undergarments online for a quick infusion of cash. Yvette Safire recently found herself in a bit of a financial bind, and thus began to contemplate the possibilities...
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by Elizabeth,
Oct. 20, 2009
Although in the United States, a woman’s ability to get wet is often valued as a sign of her sexual interest in her partner, appreciation for women’s self-lubricating potential (we are the original self-lubricating beings…) is not universal. In some cultures it is dry sex that is held up as the ideal, and women become smooth about avoiding becoming slick.
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by Liz NuMe,
Oct. 19, 2009
Infidelity in marriage is like a Ming vase that’s been shattered by the person you loved and trusted most. That’s what my life felt like the night I found out my husband was cheating on me. I shared that with someone who’d been through it as well, and she said she wanted to turn her broken pieces into a beautiful mosaic. I think—and hope—that is what my husband and I have finally done.
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by Dr Dick,
Oct. 19, 2009
No matter your experience level, no matter what you know (or think you know)—there is need for a little remedial sex-ed from time to time. The one and only Dr. Dick has a surprise or two for you this week, as he sets about a little sexual mythbusting of his own (sans handlebar moustache and/or beret).
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 17, 2009
Contrary to popular belief, the personal ad is not yet another invention of the internet. It’s been around for centuries, continuing to evolve with each generation’s needs, desires, and fetishistic frenzies—from the earnest days of ‘matrimony papers’ to today’s user-friendly searches on websites such as Craigslist.
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by Roland Hulme,
Oct. 13, 2009
What happens when rough sex scenarios and feminist sensibilities collide?
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by G.L. Morrison,
Oct. 13, 2009
Or, to lay it out for you in mathematical terms: Bad Science + Bad Sex = Good Marketing.
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by Dr Dick,
Oct. 12, 2009
I have just the thing for all you folks out there who are in a relationship. If you’re like every other couple I know, you have your share of tension. And let’s face it—tension leads to fighting. And fighting, if not done fairly, can lead to hurting your partner—even if that’s not your intention.
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by The Bloggess,
Oct. 08, 2009
The Bloggess interviews the Mominatrix, where they talk about tantric knitting, discount booksellers, and better sex for moms.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2009
If you're looking for a way to try out kink that's free, easy, and likely to have good results, this one’s for you. Spanking as sexual titillation goes a lot further than the trope of the 1950s secretary getting a slap on the rump from a leering boss; in the world of kink today, spanking is safe, fun, and a lot less complicated than sex. Let's check out five rump-thumping tidbits about the spank.
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by Dr Dick,
Oct. 05, 2009
Dr. Dick weighs in with a little talk about sexual identify, just in time for National Coming Out Day.
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by Cassie,
Oct. 03, 2009
Men jack themselves off constantly. They can probably coax an orgasm out of themselves better than most women can because they know every nuance—the exact amount of pressure and stimulation needed—right? Well, no, actually.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 02, 2009
Today on SexVoxing: What is in your bedside table drawer or toy basket?
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by Elizabeth Black,
Sep. 30, 2009
Elizabeth Black takes a look at different exercise techniques designed to improve your sex drive—and sexual gratification.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 30, 2009
It sounds pretty, but it feels mean. Bastinado is the practice of beating the soles of the feet. Why do it? You know the drill by now: if this is your sole exposure (sorry!) to bastinado, read on for five little piggies' worth of knowledge.
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by L. Jade,
Sep. 29, 2009
L. Jade muses on the acts that put the ‘auto’ back into erotica.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 23, 2009
Why is that cutie on the bus wearing a dog collar? Why is that yuppie breathing heavy in the bridle aisle? Animal roleplay is a surprisingly popular form of kink, with puppies, kitties, and ponies the apparent favorites. What's the deal with human pets? Here, we'll take a look at five yips, whinnies, and meows about animal roleplay.
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by Rose Fox,
Sep. 17, 2009
You sprain your wrist playing basketball, or get carpal tunnel twinges from too much typing. Your partner is battling depression or post-traumatic stress. Sooner or later, the question is likely to come up: how do you make sex work when someone involved is temporarily or permanently disabled? Our goal here is to provide you with tools for finding solutions that work for you and your partners.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Sep. 16, 2009
Cheating on one’s spouse has become big business—just ask Ashley Madison.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Sep. 11, 2009
I get a lot of questions. Some are good, some are bad—some just get asked over and over and over. Let's run down the top five...
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by The Bloggess,
Sep. 10, 2009
There’s no real nudity here but you’re still going to feel dirty and confused after reading this.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 09, 2009
Masochism is just about liking pain, right? Wrong. There’s a lot more to it. Here are five things your momma never told you about pain sluts.
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by Dr Dick,
Sep. 07, 2009
This week, Dr. Dick investigates acrotomophilia; or, in other words, the amputee fetish.
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by Elizabeth Black,
Sep. 03, 2009
Here's a hint: handcuffs + sprinkler system = disaster.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 02, 2009
Is making someone hurt an act of cruelty or an act of love? If you said “either one, and sometimes both,” you get a gold star (and I’ll see you at the dungeon). If you didn’t, read on: Here come five points that might help explain why beating the shit out of someone can be the nicest thing anyone ever did.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Sep. 02, 2009
The last relationship I had before I met my husband was with a woman. Yes, I am a bi-sexual woman, although I am not a great fan of labels and can’t truly, with all honesty, say that I know that I fit the definition of that title to a tee. Nor do I really care.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 01, 2009
Lots of us do it. Some studies claim most of us do it. And if you believe what you see on cable news, it’s a prerequisite for a political career. Are we just a species that can’t say no?
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by Dr Dick,
Aug. 31, 2009
What if—you, a healthy, otherwise happy woman—had gone through your entire life...without having experienced the joys of an orgasm?
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by Elizabeth,
Aug. 20, 2009
Ah, college. It’s where teenagers go to learn—about themselves, about the world, how to do body shots, and pick up strangers in bars. For many young people, it’s the first time they’ve been away from parental authority. They are treated and are expected to act like adults, but for many the taste of freedom is embraced as license to explore the siren songs of sex, drugs, and rock ’n’ roll.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 19, 2009
Most people don't think of needles as sexual or erotic, but even the shallowest consideration yields some obvious reasons for that association: needles penetrate the body and afford access to bodily fluids in a way few activities outside of sexuality do. Welcome to five incisive (sorry) tidbits about the art of erotic needleplay.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Aug. 19, 2009
Why has the once-cherished mom-bod become something to be looked upon with disgust and disdain, rather than revered as the happy result of something natural and beautiful?
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by Judy Cole,
Aug. 18, 2009
This week, in the final installment, your editor gets a tour of the milieu of a professional domme: the playspace, the wardrobe, and the rigors of home economics.
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by Dr Dick,
Aug. 17, 2009
As promised, here’s Dr. Dick’s highly anticipated seminar on being a great ass-fuckin’ top. This is a companion piece to an earlier tutorial for you novice bottoms out there — Liberating the BOB Within. This tutorial is for anyone who is considering being a top, regardless of whether the meat injection is 100% prime, or a beef substitute (a strap-on dildo), these words of wisdom are for you.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Aug. 14, 2009
Playing with fire, sex, and shame.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 12, 2009
For some of us, tickling is an activity we remember from summer camps and evenings with the family, either fondly or agonizingly (or both). For others, the enforced abandonment of control and reflexive, hysterical convulsing relates so closely to orgasmic feelings that tickling becomes sexualized.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Aug. 12, 2009
It’s inevitable that all couples will go through it. And when you add needy children that expect to be fed, bathed and nurtured every day to the relationship cocktail, the chances that sex is going to take a backseat for certain periods of time is almost completely unavoidable. The question is, how long is too long?
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by Judy Cole,
Aug. 11, 2009
Now, in my line of work, I’ve met a ProDomme or two before. In the Big Apple, S&M is NBD. Dommes came in all shapes and sizes, from a near-seven-foot Valkyrie—replete with a trademark tomato-red PVC catsuit straight out of a comic book—to a raven-haired, petite coquette who could, with her five-inch killer spike heels, make a grown man cry a lot more than just “Uncle.”
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by Dr Dick,
Aug. 10, 2009
So—you’ve finally decided to become a B.O.B. (Big Ol’ Bottom)? Tired of missing out on all that ass-play everyone’s talking about? Been secretly tripping on the exploits of your favorite porn stars? (“Jeez, would ya get a load of that—his hole looks like the Victory Arch in Paris, for God’s sake.”) And now you want a piece of the action for yourself?
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by Sarah Sloane,
Aug. 10, 2009
Free testing clinics are fantastic—but they’re not infallible, and they’re not always the most informative places in the world to get your safer sex information. The old saying, “you get what you pay for”, is, sadly enough, usually true.
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by Hungry4more,
Aug. 07, 2009
Or, how to successfully combine parenting, fatherhood, and sex...
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by SaucySarah,
Aug. 05, 2009
How do you make a relationship work when the two principals have a significant age gap between them?
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Aug. 05, 2009
Momma’s got a brand new bag. And it’s full of paddles, floggers, and restraints. It’s time to get your kink on!
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by Judy Cole,
Aug. 04, 2009
When the average person thinks of Charlotte, North Carolina, what most often springs to mind is Bible Belt, Banking, NASCAR and the PTL debacle. Debauchery? Not so much—well, except for the PTL debacle, but BDSM? You might be surprised...
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by Dr Dick,
Aug. 03, 2009
So you’ve met the person of your dreams—only you haven’t got around to telling your new honey your dirty little secret...
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jul. 29, 2009
Okay, moms—take your fingers out of your ears: it’s time to talk about buttsex!
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by Judy Cole,
Jul. 28, 2009
Parting thoughts: What comes around goes around, what goes around comes around...
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by Dr Dick,
Jul. 27, 2009
What’s up with the current lamentable state of cocksucking these days? Why, I can remember a time when the humble hummer was king. Now, sadly the basic blowjob is a lost art.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jul. 24, 2009
It was going to be a simple story about lap-based Web browsing. That is, er…you know, relishing the hot dog. Jerkin’ the gherkin. Patting the Robertson. The next thing I knew, I was out back, behind the garage, you know...
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by The Bloggess,
Jul. 23, 2009
Last week there was a buzz on Twitter when everyone started sharing the thoughts they have most often during sex. It was bizarre and completely unsettling. And also very educational in that you should make your teenagers read it so they don’t get pregnant because honestly after reading this I’m not sure *I* ever want to have sex again.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jul. 22, 2009
Necessity is the mother of invention. Why else would there be so many wonderful instruments of pleasure available today if someone somewhere didn’t find them to be just what suits their personal kink?
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by Dr Dick,
Jul. 20, 2009
I’m often asked about my work as a sex therapist. I’m surprised at how few people have any sense of what we actually do. While I can’t speak for all my fellow therapists, I can tell you a bit about my own practice.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jul. 17, 2009
Girls do it, too. Oh, do they ever.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jul. 15, 2009
Domestic goddess? Soccer mom? Suburban earth mother? Minivan mommy? This week, we demystify the mother archetype, and get right down to business—having more (and better) sex, that is.
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by Elizabeth,
Jul. 13, 2009
Understanding what makes a good sexual lubricant can be a slippery business. After all, unless you’re buying one of the few all natural, organic products that are available, the list of ingredients reads more like the supply catalog for a chemistry class than a recipe for a hot night.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jul. 08, 2009
This week: an open letter to dads, husbands and/or partners, from the mothers who love them but want—or, rather, need—more foreplay).
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 07, 2009
For as long as robots have been a concept in the human imagination, we have been plagued by questions: Is advanced artificial intelligence possible? Can machines devoid of emotion truly understand the human condition? And...how awesome would robots be in bed?
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jul. 01, 2009
When it comes to talking to your wee little ones about the birds and the bees (and specifically, why Mommy and Daddy are doing it), the truth often WILL set you free—and it just might get you laid more often.
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 30, 2009
It’s the (tr)end of the world as we know it, and we feel fine...
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by SaucySarah,
Jun. 29, 2009
Just what is an open relationship, anyway? Let's find out!
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jun. 29, 2009
What effects do our different methods of birth control have on the environment?
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by María,
Jun. 24, 2009
I’m a newly single mother with a ridiculous libido, a penchant for deep throating and the ability to grind a man into orgasmic hyperventilation. (Not to toot my own horn, but a girl must be confident in her talents even though I’m too chicken shit to try them out on anyone new.) I’ve left my comfort zone sexually, the place in which I was pretty happy and complacent: marriage.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 24, 2009
One of life’s inevitabilities as a parent (besides tax credits) is the knowledge that at some point, your kids are going to catch you in delicto flagrante. So—do you cease all sexual activity until they’re 18, or do you invest heavily in Disney? Or...is there another option?
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 23, 2009
The rise of the Internet, the fall of morality. Greed gets an overhaul. Grunge is good. Goth rules. BDSM goes mainstream—and a Presidential pop shot makes the ultimate fashion statement.
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by Hungry4more,
Jun. 22, 2009
Take a fish out of water—or, in this case, a fish away from his Buffy DVDs—and plop him straight into the most fantastical encounter imaginable. Or...send him to the local professional dominatrix.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 19, 2009
Today on SexVoxing, we’re going to take a walk on the wild side of ‘what if’: What tip or technique do you wish your ex had known?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jun. 17, 2009
Does a straying mind make you a stray dog? What are you freaks really thinking about in flagrante delicto? If your mind works anywhere close to normal, it’s going to wander—at least occasionally
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 17, 2009
It’s time to enjoy a glimpse into the world of your typical suburban mom (played by me), and how sex fits (or more appropriately doesn’t fit) into it. It’s not pretty, it’s not glamorous and it certainly isn’t all that sexy. But here it is, stripped down to the bone. It might just look a little familiar…
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 16, 2009
Hubris in Neon: SEXIS sits down for a one-on-one with the ’80s, and, as usual, “The Me Decade” speaks for itself, or in this case, himself…
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by Elizabeth,
Jun. 15, 2009
Yes, silicone may be great—but is it really green?
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by slavette,
Jun. 15, 2009
A Proposal from the President of Intercontinental Slaves Union Local 814...
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jun. 11, 2009
Some people are born kinky, some achieve kinkiness, and some have kinkiness thrust upon them. Then, there are those of us who really like to have our kinky tied up and acquiescent…if that’s you, then read on.
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by Miya,
Jun. 10, 2009
We were drunk the first time it happened. And maybe that’s always how it always goes. A handful of shots, a slow dance, red lipstick.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 10, 2009
Body-image issues play a considerable role in our sex lives—but how do you confront them?
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 09, 2009
The ’70s: The most odious decade ever. No kidding. It was beyond bad. I mean, Roger Moore as James Bond? Puh-lease! Well, at least everyone was fucking.
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by slavette,
Jun. 08, 2009
A journey with Slavette through the language of kink—with all due apologies to the late Edward Gorey.
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by L. Jade,
Jun. 05, 2009
One cold November night the year I turned fifteen, I kissed him for the very first time. Seven years and thirteen days later, we finally made love. What happened in between?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 04, 2009
From Facebook to Twitter to Myspace to AIM, YIM, and Skype, our love lives have transitioned seamlessly into the constantly evolving fabric of Web 2.0. But what do you, a savvy social networker, do when your love live goes awry? Kal Cobalt sorts through the tweets, status updates, and Skype logs to find out.
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by Elizabeth,
Jun. 03, 2009
From the early days of Usenet to the vivid pornscapes of today, sex and the internet have always been a union of perfect harmony. Today, Sexis traces back sex’s brief yet torrid affair with the internet.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 03, 2009
Why? Because moms have sex...
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 02, 2009
From white kid gloves to a roll in the mud, ladies and gentlemen, we bring you the rise and fall of the Madonna/whore decade!
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by Elizabeth Black,
Jun. 01, 2009
Or, how NOT to turn your man into a meat dildo...
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by slavette,
Jun. 01, 2009
A humorous glimpse inside the lives and minds of slaves
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by Judy Cole,
May. 26, 2009
The Fifties! The Pelvis. Poodle skirts. Pat Boone. Nat King Cole. Hugh Hefner. James Dean. Ozzie and Harriet. Is it Safe to Come Out of the Bomb Shelter Yet?
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by slavette,
May. 26, 2009
A Peek at Life Behind the Black Leather Curtain
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by Mrs Melee,
May. 19, 2009
Slash is more than a figure of grammar; it's more than Guns n' Roses ex-guitarist: it's a whole 'nother thing entirely. It may be about the men...but it's all for and by the women.
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by Judy Cole,
May. 19, 2009
Springtime for Hitler on the Paris Runways. Pin-Up Girls Pump More than Morale. Plus our 21-Gun Salute to Gender Bending in the Military.
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by slavette,
May. 18, 2009
Today, Slavette wades through the murky waters of relationship-negotiation within the confines of the master/slave dynamic, without litigation, butcher knives, or invoking a demon.
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 13, 2009
There are few places better suited to prove and reprove the preposterousness of human sexuality than the annals of the online dating scene.
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by Judy Cole,
May. 12, 2009
Warning! Dangerous curves ahead. Blonde ambition conquers all…and we ain’t talkin’ Madonna.
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by slavette,
May. 11, 2009
An Introduction to the Author of The Slavette Diaries
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by The Bloggess,
May. 07, 2009
Warning—no clowns were penetrated, cajoled, or agitated in the making of this article. We will studiously deny any approval of it. We will not pay for your emotional trauma. Or a tongue-graft, so that you may regrow your sense of good taste. And thus, without further ado, we present...the Bloggess.
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by Mr Guy,
May. 05, 2009
Most men have one thing in common: they'd really like their penises to be bigger. And the world’s taken notice: ‘male enhancement’, as it’s so wistfully called, is a billion-dollar industry, hawking everything from herbs to pills to diet fads to pumps, with varying results. So what’s it like to have been kissed by the gods—what is life REALLY like with a BFD (Big Fucking Dick)?
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by Judy Cole,
May. 05, 2009
Does sex influence fashion, or does fashion influence sex?
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by Mr Guy,
May. 01, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one dirty, smelly brassiere at a time.
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by Cassie,
Apr. 30, 2009
Last night I slept with Christian, my ex-husband, for the first time since he became my ex-husband. In so doing, I knowingly exacerbated his feelings for me, opened my own heart back up to him…and betrayed both of our significant others.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Apr. 28, 2009
Are you a swinger, baby? Do you want to be? Swinging has come a long way since the 60s...explore the new swinger lifestyle and decide if it's the place for you.
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by Mr Guy,
Apr. 24, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one Casual Encounter at a time.
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by Mrs Melee,
Apr. 22, 2009
It's said that men like nothing more than to watch two women going at it. So what about the reverse: women getting off on watching two guys getting it on?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Apr. 21, 2009
On Craigslist, the user can find anything their heart (or other organ) desires. Is this a healthy thing - and who's doing it? Cherry Trifle finds out.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Apr. 16, 2009
There's a lot of talk going on these days about HPV, from hysteria to disinformation, to the occasionally sharp pang of truth. Sarah Sloane pulls back the blinds and takes a closer look.
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by K. Page Nolker,
Apr. 14, 2009
What DO women want, anyway? It's all chemical, baby - and complicated. K. Page Nolker pokes about in the right side of the gray matter and tries to put all the pieces together.
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by K. Page Nolker,
Apr. 07, 2009
What DO women want, anyway? It's all chemical, baby - and complicated. K. Page Nolker pokes about in the left side of the gray matter and sees what's what.
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by Mr Guy,
Apr. 07, 2009
Cunnilingus isn’t nearly as hard as it’s made out to be. However, it helps to know what you’re doing down there – and, maybe even more importantly - what NOT to do down there.
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by Citi Kittie,
Apr. 03, 2009
Safewords are words or signals called out, usually during BDSM-related play, to either slow down or completely stop a scene. Citi Kittie gives us some deeper insight into the ins and outs of safewording – but take note: chances are that your boss will not respect your safeword when you use it to try and get out of that overdue spreadsheet.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Apr. 03, 2009
Want to know some great ways to mess up your relationship...or would you rather get some hints on how to prevent it?
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Mar. 31, 2009
The ins and outs (and ins!) of advanced prostate play - and yes, we're breaking out the toys!
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by L. Jade,
Mar. 31, 2009
Keeping your sex life fresh and exciting is dependent on one crucial thing: communication. From negotiation to fantasy lists, 'as you wish' to anti-fantasy lists, let's take a look at a few of the options out there for better improving your sexual communication skills.
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by Puck,
Mar. 27, 2009
OUTERCOURSE (n): 1. Sexual activity that does not involve vaginal or anal penetration
2. a really good time
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 24, 2009
Touch. Sight. Taste. Smell. Sound. Each one plays an important role in sexual arousal, whether you realize it or not...
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by Lindsay Lewis,
Mar. 24, 2009
In the spirit of the ‘25 things’ meme so popular on Facebook, Lindsay offers up for you her 'Top 25 Things Not to Do When Between a Woman's Legs’, in no particular order of offense…
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by Citi Kittie,
Mar. 24, 2009
It's not easy for a guy to question his sexuality, but it's something almost all guys do at some point. Exploring your sexuality is a human right - and it can even be a lot of fun!
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by L. Jade,
Mar. 19, 2009
Every technological advance mankind has made in all of history has been driven by the desire for more and better sex. Well, maybe not all of them, but chances are you’ve heard that before, and there’s a reason why. In fact, many technologies were created to enhance our sex lives, and the ideas behind them are way older than you’d think.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Mar. 11, 2009
Just like bodies, all harnesses aren't created equally. Read this before you try to strap one on, and make sure you get the ride of a lifetime!
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 11, 2009
Sex IS...everything you want it to be, and more.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Mar. 11, 2009
Whether it’s your fortieth or your very first, there are many factors to keep in mind when choosing a new vibrator. We’ll lay it all out for you. We might even test-drive a few.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Mar. 10, 2009
So you say you’re ready to get your Frodo on and try your very first cock ring? First, you’ll want to know the ins and outs of getting it in and out, from safety to texture, and ultimately to decking out your member in style.
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by Kay Crosby,
Mar. 10, 2009
Where we shine the warm, wet light of truthiness on that newly-hallowed squirt of feminine splendor: female ejaculation. So come – and be christened!
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by Sarah Sloane,
Mar. 09, 2009
There are some things in life which demand that you throw caution to the wind and just jump in cold...but who wants something cold in their butt? Check out our guide to picking out the perfect pucker-toy.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 08, 2009
It’s a buzz-term, it’s an ever-present harbinger of doom, it’s somebody else’s problem: what is safer sex, and why is it all about YOU?
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by SaucySarah,
Mar. 07, 2009
So, you’re pregnant! Don’t let your mother-in-law tell you that you can’t have sex during the next nine months—chances are that not only can you have sex, it might just be the best sex of your life.
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by Tiffany Loves Sextoys,
Mar. 07, 2009
So you think you know what an orgasm is (and isn't)? Think again!
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by SaucySarah,
Mar. 07, 2009
You're a woman. You have a boyfriend, but you just can't stop fantasizing about your best female friend’s mouth and how good it'd feel on your skin. Are you bisexual or what?
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 07, 2009
Bangers, chestnuts, clangers, danglers - no matter what you call 'em, your testicles play an important role in your sex life.
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 07, 2009
Some would have you believe that sex is the exclusive domain of twentysomethings – or, if you’re being strictly procreative about it, thirtysomethings as well. The swollen, glistening truth of the matter is that you can keep on having great sex for as long as you want to.
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Mar. 07, 2009
Contrary to some small minded, popular beliefs, being gay isn't based on sweaty bar hookups and showtunes. Get real, and get a grip – being gay is as individual as your social security number.
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by Sacramento Sam,
Mar. 07, 2009
Listen up – sometimes the best way to your lover’s loins is through their ears.
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by L. Jade,
Mar. 07, 2009
You like sex toys. Your partner likes sex toys. So how can you enjoy them together?
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by Dreamlivelove,
Mar. 07, 2009
The vagina, while being the one-stop destination of choice for millions of people the world over, also bears the unfortunate distinction of being one of the most misunderstood areas of the human body, from makeup to function.
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by SaucySarah,
Mar. 07, 2009
The fervent focal point of a woman’s sexuality – but what do you really know about it?
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 07, 2009
News flash: women are masturbators as prodigious as their male counterparts, if not perhaps a bit more so. It didn’t happen overnight, either. In fact, women have been using sex toys for as long as there’s been sex.
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 07, 2009
How do you condense the history of female sexuality into 1500-ish words? With dignity, aplomb, and an occasional dig at the Victorians.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 07, 2009
Whether you’re a ‘two-minute brother’ or an anorgasmic amorist, there’s one thing everybody should be able to agree on: foreplay, if played properly to your partner’s tune, can be just as good as the inevitable main event. In fact, it can be so good that it might end up being the main event all by itself.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 07, 2009
It’s commonly assumed that male masturbation consists of three simple steps: whip it out, get a death-grip on it, and start a-yanking. Well, there’s actually a bit more to it than that. In fact, there’s a LOT more to the art of Jerkology.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 07, 2009
Men like to jerk off. In fact, they’re really kind of good at it – when it comes to masturbation, men are inventive, thorough, and relentless. Which should come as no surprise to anyone – after all, they’ve only been doing it for the entirety of forever.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 06, 2009
Guys – are you getting the maximum oomph out of your sex life? If not,
you may be missing out on the joys of a hidden part of your anatomy -
your p-spot.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 06, 2009
Cunnilingus isn’t nearly as hard as it’s made out to be. However, it helps to know what you’re doing down there – and, more importantly, why.
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by SaucySarah,
Mar. 06, 2009
Old, young, gay, straight, bi, or political pundit; if there’s one thing you can count on, it’s that guys love blowjobs.
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