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by Em & Lo,
Feb. 09, 2012
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Feb. 08, 2012
The best way to turn me on is to be yourself, whoever that is. Way too many people posture and try to seem like someone they’re not, and I find that confusing.
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by Roland Hulme,
Feb. 06, 2012
Opponents of gay marriage might be forgiven for thinking that their's is a lost cause – but little do they know that forces are still at work ensuring same-sex marriage will never come to pass (or, at least, nobody will want one if it does).
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by Mollena,
Feb. 03, 2012
The sting of the needle is exquisite agony. The sting of 104 wounds may be too much agony to bear.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 03, 2012
Reverend Jen Miller, Patron Saint of the Uncool is an author, artist, elf, a former sex surrogate, former professional submissive and all around New York City celebrity. Here we untangle that history: nude house cleaning, tantric sex, upscale BDSM while taking a stroll through the troll museum — which the ordained-by-mail Reverend runs out of her Lower East Side apartment, of course.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 03, 2012
What would you give up if someone would pay your bills?
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 03, 2012
But don't expect to get too far. It’s easier to prove a botched vasectomy.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 02, 2012
Ladies, if you were prescribed these pills, return them and get tested.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 02, 2012
Those still standing with Planned Parenthood put their money where their mouths are.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 01, 2012
Senator Janet “Lovey” Howell steps in with a suggestion of her own.
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 01, 2012
Restaurant owner tells State Senator Stacey Campfield where to stick it.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 31, 2012
But don't get it twisted. He's no pimp.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 31, 2012
How about an ultrasound to make your sex safer?
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by Midori,
Jan. 30, 2012
Kinksters talk quite a bit about the inherent risk of bondage and other kinky play. They learn the proper procedure, to mitigate that risk — but rarely do you hear about the stark reality that no matter what precautions you take or how safe you play, people can still get hurt.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 30, 2012
Oh, no! What’ll we do without our Embry-Ohs?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 30, 2012
With their propensity for sex-driven war, who else could have fathered them?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 27, 2012
Because pretending homosexuality doesn't exist solves everything.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 27, 2012
Now we just have to figure out what to do about the glitter.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jan. 26, 2012
Any experience of submission or domination – if I were to play that way – are for pleasure’s sake, not to get the Church off, writes the author in an essay that challenges the power structure of sin, sex and spirituality.
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 26, 2012
In a few weeks my sister and I are throwing an anniversary party for my parents. My parents are just as odd as I am so we decided to do an old West-Little-House-On-The-Prairie-style party at a Texas fort, complete with a chuck wagon serving supper and a women playing the fiddle into the night around the bonfire. It should be awesome.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 26, 2012
Nurse Ratched puts his presidential campaign on suicide watch.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 26, 2012
Well at least Iran has someone to play with now. That might not be a good thing.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 25, 2012
Gossips love to speculate that strip club visits equal marital doom, whereas I don't think you can infer anything from a strip club visit other than that a guy likes to look at scantily clad women.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 25, 2012
Maybe some soundproofing is in order?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 25, 2012
‘Cause how we raise our children is totally society’s business.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 24, 2012
Andrew Shaffer gives us the skinny on the private lives of 37 philosophers, in Great Philosophers Who Failed at Love, all full of various types of affairs, angst, desire, despair and scandal.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 24, 2012
We told you we could tell!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 24, 2012
Much, much less than you'd think.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 23, 2012
In September 2010, pundit Dan Savage started the “It Gets Better” project — a series of videos aimed at informing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender teenagers that despite the bullying and abuse they were victims of in school, “it gets better” as they grow up.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 23, 2012
Don't worry! Ads won't be all abortion, all the time.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 23, 2012
What would we do without strangers protecting us from evil, discriminatory children?
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 20, 2012
Schmekel is Yiddish for "little penis" and seems to be the perfect name for a “100 percent transgender, 100 percent Jewish” punk band that doesn't take itself too seriously. The band’s parody punk rock is made for fun but the end result is an act that crosses boundaries and reaches beyond the queer audience you'd expect.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 20, 2012
Apparently "one man, one woman" only applies to LGBT relationships.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 20, 2012
Check one out at Ottawa's new Human Library!
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 19, 2012
Every month, tons of strangers send me links to things that cannot be unseen. Then I carefully curate a list of the most WTF links that you probably need to know just to be able to keep up with popular culture references. Think of it as educational.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 19, 2012
Stepping out into the world of dating at the age of 18 is scary enough without adding the worry that your kinks will make people think you're a freak. Mr. Sexsmith offers some sage advice on coming to terms with who you are and building up the courage to step off the dating curb.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 19, 2012
American women might do well to take a cue from the French.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 18, 2012
It would have been okay if he were having sex.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 18, 2012
We like it when science proves us right.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 17, 2012
Creepy or commendable?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 17, 2012
Why do we distinguish by title between married and unmarried women, anyway?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 16, 2012
They will be if the ostriches have their way!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 16, 2012
Teens need more than knowing it gets better. Like, you know, an end to bullying.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Jan. 13, 2012
Tim is my best friend, and I love him enough that I would marry him as long as one of us were dying within a year, because I'd probably stop being able to handle being married to him after that.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 13, 2012
Now your toothbrush can be used for what it was meant for: Your teeth.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 13, 2012
Maybe he won't have to take Viagra anymore?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 12, 2012
Obviously, expedient divorce is more important than marriage equality.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 11, 2012
The biggest thing I learned about sex in 2011 is that, like life, it's unpredictable. Every time I thought I had a handle on my desire(s), on what I'm looking for, and not looking for, the universe threw me a curve, a challenge, a dare. I was engaged in a power play scene with the universe and it was my master, big time.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 11, 2012
You might be pleasantly surprised!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 11, 2012
Maybe they think we'd put men to shame with our vagina knowledge?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 10, 2012
What if you merged politics and the Kama Sutra?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 10, 2012
Oh, if gender reassignment were only that easy.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 10, 2012
Who knew pedophilia was a medical disability?
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 09, 2012
Certainly being overweight can make life more difficult for some individuals, but declaring the state of being thin as a privilege is inappropriate and dismisses the efforts of many people who work to achieve a healthy weight.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 09, 2012
Brought to you by the folks of Improv Everywhere. We love you guys!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 06, 2012
If he doesn't get women, nobody ever will.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 06, 2012
Being stuck in the desert with other Scientologists wasn't torture enough.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 05, 2012
Rachel recently sat down with Preston Charles (you know, the black gay guy from The Real World, New Orleans) to talk about his recent MTV special, Coming Out, his own coming out and well, then things get a little out of hand...
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 05, 2012
Ooo, maybe she'll let us play with her whip!
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 05, 2012
Have you ever heard of “The Elephant Posture”?
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 04, 2012
Not if the feminists have their way.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 03, 2012
There's more to Mongolia than Genghis Khan and Buddhism.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 03, 2012
’Cause they like to guarantee Cancer in France.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 02, 2012
Boy, did we have some doozies this year.
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 02, 2012
According to Cardinal Francis George, they both oppress the Catholic church.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 30, 2011
Says the Internet kept him honest. Thanks, Internet!
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 30, 2011
Way to start it off right!
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Dec. 29, 2011
We may abhor the streetwalker, glorify the escort, covet the centerfold, and vie for the attention of the sacred priestess, but the differences in the transactions seem like minutia lost in the facts; money is exchanged, sexual favors are granted.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 29, 2011
He is to blame. He is not. He is to blame... Oh, who knows, really?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 29, 2011
LA voters may be asked for their opinion.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 28, 2011
Or better yet ... What if his lover was in the mob?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 28, 2011
But only for female detainees in military prisons.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 27, 2011
Put that in your pipe and smoke it, Etchemins High School.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 27, 2011
Nina is wrapping up the year with a collection of questions on several topics.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 27, 2011
Even the coffee's gay around here.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 26, 2011
We're betting the missus is grateful.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 23, 2011
Just what you always wanted!
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 23, 2011
... while Louisiana troop leaders give hatred instead.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 22, 2011
Winter Solstice, meet your kink. A dendrophiliac is a person who is attracted to trees, who has romantic, sensual, sexual encounters with the forest. So, in this (most wonderful) time of year, when the evergreen tree becomes a decorated centerpiece of the Holiday Season, why not draw our attention to those who have a very personal relationship to trees?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 22, 2011
Log Cabin Republicans say we're just hearing him wrong.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 22, 2011
Holiday fairy tale endings are the best kind.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 21, 2011
Butch Top is feeling nervous about their partner touching their "man boobies" and finds the attention makes them feel less "top-confident" in the bedroom. Mr. Sexsmith has some suggestions for how to overcome this uneasiness and maintain confidence in the bedroom.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 21, 2011
Court cites spirit of the law rather than letter.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 21, 2011
In as few as five years, HIV may go the way of Polio.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 20, 2011
... With himself, his family and his constituents.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 20, 2011
Mamas, don't let your babies grow up to be rapists.
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by Midori,
Dec. 19, 2011
What’s with all the alien or monster tentacles in Japanese porn and anime?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 19, 2011
It's the right thing to do.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 16, 2011
We hope they all get to explain this to their moms.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Dec. 15, 2011
The author explores the sexier side of where God meets Sex to ponder: what is it about bliss that turns our brains to mush?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 15, 2011
Pretty much a recipe, there, for offending someone. But not us.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 15, 2011
Oklahoma is rated worst for domestic violence, CDC says.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 14, 2011
The new film Shame, starring an often-nude Michael Fassbinder as Brandon, with Carey Mulligan as his sister, Cissy, directed by Steve McQueen, is drawing lots of buzz and discussion about whether sex addiction actually exists.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 14, 2011
Accommodations for women only: Feminine choice, or discrimination?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 14, 2011
Now there are 24 flavors of sexual orientation from which to choose!
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 13, 2011
Politicians propose on-site "passenger advocate" for JFK airport.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 13, 2011
What do you do if you hate sex, but still want a relationship? is it normal to want nothing to do with sex? Is it possible to find a companion who can accept this or perhaps even shares your lack of desire?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 13, 2011
Hulk files defamation lawsuit, Brutus may as well.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 13, 2011
It's sort of hard to find someone to root for, in this battle.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 13, 2011
Women with unwanted pregnancies have higher incidence of mental health problems.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2011
Marriage. Divorce. Dating. Sperm Donors. Insect Sex. November had a little bit of something for everyone to be thankful. Break out the leftovers and dig into the best of SexIs from November.
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by Roland Hulme,
Dec. 12, 2011
The Internet is home to a lot of heated commentary — these discussions often get out of hand, resorting to name calling and accusations of hatred for marginalized groups. But having a different point of view shouldn’t automatically condemn someone to the Dark Side — it’s time we gave the language we use in such discussions a reality check.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 12, 2011
Silicone injections from a fake doctor? Not surprisingly, someone dies in this story.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 12, 2011
More than two partners in the last year? Your organs might be "risky" under proposed guidelines.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 12, 2011
We're thinking she didn't think this all the way through.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 09, 2011
9-year-old boy who made "suggestive" comments to teacher is in the clear, but principal loses job.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Dec. 09, 2011
For years now I've had a saying. "Anything worth doing is worth doing in excess." When I drink, it's single malt scotch. When I eat, it's lemons and the hottest peppers I can find. When I work out, I push myself past reasonable limits. And, when I date, well...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 09, 2011
No, this was not BDSM college; Virginia man gets two years in jail.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 09, 2011
Files suit to "protect other women" from sexual abuse; alleged abuser still working.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 09, 2011
Sisters on The Pill? It might help lower their risk of cancer, later in life.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 08, 2011
Dispensers removed from dormitories; university's role in sex safety and education debated.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 08, 2011
Shockingly, The Great Wall doesn't come tumbling down, either.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 08, 2011
FDA says it's safe for over the counter; HHS secretary says more study is needed.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 07, 2011
Given pole-dance aerobics mania and how many times we’ve heard the “what would you dance to” question, it seems being a stripper has become a common female fantasy. But there is a difference between the fantasy of what you might dance to and the reality of stripping and the music you would end up dancing to shift in and out.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 07, 2011
You know what? We think grandmothers, generally, are much more trustworthy than government officials.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 07, 2011
"Control Tonight" tries to be helpful but is utterly tone-deaf on sexual assault.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 07, 2011
Conflict of interest? What conflict of interest?
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 07, 2011
Clinton gets a standing ovation for speech at United Nations.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 06, 2011
As ArtInfo.com points out, there are two ways you can hear the phrase “Fucking James Franco,” and how you feel about James Franco probably determines your interpretation.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 06, 2011
... because we're in horrible danger from back braces and colostomy bags.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 06, 2011
The moral of the story is: If you're going to hire a male escort, don't make him mad at you.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 06, 2011
Apparently no need to get hysterical about teens and their sexy cell phone messages. Which we weren't.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 05, 2011
There is this game played among women, usually on long car trips or on the couch with some wine. It goes like this: if you were a stripper, what songs would you dance to? Given the seriousness I’ve seen this question approached with, it seems many women have pondered this — the popularity of pole dancer-cizing would attest to this as well. Stripping seems to have become a common female fantasy.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
Fake profiles of babies will probably all get deleted ... someday, somehow.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
Group wants soccer association to raise awareness, educate fans ... or else.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
Thanks, now we have the Beatles' song "Baby You Can Drive My Car" stuck in our head.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 05, 2011
But he leaves us with a Pokemon quote, which is cute and creepy at the same time.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 02, 2011
The Starlite Lounge, founded in 1959, was Brooklyn’s oldest gay bar and the first black owned gay bar in the city. It was more than a gay bar; it was more than a neighborhood safe haven; it was both and so much more to those who gathered on World AIDS Day to remember the times they shared.
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by Barak & Sheba,
Dec. 02, 2011
Why are the smallest words in our language the hardest to say? When looked at impassionately, these opposing tiny words are easy to write and say. They practically draw no attention; that is until we add emotion. Then they can become almost impossible to use. What are we talking about? The words that compose the shortest sentences in our language: “Yes”, and “No.”
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 02, 2011
Board votes, 9-6, against participation by interracial couples.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 02, 2011
... and he's held in a jail that was named after him.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 02, 2011
Judge says Cuomo's tactics in securing passage of law were legally questionable.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 01, 2011
In honor of World AIDS Day 2011, the staff of Edenfantasys got together to share our personal messages of hope, remembrance and encouragement.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 01, 2011
Though chronic pain has become a more medically-recognized condition, whether as a complication of another diagnosis or an unexplained phenomenon existing by itself, one frontier remains: How do people with chronic pain and their partners maintain a healthy, exciting sex life?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 01, 2011
... and, turns out, teacher has a lot of support and Fox, less than they expected.
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by Liz Langley,
Dec. 01, 2011
Great idea, and also probably a porn movie just waiting to happen. What would Freud do?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 01, 2011
Judge says photographic evidence and victim's testimony aren't persuasive.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 30, 2011
When the doors to your bedroom, and what you do inside, are thrown open for the world to see; when your sex life becomes fair game for speculation, it can change everything.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 30, 2011
If you're caught being gay, supporting gay rights, hanging out with gays ... go to jail.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 30, 2011
Youth organization says sex education curriculum is inadequate.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 30, 2011
Memorial at Paris gravesite will be cleaned, put behind protective glass.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 30, 2011
Expansion of testing and care are priorities for stopping spread of HIV.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 29, 2011
Attorney says alleged 13-year affair is really none of anyone's business.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 29, 2011
... But we have to wonder if it's just an excuse to publish photos of hot women in short skirts.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 29, 2011
Because it's, like, in the Constitution. Uh-huh.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 29, 2011
Ground-breaking film director battled censors and prudish critics throughout career.
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by Laurel,
Nov. 28, 2011
As World AIDS Day 2011 approaches, on December 1st, I've been thinking about what I have to say that I have not said before on the topic. My thoughts inevitably turn to my daughter who, each year, as I write about WAD, has just had a birthday, bringing how her life has changed in the last year to the forefront of my thoughts. At her age (now 14) things change quickly.
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by Roland Hulme,
Nov. 28, 2011
The more the sex positive community talks about the importance of respecting boundaries, the more alarming it becomes when, in mainstream dating, some women have been encouraging men to do the opposite for decades.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
Trial of three of them starts today; Police say semen was used for rituals.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
Though maybe not with each other ... Even Riverdale can catch up with the times.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
Sam's Club washes its hands of "The Brick Testament."
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 28, 2011
If your spouse works for the phone company ... Um. He trusts you, right?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 25, 2011
Feds think temporary use of vaccine might stop spread of bacteria that causes spontaneous abortions.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 25, 2011
Scientist show that clothes just slow us down. Well, in a way, anyway.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 25, 2011
Riot police “acted like animals.” And then they found out she was an American citizen. Oops.
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by Jeff Schult,
Nov. 24, 2011
Former pro wrestler faces some serious prison time in Ohio.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 23, 2011
Reunited with ex, they share their story with tabloid press.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 23, 2011
Pastor starts public kissing competition for married couples, and we watch approvingly.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 23, 2011
Mamas, Don't let your daughters grow up to be waitresses? C'mon ...
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 23, 2011
New HIV infections steady since 2007; Deaths from AIDS declined slightly in 2010.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 22, 2011
You think you’ve got romantic problems.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 22, 2011
This sounds like an upgrade, but taxpayers aren't necessarily buying it.
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by Veronica Monet,
Nov. 22, 2011
People who are born biologically male may not have wombs in the medical sense of the word, but do they have wombs in any other sense? Most of us think the word “womb” applies only to that aspect of anatomy in which a baby grows, but some envision womb as a gender-neutral energetic reality.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 22, 2011
We totally approve of getting naked for peace, don't you?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 22, 2011
Robbery suspected as motive, NYPD searches for killer.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 21, 2011
It's in Ohio! And it's in the UK, where grandma says a spirit is “like an octopus.”
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 21, 2011
Stars make good on promises of dates for enterprising soldiers.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 21, 2011
Guys: “Cocksox” will help you stand out in a crowd. Or get you arrested. We're not sure.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 21, 2011
Guys, it increases the risk of penile cancer. Seriously. Scientists say so!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
And then there's the AT&T “Vivid,” which was a trademark lawsuit (or partnership?) waiting to happen.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 18, 2011
Last week when news of Kim Kardashian's divorce shook up the Internet, I asked: What's with the so-called “sanctity”of this marriage? Does the institution actually have any sanctity?
The short answer? No.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
Let's face it: Some kids make it a little too easy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
And we're glad she didn't do it via Twitter, you know?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 18, 2011
But, see, it's perfectly legal to discriminate against gays in Texas.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 17, 2011
Sexuality educator Marylou Naccarato waxes on the importance of sensuality to happiness and creative uses for low, Japanese tables that don’t involve sushi.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 17, 2011
Apparently, they've been busy with other things up until now.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 17, 2011
Suspect turns self in, says he was “broke and lonely.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 17, 2011
Unnamed hackers blamed for “coordinated spam attack.”
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 16, 2011
Sexuality educator and vibrator aggregator Marylou Naccarato discusses the importance of sensuality to happiness and why being “differently-abled” simply means finding alternative paths to fulfillment.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 16, 2011
Shopping for a potential mate and a potential sperm donor involves evaluation of very different sets of information. When choosing the DNA material to pair with yours to create a child, what's really important and how does it different from choosing a potential life partner?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 16, 2011
If monogamy isn't for you, 'fess up. Addiction doesn't seem like it's the real problem.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 16, 2011
Yes, we're a little skeptical, too. But hear them out ...
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 15, 2011
Lady spiders, take note. There are cheapskates out there.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 15, 2011
It seems, to us, that comprehensive sex education pays off.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 15, 2011
Tolerance, anyone? You don't have to actually like him.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 15, 2011
According to aide, some women had to be hospitalized afterwards.
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by Roland Hulme,
Nov. 14, 2011
In the sex positive talk space we hear a lot about “male privilege” but rarely — if ever — discuss what privileges women have that men don’t.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 14, 2011
Icon tells how she didn't fit in, was tortured in high school.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 14, 2011
Texas teen said her story wasn't believed, and she committed suicide.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 14, 2011
Shades of Penn State: “We regret that we did not pursue this matter further.”
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 14, 2011
Until now, gender reassignment expenses were denied as being “cosmetic.”
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 11, 2011
Defending Joe Paterno to 8 million followers didn't work out well for him.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 11, 2011
We don't know why they denied it, but we guess they didn't know there were ... photos.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Nov. 11, 2011
Hey guys, you think you've got the online dating thing figured out, you think you have game, but really, you don't. Nikol says you're "gaming yourselves out of the game" and there are three things you need to stop doing.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 11, 2011
He thinks so, anyway, and he should know. Neurologists are fascinated.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 11, 2011
Student, age 60, files complaint about class in human sexuality. What was she expecting?
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Nov. 10, 2011
It wasn’t until a long-time friend confided in her about her a midlife lesbian affair that the author was willing to investigate female sexual fluidity, and not just from a scientific distance — new research suggests a woman’s libidinous nature expands as she ages — but also psychologically.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 10, 2011
Dudes: Learn to dance. Because that's what it's all about.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 10, 2011
Yes, that's all it takes. You can't pose like an adult if you don't look like one?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 10, 2011
Yes, it is crazy that they would have to vote on it.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 10, 2011
$48M program hopes to identify up to 3,500 untreated cases.
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by Mollena,
Nov. 09, 2011
Get to know our newest columnist, Mollena Williams.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 09, 2011
As porn-friendly as we are, we're not sure we want to see it on airplanes.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 09, 2011
Melting the Stone wants to know if she can ever move past childhood abuse and allow herself to be touched by others, or if she's doomed to a life lacking physical intimacy.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 09, 2011
Fortunately, it was bird shot. And she's not mad any more.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 09, 2011
He dug them up, took them home and dressed them up. Not kidding.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 09, 2011
Some journalists really will do anything for a scoop.
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 08, 2011
October was boob month. Breast Cancer Awareness Month sparked somber inspiration for many of our writers and columnists and the subject was clearly on the minds of many of our readers. Still, we tried to approach the topic as a celebration of not only surviving the disease but of breasts themselves.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 08, 2011
Pop star denies everything, says he'll take paternity test.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 08, 2011
“... Our relationship was overcome by this tragedy.”
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 08, 2011
Harassers think it's not a big deal or that they're funny.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 08, 2011
The population on earth recently topped seven billion people. Most experts agree the planet's ability to support us is already stretched thin. You'd think, then, that population control as a method for preserving our ability to survive on this planet with it's finite resources would be a popular topic. So why are people and organizations who support the concept shying away from bringing it up?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 07, 2011
We imagine they'll have to say a few “Hail Marys.” Or something.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 07, 2011
No, not “The Quadraboob!” Cue the scary music at The Boobie Trap.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 07, 2011
But we will, because he's running for president. And if he sexually harassed women, we'd like to know.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 07, 2011
School's athletic director and a vice president of the university allegedly failed to report incidents.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 04, 2011
Yes, this is abuse. And we're thinking he got off easy.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 04, 2011
And the mom might be guilty of statutory rape.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 04, 2011
Dead Libyan leader kept photo albums and a video, set to music. Um. Eww?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 04, 2011
Censors and politicians are more recent inventions, you know?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
We know, everybody's gotta make a buck, but ...
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 03, 2011
When my grandfather died he left me partial ownership of a used tractor.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 03, 2011
Kim Kardashian threw a lavish multi million dollar wedding, only to divorce two months later. The gossip has prompted a wave of tweets along the lines of... “tell me again why the sanctity of marriage is threatened by gays?” But I ask, has marriage ever had sanctity?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
Compared to seniors in the '70s, they're also more sociable ... yet lonelier.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
His computer was hooked up to a billboard. Oops ...
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 03, 2011
Police remove one guy from Zuccotti Park who really didn't need to be there.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 02, 2011
Maybe the tabloids will leave her alone now but we totally doubt it.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 02, 2011
This sounds entirely NOT funny and not sexy, and we hope it goes away.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 02, 2011
Age has been on my mind since I'm about to turn 36 on November 10th. I'm often told I don't look my age, and I certainly don't feel my age, but I can't deny that what I want out of sex and relationships has changed since I was 26, and even from when I was 30. Sometimes I think the older I get, the less I know about how sex works — not so much the physical side, but the rest of it.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 02, 2011
There's no shortage of wives and girlfriends to volunteer, either.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 01, 2011
It's probably bad enough to be known as the penis-pump judge, but ...
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by Em & Lo,
Nov. 01, 2011
Before Facebook, MySpace, Google, et al, the “one who got away” (OWGA) was rarely more than a passing daydream — or a handy bit of masturbation material.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 01, 2011
Tradition, the "King" asks? Be careful what you wish for.
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 01, 2011
GOP presidential candidate says he was falsely accused.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Nov. 01, 2011
Yes, she was arrested. It could have ended a lot worse, right?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 31, 2011
If your breasts could talk, what would they say?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 31, 2011
Adult stars happy they did it and pilot is in no trouble. So plan your jump now?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 31, 2011
And yes, he is an ordained minister. It's legal in New York, so plenty good enough for us.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 31, 2011
“Please no masks or cross-dressing.” So ... what's left?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 31, 2011
Newspaper's investigation says organization has secret files on reports of molestation.
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by Roland Hulme,
Oct. 31, 2011
Reports suggest human breast milk can combat more than 40 types of cancer — with safer and more reliable results than anything with a FDA approval label stamped on it. Despite milk clearly “doing the body good” are we as a society too hung up to take advantage?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 28, 2011
... Or you can look at pictures of the real thing in Playboy.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 28, 2011
Call me crazy, but I like my monsters monstrous.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 28, 2011
Look for yourself. What else could they be doing?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 28, 2011
They're much more comprehensive. And their teen birth rate is half that of the U.S.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 28, 2011
More proof, perhaps, that some shoplifters need treatment, not punishment.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Oct. 27, 2011
The powerful meanings breasts convey as life-givers and life-destroyers are varied and complex. There are the ‘good breasts’ that we associate with lactating mothers and the ‘bad breasts’ that kill us with cancer; in between we squeeze in the ‘naughty breasts’ of sexuality that, depending on perspective, can be bad, good or both.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 27, 2011
Repulsive? Unreliable? Probably. But ... well, they're college kids ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 27, 2011
Unconstitutional? Sure. Will it stop them? Maybe not ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 27, 2011
More than 100 women are suing companies and the FDA is under fire, too.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 26, 2011
Contemplating a controversial artist’s new “toy” – and the all-important question of whether it should be placed in your bum.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 26, 2011
We know, that sounds kind of obvious. But ... read on ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 26, 2011
Controversial group vows to continue to crash targeted servers.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 25, 2011
Yes, now airport security leaves notes when they find vibrators in luggage.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 25, 2011
Halloween is without question the best of all possible holidays…there’s no family BS, no gift guilt, just tricks, treats and terror. But let’s face it…trying to squeeze something sexy out of it is like trying to take candy from Rosemary’s Baby.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 25, 2011
New York curriculum for mandatory classes draws scrutiny.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 25, 2011
We don't know if she minded, but of course the police did.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 25, 2011
In Hindi, it means “unwanted.” Maybe now, they won't be ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 24, 2011
Breast Cancer Is Not a Pink Ribbon.
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by Midori,
Oct. 24, 2011
Sydney Australia – A world class city, with gorgeous beaches, beautiful people, and brilliant food. But there’s more to this city than what the guidebooks share. If you want to take the time to go find the naughty side of Sydney, it’s there for the taking. Nude beaches? SM parties? Cruise bars? Swingers clubs? Wacky drag queens and drag kings? Legal brothels? They’ve got it!
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 24, 2011
Ben & Jerry's sensation is apparently too naughty for some supermarkets.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 24, 2011
The case of the missing “G” ... two points for sneakiness, perhaps.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 24, 2011
Transplant surgery a first in Australia.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Oct. 21, 2011
We made it! After twelve episodes of fighting, literal head-banging, drinking and cooka-baring, the fourth season of Jersey Shore has come to a close, which means the show’s cast members can finally, FINALLY escape from the cesspool of Florence, Italy, back to the bastion of culture and sophistication that is Seaside Heights, New Jersey.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 21, 2011
Oops. Elementary school recalls fund-raising rewards.
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by TinaV,
Oct. 21, 2011
Queer porn director, producer, and performer Courtney Trouble has spent the last ten years changing the face of the porn industry with her sites No Fauxxx and Queer Porn TV that feature performers of all ethnicities, body types, genders, and sexual orientations coming together in one hot, steamy sex pile. Trouble is breaking new ground by declaring today International Fisting Day.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 21, 2011
“So putting your foot in a heel, you are putting yourself in a possibly orgasmic situation.”
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 21, 2011
We're not sure science is the best way to judge, either, but here goes ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 21, 2011
Sad saga of Ohio exotic animal farm winds down; nearly 50 were killed.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 20, 2011
Scientists are at it again. And “the older they got, the more likely they were to choose ‘unlabeled.’”
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Oct. 20, 2011
The transman who once loved women, but finds himself attracted solely to men after taking hormones has become LGBTQ lore. There've been few formal studies, but it comes up again and again in discussion; it was a plot-line on The L Word and was even covered as a ‘trend’ by New York Magazine. Now, porn star and trans activist, Buck Angel is making a documentary on the ever-controversial topic.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 20, 2011
In case you weren't watching at 3 a.m., Zach, his name's Dan Kloeffler ... 35/GWM ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 20, 2011
Just in time for Halloween, we suppose, if you feel you need to know where they live.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 20, 2011
We love, love, love this idea. Coming to Showtime ...
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by Rydell Johnson,
Oct. 19, 2011
Fighting cancer – and saving beautiful ta-tas – one t-shirt at a time.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 19, 2011
Proposed law would make it a crime even when both are adults.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 19, 2011
No, this is apparently NOT a good way to help her get into the school of your choice ...
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by Veronica Monet,
Oct. 18, 2011
Sexual trauma often occurs in response to incest, molestation and rape; but other events can incur sexual trauma as well. Both necessary and unnecessary medical procedures can lead to sexual dysfunction if they result in damage to the sex organs or pelvic trauma.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 18, 2011
Yes, we had the same reaction. Is NOTHING sacred?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 18, 2011
Lawsuits fly between Larry, Jimmy and sons over use of name.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 18, 2011
Texas teen's parents vow to pursue reinstatement. Yeah!
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 18, 2011
“Call your doctor tomorrow, make an appointment. That’s what you could do for me.”
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Oct. 17, 2011
It’s the penultimate episode of Jersey Shore, which means there’s only one week left to watch the Situation, Snooki, et. al. embarrass themselves and America as a whole in one of the world’s most beautiful cities. So before the cast makes it’s triumphant return to Jersey next season, let’s take a look at some of this week’s most fascinating moments, shall we?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 17, 2011
... but contraception for all the deer in New Jersey is a little pricey.
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by Roland Hulme,
Oct. 17, 2011
Doctors still attempt to promote the unnecessary and unethical practice of male infant circumcision – and have begun using increasingly questionable science to support their argument.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 17, 2011
Now starring in “Margin Call,” actor opens up about his sexuality and puts rumors to rest.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 17, 2011
Breast cancer group wants the product taken off shelves.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 14, 2011
This probably doesn't work for just anyone, of course ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 14, 2011
Federal definition of marriage still excludes same-sex couples.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 14, 2011
Would you pay $15K for this particular piece of ass?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 14, 2011
Prosecutors won't bring charges despite evidence in 2003 case.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 13, 2011
Budget cuts, political gamesmanship blamed. Meanwhile, prosecutions stop.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 13, 2011
Jocks wouldn't fit in. Unless they were gay, of course.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 13, 2011
Condom use among teen-age boys on the rise.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 12, 2011
We get the joke, but we're not sure it's the same joke they think it is.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 12, 2011
If that epic image is burned onto your retina, you're welcome!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 12, 2011
ACLU may go to court in Tennessee. Bullies, beware!
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 12, 2011
Mary's struggling with the gender roles and sexual top and bottom roles within her relationship and getting her partner to fill the role of top is proving to be a challenge.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 11, 2011
Dr. Drew's Celebrity Sex Rehab has brought focus to sex as an addiction, an idea with which many disagree, including some of his former celebrity patients.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 11, 2011
You can blame him for a lot of things, sure, but not that.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 11, 2011
Malawi loses out; Uganda and Ghana may be next.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 11, 2011
We'll be avoiding those free samples from now on, thanks very much.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 11, 2011
Former babysitter caught on camera.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 10, 2011
September was a month filled with the strange and unusual. From pool toy fetishes to Schweddy Balls ice cream to Eels you might want to avoid swimming with… the bizarre topped this months’ list of most read and most shared articles.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 10, 2011
For ourselves, we think we'd be a little gun-shy ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 10, 2011
We wonder if they'll be watching in Indiana ... sure they will!
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 10, 2011
Oops. Surgeon leaves names on before-and-after photos.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 10, 2011
Ever more powerful antibiotics needed, as STD's resistance grows.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Oct. 07, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 07, 2011
We get the point. But the road to censorship is paved with good intentions, you know?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 07, 2011
Funnier still, maybe: He could change his own name to "Big Swinging Dick" ...
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 07, 2011
Men more affected than women, but scientists don't know why.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 06, 2011
Yes, we said “cannibal murderer model.” You read that correctly.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Oct. 06, 2011
The Queen of Pop became the King of Drag on stage (and off) at the recent MTV's VMA 2011, performing as her alter ego, Jo Calderone, and opened up the world of drag kings for a peek from millions of mainstream Americans. Has she done for women in drag what RuPaul did for men in dresses?
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 06, 2011
And her new husband is just a youth of 60. She's our kind of royalty.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 06, 2011
Study suggests that the sex of the people around us may lead us to consume more or less food.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Oct. 05, 2011
There’s an old saying: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. But when life gives you breast cancer, is it possible to find anything positive about the experience? These eight women bravely fought their disease in the public eye, so others like them would know they are not alone.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 05, 2011
Since it's Tupac, the bidding apparently starts at $150,000.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 05, 2011
It turns out the video was shot in 2008, so it's too late now.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 05, 2011
If it was a few times, we'd call it romantic. But this is borderline OCD.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 05, 2011
Study of African couples under review by World Health Organization.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 04, 2011
See? They really are very safe ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Oct. 04, 2011
F*ck Cancer t-shirt proceeds intended for Raven Alexis will benefit St. Jude.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 04, 2011
Just add that picture we know you have. Yes, that one ...
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by Roland Hulme,
Oct. 03, 2011
Today’s political arena has seen several right-wing female icons emerge — Sarah Palin and Michelle Bachmann, amongst others — but feminists and liberals seem unable to criticize these new political figures without resorting to the same sort of misogyny they’ve spent years complaining about.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 03, 2011
GOP presidential candidates almost uniformly run from issue.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 03, 2011
We think we'd be able to tell, but apparently not everyone can.
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 03, 2011
Pull 'em up, it's the law. Oops, too late!
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 03, 2011
FakeGirlFriend.co is for when you're really lame, or really need an excuse.
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by Roland Hulme,
Sep. 30, 2011
As a column, Devil’s Advocate is intended to push the envelop, challenge the way you think and spark debate — but not just for the sake of controversy.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 30, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 30, 2011
Mexico City mulls offering temporary licenses. Can we call them learners' permits?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 30, 2011
Which is more provocative? We really aren't sure.
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by Barak & Sheba,
Sep. 30, 2011
From an innocent tickle and slap on the ass to whips and chains or masters and slaves, the world of kink and BDSM is hardly the same for everybody involved. But what all kinky folk do have in common is the desire for what's at the heart of all kinky activity: creative sexual expression.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 30, 2011
Just good ol' boys sharing some porn, right? Wrong.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 30, 2011
Donation puts land trust over the top. Who would want to live next to that sign, anyway?!
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Sep. 29, 2011
This author thought she had the street smarts to avoid sexual scam artists. The only problem was, this one came wearing a faux halo and rugged six-pack.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 29, 2011
There are plenty of good reasons why, and some not-so-good reasons why not.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 29, 2011
He's got some rum to sell. What did you think we meant?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 29, 2011
Why? Maybe because they aren't marrying as young as they used to.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 29, 2011
Commemoration at dance marred by taunts: “We're glad you're dead.”
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 28, 2011
“L Word” actress and girlfriend escorted from plane, urge boycott.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 28, 2011
You've got questions on gender, relationships, strap-on sex and everything in between. Mr. Sexsmith returns with advice, opinions and insights for all in his new column Mr. Sexsmith Says...
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 28, 2011
Irish dude tells her to take off her clothes somewhere else. Presumably, she does.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 28, 2011
The BBC is not amused, threatens suit against adult event.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 27, 2011
So you’re not one of the world’s six (of six billion) beautiful people. Think about the gulf between Steve Buscemi and Madea: unless you’re a whole new life form, you’re in that mix and somebody digs it.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 27, 2011
Florida woman takes roommate to task with a six iron.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 27, 2011
No one should be surprised. Everyone should be concerned.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 27, 2011
Oh, Canada! We'll vote fore a little cleavage, every time.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 27, 2011
... Because how else would Charley Chase end up on a fire truck?
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by Midori,
Sep. 26, 2011
Small acts of kindness toward a stranger can lead to an heroic effect in that person's life.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 26, 2011
Probably you ought to ask him, instead of your smartphone.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 26, 2011
He says the term is now generic, but isn't going to show up for court date.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 26, 2011
No one gets away with anything, but at least they're all alive.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 23, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 23, 2011
We're pretty sure, ourselves, that gay marriage only causes gay people to be married.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 23, 2011
Armed with choice words for the would-be literati who condemn her latest effort, writer Mitzi Szereto becomes Jane Austen by way of “Fanny Hill.”
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 23, 2011
Did anyone ask the wives about this, and will they even notice?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 23, 2011
It's all about fitness, but U.K. Muslims are angered by photos.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 23, 2011
California judges say she's “reasonably safe.” Think so?
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by TinaV,
Sep. 22, 2011
One trans man and one trans woman come together to work on a project that reflects their unique, yet shared experience in being transgendered.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 22, 2011
... but his wife calls younger woman “a predator” as divorce looms.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 22, 2011
And it's 95 percent effective ... as long as you don't forget.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 22, 2011
New law allows former “pimp controlled” sex workers a fresh start.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 22, 2011
Buffalo, N.Y., youth commits suicide over bullying.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 21, 2011
They've had this problem before, and it might be the same guy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 21, 2011
Police hunt man who has attacked nine victims in Brooklyn since March.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 21, 2011
Controversial statue in Prague is stolen ... if you find it, there's a $30,000 reward.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 21, 2011
Humor is probably wasted on them, but not on us.
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by Veronica Monet,
Sep. 20, 2011
Womb isn't a particularly sexy word. A term for the uterus, womb also refers to a place where something is generated or an encompassing, protective space. Womb is where things originate and for the purposes of this column, womb is where orgasm and love can find their deepest expression.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 20, 2011
New York prosecutor under investigation after her double life is exposed.
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 20, 2011
What do you do when you're a young woman who finds herself attracted to women far older than you? Can you find love? Should you be resigned to settling for girls your own age because you don't have enough experience for an older woman?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 20, 2011
It's about time, we think, and we hope the idea spreads.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 20, 2011
It's really kind of a brilliant idea, when you think about it.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 20, 2011
Yes, it's a lot of money. But they all get it, so why single out Cicciolina?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
... well, at least when it comes from a sperm bank.
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by Roland Hulme,
Sep. 19, 2011
Parents can be sexual, but there are limits.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
Drastic? Sure. But it works, you betcha.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
Crowdsourcing helps figure out structure of key enzyme. FTW!
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 19, 2011
Company says: “No immediate health issues.” How is pregnancy not a health issue?
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 16, 2011
Jersey Shore just gets better and better, doesn’t it? We honestly thought the show had peaked a couple seasons back, and that the cast’s trip to Florence was just a last-ditch gimmicky effort to become fun and shocking again.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 16, 2011
Yes, we know people get edgy. But the TSA gets out of control.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 16, 2011
Footage of Joan in the 1930s-'40s will be part of one-woman show.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 16, 2011
“The Next BIG Thing” turns into a dissing contest.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Sep. 15, 2011
Whether it’s coming from the mainstream or the gay community itself, that aphorism: “bisexuality is just a layover on the way to gay-town” has been slow to disappear. As more bi men come out — and more straight men experiment with kissing their friends, is male bi-phobia finally on the way out?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 15, 2011
Association of Catholic Priests agrees ... for what it's worth.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 15, 2011
Court says a female RN must be present, but allows him to practice.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 15, 2011
Those aren't the reasons we wouldn't vote for her, of course.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 14, 2011
And of course there's video. There's video of everything these days.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 14, 2011
First it's shocking, then amusing, and then it's just a whole lot of groping.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 14, 2011
Kids are urged to learn to identify trustworthy sites. We have a list, of course.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 13, 2011
When a story starts with "we were drinking Jim Beam out of beach buckets," and ends with "so I had to cut all my hair off," it should really be a lot crazier than this one. Nonetheless, that story is at the root of a 20 year obsession with my hair, its length and the weird sexual psychology that can go with our coifs.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 13, 2011
She claims requiring viewers to pay would help adult industry.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 13, 2011
... Because no one should have to be a Mouseketeer forever.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 13, 2011
They would like you to know that dogs do neither.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 12, 2011
After 12 blood-drenched, nudity-heavy episodes, the fourth season of HBO’s True Blood has drawn to a close. The season finale brought most, if not all of the show’s lingering subplots (Hotshot werepanthers? Andy’s fairy hook-up? Pam’s decay?) to some kind of conclusion, but one in particular holds more importance for the future of the show than any other: Sookie’s relationship status.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
We're not going to let it bother us, though.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
Suspect absconded with “only the sexiest items off washing lines.”
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
Thank you, autodialing. This is why you were invented?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 12, 2011
Viagra gets the blame, or the credit, for men not seeking help.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 09, 2011
Summer may have ended, but the cast of MTV’s Jersey Shore is still going hard, doing them and just killing it on the dance floor – sometimes so hard that they hurt their knee. But just like Ronnie dancing on one leg, there’s no stopping us from listing the top five most bizarre, intriguing and ridiculous things about our favorite reality show.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
Yes, they changed it. Can you say misogynist? Sure you can ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
Japan's latest fetish: Cute girls licking doorknobs.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
New rules will allow men who have not had sex for 12 months to contribute.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Sep. 09, 2011
Teaching kids about sex can be the toughest job for a parent. You want to make sure they have all the information they need, but sometimes it would just be awesome if someone else could deliver the message.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 09, 2011
He also apparently thinks child porn should be ignored.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 08, 2011
Alec Balldwin (oops) says his are still scrumptious, after all these years.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 08, 2011
“Naked Guys” would have to cover seats, don pants in restaurants.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 08, 2011
TSA worker sues for defamation, First Amendment at issue.
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by The Bloggess,
Sep. 08, 2011
My friend James sent me this awesome montage of sexist coffee ads from the 50’s. I can’t imagine a time when women wouldn’t respond with “Oh, perhaps I shouldn’t have added so much rat poison, dear.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 08, 2011
That's one way to get money. It's a bad way, though, and almost never works.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 07, 2011
In the dominant Western culture, the roles of transgendered, extremely feminine and homosexual men have been downplayed and marginalized, but in many cultures, those men who did not conform to traditionally masculine archetypes were actually treasured as a magical link to the spirit world.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 07, 2011
Sign in Scotland “too bold” for some politicians. We disagree.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 07, 2011
Hardened criminal? Priapism no joke for this New Yorker.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Sep. 07, 2011
It seems like everybody who is anybody has a sex tape floating around these days. Maybe you've thought about making your own — what would it take to get you do to it? Would the reality be as exciting as the fantasy?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 07, 2011
Tammy Baldwin, veteran U.S. representative, seeks Democratic nomination.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 07, 2011
As for the rest of us, well ... the porn ghetto launches next month.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 06, 2011
In France, they apparently take lack of sex very, very seriously.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 06, 2011
Even if they were, which they weren't, the critics are loons.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 06, 2011
Guys, guys ... you're not going to win this one, and are you sure you want to?
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 06, 2011
He claims photographing genitalia of patients was part of treatment and not creepy at all.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 05, 2011
Do it his way and technically it's all, well, kosher.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 05, 2011
“Sorry” never seems to be one of those words, does it.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 05, 2011
Adult industry was shut down for a week.
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by Roland Hulme,
Sep. 05, 2011
All violence is a hate crime, and should be treated equally.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Sep. 02, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 02, 2011
Law firm's tactics on behalf of adult film companies amount to extortion, critics say.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 01, 2011
Vagina lovers everywhere: A moment of silence, please.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 01, 2011
Women's rights groups call ruling a huge victory, and it is.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 01, 2011
What other star would show up as her own boyfriend?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Sep. 01, 2011
If you're soliciting in the “performance area,” you'd better have a ticket.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 31, 2011
Thanks to the Internet, we'd say this is wishful thinking.
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by Cole Riley,
Aug. 31, 2011
Controversy follows international award-winning writer Bruce Benderson as the author continues raising hell on his freewheeling, dangerous literary journey into the dark worlds of self, identity, and sexuality.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 31, 2011
We really don't think having the government watch us all the time is such a good idea, anyway.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 31, 2011
ABC wins praise from LGBT groups and, of course, is scorned by jerks.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 30, 2011
Have stubble? Like anal sex? You might be her guy.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 30, 2011
By now, slash is practically a household word in fandom, and a “slasher” isn’t just a gory movie anymore. But the kind of slash that’s about Frodo and Sam or Kirk and Spock has a redheaded stepchild: real person slash (RPS). Is writing slash about real people so different? Does it remain a fantasy, or does it have a greater impact?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 30, 2011
They're big, beautiful, raunchy and a little pissed off. What's not to like?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 30, 2011
He was the victim of a “How I lost my virginity” lie.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 30, 2011
Drinking is not an excuse to punch someone in the vagina.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 29, 2011
Plot and character development-wise, the fourth season of HBO’s True Blood has been more than a little disappointing. Fortunately, even at its weakest, True Blood retains one of its most interesting aspects: The way it uses the hyper-reality of supernatural creatures to explore human relationships.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
Experts suggest you choose between your laptop and your lover ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
We knew. You knew. Scientists lag behind?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
Oops. These things just happen, you know?
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by Cherry Trifle,
Aug. 29, 2011
We’re Here, We’re Queer, We’d Like A King Beachview, Please
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 29, 2011
Erotica may not go out of style but it does go out of print.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 26, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 26, 2011
And it was good for them! Or good for their immune systems, anyway.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 26, 2011
We didn't know until today that bull semen could be steamy or smelly ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 26, 2011
Longtime volunteer victimized by assistant scoutmaster's “witchhunt.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 26, 2011
Nearly 1,000 women denied over the years ... and one finally fought back.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Aug. 26, 2011
Gay resort chains are nothing new abroad, but what about closer to home? As the tendrils of marriage equality take root and the gay community continues its slow, measured march toward ubiquity, are LGBT hotels becoming just another no-big-deal niche in the travel industry?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 25, 2011
We're thinking this probably does not work for everyone.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 25, 2011
Well, not entirely ... but they aren't a priority, in top ten cities for unattached women.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 25, 2011
Panel of admirals says former Enterprise XO can stay in service.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 25, 2011
... And J-Cole is in there tweeting, as well.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 24, 2011
Joe Francis says surveillance camera will prove his innocence.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 24, 2011
“True Colors Residence” first facility of its kind in New York. Cyndi rocks.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 24, 2011
New Jersey school district says parents will be consulted in the future.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Aug. 24, 2011
Rachel White's Kinseyesque scale for measuring the degree of your submissiveness offers insights into more than just how submissive you might be in the bedroom.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2011
Some people think the petition for “allowing” Bert and Ernie to marry is stupid and goes too far. I say it’s stupid and doesn’t go far enough.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 23, 2011
And now we want to go see her in “Hysteria.” Who wouldn't?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2011
Lawsuit anticipated over rights of partner of woman who died.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2011
On the carpet? We get that. But on the wallpaper?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 23, 2011
We didn't really think they were, either, but it's nice that they were ... bicurious.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 22, 2011
The True Blood characters of Lafayette and Jesus both appear to be extreme examples of gay characters, with Lafayette embracing stereotypes while Jesus rejects them. It’s common knowledge that True Blood’s creator and producer Alan Ball is openly gay, but does his sexual identity give him free license to traffic in stereotypes?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
We think no one's going to want that dress now, anyway.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
... Because we're all a little stressed, sometimes.
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by Roland Hulme,
Aug. 22, 2011
Whacked out, drunken-ass consent is still consent; otherwise we have to reexamine a woman’s right to drink.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
Actress says hormone replacement keep her youthful, at 73.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 22, 2011
$28 million sought for use of alleged child porn image.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 19, 2011
We knew you wouldn't want to forget, right?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 19, 2011
Ron Paul supporter takes out ad looking for dirt on Texas governor.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 19, 2011
Well, for bugs it is, anyway ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 19, 2011
Jann Wenner, perhaps, will finally marry long-time male partner.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 19, 2011
And we’re back! Another episode of Jersey Shore down and another slew of disgusting, creepy, psychotic and just plain fascinating things to talk about from a sex and gender perspective.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 18, 2011
UK judge dismisses charges in assault case.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 18, 2011
Pennsylvania politician quaintly worried about influx of transient energy workers.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 18, 2011
These things always seem to backfire, don't they ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 18, 2011
GLAAD on his tail for anti-LGBT podcast rant.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 17, 2011
This week, romance flourishes between Sookie and Eric while they experience much more than the usual high of new relationship energy.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 17, 2011
There's a time-space continuum for everything these days.
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by Dave Gammon,
Aug. 17, 2011
Adult film icon from the 90's, Inari Vachs, decided to take a break from the adult film industry and all but disappeared entirely. But, she says, she never intended to retire and has returned, as beautiful and busy as ever. Dave Gammon recently sat down with stunning star to chat about everything from tube sites and porn parodies to hosting the XRCO awards.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 17, 2011
No, we don't know if his credit card was billed for that service ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 17, 2011
Science says finding a “social partner” may be a top priority.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 16, 2011
Group seeks signatures for ballot initiative. Only in Los Angeles ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 16, 2011
Except for the gay guy. Fred Karger for president?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 16, 2011
Latest GOP presidential candidate realigns views to satisfy conservatives.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 16, 2011
Feminized fuehrer, perhaps, would have been less monstrous.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 15, 2011
We expect there to be sex and drama on Jersey Shore. It's Jersey Shore! But sometimes they come up with stuff we just can't quite believe, that we just can't stop watching...and just can't stop talking about.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 15, 2011
Theory of sexual economics totally makes sense to us.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 15, 2011
Of course they do, and good thing, too ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 15, 2011
University of Pennsylvania trial shows promising results.
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by Midori,
Aug. 15, 2011
As kinky folks, most of us have heard of the risks associated with certain activities we like: rope cuts off circulation, bruises invite suspicion and speculation, infected wounds or bites just plain suck and breath play can flat out be deadly... but there's more.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 15, 2011
“ ... The only thing missing is for them not to be repressed.”
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 12, 2011
Where there's a will, and love, there's often a way.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 12, 2011
She'll thank you for your consideration, instead of calling the police.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Aug. 12, 2011
So, I guess you could say that I haven't been myself lately. This month has been consumed with trying to hold myself together through a really ridiculous break up. It's been confusing and messy and I've been a nutcase.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 12, 2011
“Those people in pornos, they’re great performers.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 12, 2011
DNA can reveal sex as early as seven weeks into pregnancy.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 11, 2011
Too warm to indulge in steak and chocolate lava brownies on your date? Not to worry — this time of year, fresh, ripe, succulent fruit abounds, and it can be every bit as sensuous.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 11, 2011
What's next, prison prom nights?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 11, 2011
Even in the Big Apple, some parental backlash is expected.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 11, 2011
“Planet of the Apes” star tells Conan what he wouldn't tell MTV.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 10, 2011
Mass wedding organizers hope NY legislation will inspire parliament to act.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 10, 2011
No word on whether William and Kate knew what to do with a Coco de Mer. Do you?
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Aug. 10, 2011
I wouldn’t say I’m an ass woman, but I can definitely appreciate a fine behind if I’m walking behind one, male or female. Asses, in my opinion, are somewhat more socially acceptable to ogle than, say, breasts, because the person you’re looking at isn’t watching you. And sometimes there are butts you simply can’t ignore.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 10, 2011
Yes, you do still have to have sex to have a baby. But ...
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 09, 2011
Because love and sex don’t come from a bartender, dealer or pharmacy (unless you’re banging the bartender, dealer or pharmacist) we often don’t give their chemical powers the fearsome credit we give to drugs we can see. But they do trigger chemicals and those chemicals wield a crazy amount of power.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 09, 2011
This is just a handy thing to know for when you get in a stupid argument.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 09, 2011
Mayor says leaning penis-tower T-shirts and undies are trashy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 09, 2011
Whether it is, or it isn't—expect there to be lawyers involved.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 08, 2011
The witches on True Blood take distinctively different role than the vampires on the show, expressing an historically feminine mythical power: mind control.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 08, 2011
Who's checking your email and text messages besides you? Shhh.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 08, 2011
Somehow, we think this happens a lot more than they think.
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by Roland Hulme,
Aug. 08, 2011
The more extreme wings of the pro-life camp and the pro-choice camp think they’re complete opposites – but I have equal contempt for both of them.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 05, 2011
It's a long story. Long enough for a book, in fact.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 05, 2011
Maybe it depends on when you ask?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 05, 2011
A&E, TBS both get failing marks from GLAAD.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 04, 2011
... and a bevy of bunnies get laid out, as well.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 04, 2011
Removing cost barrier will help tear down the ignorance barrier.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Aug. 04, 2011
To fully appreciate a woman’s body (as if Sexis readers don’t do it already), consider the following vulva et al fun facts: only female mammals have a clitoris, an organ with one singular purpose. That would be pleasure, aided and abetted by 8000 nerve endings (twice that of the average penis) that call the Female Fun Button home.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 04, 2011
Right-wing wackos, predictably, hate the new mandate on preventative health care for women.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 03, 2011
Recordings of leader of Mormon sect are allegedly of him having sex with 14-year-old.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 03, 2011
Isn't it especially nice that the vote was unanimous?
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 02, 2011
New guidelines go into effect next year. Hooray!
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 02, 2011
More recent college grads make “arrangements” to pay off loans and bills.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Aug. 02, 2011
It really has not been a good week at the University of Northern Virginia.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Aug. 01, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 01, 2011
Our advice, kids, is to learn not to look, or become more tolerant.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 01, 2011
Nothing says “Our Love is Eternal” quite like a box of bullets made from cremated remains.
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by Midori,
Aug. 01, 2011
Just thirty minutes after meeting this beautiful Swedish blonde, she had my pants off, my legs in the air and her hands on my pussy. The curtains were thrown open to the glorious spring day outside as two of my friends looks on, grinning from ear to ear. They pretty much expected this would happen as they drove me out to the country house of Ylva Maria Thompson.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 01, 2011
Finger ink sparks mini-controversy among her Twitter followers.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 01, 2011
Document found among trove of 8,000 items to be auctioned by civil-rights icon's estate.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 29, 2011
Women stand out by being more expressive.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 29, 2011
Increasingly, gynecomastia can be treated.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 29, 2011
Instructor claims it's all about fitness. Is it?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 29, 2011
It's what every geek wants this summer: an invite to the beta of Google Plus, the social network du jour. As with any beta, problems abound — but one in particular is causing quite a fuss. Why is Google Plus the latest accidental foe to the transgendered/genderqueer community and the current enemy of sex writers everywhere? Read on.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 29, 2011
Woman plans to fight ticket, citing First Amendment.
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by Cole Riley,
Jul. 28, 2011
Mitchell Brothers stripper Simone Corday remembers her lover, Artie Mitchell, Hunter S. Thompson, and the killing that rocked San Francisco.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 28, 2011
Note to Rick: You're out of your league, we think.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 28, 2011
After 15 years of marriage and four children with the “victim” ... we'd say, “No.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 28, 2011
No more iTunes for anti-gay, anti-women fund-raising group.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jul. 27, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 27, 2011
In Texas, authorities shut down the "outreach mission" of The Playground.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 27, 2011
Okay, so this is just getting mean ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 27, 2011
Playboy centerfold leads to prison-wide ban. We didn't even know Playboy was still considered as porn, did you?
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 26, 2011
Most of Americans are in favor of including contraception and contraceptive counseling in the Affordable Care Act — so why be worried it might be left out? Recent attacks on reproductive freedom from funding for Planned Parenthood to legislative initiatives to restrict access to abortion give good cause for concern.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 26, 2011
“S&M” allegedly based on work by David LaChapelle.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 26, 2011
However, apparently regular girls can get away with casual nudity ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 26, 2011
You didn't really think opponents were going to just quit, did you?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 26, 2011
Controversy in LAN party land mostly reinforces stereotypes.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
Marriage equality comes to the Empire State.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
Conservative groups making this stuff up, again.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jul. 25, 2011
There are two activist groups that imagine themselves to be almost diametrically opposed — yet I consider them deserving of equal contempt. They’re the pushy pro-life extremists who seek to drive abortion into illegality, and the extreme wing of the pro-choice movement — who seek to make access to terminating pregnancies perhaps more easy and impersonal than it should be.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
(And it's about time, wouldn't you say?)
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 25, 2011
Ads are pulled from airwaves. Want to alleviate symptoms? Try sex.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jul. 22, 2011
The Naked Truth is an online community where sex workers come together to talk openly, share resources, and vent about bad clients. There are other such forums online, where sex workers gather, but what makes The Naked Truth unique is that those “bad clients” are often a part of the conversation.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 22, 2011
We'd suggest a chat with Gov. Perry. But he's already not listening.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 22, 2011
At beauty product company in Puerto Rico, allegedly, only women could be on top.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 22, 2011
Mr. Radtastic is our new favorite superhero. How about you?
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jul. 21, 2011
Sexual freedom is at the core of sacred sexuality. From the outside looking in, it might be confused with promiscuity, so understanding the difference is essential to our journey.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 21, 2011
We expect he'll leave the penis pump at home, this time.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 21, 2011
“When you're 17, you don't even know how to operate what's going on down there ...”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 21, 2011
Want to wed on July 24? You'll need to be lucky.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 20, 2011
Security guard reprimanded. We wish Gertrude Stein could have done the honors.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 20, 2011
What they don't tell you when you sign up to join a poly household...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 20, 2011
Not so long ago, this was impossible.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 20, 2011
Obama is on board for bid to repeal discriminatory DOMA.
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by Veronica Monet,
Jul. 19, 2011
Asking those we love for ANYTHING can be problematic. Our culture encourages us to be independent, self-made islands unto ourselves. We are each doing it our way and win or lose, we wear our failures and successes as testament to our personal worth or lack thereof.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 19, 2011
The question is ... Okay, we actually don't want to know how the dog was trained.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 19, 2011
Huge lifestyle convention will be broadcast live by Porn Life Radio, online.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 19, 2011
Do you find yourself losing your mood just when foreplay gets going? Do the advice experts fail to provide useful information to help keep your head in the sexual game?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 19, 2011
So says Summer's Eve. Of course, they want to sell you stuff. But this is still fun.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 19, 2011
ASACP tells Congress: Leave porn out of child protection bill.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 18, 2011
Trust us, people took breasts seriously way back when, as well.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 18, 2011
In Indiana, some clinic employees apparently think they can guess sexuality by appearance.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jul. 18, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 18, 2011
Just so you know—she's wearing giant white lace panties.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 18, 2011
Florida legislature really needs to figure this one out.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 15, 2011
Beta males may actually be happier in the long run. Huh.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 15, 2011
So much for stereotypes. Yay, girls!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 15, 2011
Press freedom advocates oppose restrictions and say the new law will weaken media critics of government.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jul. 15, 2011
Falling in Love with Clients, Marriage and Paying for Sex as a Woman
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 15, 2011
And then everyone else runs it. And it may not even have been true in 2009.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 15, 2011
Broadway couples will unite on night of July 25.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 14, 2011
We're open-minded and all, but there are things the grandkids don't need to see.
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by Dave Gammon,
Jul. 14, 2011
Adult film star Anna Lovato is relatively new to the industry, but already making her mark working exclusively with Bluebird Films. Dave Gammon sat down recently with the charming British performer to talk about everything from the differences in porn culture in the UK to being immortalized by Fleshlight.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 14, 2011
Antiretrovirals are shown to substantially reduce risk of infection.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 14, 2011
Parades. Marching. Military. And no more DADT. It all adds up.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 14, 2011
A gift basket of lube from a CEO can turn a singer on, you know?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 14, 2011
This is after he recovered from being mauled by his pet bear ...
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jul. 13, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 13, 2011
Did we mention that we want to live there, too?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 13, 2011
Company says new Internet web space will drive up costs as adult industry resists segregation.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 13, 2011
Bree Olson Talks to Playboy ... we notice she did not say “great”? Pass the Tiger Blood, please.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jul. 13, 2011
You know the phrase, “Taken out of context, I must seem so strange?” That goes double for pulling random bits of erotic conversation, texted or otherwise, and analyzing them as if they told a whole story. Without the motivation of the person sending and receiving them, you really don’t know anything.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 13, 2011
She says signing a license for a gay marriage goes “against God.” Buh-Bye ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 13, 2011
We can understand why marketing would not play this connection up.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 12, 2011
Rip Taylor must be so proud.
In a political climate that just seems to get more depressing, insulting and sinister every day finally the Glitter Bomb has arrived.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 12, 2011
Lawsuit sidesteps polygamy issue but claims constitutional right to privacy.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 12, 2011
Shoppers, please be wary in the produce department ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 12, 2011
He was misquoted! Yeah, that's the ticket ...
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 12, 2011
Are you a jeans and t-shirt kinda woman who has been told she'd be more attractive if she tried dress like a girl? You may resist donning a skirt at all costs, but Nina has some thoughts on why it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world to wear the "feminine costume" when the occasion calls for it.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
City Hall wedding is scheduled for July 24.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
Case of Jennifer Leigh Jones got a federal law changed, but no court victory.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
"Superbug" resists antibiotics; vaccine development underway.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jul. 11, 2011
Last week, MGM pictures announced they were close to casting British actress Naomie Harris as the new Miss Moneypenny in their rebooted James Bond franchise. Sexy, smart and snarky, Harris promises to bring some real edge to the role of M’s dutiful secretary.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
Okay, so we've got a mad crush on Natalie Irish, and you can see why.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 11, 2011
Sergeant in Afghanistan makes request via YouTube.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 08, 2011
Vivid offer rescinded; Apparently, she's considered too despicable for XXX.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 08, 2011
Photography. We are never surprised when it turns into porn, really.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Jul. 08, 2011
I don't come home after a date and dish all the dirty details of my evening.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 08, 2011
Porn star shows up a gala birthday party, but not in court.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 07, 2011
Well, voters. You know what to do with this one, right?
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 07, 2011
Naturists, in turn, put Canada on trial for public prudery.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jul. 07, 2011
To snip or not to snip is at the center of a resurgent debate, but are we seeing the whole picture? Medical pros and cons are only part of the complexities surrounding this simple procedure.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 07, 2011
To get funding under 2003 law, non-profits had to say, somewhere, that they oppose prostitution.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 07, 2011
Bloomberg: “We are not going to make them wait one day longer than they have to.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 07, 2011
“All investigations must stop, all discharge proceedings must halt immediately."
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jul. 06, 2011
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 06, 2011
Yes, we've heard this one. But those scientists are at it again, measuring and stuff.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 06, 2011
Don't try smuggling your spouse out of prison in a suitcase. Most people would not need to be told, we know.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 06, 2011
If you're thinking this is overkill, we're with you.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 06, 2011
“Bride” and “Groom” are no longer the only options, you know?
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 05, 2011
Incident allegedly occurred in 2003. Meanwhile, case against him in NY is in tatters.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 05, 2011
We weren't there, but we're not sure about the “Not Guilty.” You?
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 05, 2011
Many women suffer from the secret insecurity of wondering if their partner is repulsed by what they find between their legs. Does it smell bad? Does it look bad? Most likely, things are just fine down below, but what can a woman do to help herself be more confident when exposing her most feminine side?
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 01, 2011
Maybe if we were actually there, it would seem more romantic ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 01, 2011
It sounds as though Huma Abedin will take a little time off from her husband as well.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 01, 2011
Soon-to-be "Two and a Half Men" man blames ads for sex slavery.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 01, 2011
This is how the government raises STD awareness in Alberta, Canada ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jul. 01, 2011
Apparently, immigration authorities are moving toward recognizing marriage equality. And that's a good thing.
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by ErinORiordan,
Jul. 01, 2011
In a perfect world, every child-guardian relationship would be punctuated with down-to-earth, all-your-questions-answered talk about the young person’s emerging sexuality.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 30, 2011
"Ladyboys" and "katoeys" lobbying, marching for rights
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 30, 2011
Seeing as how same-sex marriage is legal now, it makes sense.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 30, 2011
(Yawn) ... Excuse us, are we supposed to be personally offended? Again?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 30, 2011
The kids are ready to learn, but are the parents ready to teach?
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 29, 2011
... And every voice counts when it comes to a guardian of women's health.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 29, 2011
True Blood is back on HBO this summer for a fourth season — Join SexIs as we take deeper look at the sexual and erotic themes of this blood-thirsty vampire series.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 29, 2011
Sex change for girls allegedly a choice for hundreds of parents.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 29, 2011
Okay, this case is probably NOT covered by the First Amendment ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 29, 2011
We don't recommend his behavior but we're thinking he has a right to express his displeasure. You know?
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 29, 2011
Joan Price is 67 and wants you to know that sex doesn’t stop at 50—or 60, 70 or 80 and 90!
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 28, 2011
Well, of course he does.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 28, 2011
It's time for The World Testicle and Aphrodisiac Cooking Championships! Hooray!
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 28, 2011
Political sex scandals seem to be a matter of course these days — is anybody surprised anymore when the news announces yet another politician has cheated on his spouse? This begs the question: Why did they even get married in the first place?
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 28, 2011
What do you do when your partner stops having sex with you? Is it your fault? Is it theirs? Should you try to change or call it quits?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 28, 2011
Christie sticks with the one man, one woman thing.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 28, 2011
Driving while nude? Try not asking for directions ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 28, 2011
'Mr. Big' says the media makes too big a deal out of politicians' sex lives.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 28, 2011
Accused rapist in S&M-related case remains jailed in lieu of $350,000 bond.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
John Lindsay apologized, sent flowers.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
New book tells the stories that used to go untold.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jun. 27, 2011
I’ve invested a lot of column inches fighting the perception that straight, white, cisgender men are “the enemy” — and that they don’t deserve the suspicion, negativity or outright hostility that often awaits them within the so-called “sex positive” online community.
The problem is: There are straight, white, cisgender men who certainly don’t do me any fucking favors.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
Revolutionary trend, or “gender madness”?
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 27, 2011
Somewhere near you, it's probably free. What are you waiting for?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 24, 2011
"Anything could happen," both sides said. And it did!
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 24, 2011
And there's also a choir with a song to spread the word.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 24, 2011
What you do with your bandwidth is your own business, in the Netherlands.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 24, 2011
... Because "To Die For" should not mean you have to, you know. Die.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Jun. 24, 2011
The day has come to start bridging the gap between being a mom and being a slut.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 24, 2011
Census data shows that "the closet is getting smaller."
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 24, 2011
Methodist refuses to say she'll never do it again.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 23, 2011
It is probably not too late to be the first “bagelhead” on your block.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 23, 2011
Indiana gives it a try, and it's an ugly situation.
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by Cole Riley,
Jun. 23, 2011
Awarded the 2011 AVN honor for transsexual performer of the year and its XBIZ counterpart as well, Bailey Jay, Virginian lass in her early twenties, understands she is a role model. “I’m one of the most celebrated transsexual porn stars by mainstream porn media but I was not allowed to accept my award on stage,” she says to SexIs. “I often joke that sometimes I feel like a black man in 1960.”
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jun. 23, 2011
We explore modern and ancient views on virginity and ask: when did a flap of skin come to mean so much about a woman’s worth?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 23, 2011
Demand for name of employer of HIV-positive porn actor is denied.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 23, 2011
Just what you wanted. 'The Wonder Weiner,' for your phone. Uh-huh.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 22, 2011
We associate the word “John” with the word "trick." It’s been reported this is because, on the street level, the sex worker is trying to "trick" him into as much money as possible — it’s part of “the game.” But what do sex workers really think of their clients? Are they trying to scam them? And what do they think about what our Johns have had to say?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 22, 2011
Anti-discrimination case called a first by lawyers.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 22, 2011
As the first Game of Thrones season comes to a close, two of its most powerful women, Cersei Lannister and Daenerys Targaryen, are found to be seeking power in their respective roles as queens, in vastly different ways.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 22, 2011
“Lost” actor and teen singer, married last month, stand up to critics.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 22, 2011
We assume he will let us know when he's done?
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by Veronica Monet,
Jun. 21, 2011
I like to say ALL sex is sacred. Of course anytime you make sweeping generalizations like that, there is a lot of room to disagree. Given the right mood, I'd be the first to disagree with myself. Still, I want to explain the kernel of truth in the statement “all sex is sacred.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 21, 2011
Thanks, kids, for a real, honest and innocent moment.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 21, 2011
We think this will be the last time Crystal Harris makes the cover.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 21, 2011
Well, of course they are. You knew this would happen.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 21, 2011
Lawsuit sought to mandate condoms, preventative measures against STIs.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 20, 2011
Women failed to prove corporate policy was cause of discrimination, justices say.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 20, 2011
Vote (no longer) expected today, deal to "protect" religious groups part of compromise with GOP.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 17, 2011
We know, there are other opinions out there. We even have one.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 17, 2011
Exxxotica Expo ad suggested players would host strip club party. Seems ... not.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 17, 2011
Prosecutors actually have to ask, at least in this case.
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by TinaV,
Jun. 17, 2011
In January of this year a representative from the Toronto Police Service said “women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized” and with that, he created one hell of a shit storm and spurred a new feminist movement.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 17, 2011
A couple of kids, maybe fooling around, in the background ... and everyone freaks out.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 16, 2011
A relieved Congress is again pervert-free. (Right.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 16, 2011
We suspect they'll win the case, but at what cost?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 16, 2011
Is there a right age and a right way for talking about sex in schools on which everyone can agree? Probably not.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 16, 2011
Michigan, Washington, Maryland and Arizona top the list for video-on-demand porn.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 15, 2011
In today's world, marriage for political reasons is pretty uncommon. But just a few centuries into the past, arranged marriages were a vital part of government and politics. In the medieval fantasy-world of Game of Thones, marriage within the ruling families is almost entirely political and critical to the stability of the Seven Kingdoms of Westeros.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 15, 2011
Congratulations, dude. You've offended us, and that's not easy.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 15, 2011
“So, you’re straight…” my friend started a sentence the other day. I forget exactly what she followed it up with, because that word, “straight,” kept echoing in my head, sounding foreign as it applied to me, because I don’t consider myself straight, and haven’t in a decade.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 15, 2011
Supporters are well on their way to the goal, but there's some residual bitterness.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 15, 2011
Now we don't feel so bad about not being invited ...
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 14, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 14, 2011
President says women have failed to civilize the men ... like it was their job?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 14, 2011
... because, apparently, the Mormon Church owns the station.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 14, 2011
California Proposition 8 defenders really are pretty shameless, desperate or both.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 14, 2011
Who will buy these things? Republicans? We don't know.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 14, 2011
The Vagina Monologues is a powerful performance that has become a big part of V Day movement, with performances raising funds for women's resource centers and other causes. The show has been performed by countless women internationally, including our own Nina Hartley.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 14, 2011
As though you could get it from a cough? Puhhlease ...
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by Midori,
Jun. 13, 2011
Imagine a weekend at the friendliest place on earth, with the nicest people, who are sharing and playing well with each other. Now remove the acoustic guitar and accompanying folk music from that image — and replace it with hemp products. In this case hemp is used for ropes and tying, not smoking, because we’re at ShibariCon .
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 13, 2011
Can a honeymoon sex tape be far behind? We hope not.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jun. 13, 2011
Evolution, by its very definition, is an innate genetic preference for self-preservation. In a world literally bursting at the seams, some argue that this is why the number of gay people is increasing.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 13, 2011
The guys ... well, 9 percent can't find the clitoris, and that's too many.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 13, 2011
Does anyone think they really haven't made up their minds?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 13, 2011
Bringing fictional characters to life, on the Internet, can be a very bad idea.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 10, 2011
'Guidelines' are meant to push equality in Medicare, Medicaid rules.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 10, 2011
Drama about the '50s coming to the small screen in the fall.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 10, 2011
Employers take note: Non-consensual use of penises in the workplace can cost you.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Jun. 10, 2011
When I was a little kid I was a total weirdo. I would talk to anyone, anywhere. Homeless guy on a bench? Tell me everything. Mother at the park swinging her child? Let's chat about swinging and did you know my grandpa died when my mom was a teenager and her mom is crazy and did you know my neighbor Mrs. Pinkski has a little dog and she thinks I stole her tulips but I was on roller-skates?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 10, 2011
City picks up the difference caused by discriminatory federal tax law.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 09, 2011
Thank you, Google Maps. This is why they made you.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jun. 09, 2011
There’s a persistent conviction in our culture that if your biosuit includes a uterus, you should use it. Procreate or be somehow less womanly, less human, and more selfish, hedonistic or conflicted than your mothering counterparts. It’s a message that resonates pervasively, and sometimes pits parents against the childless.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 09, 2011
So the kid has something to look forward to when she's 16, apparently ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 09, 2011
We're sort of hoping this is the end of that, for a while at least.
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by The Bloggess,
Jun. 09, 2011
As a sex columnist, I try to keep up with all the latest celebrity sex tapes. Paris Hilton’s was poorly acted. Pam Anderson’s were just frightening. Chelsea Clinton’s was hysterical. But my favorite was one that’s so under the radar you probably missed it, and I’m here to save you from yourself.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 09, 2011
If she's real, we hope she's okay. If she's fake ... we still hope she's okay.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 08, 2011
Proposed regulations on condoms, barriers criticized by adult industry and performers.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 08, 2011
Would there be sex work in a sexually non-repressed society? It's one of those philosophical questions to wax over, in all of its unicorn-like glory. After all what does “sexually non-repressed” society even mean? Would we all be polyamorous...wearing fig leaves for clothes?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 08, 2011
Canadian resident remains jailed in Tehran pending review of case.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 08, 2011
She says it's not a requirement for fame and success ... Really?
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 08, 2011
Author George R.R. Martin continues to challenge stereotypical representations of sexuality in service to his character-based narrative in Game of Thrones — In Varys, Master of Westeros, he melds characteristics from differing camps to create an ambiguous, complex character.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 08, 2011
Long-ago honeymoon video will remain private for now.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 07, 2011
Irish dude rescued by Japanese cargo ship. Probably wearing clothes now.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 07, 2011
She says self-castration is her other option.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 07, 2011
His biggest role is in real life, as sleazy con man ...
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 07, 2011
We've all been in this position at least once in our lives. Life is stressful and sometimes you just can't slow down and focus on the task at hand — reaching orgasm. But what if you've never been able to relax enough with your partner to come?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 07, 2011
Her second-favorite might also be sex. Or maybe baseball.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
He's embarrassed. Yes, it figures. But so what?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
Players were excluded for not being "gay enough."
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
We can only hope that the Boy Scouts of America takes note.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
Yes, we were offended, too. But we're backing off, a little.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
In the end, who will jurors believe, and how certain will they be?
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 06, 2011
“What do the balls actually do?” I asked my friend, Ellen Friedrichs (who teaches sex ed to middle and high school students). We were talking about sex and I realized I genuinely didn’t know the answer.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 06, 2011
Video is hilarious, creepy, and, yes, sort of about your parents.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 03, 2011
We're expecting a site for choosing the hottest members of Congress, soon ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 03, 2011
Yes, we know it was stupid and ugly. But was it criminally stupid and ugly?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
Ex-WWE star coming out with Vivid DVD.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 03, 2011
The Bromance: the most versatile relationship two (or more) characters can enjoy. It's uniquely suited to the varying desires of a full-spectrum public: to some, it's a depiction of buddies. To others, it's an exploration of how strong the bonds of friendship can become. And for still more viewers, it's the fun of watching guys constantly engage in behavior that can be read as strongly homoerotic.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
You'd think he could just make her disappear ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 03, 2011
Have you changed your password lately? Because this could happen to anyone, right?
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 02, 2011
Doesn't sound worth it to us, either. Amazing what people will spend their money on ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 02, 2011
Northwestern study says many who are HIV positive don't know it.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 02, 2011
Apparently, anything that might lead inmates to masturbate is not allowed.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 02, 2011
Proposed change in rules will go on agenda for national vote next year.
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by Cole Riley,
Jun. 02, 2011
To be perfectly honest, John Waters never conceals the best parts of himself. Most celebrities permit you to gawk at them for a price. Waters’ latest book, Role Models, allows his readers to examine his essential life lessons through a series of quirky portraits which exposes his inner corrupted core.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 01, 2011
Resorts Casino Hotel in Atlantic City allegedly wanted 'younger, slimmer, sexier.'
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 01, 2011
First ceremonies will take place tomorrow. Congratulations to all!
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
Jun. 01, 2011
At first glance, the depiction of Renly and Loras as a homosexual couple in the Game of Thrones appears to be a radical departure from the novels on which the televised version is based, but upon closer inspection, it was there, it just wasn't so...outthere.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jun. 01, 2011
Somehow, we don't think pedophiles are fashionistas.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 31, 2011
We know. You're shocked. But the boob-cam doesn't lie.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
May. 31, 2011
Circumcision is increasingly considered a human rights issue. San Franciscans will be voting on banning the controversial procedure this November. While the AMA does not recommend it, circumcision is still considered an essential sign of the covenant in reformed Judaism. Like France’s ban on the hijab, the question is: Are we denying freedom of religion or are we protecting human rights?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 31, 2011
In the U.S., this used to be known as "bobbitting."
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 31, 2011
Well, of course it isn't. These things happen all the time.
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by Roland Hulme,
May. 30, 2011
Donald Trump thinks that Obama was too dumb to get into Harvard. Is that racist? Or does the accusation stem from well-intentioned policies of affirmative action that inadvertently undermine attempts to make society more equal?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
Survey indicates Senate vote would be close, if held today.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
This couldn’t be because it’s a really traditional dating site, could it?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
Public hearing scheduled for next week; industry remains opposed.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 30, 2011
... Because he's androgynous and someone might think he's a girl.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 27, 2011
State is spending $97,000 per inmate annually for 'civil commitment' program.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 27, 2011
It's all innocent, even a little saccharin. Okay, a LOT saccharin ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 27, 2011
Provides for teaching about contraception, not just abstinence.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 27, 2011
Owner of vanity plate, who has two daughters and likes pink, is distressed.
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by Dave Gammon,
May. 27, 2011
The final installment of Dave Gammon's three-part interview with porn star, Jenna Haze.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 27, 2011
Players seek to overturn new rule mandating skirts.
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by Dave Gammon,
May. 26, 2011
Part Two of a three-part interview with porn star, Jenna Haze.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 26, 2011
Unwedded coupling on the rise, according to 2010 census data.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 26, 2011
There's a line you can't cross in public name-calling, and 'slut' is on the other side of the line.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 26, 2011
We get everything else from China. Why not 3D porn?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 26, 2011
Rousseff say material is 'too adult'; LGBT groups feel betrayed.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 25, 2011
We're really not sure this is going to stop anyone ...
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
May. 25, 2011
Can we resurrect Goddess authority without stripping her bare of her hallowed curves, or finding ourselves fixated on her hollowed spaces?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 25, 2011
From the dept. of inappropriate over-reactions ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 25, 2011
Woman claims bar denied her service for wearing moccasins.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 25, 2011
'MayDay for Marriage' opposes Cuomo push for same-sex unions.
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by Liz Langley,
May. 24, 2011
Many people think it’s reason that separates us from the animals but I think the opposite is true: it’s belief.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 24, 2011
Pennsylvania man could have lost $46,000.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 24, 2011
Maybe you don't want to use one of these every time, if you're on a budget.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 24, 2011
In general, masturbating in public is not a good idea. In case you didn't know.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
May. 23, 2011
The stars of the oldest Latina drag show in the U.S. at La Cueva admit the term "drag" is a bit of a misnomer for their show — because the queens of this stage are not the usual men in drag you expect to find but male to female transgender performers.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 23, 2011
Meanwhile, Cuomo speaks out on marriage equality. We love New York.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 23, 2011
Proceeds going to charity, so it's hard to be truly annoyed.
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by Midori,
May. 23, 2011
Burlesque has been making a comeback in recent years, not only as an art form, but as a new source of body confidence for women and men alike. Midori sits down with two performers to talk about burlesque body confidence and the evolution of burlesque culture.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 23, 2011
Women's health groups support retailer's decision.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 23, 2011
'Storm' will be allowed to make choices, later in life.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 20, 2011
Rapturous sex. A little looting. Maybe some last-minute errands ...
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 20, 2011
Consenting adults, beware ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 20, 2011
Senator opines that fetishist is capable of holding a job.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 20, 2011
If a story seems too good (or bad) to be true, it probably is ...
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 19, 2011
The Internet revolution picked up where the sexual revolution left off.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 19, 2011
Four years later ... Oops. Shouldn't have done that.
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by Rydell Johnson,
May. 19, 2011
Getting in touch with one’s inner slut offers a new world of empowerment, liberation, and … fun.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 19, 2011
Governor files motion to back out of defense of domestic partnership registry.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 19, 2011
If your kid is over 2 in Forest Park, breastfeeding is now public indecency.
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 19, 2011
It’s more and more common these days. If you don’t suffer from carpal tunnel syndrome or its familiars, one of your partners probably does. And CTS is a bitch to deal with in the sack. But never fear: as with all other limitations, there are ways to work around the pain.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 19, 2011
Aerosmith frontman's autobiography heavy on the drugs (bad) and sex (good).
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by Tucker Cummings,
May. 18, 2011
We’re so lucky to live in the 21st century, surrounded by an embarrassment of pornographic riches. It’s never been so easy to find porn — the other side of that coin is there is simply too much pornography to ever watch it all, and tons of actors competing for a share of the audience. If you’re just starting out, trying to make a name for yourself, how do you get anybody to notice you?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 18, 2011
The costs of education being what they are ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 18, 2011
Porn impresario does his best to be a good neighbor.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 18, 2011
We love innovations in safe sex. Doesn't everyone?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 18, 2011
Okay, he's not a pediatrician. But do we hold doctors to a higher standard?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 17, 2011
Emotions run high during four-hour rally.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 17, 2011
Proposed bill raises concerns about individual rights.
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by Veronica Monet,
May. 17, 2011
Last month I noted that the “love hormone,” Oxytocin, introduces an element of love to all sexual encounters. If sex exists on a continuum, then some sex might be almost bereft of love while other sex would be completely defined by love. In between those two extremes exists a lot of varied combinations of eroticism and emotion.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 17, 2011
Plus: IMF chief's downfall and celebrity herpes still in the news!
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 17, 2011
She says it's safe; doctors and the rest of the world disagree.
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by Cole Riley,
May. 16, 2011
Like most men, I’m baffled by the nature of love. Lust, I can understand. But I’ve not done well in my efforts in my love life. An ambitious stripper, a snarky teacher with a jealous ex, a professional dancer with a nose candy problem, and a loopy reporter one step from the bughouse. All strike-outs.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 16, 2011
Just because they can doesn't make it right.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 16, 2011
“I wished to have the possibility of breaking the judgment behind what you might call a slut.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 16, 2011
We trust moms to run away from this ad campaign.
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by Roland Hulme,
May. 16, 2011
With a column called “Devil’s Advocate”, it shouldn’t be surprising that I write a lot of things people disagree with. Fortunately, I welcome people challenging my opinions (and, as frequently happens, proving me wrong).
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 16, 2011
Doctored Disney images make the rounds on the Internet.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 13, 2011
Texas newspaper apologizes, sort of, for not-so-hot idea.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 13, 2011
... but we knew it had to be part of the story, somehow.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 13, 2011
Equal protection law will take effect in 2012.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 13, 2011
Study shows benefit of starting antiretroviral therapy right after diagnosis.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
May. 12, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 12, 2011
TMZ reporting on anonymous lawsuit and bidding war for sex tapes.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 12, 2011
It's a scandal! Right? Well. for cricket, maybe.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 12, 2011
Lingerie maker demonstrates feelings of support.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 12, 2011
Somehow, we're thinking this is a little overdue.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 11, 2011
Of course, it's just an app.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 11, 2011
Actress stresses that her life as an adult film star was a positive experience.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
May. 11, 2011
Is the Long Island Serial Killer a john? Searching for the truth about violence and sex work.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 11, 2011
Apparently, this is a bigger problem than one would think.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 11, 2011
LGBT groups note the unlikelihood, along with the insensitivity.
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
May. 11, 2011
While it’s true that prostitution is seen as a vice in the world of A Song of Ice and Fire, it’s a legal and even acceptable one, with brothels spread throughout the kingdom of Westeros — from Mole’s Town near the Wall in the north, all the way down south to King’s Landing. What’s most interesting about the sex trade in Game of Thrones, however, is who it ultimately exploits and weakens.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 11, 2011
Volunteers needed. Some farming knowledge is, well, helpful.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 10, 2011
Plus, they allegedly don't break or leak. Coming soon!
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by Liz Langley,
May. 10, 2011
Just as most of the world will never forget where they were when they heard Osama bin Laden was dead, I will never forget where I was when I heard that people like to have sex dressed as Tigger.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 10, 2011
LGBT groups turn up the heat on N.Y. State Assembly.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 10, 2011
Sonny and Cher's kid walked a long, difficult road.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 10, 2011
Live post-class orgasm demonstration furor apparently to blame.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 10, 2011
How does Nina Hartley or any other porn star avoid getting STIs ? The short answer is, sometimes you don't. The only sure way to avoid getting STIs is to not have sex. But who really wants to go through life without sex?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 10, 2011
“Boobies Wanted” sign comes down, owner says he’ll close soon.
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by ErinORiordan,
May. 09, 2011
Perhaps it’s a cliché, but it‘s eternally true: springtime brings thoughts of new life, birth, and evidence of sexual reproduction. As real chicks hatch from birds’ nests, we eat sugar-coated marshmallow chicks delivered by a mythical bunny (and we all know what bunnies like to do in their spare time).
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 09, 2011
... and 40 percent say they like online porn.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 09, 2011
We think we already know the answer is “No.” You know?
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 09, 2011
Protest in Boston draws more than 2,000.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 09, 2011
Woman caught in prostitution bust gets supervised release.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 09, 2011
There's the hot mom meaning. And then there's the Muslim insurgent group ...
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by Aubrey Sitterson,
May. 06, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 06, 2011
We know that you thought they did, and you were apparently wrong.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 06, 2011
Yeah, we SO want THAT job on our resume ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 06, 2011
Strippers? Nude dancers? You're okay for another year.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 06, 2011
Even 67 seconds of "blonde" can get you fired.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 05, 2011
“The whole lifestyle will just disappear unless we attract a younger crowd.”
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 05, 2011
Down but not out, former sex worker is still writing.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 05, 2011
Once would be bad enough. But four times?
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by TinaV,
May. 05, 2011
In many ways, the beauty pageant held at Los Angeles’ Circus Disco on April 10, 2011 was a pageant just like any other. Long, lithe women dressed elaborately in sexy sequined outfits did the stiletto stomp across the stage. It was all glamour, glitz, and hyper-femininity, but the beautiful competitors were more than they appeared to be.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 05, 2011
Former wrestler faces up to 120 years in prison.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 05, 2011
No, we didn't think you could be jailed for that, either.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 04, 2011
I’ve never whipped out a measuring tape in bed so I can’t give you precise numbers, but I think I can safely say I’ve slept with men with penises ranging from very small to gigantic. Most have been somewhere between those two extremes and the big lesson I’ve come away with is: size is not what makes someone good in bed, not by a long shot.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 04, 2011
Advertiser for TV show told that billboards have to go.
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by Sexis Editors,
May. 04, 2011
Consumers warned against a range of bogus treatments and claims.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 04, 2011
AIM Healthcare blamed for “Patient Zeta” and data security fiascos.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 04, 2011
Neighbor: “… it frequently doesn't sound as pleasurable as it is.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 04, 2011
Oh, and the cops laughed at him, too ...
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by Tucker Cummings,
May. 04, 2011
For most people, talking to their kids about sex is awkward.
For sex ed teachers, explaining “the birds and the bees” to someone else’s kids is even more awkward.
And for the kids themselves? Hearing adult authority figures talk about sex is extremely awkward…and more troubling, often filled with lies.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 03, 2011
Somehow, we’re thinking that the “penis sock” is not going to catch on.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 03, 2011
And go for a walk on the Interstate, first. That'll teach him.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 03, 2011
Wait, it gets even better.
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 03, 2011
Do you find it difficult to let your partner know that they've stopped short of pleasing you in the bedroom? Communicating the specifics of what you want and need in the bedroom can be, for many, a seemingly insurmountable hurdle. What do you do if you're too terrified to utter those all-important words "Don't stop!"?
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 02, 2011
Some guys actually want less sex. Okay, so it's really not that many.
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 02, 2011
“Sexy, funny and shocking” … is Hollywood ready for this? We are.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 02, 2011
Apparently having sex on the job, on camera, is a bad thing. Who knew?
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 02, 2011
Whether you're the one excited about trying poly or the partner who's been approached to open up the relationship, you don't have to just guess and hope about the outcome of this venture. There are things to think about, scenarios to talk about, and tools to use to figure out whether your monogamous relationship has a good chance of withstanding the switch to polyamory.
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 02, 2011
Maybe a little more communication with parents is in order, here ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
May. 02, 2011
Conservative AG vengeful about defenseless Defense of Marriage Act.
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by Roland Hulme,
May. 02, 2011
One of my hobbies is perusing Internet erotica. I churn through sites like ASSTR.org — filled with erotic offerings from thousands of anonymous authors — and try to discern the psychology behind the fantasies.
And you know what? They scare the crap out of me.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 29, 2011
Longer ring finger means more attractive. (And more likely to go to prison.)
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 29, 2011
"The Daily Beast" tells us what it means for The Royal Sex Life? Seriously ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 29, 2011
Top-rated teacher under fire for side career of 20 years.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 29, 2011
But does anyone care except maybe his co-stars? We're not tuned in ...
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 29, 2011
As the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton loomed over us, you’d have thought an anglophile like myself would be faint with anticipation, just from the sheer Englishness of it all. A royal wedding, for tit’s sake! Westminster Abbey! Approval of the Queen!
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 29, 2011
We can think of better things to do while naked, but who are we to judge?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 28, 2011
McDowell apologizes for response to “heckling fans.” Oops. Classy, huh?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 28, 2011
At least they were, in 1949. Something to tell your parents, or grandparents ...
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Apr. 28, 2011
Sacred female sexuality, with its feelers in earth-based worship, meets resistance in various circles. The idea that woman with all her undulating curves & desires can cohabitate with formal religion creates waves of awe & shock, depending on perspective & historical understanding.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 28, 2011
Policy remains in effect pending more training, certification.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 28, 2011
If it's legal, patrons can look at it. First Amendment trumps censors.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 28, 2011
Traveling literary history of fetishes, BDSM attract a college crowd.
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by dr.chauntelle,
Apr. 27, 2011
Have you heard of JoyBear Pictures, the self-described “definitive raunchy film production company for her and him?”
Well, if you’re from the US and a consumer of adult content, the answer is likely “No.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 27, 2011
Sex education website outrages some conservatives.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 27, 2011
The message from rappers and TV stars: Get Yourself Tested (GYT).
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 27, 2011
Drugs, once again, lead to very bad decision-making.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 27, 2011
When celebrities take on humans rights issues, eyes will roll. Take, Demi and Ashton's DNA project and it's “comedy” videos featuring celebs like Justin Timberlake with the message “Real Men Don't Buy Girls” which has been criticized for being insensitive. And I agree, it's hard to take anything Justin Timberlake does as important.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 26, 2011
We're so glad they finally came up with an official name for this ...
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Apr. 26, 2011
To be simultaneously funny, sexy, seductive, and shocking is no easy task, but burlesque dancers manage to get a rise out of an audience, one way or another. New York’s Museum of Sex celebrates burlesque, past and present in the their recently opened exhibition "The Nudie Artist: Burlesque Revived," which not only explains the history of burlesque, but how it has become an art form in itself.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 26, 2011
Conservatives want to finish getting rid of judges who supported same-sex marriage.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 26, 2011
It's getting hard to find top lawyers willing to oppose marriage equality.
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by Nina Hartley,
Apr. 26, 2011
Do you find yourself in a relationship where you have to go along to get along? Are you using sex as a tool to protect yourself against mental or physical abuse? Nina speaks today about the fact that there are other options available and there is help for people in abusive relationships.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 25, 2011
Bystanders, workers at McDonald's in Maryland allegedly encouraged attackers.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 25, 2011
You'd think this was an easy one, but apparently it is not.
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by Cole Riley,
Apr. 25, 2011
Ethnic porn director Alexander DeVoe doesn’t know how to play nice when it comes to his career as one of the busiest filmmakers in the porn business.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 25, 2011
Florida principal says he acted to prevent bullying. Did he do the right thing?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 25, 2011
Policy established in 2008 is finally put into practice.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 25, 2011
Valentine's Day column in “Surgery News” offends some feminists.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 22, 2011
But princess-to-be Kate has already had pole-dancing lessons.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 22, 2011
Her findings? Stereotyping, rumors and innuendo, everywhere.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 22, 2011
Chairman of Safran apparently didn't get the no-sexism memo.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 22, 2011
New York governor puts together coalition to back same-sex marriage bill.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 22, 2011
Murder convict also wants transfer to women's prison.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Apr. 22, 2011
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by Cherry Trifle,
Apr. 21, 2011
“Grandma, what big teeth you have...”
Even as a child–perhaps, a slightly peculiar one–I noticed there was something more provocative about the wolf’s teeth than there should've been. I could see him, hulking and hirsute in grandma’s nightie, bed frame creaking beneath his sinewy bulk as he surveyed the young girl, his sinfully long tongue wetting those ominous, luminous canines. Slavering.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 21, 2011
Okay, so it was a world-class typographical error.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 21, 2011
You know the drill -- this means no privacy for teens on STI treatment, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 21, 2011
Yes, Peoria. Where they just tried to outlaw a swingers club ...
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 21, 2011
In the middle of a ritzy Chicago neighborhood, among old brownstones and French bistros stands the Bijou — the oldest gay XXX theater in America. The Bijou celebrates it's 40th anniversary this year. Founded before the boutiques or the elementary school next door, it's cultivated a rich history and some unbelievable stories: prison sentences, a patron death, a tragic connection to a serial killer.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 20, 2011
Younger Americans, women are strongest supporters of equality.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Apr. 20, 2011
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how one’s sexual experience shapes their outlook on sex and relationships. Is more experience, not necessarily your “number,” but practical experience with other sexual partners, helpful when it comes to knowing what to do with a new partner?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 20, 2011
Brits, tell us: You're okay with prescription virility drugs in your alcoholic beverages?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 20, 2011
Facebook page with 290,000 fans deleted by man who now supports civil unions.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Apr. 20, 2011
I’m not leaving New York City. At least, not yet. When I started this column a year ago, I’m not sure I would have expected to be renewed in my ability to withstand the extremity of this urban jungle, but I feel better equipped to deal with the daily trials and tribulations than I have in the past.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 19, 2011
Woman who says she was date-raped goes on "Good Morning America"
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 19, 2011
Protest at London bar goes global after social network deletes a picture. (Update: Facebook apologizes.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 19, 2011
Ex-husband and judge figure out she's not exactly disabled.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 19, 2011
Talk about getting off on the wrong foot? But we love happy endings ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 18, 2011
Hormone replacement therapy will halt male puberty for Aussie child.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 18, 2011
Stupid bravado, or a clue to serial killer? Police aren't commenting.
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by Roland Hulme,
Apr. 18, 2011
The Republican Party recently hit the headlines when they introduced a “purity test” for members — defining the issues (from abortion to gun control) that all Republicans must toe the party line on.
It got me wondering if the sex positive community could benefit from a similar manifesto — although would we ever agree what it should be?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 18, 2011
Health officials say infection came from on-camera unprotected sex.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 15, 2011
We feel awful for her and disagree with her at the same time.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 15, 2011
UCLA analysis provides perhaps the best current guesstimate.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 15, 2011
No judgments on sexuality, no conversion therapy. Just a haven of acceptance.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 15, 2011
Pop singer is an ambassador for hell, turning kids gay. Stuff like that. Uh-huh ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 15, 2011
Fox News says painting your son's nails pink will make him gay ... or at least in need of therapy when he grows up.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 14, 2011
New site stirs up media by extending program to 11 and 12-year-olds.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 14, 2011
But we're not keen on using condom lubricant for hair gel.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Apr. 14, 2011
What if everything we’ve ever learned about our basic motivation to have sex — the procreation of the species — is unequivocally wrong? What if making babies is a byproduct of the real purpose of our couplings?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 14, 2011
Funny or not funny, we don't see how this is necessarily a crime.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 14, 2011
We're not against breastfeeding, of course, but the dolls are a little creepy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 14, 2011
Religious adoption groups won't be allowed to discriminate.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 13, 2011
Coldplay, Adele, Gaga—not so much, according to music dating site survey
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 13, 2011
If a “John” is a guy who buys sex, is a woman who buys sex a “Jane”? The last installment of “The Secret Life of Johns” asked: Who are these men that buy sex and why do they do it? But now I propose the question: Does “Jane” exist?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 13, 2011
Club 307—This means you. You've got 10 days.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 13, 2011
It's not the watching that bothers them so much as the sharing.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 13, 2011
The videos are a little bizarre, but their hearts are in the right place.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Apr. 13, 2011
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by Midori,
Apr. 12, 2011
The world is falling apart and I’m teaching fine cock sucking. Am I just playing in the band as the Titanic sinks? My birth nation is having a nuclear meltdown, and I’m carrying on teaching blowjobs and bondage, while fundraising for HIV. Yes, this may seem odd, and I know some may think me uncaring and having poor priorities, but somehow I know this is the right thing for me to do right now.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 12, 2011
City council voting on ordinance that could shut down “lifestyle” club.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 12, 2011
And we're thinking maybe they shouldn't give cell phones to 8-year-olds?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 12, 2011
Of course it was. Who would pay $87,000 for sex? Um ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 12, 2011
She allegedly proved she was 19. Is that enough of a defense?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 12, 2011
Drug clinic job specifies male, and now he is one. Simple? No.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Apr. 11, 2011
Meet your newest porn-crush. Danny Wylde has a blog in which it’s all too easy to lose hours while engrossed in his writing. He writes honestly and articulately about what he does for a living: starring in porn. Danny's been in mainstream adult films, was around for the heyday of alt porn and often stars in feminist films. Through it all, he has quite a following among female fans of porn.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 11, 2011
Size matters. So does audacity, don't you think?
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 11, 2011
And we are maybe a little grossed out, but you might not be.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 11, 2011
Case is headed for appeal and possibly, court.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 11, 2011
Parents notified, Internet filters upgraded, etc.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Apr. 11, 2011
I’m gonna go out on a limb here and guess that if you’re reading this, you own a vibrator. But how much do you know about the history of these tiny mechanical wonders?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 11, 2011
New rule: no gay sex for 10 years. So we're not sure this is a change.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 08, 2011
Fortunately, there are only 42 of them who have nothing better to do.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Apr. 08, 2011
Nicki Minaj has found a way to push forth a strong feminist agenda, while dressing like a doll that many say encourages women to think that the skinny, plastic, large breast look is what we should all strive for to get male attention.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 08, 2011
Simulated bestiality apparently doesn't go with PG-13.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 08, 2011
... We're left wondering what mom thinks of all this. You know?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 08, 2011
Note to Kansans: Is this what you had in mind when you elected them?
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by Cole Riley,
Apr. 08, 2011
Several weeks ago, it happened again. Brazil was dealt another moral blow when the smash film, Bruna Surfistinha, arrived in theaters, immediately drawing over one million people to see the life of a young teen prostitute turning tricks on the streets of Sao Paulo. It was like picking a scab off of an open wound.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 07, 2011
"Sex and Zen: Extreme Ecstasy" has the Chinese all worked up.
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 07, 2011
When it comes to attraction, we seldom hold up “average” as “ideal” — if we did we wouldn’t need the two different words, would we? So, why do we so consistently seem to glorify extremes — the most ginormous breasts, the most chiseled abs, the fullest head of hair? Are we just shallow jerks? Or are we actually wired for extremes?
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by The Bloggess,
Apr. 07, 2011
This week my husband is in the hospital and my daughter and I both have strep so I’ve found myself playing on YouTube simply to escape reality for a bit, and in the process I found three videos that would only truly fit in this column.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 07, 2011
Lawmakers hope to stop treating victims as criminals.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 07, 2011
Illinois bill would make released killers trackable, too.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 07, 2011
State law now supports “fairness for all families.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 06, 2011
Artist preferred mistresses short and submissive; And he had that hypnotic stare ...
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Apr. 06, 2011
If you ever see me on the street, chances are, I'll be carrying at least three bags. More than likely four, possibly five. Usually I have my purse, a bag with my laptop, various magazines, books & papers, then a few others with shoes, gym clothes, more books, maybe a bottle of seltzer. The bags are, as I told someone recently, a part of me, but they are also, literally & figuratively, my baggage.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 06, 2011
Facial structures have changed over time, according to scientists.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 06, 2011
$150M lawsuit says workplace hostility nearly killed New Jersey woman.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Apr. 06, 2011
I came to New York City to find my cock, though I didn’t know that at the time. I thought I was coming here for writing—to do an MFA, to perform my poetry around the city, to get a job in the publishing industry—and yes, some of that has happened, but I never expected to have discovered that I needed a crash course in cock confidence.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 06, 2011
We're mostly hoping that his fans have eased up about the gay thing.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 06, 2011
From the Dept. of “You probably do NOT have your best ideas when you are high.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 05, 2011
National Sexual Violence Resource Center premieres PSA in Times Square.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 05, 2011
Law would put Harvey Milk, Alan Turing, Bayard Rustin, Barbara Gittings, et. al., in the books.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 05, 2011
We would totally watch cricket if there were naked models. Wouldn't you?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 05, 2011
Honk if you think it's okay for women to wear what they like to wear.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 04, 2011
Alternative sex columnist Dan Savage suddenly finds himself in the mainstream.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Apr. 04, 2011
You've heard the roles before: naughty nurse, horny pizza guy, frisky babysitter, suave pool boy...but what if the roleplay you're into doesn't fit into porn's top ten? Whatever your ideal fantasy scenario is, you can accomplish it with a little work.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 04, 2011
... (As though high school boys have never seen porn before?)
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by Roland Hulme,
Apr. 04, 2011
Should Transgender People be Able to Change the Sex on Their Birth Certificates?
Recently, SexIs featured a story about three transgender people in New York City suing to have the sex on their birth certificates changed — normally forbidden unless they’ve had reconstructive surgery.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 04, 2011
Sounds smart to us. When will the United States catch on?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 04, 2011
Sex and the City's Samantha plays older porn star in latest film.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 01, 2011
Media pursues woman's identity ... We're fascinated but mostly appalled.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 01, 2011
Student newspaper in Florida is fined and censored.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 01, 2011
AIM database apparently hacked, thousands of names released.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Apr. 01, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Apr. 01, 2011
These things just happen, and the paparazzi are always watching.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 31, 2011
“Little monsters” sing Happy Birthday as pop diva celebrates 25th.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Mar. 31, 2011
How many of us think of ourselves as polyamorous? Some do, of course, but probably most of us think of ourselves as monogamous. Yet, how many of us can claim we've loved just one person in our lives? Likely, not many. So, are we truly monogamous or are most of us serially polyamorous?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 31, 2011
Government says all forms of unions with more than two people are harmful.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 31, 2011
Rapper teams up with condom-maker on Live Large Project.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 30, 2011
Midland, Texas schools will try teaching about condoms next year.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Mar. 30, 2011
In the last few years the media has become inundated with stories about sex workers: feminist sex-workers; high-end, blogging call girls; coerced trafficking-victims. But in each, the buyer remains faceless. Even the word “John” conjures a shady, hidden, back alley-image. This is what I set out to uncover.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 30, 2011
Company says someone must have hacked them, because they'd never do that ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 30, 2011
Indiana town hopes to sort this out with a zoning variance.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 30, 2011
What is with this second winter? Wasn’t it sixty degrees a week ago? Yes, granted, in my home state of Alaska there would still be snow on the ground far into April, far past the official start of spring on March 21st’s equinox. So perhaps I should be used to it. Perhaps I should not expect any differently here in this concrete jungle.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Mar. 29, 2011
It may surprise you to know that Japan, home to hentai, tentacle porn and bukakke, has had strict laws censoring its pornographic films for decades. In spite of easy access to uncensored images, thanks to the Internet, usage of the ubiquitous mosaic to blur images of genitals still persists.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 29, 2011
Police allege go-go dancer enticed boys from three states.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 29, 2011
Is your school censoring the web? You can check, and help.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 29, 2011
Nina offers advice and thoughts on how to go about sharing or discussing your sexual fetishes with family members, friends or new sexual partners.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 29, 2011
Maybe we'd be more sympathetic if they showed a little more tolerance, themselves.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 29, 2011
Department of Health focuses on quality of life, STI prevention.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 28, 2011
Reality TV show auditions with live sex acts, fan voting.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 28, 2011
Yes, we're shocked, too. Sex-crazed lesbians, black drug dealers, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 28, 2011
Police found him napping, pants down, porn all around. Oops.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 28, 2011
Student who didn't get an autograph in trouble for setting up Facebook page.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 28, 2011
Authorities believe illegal immigrants were working as sex slaves.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Mar. 25, 2011
Awards given to Ricky Martin, "30 Rock," and "True Blood"
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 25, 2011
LA Weekly exposes opponent of Craigslist and adult online ads.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 25, 2011
Or would you rather read about molecular regulation and serotonergic neurons?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 25, 2011
Fairview, Illinois tries to close barn door after harmless fetishists have already left town.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 25, 2011
If you're offended by an iPhone or iPad program, just let them know.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 25, 2011
Student turns her in after she declines to give an autograph.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 24, 2011
And we encourage Seattle University to keep doing what it's doing.
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by ErinORiordan,
Mar. 24, 2011
Recent court decisions and a relaxation of what's acceptable in American Culture has led to fewer restrictions on what we see on network TV. Polls say Americans want the FCC to more strictly control sex and violence on TV, but ratings show few are changing the channel to avoid racy or violent content.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 24, 2011
Requirement for corrective surgery before official change is challenged.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 24, 2011
Woman says she feared losing custody of her son if she didn't comply.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 23, 2011
New York City hates me today. But now I am watching the sunset out of my window and it is beautiful, and I guess this means we've made up.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 23, 2011
Farewell to one of the most-watched women. Ever.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 23, 2011
“How often” is often the subject of dispute in long-term relationships.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 23, 2011
Women fight for class-action status against retail giant.
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Mar. 22, 2011
Inga Muscio came into my life on my first trip to New York City. A daft, nineteen-year-old, budding feminist, I scanned the shelves of St. Mark’s Bookshop and one bold title caught my eye: Cunt. I plucked the book from its resting place to view its pink daisy laden cover and the words “a declaration of independence.” Clearly, I had to read this book.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 22, 2011
Government goes after taxes in red-light district.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 22, 2011
It's nice to see a survey that doesn't go all crazy about young people having sex, don't you think?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 22, 2011
Plus some empty baggies, cash and change ... (WTF?)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 22, 2011
LGBT groups protest official funding and participation by police.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 22, 2011
Exodus International's "ex-gay" for iPhone, iPad offensive to more than 127,000, so far.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Mar. 21, 2011
When our society thinks of sexy treats, we usually think of truffles, whipped cream, chocolate fondue, dessert wines...all things that can be extremely unfriendly to diabetic partners. As with any other dietary restriction, perfectly wonderful romantic nibbles can be procured with a little thoughtfulness, common sense, and communication.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 21, 2011
“Taboo,” by former prison guard, portrays lusty life behind bars.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 21, 2011
When social networking is recognized as sexual networking, this is what happens.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 21, 2011
Johns could be fined up to $10,000 and then, well, they'd get an education.
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by Roland Hulme,
Mar. 21, 2011
Should porn performers use condoms? Surely the answer’s obvious.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 21, 2011
Ad campaign is sort of a gaydar test. “Can you tell?”
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 18, 2011
New study indicates that same-sex experimentation is unrelated to education.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 18, 2011
Crystal Cathedral running into backlash from its own founder.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Mar. 18, 2011
There's something fascinating about watching someone who doesn’t know you're there. Catching someone during their most private moments can be exciting, funny, or very strange. What we do in the privacy of our own homes can be very different from how we present ourselves in public, and the act of catching someone at their most relaxed is like having a window into the deepest part of that person.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 18, 2011
Donor originally tested negative but contracted virus before surgery.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 18, 2011
Business is legal but community wants to keep it out, anyway.
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by TinaV,
Mar. 17, 2011
The city of West Hollywood is the first in the world to have its own Transgender Advisory Board that operates independently and separate from the gay and lesbian board. As gay and lesbian people become more accepted in mainstream America, those in the transgender community fight for the most basic of rights, like being able to use the public restroom of the gender with which they identify.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 17, 2011
But shock jock still “sort of” admires Charlie Sheen.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 17, 2011
Obama administration takes anti-bullying efforts seriously, 15-year-old says.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 17, 2011
Some parents want display covered up but the show goes on.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 17, 2011
“Convert the Gays” group says Lady sends the wrong message.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 16, 2011
Teens caught sending racy photos would no longer be considered child pornographers.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 16, 2011
More allegations, and some tasty-sounding toppings.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Mar. 16, 2011
Why we want the spies we love to love us back.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 16, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 16, 2011
Video of condom use preferred to personal demonstration. (We think.)
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 16, 2011
If you think the enemies of PP aren't serious, please think again ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 16, 2011
... and then backs off after furor over privacy.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 15, 2011
The facts are on their side, but we're wondering about their tact.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 15, 2011
Sperm extraction and IVF succeed for some dads.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 15, 2011
As though her role in Charlie Sheen's life wasn't amusing enough, already?
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 15, 2011
How do you stop being the guy every girl wants as a friend and start being the guy with whom every girl wants to flirt?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 14, 2011
The "Today" show seems to think so. We're not so sure.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Mar. 14, 2011
More people may know Pussy Galore than Mata Hari, but is Hari’s lasting legacy even based on fact? What’s the actual female “intelligence” quotient in our favorite femme fatales?
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by Midori,
Mar. 14, 2011
It was the sort of horror that’s only possible on late night cable. An hour-long shopping show dedicated to cheap sex toys. If QVC was a trailer trash mama, we just met her slutty little sister trying oh-so-hard to be Hollywood classy. This was Bristol-Jamie-Lynn capitalism and Sex-In-The-City-knockoff sexual liberation.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 14, 2011
We like science that tells us to like what we already like.
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by TinaV,
Mar. 11, 2011
Nothing livens up a fashion show like prefacing it with the words “sex toy.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 11, 2011
Plus, a whole Internet movie featuring strippers and nude ping pong. What's not to like?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 11, 2011
Porn star hopes women will have what she's having.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 11, 2011
Self-righteous moralizers really need a better hobby, don't you think?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 11, 2011
Sex-positive Christian message spreads to Indiana.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 10, 2011
Senate Democrats united in blocking GOP effort, but this isn't over.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 10, 2011
NBC reports on market for fake hymens, reconstructive surgery. Are we so different?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 10, 2011
The abstinence-only crowd is predictably appalled.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 10, 2011
We bet against him doing “Two and a Half Women,” but who knows?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 09, 2011
We're thinking maybe these two ought to go on tour.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Mar. 09, 2011
The last time I had sex was January 12th. Well, that is if we’re defining “sex” as physical, genital contact with another person. In January, I also had phone sex and cybersex, but since February 1st, have stayed away from all of that. The most action I’ve gotten, by choice, is a kiss goodnight on a street corner.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 09, 2011
Star can't stomach company's record on LGBT issues, after all.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 09, 2011
No one will let former XXX actress leave her past behind.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 09, 2011
It is a balmy fifty degrees in New York City today, finally, and after that rain last weekend there’s barely any snow on the ground anymore. Even the dense piles turned nearly to ice are finally sublimating, skipping the state of water and evaporating in what looks like wisps of steam into the air.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 09, 2011
This time, we're thinking maybe it's the airline that's out of line.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 08, 2011
Two hundred blank pages. We might have guessed.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 08, 2011
Okay, so not really. But they're calling it that.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 08, 2011
From the department of “More Things Not to Do When You’re Nude”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 08, 2011
Star says they can't call it “Baby Gaga” ... or else.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 07, 2011
But we're glad he doesn't seem to be all that sorry.
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by TinaV,
Mar. 07, 2011
My relationship with Planned Parenthood is personal. When I was 19, I was in an abusive relationship and when I found out I was pregnant, Planned Parenthood was there for me. I credit the organization with saving my life. They provided me with all of the information I needed to make an informed decision. I am not ashamed or embarrassed; I am simply grateful that I had a choice and a place to turn.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 07, 2011
Maybe he should have stuck with “It’s the thought that counts.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 07, 2011
Romance-mystery novel by prosecutor required top-level clearance.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 07, 2011
Prostheses also now on the “allowed” list. Special privileges, or basic rights?
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by Roland Hulme,
Mar. 07, 2011
When the details of one's kinky life become public, it can be embarrassing, to say the least. But for some, it can lead to more dire consequences—loss of a job or place to live. Minority groups are protected from this kind of discrimination. But what about kinksters? Do they deserve the same protection from discrimination because they do things others consider objectionable?
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 04, 2011
He's a kid. He had sex. Let's not traumatize him for life.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 04, 2011
Pastor Craig vs. Ron Jeremy: Who are you betting on?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 04, 2011
You know how sometimes nudity isn't sexy? This is one of those times.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 04, 2011
Incident zooms from local curiosity to worldwide crisis in a day. Thank you, Internets.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Mar. 04, 2011
You have a cat, you know the deal: ownership goes both ways. Your furry companion has some ideas about when and how you should offer up affection, entertainment, and snacks. Often, those of us with cats fancy ourselves as the center of their universe, while they seem to think of us as personal assistants barely earning our keep—and that can make bedroom shenanigans complicated, to say the least.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 03, 2011
... Except for the “losing custody of your kids” part.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 03, 2011
If you are a guy, you probably should not read this.
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by The Bloggess,
Mar. 03, 2011
Once again I am flooded with bizarre crap that people sent me. And it is awesome. And terrible. And now I’ m going to share it with you. Because I’m generous.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 02, 2011
Is Sarah White just another webcam girl? We're fine with that ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 02, 2011
Military police captain charges sexuality discrimination.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 02, 2011
So is it voyeurism to film the love lives of tiny deep-sea crustaceans?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 02, 2011
In the past two weeks I’ve been to five cities, not counting New York. First came Philadelphia, with Kristen, my other girlfriend; next it was a two-day trip to Boston where I stayed the night in Pawtucket, R.I.; then finally I headed to upstate New York to visit Ithaca and Syracuse.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 02, 2011
Don't touch, don't view—pat-downs, body scans assailed.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 01, 2011
We know, you're shocked again. Well, maybe you are if you haven't had a baby.
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by Jeff Schult,
Mar. 01, 2011
... And in other Lady Gaga news, she likes monogamy.
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by dr.chauntelle,
Mar. 01, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 01, 2011
No, this isn't about beauty or wrinkles. It's about pain relief.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 01, 2011
UK doctors emphasize safety, divided on psychological advice.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Mar. 01, 2011
“Baby Gaga” confection not to everyone's taste, perhaps.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 01, 2011
Lisa, who considers herself a bisexual, sex and relationship virgin, is wondering if, in a lesbian relationship, you are in the driver's seat in the bedroom does that mean you are in the driver's seat, or the more dominant, butch partner outside the bedroom as well?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 28, 2011
Even if it doesn't turn you on, is it a turn-on knowing they were turned on?
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Feb. 28, 2011
The chants and speeches could be heard from several blocks away. The Planned Parenthood rally in Foley Square outside of the courthouse in Manhattan on Saturday afternoon attracted more than 5,000 men and women who came together in peace on the brisk sunny day to demonstrate the importance of healthcare, and reproductive healthcare, for women.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 28, 2011
Game in Europe only, no plans for release in U.S.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 28, 2011
New York group says it's safe for gays to give blood.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 28, 2011
A cautionary tale ... Be careful with the candles, boys and girls.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 25, 2011
Would we forgive him enough to elect him to something? Maybe.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 25, 2011
Charity event, in its 24th year, celebrates sex in the arts.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 25, 2011
Company must “make amends” for anti-gay “mistakes.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 25, 2011
Mother upset at use of her child's image—and who wouldn't be?
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by Liz Langley,
Feb. 25, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 24, 2011
Study will look at “everyday use” and not assume it’s a problem.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 24, 2011
Mating cries are all about social status, scientists say.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 24, 2011
It might not seem obvious, but tea can be intensely sexy. If you're looking for a warm, sumptuous drink to share with your partner(s), there are teas that will knock your socks off. Some teas are great options for caffeine-sensitive sweeties or sober partners. Whether you're looking for a pick-me-up or a calm-you-down, there is a tea that can improve your evening (or morning) of carnal delights.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 24, 2011
Actress tells Kimmel how she feels about “dirty movies.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 24, 2011
Senate majority leader's suggestion not as popular as he hoped, perhaps ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 23, 2011
Obama administration drops support for Defense of Marriage Act, calls it unconstitutional.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 23, 2011
Legislation would ban teaching about any sexuality but heterosexuality, K-8.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Feb. 23, 2011
Recently, I decided to take a break from sex and dating until November, when I turn 36 (but not writing about sex and dating!), and part of my impetus for doing so is to give myself time and space both to work on myself, and to sort out a lot of unresolved feelings and right at the top is jealousy.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 23, 2011
We know, you're shocked. No gays allowed on “Date Night.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 23, 2011
Somehow, the porn star isn't good enough for the rapper? Puhhlease ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 23, 2011
And to prove it, they will tour the country in a mobile “Man Cave” ...
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 23, 2011
Now, New York City remains my primary partner, but sometimes we need a break from each other, and when I give her some warning, I get permission to go see other cities. So this past weekend, I took a quick day-long road trip with my other girlfriend, Kristen, to Philadelphia.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 22, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 22, 2011
Had a mastectomy? Prepare to be searched before boarding the plane.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 22, 2011
Satirical essay by “Mad Men” writer hits some raw nerves.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 21, 2011
We're thinking it's a keeper, but maybe we're just vocabulary anarchists.
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by Dorian Darque,
Feb. 21, 2011
When we heard Sin City had been “saved” a while back, we were skeptical. Like a full-on Disney experiment, when the town was invaded by a troupe of G-rated “Marketeers” who left in their wake a trail of daycare centers, Barney in-room TV marathons, and other sundry kid-friendly attractions, we shuddered.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 21, 2011
This is not the video we'd want to be remembered by, if it were us.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 21, 2011
Billboard, video series and, yes, mysexlifesucks.org all part of the message.
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by Roland Hulme,
Feb. 21, 2011
Anonymous blogging has risks, but also advantages. The sex blogging community itself wouldn’t be such a rich and thriving place if everybody’s salacious sexual stories were easily linked to their names, faces and the website of the schools their kids attended.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 18, 2011
Social network expands relationship status labeling choices.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Feb. 18, 2011
Closing out Fashion Week, someone who knows a thing or two about living in a boy’s world showed off female looks comprised mostly of menswear. Gwen Stefani, the lead female singer and breakout star of the ’90s band, No Doubt, showcased her Fall L.A.M.B. collection with men’s ties, trousers, and dark patterns.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Feb. 18, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 18, 2011
From the dept. of “People are really supposed to know better by now ...”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 18, 2011
University police criticized for mishandling rape cases.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 18, 2011
Model OD's; was despondent over implant removal.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 17, 2011
Scott Brown, R-MA, offers startlingly candid autobiography.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 17, 2011
Cover story this week on the “infidelity economy”
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by TinaV,
Feb. 17, 2011
Those walking into The Grand Star Jazz Club in Los Angeles’ historic Chinatown district on January 27th were in for a special treat. Upon entrance they were greeted by Cleo and Jessie Nicole, two drop dead gorgeous hostesses in tight black dresses and heels.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 17, 2011
Newspaper reporter goes inside the doors to find out.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 17, 2011
In interview, teen idol expresses extreme views on abortion.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 17, 2011
Convictions for gay prostitution force registration as sex offender.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 16, 2011
Proposal would expand definition of “justifiable homicide.”
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 16, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 16, 2011
Health, law enforcement join forces in new facility.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 16, 2011
Survey says many want support after treatment but few ask.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 16, 2011
And is there a nicer place on the planet to get hitched?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 16, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 15, 2011
City launches IPhone/Android app in support of safer sex.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 15, 2011
Berlusconi charged with paying underage girl for sex.
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by Veronica Monet,
Feb. 15, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 15, 2011
Miami officials upset, but there seem to be no witnesses.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 15, 2011
Sometimes the hardest person to be honest with about who you are, is the person you love the most: your spouse, your partner, your significant other. Fear of exposure and judgment is one of the hardest barriers to breach when sharing sexual fantasies with our partners when we think they may not understand what we want.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 15, 2011
Valentine's Day sex advice off the mark.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 15, 2011
Marches, TV ads support push for marriage equality.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 14, 2011
We have a video or three, a great song and some cards. You're all set.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Feb. 14, 2011
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by Midori,
Feb. 14, 2011
Becoming The Sexually Potent Woman
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 14, 2011
Queer Advocacy Network makes a Valentine's Day statement.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 14, 2011
Kids pushing forward while adults hold back.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 14, 2011
UK health professionals would opt to pay out-of-pocket for more comprehensive protection.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Feb. 11, 2011
To explore the edgier side of relationships in film, Cinema Libre Studio has teamed up with filmmaker and producer Philippe Diaz to curate a retrospective of six films that spiked controversy when they were released, and continue to do so now.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 11, 2011
Berlusconi prosecutors claim evidence of underage prostitutes, orgies, perjury, abuse of power, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 11, 2011
Prospects for a vote in State Legislature look uncertain, however.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 11, 2011
Storylines, respect and realism appeal to broader audience.
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by Cole Riley,
Feb. 11, 2011
In a quest to pull the covers off prim Victorian society, Deborah Lutz, a renowned New York scholar and Professor of Victorian literature and culture at Long Island University, researched the work and lives of a group of Victorian freethinkers who blazed a trail for many current trends in modern art and literature.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 11, 2011
Occidental College Plans Sexy Start to V-Week.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 10, 2011
Anonymous woman spills all to Gawker, speculates on why Lee resigned.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 10, 2011
“I don't think it's fair that gay people are not treated equally.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 10, 2011
We vote for funny, but politicians, of course, are split on the issue ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 10, 2011
City Council unanimous on safe sex on movie sets.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 09, 2011
XXX social networking thrives on those itty-bitty messages.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 09, 2011
Clitoral satisfaction and wholeness part of obscure faith's agenda.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 09, 2011
Anti-porn minister helps those who want to stay visually pure.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 09, 2011
Mr. Sexsmith ponders the implications of giving more than a relationship is ready for as we approach Valentine's Day. Is there such a thing as giving too much too soon?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 08, 2011
Maybe we all were watching the wrong game?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 08, 2011
New reality show will feature “the lifestyle,” 2011 style.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Feb. 08, 2011
Niknaz Tavakolian, an Iranian-born, American woman who has made a name for herself in both the art community, and the gay community, talks to contributor Renee Lucas about collaboration, inspiration and the thriving queer community.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 08, 2011
TV star remains at home, in isolation ... except for texting?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 08, 2011
... Because, you know, we're so short of stereotypes ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 08, 2011
Gulf nation known as more open than others cracks down.
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by Nina Hartley,
Feb. 08, 2011
Staying married for 28 years requires love, commitment and let's face it— hard work! For most, sex is a vital part & one of the rewards of being married. Imagine that 28-year marriage without the sex. Could you stay faithful? You love your spouse, you don't want to leave them, but would you seek sexual satisfaction outside your marriage? Could anybody blame you? Or are you just a cheating louse?
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 07, 2011
What's true for the birds may be true for humans as well.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 07, 2011
Relax, we're talking about 12 generations of mice—not your partner.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 07, 2011
Case raises civil liberty issues, judge acknowledges.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 07, 2011
French dating site looks at Wisconsin, Pennsylvania for clues.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 07, 2011
Comedienne reinvents herself as a dot-co girl.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Feb. 07, 2011
Not everyone is a “roses-n-chocolates” kind of lover. Some of us are even irked by the idea of a greeting-card-industry “holiday.” But that doesn't have to stop them from making the most of the sexy mood permeating everything from grocery stores to restaurants come February 14. Here are some suggestions for enjoying V-Day for those of us with darker tastes & kinkier vibes (including singles)!
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 04, 2011
Survey says more guys want love, more women value independence.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 04, 2011
"Two and a Half Men" star suggests we all have more important things to think about.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 04, 2011
With Super Bowl XLV just scant hours away, the hopes and hearts and bets of NFL fans rest with the Pittsburgh Steelers and the Green Bay Packers. While many will be on the edge of their seats, waiting with Chee-toh'd fingers and brewski breath to vicariously live each play as the clock ticks down to the final outcome, the real winners of the sport may be in a totally different league.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 04, 2011
PP says worker acted appropriately, visit led to FBI probe.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 03, 2011
This is a feel-good story, so I’m not going to go for any done-to-death homoerotic jokes about jocks and locker rooms and sweaty, grunting men. But I might make a crack about Tom Brady’s Justin Bieber-hair. Just once.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 03, 2011
New site launches in New York as “the fun way to discover the gay world.”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 03, 2011
RedTube.com prevails in case brought by pay-porn webmaster.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 03, 2011
Last year's event went so well, they're doing it again ...
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 02, 2011
Documentary looks at pharmaceutical industry and medicalization of sex.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 02, 2011
PR checklist? Video banned, nude photos acknowledged, lesbian sex rumors floated, etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 02, 2011
Bill has no immediate effect on gay nuptials.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 02, 2011
Prosecuted for release of home sex videos he says were stolen.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 02, 2011
“Sting” shows questionable counseling in incident.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 02, 2011
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 01, 2011
Daughter of ex-president tapes video for New Yorkers for Marriage Equality
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 01, 2011
Affairs, sex tapes and porn among agent offenses.
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by Jeff Schult,
Feb. 01, 2011
Tenants say he traded rent discounts and repairs for sex.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 01, 2011
Company cites drop in demand; politics part of backdrop.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Feb. 01, 2011
Protests lead to cancellation of appearance at Washington University.
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by Gary,
Jan. 31, 2011
Porn Club is scheduled to meet up again on Wednesday, February 9th from 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. EST. The DVDs selected for the Club this month are Bad Girls 5 and Love Mishaps with an appearance by star of both films, Stoya!
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by Jeff Schult,
Jan. 31, 2011
We never could have come up with these, but we're glad someone did.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jan. 31, 2011
College, for those who embrace it, can be a full-on smorgasbord of awesome. At no other time in your life will you have such easy access to all things indulgent and sinful.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 31, 2011
Gov. Quinn to sign bill today.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 31, 2011
He said he was gay 20 years ago ... and the media forgot?
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by Midori,
Jan. 31, 2011
Midori unleashes her alter ego, a psychotic clown nurse, clad in a white leather-hood with stitched up mouth, upon the party-goers at the Japan Fetish Ball, an annual extravaganza hosted by the Tokyo Kink Society.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 31, 2011
Virus may be trigger for various (rare) cancers.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 28, 2011
“Willy warmers” ... A new fashion trend?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 28, 2011
Every country really ought to have a Sex Party, don't you think?
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Jan. 28, 2011
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 28, 2011
Adult clubs staffing up for Super Bowl week.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 28, 2011
Actress with cerebral palsy publishes inspirational memoir.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 28, 2011
Philadelphia minister preaches a gospel of sensuality.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jan. 28, 2011
Alternative porn is getting bigger and better than ever. Director Carlos Batts and April Flores talk about their labor of love, Artcore.
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by Gary,
Jan. 27, 2011
Our third Porn Club discussion was a lively and enjoyable evening. We had a large number of attendees, including the star of Girl Talk and Love & Marriage, Kayden Kross.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 27, 2011
Illustrator Boris Lopez says latest work isn't porn.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 27, 2011
"Pretty Reckless" singer talks about repressed upbringing.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 26, 2011
Yes, we know you're completely shocked by this.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 26, 2011
When it comes to sex and dating, social media is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it’s, well, social, and therefore, has the potential for fun, flirting, meeting people and getting to know dates, significant others, fuck buddies and those who hold the potential to fall into those categories.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 26, 2011
President asks universities to allow ROTC on campuses.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 26, 2011
FBI declines comment on investigation.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 26, 2011
Oscar nominee avows his respect for porn stars.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 26, 2011
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 25, 2011
Genetically, they're all just a little too much alike ...
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by Mona Fox,
Jan. 25, 2011
In the best of all possible worlds, we could do whatever we want, with whomever we want, whenever we want... but for those of us who live in the real world, having sex can be a process of negotiation—especially when the real world includes sharing your living quarters with others.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 25, 2011
FDA approves Viibyrd, a likely best-seller.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 25, 2011
Firing of fiancé ruled as apparent retaliation for lawsuit.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 25, 2011
Sofia Black D’Elia defends controversial MTV show.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 24, 2011
La Petite Mort in Ottawa to double as movie set.
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by Cole Riley,
Jan. 24, 2011
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 24, 2011
Lesson plans supported by £35,000 government grant.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jan. 24, 2011
Let me ask you this: Have you ever:
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Jan. 21, 2011
New York City Firefighters Enflame the Crowd for a Good Cause
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 21, 2011
“Have an affair” site turned down by Fox.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 21, 2011
Scientists say the Pill is not to blame.
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by Lady J,
Jan. 21, 2011
I know how many sexual partners are lurking in my husband’s past. I know one had MY first name. Another is heir to a well-known salad dressing fortune. I know he never contracted a sexually transmitted disease. This is all I know. This is all I WANT to know.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 21, 2011
Is it the money? Probably not.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 20, 2011
... And it wants to be Disneyland, too.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 20, 2011
Painting expected to fetch perhaps $29 million at auction.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 20, 2011
In the early days of blogging, writers only had to “self censor” if they thought their mother or pastor might be reading their ramblings. Now, it’s all too common to find employers perusing your posts, too…and taking notes—which is why many bloggers have decided the only way to be secure expressing opinions is behind the mask of anonymity.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 20, 2011
Obama administration regulations go into effect.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 20, 2011
Stereotypes of gay parents belied by latest census data.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 20, 2011
Access is through browser, not an app.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Jan. 19, 2011
“He loves me. He loves me naught. He loves me. He loves me naught. He loves me…”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 19, 2011
We can't watch. Well, maybe we can. Do we have to?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 19, 2011
Thief confesses, archeologists thrilled.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 19, 2011
Kristen Stewart inspired by previous role as teen runaway.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 19, 2011
No cards. No Cupids. No dozen roses. Etc.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 19, 2011
Inane advice for the desperate: It's everywhere.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 19, 2011
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by Veronica Monet,
Jan. 18, 2011
First of all, let’s dispel a common myth: that there are only two genders. The world is not neatly divided into male and female. In humans as in nature, some individuals are born with gender characteristics that place them in a third category: Intersex.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 18, 2011
Characters, story lines and people help build support for full equality.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 18, 2011
Pop star and rapper toy with media over supposed relationship.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 18, 2011
Popular tampon returning to stores after mysterious absence.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 18, 2011
Undercover journalist records efforts at “cure.”
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by TinaV,
Jan. 17, 2011
The reflections of a lone female visitor at West Hollywood's iconic gay male porn-plex.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 17, 2011
Black males depicted in awareness campaign; councilman is opposed.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Jan. 14, 2011
The crowd at the “Comic Stripped” exhibition at the Museum of Sex was extremely—animated.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 14, 2011
School district says conservative group misrepresents sex-ed activity.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 14, 2011
Because sometimes 2D porn just isn't real enough?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 14, 2011
$2M sought in lawsuit over explicit pics.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 13, 2011
NASA declines comment on hypothetical Mars mission and sex.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jan. 13, 2011
For normal people, sex is an enormously pleasurable act; and then there are the scientists, for whom sex seems to be just another human behavior to scrutinize and analyze.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 13, 2011
Oops. Federal tax withholding wrong for all of 2010.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 13, 2011
Even some kink-friendly critics disappointed by implications of live deflowering event.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 13, 2011
Some LGBT sites allowed but others deemed too explicit.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 12, 2011
Local government wants to know about employee affairs.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 12, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 12, 2011
Pope delivers verbal slap at new mandatory curriculum in Spain.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 12, 2011
Skater outs self in new book, talks on Today Show.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 12, 2011
Professors lose their jobs, government investigates.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 11, 2011
Tori Black and Evan Stone are porn performers of the year.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 11, 2011
Founder takes financially troubled company back from shareholders.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 11, 2011
There’s a lot of outrage about the TSA’s “enhanced patdowns” (their term) and “pornoscanners” (the media’s) going around. Despite all the coverage, one important problem has been overlooked— but then, it always has: How do gender and orientation outliers navigate the system of “same-sex” security?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 11, 2011
If you were thinking Rev. Fred Phelps couldn't stoop any lower, you were wrong.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 11, 2011
Media tempest swirls over safe sex kits for students.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
Tunes, like chocolate and sex, release dopamine.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
Government responds to court ruling on protection of LGBT rights.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
Victim of assassination attempt is steadfast supporter of equality and rights.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 10, 2011
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 10, 2011
Stupid, dangerous plot against ex-girlfriend goes awry.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 10, 2011
Annual event spreads to 50 cities in 24 countries
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jan. 10, 2011
The Whore Journals, Part 23: Saying Goodbye, Saying Hello ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 10, 2011
“60 Sex Tips” turn into “The Male Brain.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 07, 2011
Actor tweaks the media, says he's just interested in great roles.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Jan. 07, 2011
Everyone in the room at the Lillian Vernon Creative Writers House at NYU couldn’t help but feel inspired. As members of the AIDS Service Center New York’s Creative Writing Workshop came forward one by one to read their poetry, emotions ran high, and the sense of community ran deep.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 07, 2011
Chemical signal in women’s tears apparently says, “Not interested.”
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 07, 2011
Contemplating a world without men ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 07, 2011
Supporters hope for vote early in legislative session.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 06, 2011
Thank goodness we have scientists paying attention, eh?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 06, 2011
FCC overstepped authority in “NYPD Blue” case.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 06, 2011
Nanny charged with tampering with soup.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jan. 06, 2011
You are planning to marry the perfect man, or so you think...but what do you do when your fiance comes out as a homosexual? Kiri Blakeley tells all in her just-released book.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 06, 2011
Officials put on notice; Not a threat but a promise.
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 06, 2011
Once again, Twitter has helped me to write my post when thousands of people recently shared texts that they received from stalkers. It was awesome. And terrifying. Also, if you’ve ever sent any of these you need to get help. Really.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 06, 2011
Government pursues dubious allegations despite court ruling.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 05, 2011
MRI results show what we might have guessed.
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by Dorian Darque,
Jan. 05, 2011
Wrapped up the psyche of satisfaction is the psychology of sex. Superior sex is only in small part physical; the rest is in the minds of you and your partner and how you perceive each other.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 05, 2011
He plays a stalker in “The Flying Pink Pig”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 05, 2011
Liberals are neither surprised nor especially dismayed.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jan. 05, 2011
This may come as kind of a shock, but I don’t hate New York City.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 05, 2011
UK authorities say in-flight entertainment “too distracting.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 04, 2011
Curators to open previously forbidden section of national library.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 04, 2011
One small request generates an outpouring of support for those in need.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 04, 2011
Sure-fire ways of bedding a pro athlete?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 03, 2011
Singer tweets latest album cover.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 03, 2011
Gilbert & George revisit their roots for latest show.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 03, 2011
Self-expression and individual growth are key for happiest couples.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 03, 2011
Conservatives claim to have the votes.
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by Midori,
Jan. 03, 2011
Welcome to 2011! Do you have a long New Year’s resolution list? Lose weight, get in shape, save money, have more sex, switch political parties, move to Canada or perhaps give Kim Jong-il a sexy tickle until his wiki leaks?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Jan. 03, 2011
“... there's a really good chance you're gonna be offended.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 02, 2011
14,000 films have been locked away for decades.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jan. 02, 2011
Icy swim by naturists benefits amputee children.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 31, 2010
The best ways to ring in the new year in the Big Apple.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 31, 2010
TSA turns down her offer to strip.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 31, 2010
WWII and women's movement icon Geraldine Hoff Doyle.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 31, 2010
Wisconsin teen must register as sex offender for non-sex offense.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 30, 2010
Presidential pectorals are out of bounds for photographers.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 30, 2010
Science group fights bad sex and health advice from celebrities.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 29, 2010
Taking a breath, after riding the roller coaster that was 2010 ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Cable company says it has more important things to do.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Survey says bad underwear can ruin your whole day.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 29, 2010
Lil Jon: “The butts don’t lie.”
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 29, 2010
The East Coast was covered in snow, and as my plans to be oh-so-productive started disappearing like the visibility outside my windows, I had to reschedule my day and admit it: I was stuck. What was I going to do?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 28, 2010
Heterosexual couples tend toward gender-based divisions of responsibilities.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 28, 2010
This could happen! (Oh, wait. Not really.)
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Dec. 28, 2010
Science offers clues, but doesn't have the answers—maybe because “desire” is what a woman says it is.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 28, 2010
Tributes pour in for singer whose voice “launched a thousand babies”
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 28, 2010
Star says culture is homophobic and misguided.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 28, 2010
Maybe, just maybe, you're a girl who's kissed a girl ... or wanted to. Maybe, just maybe, you wanted more than just a kiss. You're curious. Maybe you're more than curious. So what the hell do you do now?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 27, 2010
Suddenly Fem says it's giving the customers what they want.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Dec. 27, 2010
BDSM is on the menu at this fund-raising event, where awareness is elevated, expectations evolve, inhibitions crumble, and sex positivity reaches a higher plateau.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 27, 2010
Cyprus unfazed by international reaction.
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 27, 2010
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 27, 2010
Students would rather get information on the Internet.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Dec. 27, 2010
The Whore Journals, Part 22: The end is at hand.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 27, 2010
Playboy octogenarian to marry Miss December 2009.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 24, 2010
Web site lets you make a greeting full of (censored)
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 24, 2010
And they're ridiculously easy to build, too.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 24, 2010
Community comes together to end violence against sex workers.
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by Roland Hulme,
Dec. 24, 2010
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 23, 2010
In interview, president says his opinion is evolving.
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by Twanna A. Hines,
Dec. 23, 2010
Twanna A. Hines: Sleeping Around—The FUNKY BROWN CHICK Perspective on Sexy Stuff
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 22, 2010
President acknowledges that challenges remain despite the victory.
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by Victoria,
Dec. 22, 2010
Rachel Kramer Bussel's landmark NYC erotic reading series turns the final page.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 22, 2010
Bald may be the better choice, as Propecia side effects disputed.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 22, 2010
Bet you didn’t know that, huh? With all this talk of family, family, family, and religion or spirituality or even just the bundled-up dark time of the year, why would the season of holiday cheer be for fucking?
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 21, 2010
Church issues murky clarification of pope's latest comments.
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by Gary,
Dec. 21, 2010
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 21, 2010
High court invalidates adoption by birth mother's partner.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 21, 2010
Company pulls erotic service section from web sites.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 21, 2010
Pick-up scene called too racy. You be the judge ...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 20, 2010
Can they do that? Perhaps.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Dec. 20, 2010
What happens when society at large takes a fancy to your fetish, without any real idea what it's about?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 20, 2010
Ah, that sweet sound of warplanes at night ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 20, 2010
Company says Xbox will stay “family friendly”
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 20, 2010
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 20, 2010
Obama calls repeal a crucial step for civil rights.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 20, 2010
City worker decides they are inappropriate for display.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 17, 2010
Clever idea, and we're so glad it wasn't one of ours.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 17, 2010
Eat, sleep and get blowjobs. Some men might say that’s all you really need in life—and going by some of his film titles, it seems that Andy Warhol might have agreed with them.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 17, 2010
Here's a dress code that we can't live with. How about you?
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 17, 2010
There's nothing at all here about old-fashioned baby-making ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 16, 2010
GOP dragging feet on scheduling a vote.
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by Cole Riley,
Dec. 16, 2010
Toni Bentley is, among other things, a sensualist. A purring, sexual tigress, who does not withhold her claws, Bentley loves to take it in the ass—and has found an enduring erotic ecstasy in being a bottom.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 16, 2010
Electronic fondling system is up and running.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 16, 2010
Emma Stone workout triggers asthma attack, Golden Globe nomination.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 15, 2010
FIFA decision to host in Qatar in 2022 under fire.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 15, 2010
Documentary filmmaker explores complex marital relations in the Land of the Pharaohs.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 15, 2010
Manga and anime “unduly glorify” certain sexual acts, politicians say.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 15, 2010
Breakthrough stem cell treatment gives hope to millions.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 15, 2010
So, you’re queer.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 15, 2010
All eyes await censor verdict on nude swimming scene.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 14, 2010
You'd think we made this up, but you'd be wrong.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 14, 2010
Violence and sex, presumably for people who like them on the same DVD.
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by TinaV,
Dec. 14, 2010
New Orleans’ rapper Big Freedia's pussy poppin' power takes the homophobia out of Hip-Hop.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 14, 2010
Bill would support prevention of underage, non-consenting marriages globally.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 14, 2010
Comedian entertains mom-to-be until help arrives.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 13, 2010
Police investigating bias crime.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 13, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: When I was younger, I would have been so much happier with sex, if only I had known... what?
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 13, 2010
Holliday seeks support from sex-positive community.
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by Lori Selke,
Dec. 13, 2010
Landmark San Francisco organization faces challenges due to its hands-on nature and pansexual audience.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 13, 2010
Bulgarian models, with a side of tractor grease.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 13, 2010
Locally produced porn features condom usage.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 13, 2010
Was outspoken mom, and activist for more than 35 years.
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 13, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 10, 2010
Whether he exposed himself or not didn’t matter, in the end.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 10, 2010
Dortmund hopes to raise 750,000 euros ... on the backs of sex workers.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 10, 2010
It was clear to visitors who set their eyes on the Exhale Pavilion at Art Basel Miami Beach that it was going to be am amazing weekend. This center of all activities surrounding the four-day festival lit up the waterfront and provided a space for exhibitors and performance artists to take the stage.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 10, 2010
Nina Hartley is a lot of things to a lot of people: A pioneering porn star who made the crossover to mainstream films; a wife, a nurse, a sex positive feminist and a champion of free speech. For the last year, SexIs has been bolstered by her regular contributions each week with the thoughtful advice she provides in Tuesdays With Nina.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 10, 2010
Somehow, we think there's going to be a long line ...
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 10, 2010
Supporters of repeal keeping up the pressure as clock ticks down.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Dec. 10, 2010
Some love it, some hate it. For me, it's been an acquired taste.
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by Rayne Millaray,
Dec. 09, 2010
Foes call Los Angeles facility a porn industry sham.
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by Gary,
Dec. 09, 2010
Our second Porn Club discussion was a lively and intense event. So many people joined in, including Raylene, the star and producer of Lip Service.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 09, 2010
Sea World says Mötley Crüe drummer is off his rocker.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 09, 2010
Porn performer favors mandatory condom use.
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 08, 2010
We don't really care, but ABC apparently does. A lot.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 08, 2010
Oops. Wrong translation.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 08, 2010
Scientists have tried everything. You do want more pandas, right?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 08, 2010
When I was a kid, one of my family’s few traditions around the winter holidays was to pile into the car with a few thermoses of hot chocolate and some cassettes of holiday music to go look at the Christmas lights. In our little town, there was an annual contest held by the local newspaper, which published the top three best decorated houses, as well as the best neighborhood or street in general.
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 07, 2010
Frustrated celebs seek help from financial angel to save them from fate worse than social media death.
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by Jeff Schult,
Dec. 07, 2010
Grants will support “innovative research.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 07, 2010
The revolution is being televised.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 07, 2010
More than half of those surveyed enjoy sex in their 70s and beyond.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 06, 2010
Say it ain't so ... Moe?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 06, 2010
MPAA accused of double standard (again).
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 03, 2010
Lingerie company models sing carols, or anything you want ...
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Dec. 03, 2010
On World AIDS Day, Awareness and Funds are Raised for the AIDS Service Center in New York.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Dec. 03, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 02, 2010
Apparently, showing cartoon pubic hair is still enough to shock some people.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 01, 2010
In honor of World AIDS Day 2010, the staff of Edenfantasys got together to share our personal messages of hope, remembrance and encouragement.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Dec. 01, 2010
When my editor asked me to write about AIDS in conjunction with World AIDS Day (today, December 1st), I will admit, I panicked a bit. It would be a lot easier for me to write about this topic if I could tell you that I get tested regularly, that I’m extremely careful about my safer sex practices, but that wouldn’t be the truth.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Dec. 01, 2010
RED campaign works to end mother-to-child transmission of HIV by 2015.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Dec. 01, 2010
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by G.L. Morrison,
Nov. 30, 2010
Yesterday, we explored expressions of artistic imagery touched firsthand or via inspiration by HIV/AIDS. Today, a poet and songstress felled by this deadly killer, whose voices have become anthem to a landscape of both hope and loss.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 30, 2010
Poll shows most Americans in favor of allowing LGBT to serve in military.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Nov. 29, 2010
In honor of World AIDS Day, Sexis offers a retrospective of fine artists and performers whose lives and works were informed by the disease. While some viewed HIV/AIDS through the lens of loving observation, and others have passed on, their creative efforts serve to inspire us all.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 29, 2010
Keyes, Gaga, Timberlake to cut social networking until $1M goal is reached.
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by Judy Cole,
Nov. 29, 2010
Hello. Testing… Testing… Is this thing on?
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 29, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 26, 2010
Marketers want to erase the stigma of sexual aids for men.
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by Roland Hulme,
Nov. 26, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 25, 2010
You'd think there isn't much sexy about turkeys and Pilgrims, but you'd be wrong.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 24, 2010
Drug, when taken regularly, substantially reduces risk of infection—at a price.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 24, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 23, 2010
Analyst speculates that Victoria's Secret sales mean more than breasts are uplifted.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 22, 2010
Pontiff, in new book, says that prophylactics may be permissible (under the narrowest of circumstances.)
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by Midori,
Nov. 22, 2010
Matthew Bourne's Swan Lake is a triumph ... and an unforgettable erotic experience.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 19, 2010
Zeta Chi at Trinity College considers opening doors to a he.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Nov. 19, 2010
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by Cole Riley,
Nov. 18, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 18, 2010
Hefner's channel hopes to attract more female viewers, maybe even couples.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 17, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 17, 2010
Social networking giant disables untold numbers of accounts—women only.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 17, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
Nov. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 16, 2010
A third of women taking sugar pills report improvement in their sex lives.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Nov. 15, 2010
I am surrounded by male energy. To be clear: I am surrounded by hot guys, lubed up in skimpy rubber outfits. It’s the 14th annual Mr. International Rubber (MIR), a skin-tight fetish event in Chicago, that draws rubber-boys from all over the world.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 15, 2010
Minister's announcement sparked by response to Rutgers suicide.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 15, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 12, 2010
Princess Hijab is the newest rogue graffiti artist making social commentary with the swipe of a marker and a swish of spray paint. Recently, the pseudonymed rebel’s made headlines by covering sexy models in Paris billboards with “veils.”
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by RalphieGuy,
Nov. 11, 2010
More from the floor of one of the hottest sex conventions anywhere.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 11, 2010
Ten lucky winners will get to attend posh Playboy party at the mansion.
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 11, 2010
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by RalphieGuy,
Nov. 10, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 10, 2010
Couple hit with huge inheritance tax because U.S. doesn't recognize Canadian same-sex marriage.
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by TinaV,
Nov. 09, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 09, 2010
Students more likely to know or guess that a hidden image is there—if it's porn.
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by Lady J,
Nov. 08, 2010
When you're trying to have a baby, you can take all your “preconceived” notions about the birds and the bees... and toss them out the window.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 08, 2010
Consumers of mainstream porn—as well as performers, producers and directors—can heave a sigh of relief, as the HIV quarantine is lifted and production cranks back up.
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by Midori,
Nov. 08, 2010
Non-profit Danish kink association is public spirited, tolerant ... and all about the fun.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 05, 2010
Researchers in Massachusetts identify key amino acids that fight off progression of disease.
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by RalphieGuy,
Nov. 05, 2010
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Nov. 04, 2010
We know that sex is beneficial for human health and well being, but it seems that not all sex acts are created equal. Do breeders really beat out non-trad combos for sex bennies? Science signs point to “Yes.” Read on.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 04, 2010
Privacy organization says “suspicionless” body imaging of travelers at airports is unconstitutional.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Nov. 03, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Nov. 03, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 03, 2010
SCOTUS hears arguments today on a California law banning the sale of some video games to kids.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 02, 2010
Researchers find that oral sex leads to intercourse (!!); Chinese rely on porn for sex education.
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by TinaV,
Nov. 01, 2010
When an adult cinema festival runs afoul of dubious zoning ordinances in New Mexico, freedom of speech is put to the test.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Nov. 01, 2010
Gay and lesbian voters in the Big Apple energized by GOP gubernatorial candidate's remarks.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 01, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 29, 2010
Scorn heaped upon writer for not-so-hot kiss-and-tell tale of night with future Senate candidate.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 28, 2010
"Two and a Half Men" star's life, once again, makes the show look like reality TV.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 27, 2010
Rub a little on your belly, thighs, arms or shoulders ... it may be the next thing in birth control.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 27, 2010
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by Veronica Monet,
Oct. 26, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 26, 2010
University study says lack of sex drive “is a genuine physiological disorder.”
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 25, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Things that go bump in the night. Scary sexy. What sends shivers up your spine?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 25, 2010
Same-sex competitor says: “This is the most natural thing to do.”
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by Midori,
Oct. 25, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 22, 2010
The Internet domain sex.com changes hands yet again, for $13 million.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Oct. 22, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 21, 2010
“It all started with a friendly phone call from Bob who had tracked me down to Amsterdam in 1971 …”
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 21, 2010
The journey music takes from the time it enters through the ears to when it arrives between the thighs is informed by factors of both culture and physiology. (Yeah, we knew there had to be a reason why only the few and the kinky have sex to the tune of "Jive Talkin'"...)
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 21, 2010
R.I.P. Bob Guccione, 79; Obituaries around the world describe his rise and fall.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Oct. 20, 2010
My name is Rachel, and I’m an attention whore. There, I said it. Maybe that’s obvious, because I think to some degree, all writers are attention whores, but I don’t mean professionally, I mean personally. Only in the last few months have I realized that when it comes to dating, attention is the number one thing I’m looking for from a partner.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 20, 2010
U.S. armed services start accepting gays, but warn that legal situation is subject to change.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 20, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 19, 2010
Polish priest admits he's no expert, but his popular premise is that “Sex is Divine.”
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by Liz Langley,
Oct. 18, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 18, 2010
Hustler Video and Digital Playground join porn shutdown as Jameson urges industry to embrace condoms.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Oct. 18, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 15, 2010
It's okay to ask or tell, at least temporarily. But it's probably not a good idea while legal confusion reigns.
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by Jeff Schult,
Oct. 15, 2010
If you could give your younger self some relationship and sex advice ... what might have changed?
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by Cole Riley,
Oct. 14, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 14, 2010
Will we see a kinder, gentler Perez Hilton? He tells Ellen DeGeneres of his “big wake-up call.”
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by Tobi,
Oct. 13, 2010
Sometimes protecting someone you love has legal ramifications you might never have considered. When the system puts sex workers at risk, do you break the law to save a life? It's a choice no one should have to make.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 13, 2010
GOP gubernatorial candidate now sorry for anti-gay rhetoric; HIV scare shuts down top porn studios.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 13, 2010
“Who cares if I’m gay or not? Why do I need to ‘come out?’ Aren’t we beyond that?”
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by Cole Riley,
Oct. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 12, 2010
Stripping down can get you a lot of exposure or even a really big check (if you streak the President).
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Oct. 11, 2010
In 1972, the first feature-length, fuck flick caused quite a stir—and not just thanks to the copious amounts of on-screen oral sex. No, it was the behind-the-scenes tales of abuse and arrests that made the real story of the $600-million grossing film pretty hard to swallow.
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by Midori,
Oct. 11, 2010
You’ve heard about kinky weekend events, haven’t you? Maybe it was someone’s elated Facebook post, or that friend who breathlessly told tales of her wild, naughty adventures? Perhaps you’d read a local newspaper article decrying the shocking and amoral activities, full of scantily clad women with whips and chains, happening down at a local convention center. You want to go, don’t you?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 11, 2010
National Coming Out Day is observed the world over with marches, events, speeches dedicated to tolerance and awareness.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 11, 2010
The woman formerly known as "The Beautiful Kind" has a real name. On National Coming Out Day, please welcome: Kendra Holliday.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 08, 2010
“Horizontal Academics” goes viral on the 'Net and now she's sorry ... but maybe not as sorry as the men in her past.
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by Nikol Hasler,
Oct. 08, 2010
Today, we proudly welcome Nikol Hasler to Team SexIs. Whether you know her from her guest interview with The Bloggess, or from her outrageous antics on the Midwest Teen Sex Show... or even if you don't know her at all, you're sure to love her as we do. Because we believe in unconditional love. We really, really do. Without further ado, here's ... Nikol Hasler.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2010
For the past three years, Apple’s iPod Touch has been the company’s biggest success with consumers under 18. Now that the device’s newest upgrades include the same video chat feature in the iPhone that was immediately adopted by the phone sex industry, what does this mean for the “kid-friendly” entry in the Apple empire—and for the ubiquitousness of tech and sex, no matter what your age?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 07, 2010
Magazine “looks into the broader culture” for 2010 list; Lady Gaga, Beyonce, Ellen DeGeneres make Top 10.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Oct. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 06, 2010
High court to address latest in long line of free speech cases: Is Westboro Church over the line?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Oct. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 05, 2010
The Lone Star State opts to continue "abstinence only" despite availability of funds to expand sexual education programs in high schools.
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by Nina Hartley,
Oct. 05, 2010
Adam and Eve were tossed out of the Garden of Eden for taking a bite out of the apple that fell from the Tree of Knowledge. Trouble was, and still is, that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, especially when it comes to sex. So what do you do when you've been raised in a conservative environment and have not been exposed to deeper learning about the carnal world? Ask Nina, of course!
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by Monica Shores,
Oct. 04, 2010
Six years ago, a young couple in San Francisco decided to offer up their sex as commodity for voyeurs. They managed to attract quite a few customers, including many gay men who, as Chris describes it, “Were only interested in watching me fuck a girl.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 04, 2010
Indiana University releases results of the most comprehensive survey regarding sex in America since the early 1990s.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Oct. 04, 2010
It's all in a day's work.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Oct. 01, 2010
An author accuses pharmaceutical companies of creating “Female Sexual Disorder” so that they can cure it.
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by ErinORiordan,
Oct. 01, 2010
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by Monica Shores,
Sep. 30, 2010
For this installment of Rebel Love, we meet two men who describe how their romance bloomed in a climate of multiple sexual relationships.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 30, 2010
An attempt to bamboozle Abbie Boudreau backfires on controversial Right-Wing videographer James O’Keefe.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Sep. 29, 2010
David Jay is an asexual activist. He’s the founder of AVEN, the world’s largest online asexual community.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 29, 2010
Ontario judge rules that Canadian laws on sex work impinge on sex workers' constitutional “right to life, liberty and security.”
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 29, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Sep. 28, 2010
Liza Minnelli sat on the small stage at the Gramercy Park Hotel’s Rose Bar in New York last evening as only a diva can.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 28, 2010
New teen novels join some old favorites on the list of books some parents would like to ban.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 27, 2010
Every picture tells a story, but a lot of the time, what's being sold as the truth is a fairy tale. When does fashion become a weapon and just how dangerous is altering reality to sell advertising?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 27, 2010
An elementary school art instructor in New York City is “under investigation” by the Board of Education for writing about her past as a sex worker.
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by Midori,
Sep. 27, 2010
Welcome to Wicked Grounds—America’s singular adults-only kinky café. It also happens to be my one of my top two favorite cafés in San Francisco. You’ll often find me there, writing or hanging out with other sexy freaks. The coffee’s superb, Wi-Fi’s free, no children are allowed (except those adults enjoying age play), and I can say and do most anything. What’s not to love?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 24, 2010
Elena Miroglio's plus-size fashions are forced to take a hike on another runway, and Katy Perry is apparently too sexy for Sesame Street.
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Sep. 24, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 23, 2010
What’s fueling your next naughty romp? If you’ve ever tried to get down with an empty stomach or felt frisky after a heavy meal, you know that the state of your stomach has a lot to do with the success of your sex. How do you make sure that you have enough fuel for a night of mattress marathons without getting sidelined by the need to digest?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 23, 2010
Since Mexico City legalized abortion, authorities in other parts of the country have cracked down, endangering the health of women and putting them at risk of criminal charges.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Sep. 22, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 22, 2010
Senate Democrats come up four votes short, and at the 11th hour, Senate Republicans shot down the bill that would repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” ensuring policy makers another battle over it after November's elections.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 22, 2010
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 21, 2010
Last week, word broke that women don't have sex... at least not according to TV ads, that is. As reported, the makers of Zestra got the bum's rush when seeking air time to peddle their—gasp!—female enhancement product. Smiling Bob could not be reached for comment.
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by Buck Angel,
Sep. 21, 2010
I think about how my sexuality has changed so much with my transformation from female to male.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 21, 2010
Judy Blume has been saved in the nick of time, thanks to a successful appeal ruling that two of Oregon’s sex-literature laws are unconstitutional.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 20, 2010
White power. Black power. Power to the people. Exceptionally potent phrases, all.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 20, 2010
Gaga and the "Mainiacs" come together to support gays in the military.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 20, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Sep. 17, 2010
In public, most women try to be well mannered, look pretty and smell nice. But once a single gal gets home at the end of the evening? She’s just plain dirty.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 17, 2010
Researchers find shocking new evidence that saying “Hello” might work better than stupid pick up lines.
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by Liz Langley,
Sep. 17, 2010
How a personal journey toward bondage unleashed the artist within.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Sep. 16, 2010
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by Yvette Safire,
Sep. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 16, 2010
Despite the fact that her opponent called her “a confused It, ” Oklahoma’s first transgender candidate is gaining open-armed acceptance.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 15, 2010
Amid the noise about gay marriage, most Americans are accepting, not excepting.
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by Tinamarie Bernard,
Sep. 14, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Sep. 14, 2010
Diane von Furstenberg, Donna Karan, Monique Lhuillier and Carolina Herrera all showed their new chic and elegant collections over the last three days in New York. As one would expect, they were perfectly executed, beautifully tailored and highly praised.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 14, 2010
Female sexual arousal is apparently a taboo topic too racy for TV, because despite audiences’ inundation with explicit sex-product commercials aimed at men—cum Viagra and Trojan—producers of a feminine pleasure enhancer are having a tough time getting their message across.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 13, 2010
In the first installment of this interview, we met up with Molly Ren, who has a very special relationship with food as it relates to sex. While many foods are known to function as aphrodisiacs, for Ren and others who share this fetish, it is the act of eating and feeding, rather than the food itself, that leads to the ultimate gratification.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 13, 2010
A survey commissioned by an unnamed pharmaceutical company is trying to debunk the idea that the French are the best lovers in the world—by pointing out Parisians’ “miserable” sex lives.
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by Midori,
Sep. 13, 2010
If you’re from south of the border—the Canadian border, that is—and have never visited Toronto, you’re missing out on a lot of fun...both vanilla and kinky.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Sep. 10, 2010
Day One: Ellen, Bondage and Animal Magnetism
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 10, 2010
Sure, the military’s “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy is supposed to be repealed thanks to legislation—but apparently, that legislation is stalled in the Senate, prompting a federal Judge to rule the mums-the-word practice unconstitutional.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Sep. 10, 2010
Marijuana, long considered a dangerous and highly addictive substance, is quickly becoming the easiest score on the West Coast.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 09, 2010
In another sordid turn of Britney Spears’ personal life drama, a security guard under her employ is taking her to court for allegedly harassing him in a sexual manner.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 09, 2010
It’s easy to make healthy choices about dildos today. Whether you’re concerned about the phthalates in rubber, have a latex allergy, or want a toy you can throw in the dishwasher between partners, there’s something on the market for you. It wasn’t always so, though; the technology behind safe and healthy dildos has come a long way.
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by The Bloggess,
Sep. 09, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 08, 2010
In what sounds like a fun psychological think-tank, researchers at the U.K.-based Northumbria University say they have discovered the secret formula to sexy dancing.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 08, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 07, 2010
Joumana Haddad is a daring poet and editor who produces a quarterly magazine about the human body, women’s issues, and erotica in Arabic culture—and it circulates in erotically restrictive Lebanon.
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by Nina Hartley,
Sep. 07, 2010
Imagine that the love of your life, your spouse, your husband... tells you he wants to be a woman. What does a couple do when one of them needs to transition from male to female and the other is not attracted to women?
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Sep. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 06, 2010
Thousands of Americans across the nation are enjoying the extended weekend to rest, travel, reflect—or job hunt—but, according to one dubious “news” source, today’s a great day to just lie around and have sex.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Sep. 06, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 03, 2010
Robert Rodriguez’s newest sex-and-violence romp through seedy action movie clichés opens today, already with some cool reviews and some cooler naked tricks.
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by Lady J,
Sep. 03, 2010
The sea of online love is vast, and there are a lot of fish in the ocean. If you don't want to wind up looking like a bottom feeder, you have to have to dangle the right bait. So, put away those night crawlers and read on.
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by Cole Riley,
Sep. 02, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 02, 2010
The world of dating gets “curiouser and curiouser” every day—and these days, lots of people are fighting for the right to date any way they want to.
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by Elizabeth Black,
Sep. 01, 2010
When it comes to sex therapy, pretty much anyone with an opinion can hang out a shingle and call themselves an “expert,” but how do you separate the spin doctors from the real deal? In the days ahead, SexIs will be speaking to some of the most respected “sexperts” in the field to separate pros from the poseurs—and get the skinny on how to have great sex.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Sep. 01, 2010
In a case that defies society’s double-standard toward men and sexual exploitation, authorities in Spain have busted a human trafficking ring that held captive over 60 male sex slaves.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Sep. 01, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 31, 2010
Last week, we launched The Appetites Project with Liz Langley's feature, “I Eat, Therefore, I Am.” In this installment of the SexIs feederism series, The Beautiful Kind talks one-on-one with a practitioner of the fetish, Molly Ren.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 31, 2010
Backpedaling is the order of the day for The Huffington Post after the site yanked a Monday editorial by blogger Beau Friedlander offering $100,000 for a Glen Beck sex tape.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Aug. 30, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 30, 2010
In an awards show that’s being touted as “gay-friendly” and “bolder” than other awards shows in the past, this weekend’s Emmy presentation featured same-sex spouses, George Clooney’s gay snuggling, and a straight naked John Lithgow. They even said “Bitch” twice!
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by Midori,
Aug. 30, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 27, 2010
The blogosphere is on fire with conflicting responses following the news that former Republican National Committee chairman Ken Mehlman has been a gay in elephant’s clothing all this time.
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by ErinORiordan,
Aug. 27, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 26, 2010
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Then again, innovation is always propelling us forward into realities we couldn’t possibly have imagined. The concept of orgasm on demand has been around for a long time, but how close are we to that reality?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 26, 2010
They marched relentlessly, they got tossed in jail, they endured hunger strikes and chained themselves to the White House gates—and thanks to them, the brilliant women who fought so hard for the right to vote, many of us today enjoy freedoms of which they never dreamed.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 25, 2010
It doesn’t matter that she did it while it was legal; a California minister is being persecuted—er, prosecuted—for officiating marriages for same sex couples.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Aug. 25, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
Aug. 24, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 24, 2010
Tiger Woods is now a single man, much to the delight of one of his former mistresses, who has already been reported as saying she’ll “give up everything” to get Tiger back.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 23, 2010
Most of us have some kind of issues involving food and many are forever trying to lose weight thinking it will help achieve sexiness, so there’s probably nothing more socially subversive you could do in America in 2010 than to gain weight on purpose.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 23, 2010
Women make a statement for topless equality
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 23, 2010
Onlookers were very eager to agree with protesters yesterday, as the organization Gotopless hosted a demonstration demanding equal rights for men and women—to bare their chests.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 23, 2010
Ho, ho... oh, no....
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 20, 2010
Conservative pundit Ann Coulter is drawing fire—and applause—for recently speaking at HomoCon 2010, an event thrown by the gay conservative organization GOProud.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 19, 2010
It seems that nothing can stop the iconic sex guru Dr. Ruth Westheimer. At 82 years young, she’s off gallivanting in Israel, researching a small Muslim community there for an upcoming PBS documentary.
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by The Bloggess,
Aug. 19, 2010
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by Mona Fox,
Aug. 18, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 18, 2010
The undead undressed? Yes, indeed.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Aug. 18, 2010
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by Lori Selke,
Aug. 17, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 17, 2010
A disappointing update on the Prop 8 situation in California today: An appeals court has successfully put same-sex marriage on hold again after a Federal court deemed that the ban was unconstitutional.
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by Nina Hartley,
Aug. 17, 2010
Everybody deserves love, but the reality is that not everybody finds it. Sometimes, it's insufficient social skills, sometimes it's the aftereffects of a traumatic childhood, but whatever the circumstances, there will always be people who just can't connect with others for romantic intimacy.
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by Monica Shores,
Aug. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 16, 2010
Old “neurosexist” ideas about the differences between genders are being challenged by scientists—specifically the notion that men are biologically from Mars and women are hard-wired for Venus. Turns out, it may be more nurture than nature than previously thought.
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by Midori,
Aug. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 13, 2010
It’s Friday the 13th, but so far there are no broken mirrors for sexy small-screen diva Teri Hatcher, who posted pictures of herself on her Facebook page, naked and beautiful—and all natural.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Aug. 13, 2010
In the spirit of “less is more,” many men have found a new use for their old beard trimmers.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 12, 2010
The Erotica Lifestyles Expo 2010 kicks off in New Zealand tomorrow, championing such blazing-hot talents as Tera Patrick, Buck Angel, and the legendary Nina Hartley—and even though the Expo has yet to begin, the controversy’s already underway. And we don’t mean “Boobs on Bikes.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 11, 2010
iPhone users have more sex—at least, that’s the bottom line of a highly technical and quantifiable statistical project published on the web yesterday by…OKCupid?
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Aug. 11, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Aug. 11, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 10, 2010
It’s really powerful to see someone secure enough in their faith to fight for the rights of others. The doyenne of undead fiction, Anne Rice, has taken up the cause.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Aug. 09, 2010
Some of us may soon be standing in line in front of adult movie theaters once again, as shooting has started on what’s being called the “world’s first 3D pornographic film.”
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Aug. 09, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 06, 2010
“The female blogger is one of the most powerful communicators in social media today.”
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Aug. 06, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 05, 2010
The U.S. government is chipping away at getting same-sex marriage legalized.
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by Liz Langley,
Aug. 05, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 04, 2010
Bend over, and let me take a picture. This is exactly what Old Navy’s Booty Reader is asking customers to do so that the company can fit them with the proper style pair of jeans.
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by Elizabeth,
Aug. 04, 2010
Gay Marriage May Not be the Only Way To Achieve Equality
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Aug. 04, 2010
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 03, 2010
“But it just doesn’t feel the same…” We wonder if women will start using this line when referring to the female condoms that are now gaining wide recognition in major U.S. metropolitan cities.
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by Renee Veronica Lucas,
Aug. 02, 2010
Mr. President, peacemaker, Slick Willie, womanizer—Bill Clinton added Father of the Bride to his long list of titles this past weekend when he walked daughter, Chelsea Clinton, 30, down the aisle to wed her longtime boyfriend Marc Mezvinsky, whom she met while attending Stanford University.
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by Midori,
Aug. 02, 2010
Are you ready for more of my totally biased and personal list of The Sexiest Cities in the World? These oases are sex positive, erotically hip and sensually progressive.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 30, 2010
A new documentary focusing on Hugh Hefner debuts today, exposing a side of the cultural icon that oftentimes goes unseen—his role as a political and civil activist.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Jul. 30, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 29, 2010
President Obama appeared on ABC’s controversial talk show The View this morning, to discuss topics like the war in Afghanistan and the economy, leaving more racy topics—such as the illegitimacy of older lesbians—to the show’s conservative pundit Elizabeth Hasselbeck.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 29, 2010
Oh, technology. You bring us fabulous new discoveries, connect us with humans across the globe, and make sex scandals much, much juicier. What once were salacious accusations without evidence are now proven indiscretions displayed in excruciating detail, thanks to the way technology has insinuated itself into our most intimate moments. How do you keep your naughty bits out of technology's bytes?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 28, 2010
Three books mysteriously disappeared from Apple’s list of iPad bestsellers, and now the company is drawing fire—again—for censoring sexually explicit materials.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jul. 28, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jul. 28, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 27, 2010
Seems Enrique Iglesias has started a nude trend. Everybody’s conditionally naked today, as Colombian actress Sofia Vergara may go starkers if her show wins an Emmy, mirroring model Larissa Riquelme’s vow to run bare if Paraguay won the World Cup, while Janice Dickenson poses naked—but not running—at age 55.
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by Buck Angel,
Jul. 27, 2010
I’ve been thinking about writing something on this topic for a long time. I just never had the venue to write it for until now. Since SexIs has been so kind as to give me a place to share my thoughts and ideas with the world, I felt this was the time and place.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jul. 27, 2010
You know your friends are kinky, but when they show up with bruises, do you fear they are being abused? Does it seem strange, worrisome or flat out wrong to you that some people enjoy pain during sex?
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 26, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: “Embracing the Strange.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 26, 2010
Sexual outlaw and underground literary figure Samuel Steward passed away in 1993, leaving behind a recently discovered Aladdin’s cave of gay paraphernalia.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jul. 26, 2010
From launching the niche to going mainstream, black writers are finding their market—and it's not necessarily defined by color lines.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jul. 26, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 23, 2010
All those billions of dollars spent on HIV research have yielded results, as scientists have now identified three new antibodies that neutralize 91 percent of HIV strains.
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by Yvette Safire,
Jul. 23, 2010
It's a given that sitcoms aren't meant to be taken literally. But if humor is based on the familiar, what does it say about us as a society when in order to be funny, comedic heroes are most often portrayed as bumbling boors, while their female counterparts are relegated to the ranks of a more infamous “B” word?
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jul. 22, 2010
They say you never forget your first: That initial surge of blood as your heart begins to hammer, those small moans of pleasure, your mouth actually watering as your lips embrace the object of your desire.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 22, 2010
A softcore version of a film about the gay undead has been banned from appearing at the Melbourne International Film Festival because of scenes in which an “alien zombie finds dead bodies and has sex with them to bring them back to life.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 21, 2010
While rumors of the pending Proposition 8 decision draw crowds to the San Francisco courthouse where the historical ruling has yet to be made, certain cities have been designated as “gayest” and “not gayest.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 21, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jul. 21, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 20, 2010
Today is the 21st anniversary of Apollo 11's historic lunar landing, and recently unearthed yearbook photos of Rachel Maddow have right-wing pundits seeing stars—and apologizing for comments over her usual “unwomanly” look.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jul. 20, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 19, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Dénouement.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 19, 2010
This weekend, recordings surfaced of Mel Gibson verbally abusing his ex-girlfriend Oksana Grigorieva. The backlash has made Gibson the butt of many “smile and blow me” jokes.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jul. 19, 2010
What is erotic? Ask the question of 100 people, 100 different answers volley back like flaming arrows toward a castle under siege. Each is as unique as the stripes on a tiger, some markedly more dangerous, all indisputably valid.
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by Midori,
Jul. 19, 2010
Where is the sexiest city? Do images of lovers cavorting on beaches, romantic walks along quaint cobblestone paths or luxurious hide-away hotels come to mind? If you think “the sexiest city” is an easy question to answer, your buying the hype of travel advertising.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 16, 2010
Hot TV/Internet phenomenon Old Spice Guy has been called out by Alyssa Milano in a steamy viral video exchange to help raise money for the National Wildlife Federation Gulf Oil Spill Restoration Fund.
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by Liz Langley,
Jul. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 15, 2010
Argentina is the first South American country to legalize same-sex marriage after lawmakers passed a bill early Thursday.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 15, 2010
Technology is widely touted as the anti-censor, opening up realms of knowledge from the mundane to the sublime to all people with unlimited access. But all Internet connections are not created equal, and the controversy over sexual materials has only intensified on the digital stage. From iPhones to censorwalls, the battle over freedom of information rages on.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 14, 2010
Dita Von Teese is coaxing audiences into a very sexy Perrier fixation, thanks to a viral video marketing the brand.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jul. 14, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jul. 14, 2010
Look at your partner when you’re communicating with them.
When you decide to do something, pay attention, commit to it, and follow through.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 13, 2010
After functioning as a public company for more than 39 years, majority stockholder Hugh Hefner—ironically, a man best known for making privates public—announced hopes of taking Playboy Enterprises private.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jul. 13, 2010
Known as “the man with a pussy,” Buck Angel has become a cultural icon. He’s a successful porn star—who’s addressed audiences at Yale University. Angel does the talk-show circuit, but when he took Howard Stern up on a dare to ride the Simian Sex Machine, the joke was squarely on Stern.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 12, 2010
Swiss authorities announced that Roman Polanski will not be extradited to the United States, and is no longer under house arrest, effectively ending a 30-year pursuit of the award-winning film director who fled the country after pleading guilty to charges of having had unlawful sex with a 13-year-old girl in 1977.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Jul. 12, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jul. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 09, 2010
An international campaign to keep an Iranian woman accused of adultery from being stoned to death has succeeded.
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Jul. 09, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 08, 2010
Recent studies have discovered that those taking medications to combat erectile dysfunction have higher risk-taking behavior during sex, and are therefore twice as likely to contract a sexually transmitted disease.
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by Tobi,
Jul. 08, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Jul. 08, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 07, 2010
After an 11-month layoff for gender testing, 800-meter World Champion Caster Semenya has been cleared to run again—as a woman.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Jul. 07, 2010
“The Beautiful Kind” (a.k.a. “TBK”) is both the name and motto of the 30-something bisexual vegetarian sex goddess located in St. Louis, Missouri. A prolific sex writer, TBK writes for a variety of magazines, including SexIs, and also pens a popular Internet advice column “Ask The Slut.”
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jul. 07, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 06, 2010
During a House of Commons debate on improving government transparency, it came out that a London hospital had loaned out one of its wards for the filming of a pornographic movie.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 05, 2010
Another week, another hot topic, another 140 characters of steamy micro-erotic excellence. Presenting our weekly winner, runner-up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: Simultaneous Sexual Combustion.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 05, 2010
It was only a matter of time before the sizzling sexploits of accused Russian agent Anna Chapman—a.k.a. Anya Kushcenko—became fodder for tabloid fare.
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by Midori,
Jul. 05, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 02, 2010
Interest in Marilyn Monroe’s chest has not waned in the last fifty years, as bidders recently spent a staggering $45,000 on chest X-Rays taken of the blonde bombshell.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Jul. 02, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 01, 2010
Most people enjoy a little discretion when it comes to nookie. At the very least, they'd rather not broadcast their boffing to friends, family, and co-workers—especially when there's some kink involved. However, the other thing most people enjoy is social networking. This is one area where sex and tech rarely should mix, and yet like all things sex and tech, you just know they do.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jul. 01, 2010
The recent economic crisis has hit many people very hard, and now added to the list are those who depend on the AIDS Drug Assistance Program, which supplies medications needed to combat AIDS and HIV to the underprivileged.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 30, 2010
Larry King announced yesterday that he would step down from his illustrious position as late night TV’s longest running talk show host after weathering a sex scandal and marriage woes.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 30, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jun. 30, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 29, 2010
Of all the things to call Al Gore, “Crazed Sex Poodle” is not the first one we’d think of, but apparently, one woman called him just that after claiming that Gore demanded sexual favors during a massage.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 29, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 28, 2010
Robert Byrd, the longest-living U.S. Senator, passed away today at the age of 92.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jun. 28, 2010
It's not so much the words as the meaning behind them.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 25, 2010
On the one-year anniversary of Michael Jackson’s death, admirers around the globe gathered to pay tribute to the late beloved King of Pop.
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Jun. 25, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 24, 2010
Yesterday, CNN announced that Elliot Spitzer, the controversial ex-Governor of New York, is slated to host a new current events show that hopes to be a “roundup of all the best ideas.”
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 24, 2010
Everyone knows that adult film star Savanna Samson has a smokin' hot body. Yesterday we learned that she also has a pretty impressive worldview to go along with it. Today, Savanna talks about her favorite co-stars, what's in store for her future, and advises anyone who wants to follow in her X-rated footsteps about the things that truly matter if you're considering a career in the porn industry.
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by The Bloggess,
Jun. 24, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 23, 2010
Dame Helen Mirren, known for her stoic portrayals of royalty and hard-boiled police detectives also has a sinfully steamy side she’s never been shy about exposing.
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by Jeff Schult,
Jun. 23, 2010
Adult film star Savanna Samson is a woman of many talents. In addition to her career in front of the camera, she's also a mom who has her own wine label, and is an avid supporter of ASCNY. We caught up with her to get the skinny on what makes Savanna such a well-rounded woman of the world. Whichever way you prefer your adult star—text or video—we've got it covered.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 23, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 22, 2010
General Stanley McChrystal, the top U.S. Commander in Afghanistan, was called back to Washington over a recently published profile that painted those in the White House as “disappointing” and “wimps.”
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by Buck Angel,
Jun. 22, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 22, 2010
You ache for your partner to be more adventurous in the bedroom, but they just don't seem willing to stretch the boundaries. Or maybe YOU want to explore your inner exhibitionist, but you can't quite take that first step. Whether it's apprehension, agitation or anxiety holding you back, Nina's got some advice that just might bring out that sense of adventure—in either, or both of you!
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 21, 2010
Yankee General Manager Brian Cashman has gone on record absolving Lady Gaga for any wrongdoing after she entered the Yankee clubhouse this weekend... wearing no pants.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jun. 21, 2010
It's been 20 years since artist provacatuer Keith Haring passed away; a pioneer for AIDS activism, who himself succumbed to the disease. The imagery he left behind is a catalog of both innocent delight and quirky, carnal wit. The world was his canvas: From the sidewalks of New York City to the human body, nothing was safe and everything was sacred.
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by Midori,
Jun. 21, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 18, 2010
Last night, the L.A. Lakers beat the Boston Celtics 83-79 for the NBA Championship title.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Jun. 18, 2010
Exploring the Intersections of Food, Sex, and Culture in the Land of the Rising Sun
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 17, 2010
Among doctors and researchers, the debate rages over how to diagnose female sexual problems, and if such problems are treatable with drugs at all, unlike their male counterparts.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 17, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 16, 2010
President Obama addressed the nation yesterday, in a primetime speech regarding the Gulf oil spill disaster.
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 16, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jun. 16, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 15, 2010
Pop culture has heartily embraced the prospect of an impending zombie apocalypse. At the end of the world, it’s said ...
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by Bill Allen,
Jun. 15, 2010
Ruminations from a middle-aged man who thought the sexual revolution was over, somebody lost, and things were pretty much the same.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jun. 15, 2010
How do you even begin to figure out if you should stay in a relationship with problems, or leave in search of a better match? Do you get counseling? Do you go with your partner or alone? If your partner won't dance with you, do you need a new one?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 14, 2010
Hundreds of thousands have fled the ethnic rioting that broke out in Kyrgyzstan this weekend. The riots, that have claimed the lives of more than 200 Uzbeks, are said to be linked to the recent coup of president Kurmanbek Bakiyev.
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 14, 2010
A dozen years have passed since a curvy intern and the President of the United States launched an infamous sex scandal that left a mark infinitely more indelible on our culture than a telltale DNA stain on a blue dress.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Jun. 14, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 11, 2010
Soccer is life to millions of fans across the globe, so the start of the World Cup 2010 in Johannesburg sparked massive celebrations - and massive controversy.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jun. 11, 2010
Last week, we met Alt Porn star April Flores. Teased in her youth for being overweight, this modern-day XXX Mae West learned to embrace her curves, find happiness and the courage to show her big, beautiful wares to the world at large.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 10, 2010
In what’s been hailed as the worst security breach in Apple history, over a hundred thousand iPad owners’ personal information...
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 10, 2010
In a marketplace geared toward the design-conscious consumer—in which you can customize everything from your tits to your license plates—there are still two items that almost always default to black: luggage and kinky sex gear.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 09, 2010
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jun. 09, 2010
Sexis debuts The Man Project with an opening salvo from relationship expert, Michael Alvear, and learns that the true test of a man is about much more than the level of his testosterone.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jun. 09, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 08, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
Jun. 08, 2010
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by Liz Langley,
Jun. 07, 2010
June is a month that honors many things. Among its most delightful designations: Oral Sex Month. In honor of this fine tradition, in the coming weeks, our Naked Reader selections will be consumed with all things oral, sensual and pleasurable.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 07, 2010
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by Midori,
Jun. 07, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 04, 2010
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jun. 04, 2010
Voluptuous April Flores is making serious waves in the world of alt-porn with dangerous curves cultivated by confidence, courage and—lo and behold—carbs.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Jun. 04, 2010
Professional sexy photo shoots for “regular” gals have gone mainstream. The resulting images make gift giving easy, but what’s really in it for you? Well, as the author’s wife says, “Hanging out in my lingerie all day was pretty damn nice.”
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 03, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 03, 2010
The Next Big Thing in gaming: Project Natal, Microsoft's revolutionary platform that uses the player's entire body as the controller. No more “gamer's thumb,” no more Wiimotes flying through TV screens–just your body and your game console in perfect interactive harmony. Is it any wonder that those of us interested in sex and tech wonder what impact this will have on the future of interactive porn?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 02, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
Jun. 02, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Jun. 02, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Jun. 01, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 31, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 31, 2010
Pussy worship and the eyes of a wolf. Growl!
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 28, 2010
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by Dorian Darque,
May. 28, 2010
There may be nothing you can legally do with your body more exciting and sensual than grabbing your partner and jumping on a motorcycle, at least in public. No other human experience heightens the senses and ignites instincts like climbing atop a great chuffing beast and heading out on the highway.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 27, 2010
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by Mandy Van Deven,
May. 27, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
May. 27, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 26, 2010
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by Liz Langley,
May. 26, 2010
Like certain other physical activities—surfing, yoga, running—belly dance more than just exercise; it becomes a way of life for some people—a way of carrying yourself, enjoying your body and moving proudly and sensually through the world.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
May. 26, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 25, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
May. 25, 2010
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by Sexis Editors,
May. 24, 2010
One week, 140 characters...and your imagination. Presenting our weekly winner, runner up and the outstanding entries for last week’s topic: The Unknown
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 24, 2010
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by Jeff Schult,
May. 24, 2010
There is good erotica, and there is bad erotica. When it's good, it's very, very good. When it's bad...it's almost always usually good for a laugh. But why is it so hard to write the good stuff? Here's one man's theory.
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by Midori,
May. 24, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 21, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 20, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 20, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 19, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 19, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
May. 19, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 18, 2010
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by Zoeyjane,
May. 18, 2010
I studied eating disorders like a Ph.D. candidate, crossing back and forth from memoir to scholarly article, to magazine column and back again to autobiography. I put in hours of effort, memorizing passages and quotes, regurgitating information and ultimately learning everything there was to be learned about Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 17, 2010
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 17, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 17, 2010
Musings on sex and Las Vegas Amusements...
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 14, 2010
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by Johnny Murdoc,
May. 14, 2010
The Internet has done what all great tools of communication do: fundamentally transformed the way we interact with one another—and that’s just as true of our discussion about sex as it is anything else. The games we play haven’t changed, but how we play them has.
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by Monica Shores,
May. 13, 2010
Things that look human but aren’t, are creepy. Or loveable, depending on your capacity for anthromorphism. Or beautiful, depending on your aesthetic. Or perhaps a bit of all three at once, which explains the American public’s conflicted fascination with life-sized sex dolls and even the first impressions of doll users themselves.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 13, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 12, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
May. 12, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 11, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
May. 11, 2010
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by Midori,
May. 10, 2010
Once again I’m off to teach sex classes. I’m a traveling sexuality educator. Blowjobs, anal sex, bondage, cunnilingus and the like, oh my! I love my work.
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 07, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 06, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
May. 06, 2010
Technology and porn have always been butt buddies, but the most prudish mobile device out there is the one in everyone’s pocket. The iPhone acts like your paranoid Aunt Marge when it comes to sexy apps, even though its own browser puts the World Wide Wank at your fingertips. How did we get here, and what does it mean for the future of digital sex?
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 05, 2010
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by Award Winning Author of Erotica Rachel Kramer Bussel,
May. 05, 2010
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by Nina Hartley,
May. 04, 2010
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by Lorna D. Keach,
May. 03, 2010
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by The Beautiful Kind,
May. 03, 2010
The lawyer, the peach eater and a date for coffee…
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Apr. 30, 2010
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by Yvette Safire,
Apr. 30, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Apr. 29, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Apr. 28, 2010
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by Buck Angel,
Apr. 27, 2010
A celebrated transgender pioneer in the adult entertainment industry, Buck Angel has broken barriers, pushed boundaries, and made people think deeply about things that might otherwise have never otherwise occurred to them. So if you’re ready to have your mind expanded, horizons broadened—and get the most bang for your Buck—read on!
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by Dorian Darque,
Apr. 23, 2010
There is a thriving trade here in this whimsical Arizona desert town, an otherworldly place of nearly supernatural beauty. Towering crimson cliffs and blood-red buttes stand sentinel over the errant souls who have been seduced by Sedona’s mystical allure, but few know its well-kept secret. Sex for salvation is nothing new, but here it has become a craft.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Apr. 22, 2010
With all the mainstream exposure, has Chatroulette remained the edgy, dangerous place we first heard about?
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by The Bloggess,
Apr. 22, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Apr. 21, 2010
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by Rydell Johnson,
Apr. 19, 2010
In fiction, you get to push the envelope—and whether that's testing the waters of polyamory or having an affair—the chickens don't come home to roost in real life. That's what happens when art imitates life, but when life imitates art? That is an entirely different thing altogether.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Apr. 19, 2010
It's my very first professional sex for pay encounter, and I'm having a strange sense of déjà vu. Guess you never know how small the world is... until you meet your first client.
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by Monica Shores,
Apr. 16, 2010
A look at women who pay for their pleasure, and the sex workers who satisfy their cravings.
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by Lady J,
Apr. 14, 2010
For many who grew up in America public Sex Education did a lot more harm than good. When you’re taught that sex is not a recreational activity—unless you’re a disease-ridden whore—and condoms don’t work (if you have sex, you WILL get pregnant). Let’s just say, it’s a lot to overcome.
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by Jeff Schult,
Apr. 14, 2010
Oh, the plight of the poor, straight male! “Pity me,” he cries, “for the weight of my entitlement is mighty, and I am weary from too much testosterone.” Wait … What’s that sound we hear? Why it’s the world’s tiniest violin… playing just for you.
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 12, 2010
Paul Krassner is a writer, agitator, humorist and social watchdog extraordinaire. Where the establishment is matter, Krassner is antimatter. He speaks with the voice and the conscience of a generation who knew better than to trust the status quo. His message of thoughtful rebellion is as timely now as it was in the ’60s… perhaps even more.
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by Tobi,
Apr. 09, 2010
When you look up “transgender” in the dictionary, you’re not going to find a picture of an individual who defines the term—because that person does not exist. The transgender identity can contain many diverse elements, but if you pay attention—and mind your manners—you can learn to pick up on the cues that will help you figure out who is cis and who is trans.
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by Em & Lo,
Apr. 08, 2010
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by Forbidden Light,
Apr. 07, 2010
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 07, 2010
Today, expressions of sex positivity, acceptance, and celebration of every gender and lifestyle are part of the fabric of modern society, but it wasn’t all that long ago being different often meant not having a voice to speak in public, much less sing. Pioneering publisher Felice Newman looks back from then to now and beyond.
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 06, 2010
From censored to celebrated, erotica emerges from its dark alley and brown-paper-wrapper past to stake its claim on the bookshelves along with classic literature of every genre.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Apr. 05, 2010
A slut is someone who has sex with lots of people, or as urban dictionary defines it, “a woman with the morals of a man.” A whore is someone who gets paid for that predilection. I’ve always considered myself a slut—I don’t think that’s a bad thing. Now I’m reorienting myself to embrace the word whore.
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by Liz Langley,
Apr. 05, 2010
In 1978’s The History of Sexuality, Michel Foucault coined the phrase “Ars Erotica” (a.k.a. “the Art of Pleasure”) to differentiate between the “Eastern perception of sex as an art form” and “the Western approach of laboratory and statistical.” Erotica, as old as the human race itself, has evolved on a parallel course, and like the society from which it springs, continues to be a work in progress.
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by Sexis Editors,
Apr. 05, 2010
SexIs joins celebrated erotica publisher Cleis Press for some spirited reading that's sure to stimulate the body and the mind.
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by Bella Bell,
Apr. 02, 2010
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by The Bloggess,
Apr. 01, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 31, 2010
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Mar. 31, 2010
Condom-less porn (or bareback) is on the rise in gay outlets, and as popularity creates a demand for more and more, studios and performers are leaving the protection in the nightstand.
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by Sexis Editors,
Mar. 31, 2010
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by Kal Cobalt,
Mar. 30, 2010
“Genderqueer” is often the equivalent of the “Potpourri” category on Jeopardy! It’s where things that don’t fit in any other category hang out.
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by Mrs Melee,
Mar. 29, 2010
Behold the human body! Sure, it's a beautiful thing. But perfect? Not hardly!
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by Lorna D. Keach,
Mar. 26, 2010
Is there some sort of sexual subterfuge going on? Some collective cultural desire to hide sex even with something as liberated as sex toys? Because why don’t many dildo manufacturers associate their sex toys with, y’know…sex?
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by The Bloggess,
Mar. 25, 2010
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by G.L. Morrison,
Mar. 24, 2010
It's trendy to answer the question “who/what are you?” with a smirk and “I hate labels.” I like my labels. Go to the pantry and rip the labels off every can you find. Dinner will be always be a surprise. Is wanting to know what's inside just blind prejudice? When did blindness become lack of prejudice?
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 24, 2010
The twists on the excessive usage of the word "gay" to mean dumb or stupid kind of crack me up. Kind of like the sticker I saw at the queer bookstore in Vancouver, British Columbia years ago, which read, "straight people are so gay." And then there was "marriage is so gay." Yes! Now that I can get behind.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 23, 2010
So, you've got your period, you want to have sex but you aren't crazy about the mess? There are options for those who don't want to give up sex for a week just because Aunt Flo's town. This week, Nina talks about ideas on how prevent the mess while enjoying sex on your period.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Mar. 22, 2010
It’s all well and good to decide to become a paid sex worker, but going from theory to practice can be a lot more complicated than you might imagine.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Mar. 19, 2010
It’s a safe bet to say that the anus is the most disowned area of most people’s bodies. To say that the anus and anal sex are taboo does not begin to capture how personally directed the fear and disgust of the anus is.
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by The Bloggess,
Mar. 18, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 17, 2010
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by G.L. Morrison,
Mar. 15, 2010
Harnessing the power of discarded inner tubes, fetish-wear artisan Katrina Humbert scores one for the green team.
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by Morgan,
Mar. 12, 2010
When you’ve spent most of your life fighting to be taken seriously as a woman, it can be extraordinarily grating to discover that you want to call any man “sir.” This, then, is the plight of the feminist sexual submissive—how do you maintain your identity as a strong, intelligent, independent woman when you also get off on letting people push you around?
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by The Bloggess,
Mar. 11, 2010
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Mar. 10, 2010
In her witty, tongue-in-cheek tale, Cutting Up Playgirl: A Memoir of Sexual Disappointment, author Carrie Jones chronicles a life without orgasms and her quest for the ever-elusive climax to her story.
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by Tucker Cummings,
Mar. 09, 2010
On the 115th anniversary of his death, we still have much to learn about sex, power and the true nature of love from the man for whom the term “masochism” was invented.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Mar. 08, 2010
She was smart, attractive, unemployed…and good in bed. Fed up with getting screwed by the corporate world, she decided to take destiny in her own hands, have sex on her own terms, and put a new twist on the world’s oldest profession.
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by Elizabeth,
Mar. 05, 2010
Most science reporters aren’t scientists; they’re talking heads hungry for site hits, ratings, readership and ad revenue. Even reputable journalists sometimes jump the gun when groundbreaking developments fall into their laps. How the media’s rush to scoop the competition promotes dangerously incomplete data as truth, and puts the public at risk.
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by Chloe Wittkop,
Mar. 04, 2010
There are hundreds of different ways to set a sexy mood, from scattering rose petals to scenting the room with incense or perfume… Fortunately, some of the most luxurious and romantic mojo maximizers are natural, eco-friendly, and even come in green, so you can always say that you had Mother Earth in mind.
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by The Bloggess,
Mar. 04, 2010
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by Forbidden Light,
Mar. 03, 2010
In every city, hundreds of beautiful men and women are including sexual activity into their massage practice. Alternatively, could it be that they are involving massage in their sex work? Nudity, mutual touch and sexual stimulation are becoming common complementary features to therapeutic touch…. There’s always been a thin line between massage parlors and cathouses—if any distinction at all.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Mar. 03, 2010
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by Tobi,
Mar. 02, 2010
Every gender identity has its own rules for social interaction. It’s when you step into the larger world that etiquette gets a little tricky. You meet someone. You fall “in like.” Finding the right moment to reveal you’re transgendered requires tact, timing and, sometimes... a little luck.
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by Nina Hartley,
Mar. 02, 2010
When you're raised in a very conservative environment, it often throws a monkey wrench into your sex life. Thankfully, you can overcome early sex-negative training and learn to embrace a robust means of healthy sexual expression.
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by Liz Langley,
Mar. 01, 2010
Today, women take contraception for granted. Many even consider having to take a daily dose a chore. In response, a proliferation of once-monthly, and even once-quarterly forms of birth control have flooded the marketplace … but it wasn’t so long ago that sex minus fertility wasn’t an option—even if you were married. How the introduction of one little pill changed the modern world.
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by ErinORiordan,
Feb. 26, 2010
Lesbian? Gay? Bi-curious? Straight. Sexual identification isn’t always etched in stone. Sometimes, you can’t tell who the players are, even when you have the scorecard.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 24, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 24, 2010
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by Yvette Safire,
Feb. 23, 2010
You could say skin holds a certain magic that’s frightened us and attracted us since forever, right from the very beginning.
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by The Bloggess,
Feb. 18, 2010
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 17, 2010
Immediately in the city everything is just as hard as you’ve always heard it is: the disgusting humid summers. Finding an apartment. Getting a job. Locating friends. But the subways become easy, once you get the hang of it, and Manhattan is comprehensible, once you orient yourself. Be careful not to over-orient: you will change.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Feb. 16, 2010
And why shouldn’t they? Haven’t they earned it, for Pete’s sake? And if nothing else, the prospect of aging does seems far more tolerable if oral’s still on the table.
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by Lady J,
Feb. 15, 2010
Scientists do many things in the name of progress. They seek cures for diseases; explore the nature of the universe, and the universe of nature. But sometimes, their findings can be flawed, faulty—or downright eff’d up. In other words: Put back that planet, and take your paws off my G-Spot!
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by MariaVargas,
Feb. 12, 2010
Maybe you know me. I’m the one who stays quiet, simply listening, as other women discuss the evils of pornography. At risk of outing myself, I choose not to share my opinions. But I have quite a few. After all, I spent three years working behind the scenes for a company publishing porn websites and DVDs.
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by Chloe Wittkop,
Feb. 12, 2010
Eating and sex go hand in hand. In fact, people have been using edibles to get in the mood for centuries. (Hey, all kidding aside, Cupid ain’t stupid!) If you want to feel sexy AND smart this Valentine’s Day, it’s easy make green choices when it comes to aphrodisiacs—so you can feel the earth move, and tread lightly on the planet at the same time.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Feb. 11, 2010
Unsatisfied with the fare dished out by mainstream media, many gay voices are seeking out and creating their own vehicles of self-expression—and in the process, re-inventing print in their own image.
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by The Bloggess,
Feb. 11, 2010
Every month I think people can’t possibly send me anything weirder than what they sent me last month.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 10, 2010
I won’t lie: Sex has saved me. From myself especially. From going so deep into the spirals of my own brain which could drive me crazy. But when everything is perfect, there is no mind in sex. There is just feeling; just the body, moving, stretching, pulling, reaching, opening, pulsing, listening, taking, giving; just sensation.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Feb. 09, 2010
To hell with the young ones that don’t know their G-spot from their clit, or who think that perky tits and a flat tummy are the keys to getting a date. Give me a little of that Cougar spirit!
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by G.L. Morrison,
Feb. 08, 2010
My lover made up a modern proverb: “A woman who loves her belly loves her body.” I don’t think it will catch on. It’s true that women, particularly modern women in Western culture, have a love-hate (or even a hate-hate) relationship with their bellies. Why? What did that sweet bump of skin (located as it is under the two much glamorized and beloved fat-bags) do to deserve such scorn?
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by ErinORiordan,
Feb. 05, 2010
Sex magic may be witchcraft’s greatest open secret, and very much real. When I first undertook the writing of this article, I thought it was something I wanted to explore with my partner. As I dug deeper, I realized sex magic is something very powerful, and best left to practitioners with more skills and knowledge than me. Nonetheless, it’s a fascinating topic, and one worth exploring.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Feb. 04, 2010
Q: What’s almost 2,000 pages long, has the head of a donkey, the tail of an elephant, the petrified genitals of a Tyrannosaurus Rex and the scent of something rotten in the state of U.S. Politics?
A: The Affordable Healthcare for America Act
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Feb. 03, 2010
Leather has a well-established niche in gay history. A look at the macho pioneers—from military men to bikers and artists—who shaped leather culture as we know it today.
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by Sinclair Sexsmith,
Feb. 03, 2010
If New York City was on Facebook, our relationship status would say “It’s Complicated.” I love her, I do; I have idolized her since I was a kid, watching all my favorite cheesy eighties movies like Big Business, The Secret of My Success, and Big, over and over again. Our culture mythologizes her, paints her as the place to be, so full of potential. She might even be The One.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Feb. 02, 2010
For more than five years, my working life revolved around framing acts of public copulation. I’ve pushed cameras and microphones into dwellings no machines should ever go. I’ve been granted a front-row seat to scenes of startling intimacy. I’ve helped pick up thousands of used baby-wipes. And somewhere along the line, I learned a lot about how men and women perceive each other.
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by Ymagine,
Feb. 01, 2010
Making babies is sexy. Having them? Sometimes not so much. For many couples, the transition from carefree lovers to full-time parents comes with unexpected consequences in the bedroom. Maternal instinct can put the kibosh on the libido—of men and women alike. So, can a woman be a model mom and a red-hot momma?
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by minivanlibertine,
Jan. 29, 2010
I may eat Hamburger Helper, wear jeans from Costco, and drink water straight from the tap, but when it comes to porn, I’m quite the snob. In fact, I prefer “porn connoisseur,” because it makes me sound classy! (And nothing is classier than a woman who likes to watch people fuck.)
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 28, 2010
This month I’m writing my column based on Cosmo Magazine titles to prove to my grandmother that this column is just as socially acceptable as Cosmo and that she should really stop telling her friends that I'm doing missionary work in Zimbabwe for a living. I don’t even know where Zimbabwe is, granny. So, onto today’s subject…
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by Citi Kittie,
Jan. 27, 2010
All the pick-up guides I read (and I read a lot) focus on small talk. What to say, how to say it, how much to say, how little to reveal. But sometimes it’s easier to say nothing at all. Sometimes the best way to meet people is to leave language aside and just bark, mew, whimper, or pant. *Sniff, sniff*
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by Elizabeth,
Jan. 27, 2010
Compared to heterosexual sex or sex between men, sex between women is generally a lower-risk activity. It isn’t however, a no-risk activity.
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by Judy Cole,
Jan. 26, 2010
Back in the antediluvian days before the modern archetype of strippers we’ve come to know and yawn at—naked chicks sporting eight-inch Lucite stiletto pumps and bored expressions, humping firehouse poles for the likes of Tony Soprano e famiglia at Bada Bing—those who shed their clothes onstage for a living were part of a glorious, albeit infamous, tradition known as Burlesque.
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by Alisa Bowman,
Jan. 25, 2010
As a happily married woman who had spent a considerable amount of time learning how to do a striptease, I figured it was high time to go see the real thing. Yes, Virginia—it’s time to find out what really goes on at the strip club!
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by Cherry Trifle,
Jan. 25, 2010
Big budgets, top names and sleek production values aside, in its never ending quest to be hot, hotter, hottest, traditional adult movies have become predictable, thus leaving the door wide open for a new breed of amateur auteurs to infiltrate the market with reality-based fare many viewers say they can’t get enough of.
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by Yvette Safire,
Jan. 21, 2010
In Gilda (1946), Rita Hayworth slowly peeled off a single elbow-length black glove to evoke all the magic and sensuality of the striptease, to the delight of viewers and the press. Roughly sixty years later, hardcore pornography lurks in every corner of our Web browsers. But are our lightning-fast Internet connections really helping us do sex better, faster, and more efficiently?
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 21, 2010
This month I’m doing a series of articles to prove to my grandmother that my sex column is just as good as anything from Cosmo by writing my own stories inspired by actual Cosmo titles. This morning I was supposed to tackle…
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jan. 20, 2010
Fight Club. Rugby. MMA. Let’s face it—we live in a society where it’s okay to be physically combative in a competition for superiority. But what happens when the fighting takes on an overtly kinky overtone? You’ve got what some refer to as Rough Body Play, or “Thug Play”—an old fashioned beatdown, not to the death, but until someone gets tired or cries “uncle.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 20, 2010
If you've ever filled out a BDSM checklist, chances are you've seen a question about whether you enjoy “serving as furniture.” Or you might have run across someone who gets hot when referred to as “it.” What's the allure of objectification? Let's take an objective (sorry) look at this very stationary fetish.
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by Roland Hulme,
Jan. 19, 2010
When Sir Arthur Conan Doyle penned the first Sherlock Holmes story in 1887, he had no idea he was breathing life into what would eventually become the greatest crime-fighting franchise in history. Neither did Doyle realize he’d inadvertently sparked one of the most enduring debates of modern literature—the question of the Great Detective’s sexuality.
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by Nina Hartley,
Jan. 19, 2010
Today, Nina dishes on the biggest sexual organ of all...the brain!
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by Zoeyjane,
Jan. 18, 2010
I can’t count the amount of times a hypersexual mood has convinced me within a breadth that sleeping with someone would make me feel better. Scratch that, rewind—feel something. And then, afterwards—feeling unclean, guilty and manipulative, as the choices I’ve made have not been my best.
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by Mrs Melee,
Jan. 14, 2010
I love strippers. I love their well-fitted bikinis. I love the way the move in high heels. I love the their upper body strength and flexibility. (Oh, the flexibility.) I love the bravery and unfettered sensuality. Showmanship turns me on. Tina Fey would never approve of me.
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by Sam Benjamin,
Jan. 13, 2010
The recession is upon us; no one sane would dare doubt it. The auto industry’s long since moved overseas, and despite government bailouts, no one in their right mind would buy a Ford. Pilots are working longer hours for 50% pay; 127 banks have failed. But are industries we previously thought to be recession-proof feeling the punch too? If porno fails, says the soothsayer, the nation fails…
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by Elizabeth,
Jan. 12, 2010
In some ways, American culture is still stuck in the 1950s. Although in theory the sexual revolution has happened and we know that women can be just as interested in sex as men, in reality the sexual double standard is alive and well and living in Paris…Texas.
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by Lady J,
Jan. 11, 2010
While many women complain about the misfortunes and misadventures that go along with being well endowed, believe me when I tell you that we flat gals have our fair share of daily embarrassments and occasional calamities.
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by Yvette Safire,
Jan. 08, 2010
The Victorian Era added an important term to the sexual lexicon, other than merkin. When a family shared a bed, Mother and Father would instruct the kiddies to squish together and lie on their sides facing the same direction. Everyone stayed warm and more children could fit in the bed. Thus, spooning was born.
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by GeekyLove,
Jan. 07, 2010
From the time gaming graphics evolved from pong sprits that live on in 8-bit theater, video chicks have enhanced our digital merriment. For the majority of their tenure, the females who inhabited games have fallen into four basic archetypes. So grab a controller and a comfy chair as we take a nerdy stroll though life and growth of the video game vixens who’ve helped shape our gaming world.
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by The Bloggess,
Jan. 07, 2010
Hi. My name is Jenny and people email me weird-ass shit. Almost all of emails begin “You don’t know me but I saw this and thought of you”. Then I feel a little bit sad at the direction my life has taken. But then I look at the links and it makes it all worthwhile. Except for the ones that make me question humanity. And then I share the links here. Then we all suffer and rejoice together.
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Jan. 06, 2010
Jay realized he was asexual by the end of high school and came out during college. Like most anyone who falls outside of the sexual norm, he spent a long time wondering what was wrong with him. “I knew I wasn’t experiencing something everyone else was experiencing, but I didn’t know what that meant. There was a pretty strong indication from pop culture that sexuality is a big deal.”
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by Liz Langley,
Jan. 06, 2010
Some of us have a fetish—a very particular fetish, that is—a fetish for latex and PVC, which is often associated with the realms of BDSM or S&M. But this particular fetish isn’t about BDSM. It’s just for ‘the look.’ Or, as renowned designer The Baroness puts it, “the other S&M: Stand and Model.”
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jan. 06, 2010
Is there happiness in slavery? When a collar isn't just jewelry but means something, what does it mean? Let's talk fact and fiction when it comes to living under contract.
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by Tobi,
Jan. 05, 2010
It’s hard to understand non-binary pronouns when you don’t understand non-binary gender—which is often the reason for using non-binary pronouns. The best way I can explain it is to walk you through my own process.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Jan. 05, 2010
It’s fair to say that healthcare and women have a complicated history. Let’s take a look at why.
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by Lady J,
Jan. 01, 2010
My first real girl crush didn’t occur until I was well into my 20s. Sure, I’d had my share of the typical and varied female relationships—female friends whom I loved like sisters, female rock stars I’d idolized, girls I deeply admired for their beauty, wit, charm, or intelligence—I’d loved many, many women in my life. But I’d never actually been turned on by one. Until recently...
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by ErinORiordan,
Dec. 30, 2009
Many of today’s newer birth control pills are specifically marketed for a new reason, other than birth control itself: menstrual suppression
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by Cherry Trifle,
Dec. 30, 2009
2009. It was the best of times. It was the worst of times. Especially for Tiger Woods.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Dec. 28, 2009
According to John 4:8: “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.” Proponents of the Westboro Baptist Church, however, preach that God is hate—if you’re gay, that is. See how one community’s protest united people from all walks of life to baptize these divisive miscreants with the waters of truthiness, and banish evil from their midst.
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by The Bloggess,
Dec. 24, 2009
If you bought any of these things as a present for someone, you owe them an apology.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 23, 2009
White coats, stethoscopes, and nurses standing by? Ooh la la! A surprising number of folks get faint at the thought of a little medical porn, or medical equipment—and those are two very different kinks. The doctor will see you now, with five examinations of this very popular kink.
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by Bella Bell,
Dec. 22, 2009
When faced with the task of investigating what goes on it the Japanese sex clubs, I never for a moment thought that it would be easy. But who’d have thought that it’d be so hard to catch a ride on ‘the touching trains’?
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by Dr Dick,
Dec. 21, 2009
Just in time for the Christmas my peeps want to know who/what makes my Naughty and Nice list.
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by minivanlibertine,
Dec. 18, 2009
In this final installment of our interview with the one and only Tristan Taormino, she speaks at length about open relationships, nonmonogamy, and trying to shatter the preconceived notions of what relationships are.
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by minivanlibertine,
Dec. 17, 2009
Adult entertainment succeeds when the audience truly connects to the material. Tristan dishes on what performers need to bring to the table to ensure her fans are truly satisfied.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 16, 2009
Of all the things crammed into pussies and asses through the ages, the fist maintains an underground popularity that's baffling from the outside. What is it about fisting that captures the minds (and hands) of its devotees? And why exactly is the whole country terrified of its own ass?
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by minivanlibertine,
Dec. 16, 2009
In the second installment of this four-part interview, Tristan discusses the making of Rough Sex, as well as the differences between rough sex and anger.
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by minivanlibertine,
Dec. 15, 2009
Author, director and educator Tristan Taormino has been breaking boundaries for years. In the first installment of this four-part interview, Tristan discusses porn, feminism, and reconciling the two.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 15, 2009
This week, Nina expounds on the art of proper breathing techniques during sex, in order to open up the body to maximum pleasure.
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by Dr Dick,
Dec. 14, 2009
Deviating from conventional model. Is it worth it?
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by minivanlibertine,
Dec. 11, 2009
As a working woman raising two sons with her husband in South Carolina, the idea of attending a porn festival in the Southwest seemed impossible; logistically, geographically, and culturally. Until I got there, that is...
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by Mother May I?,
Dec. 10, 2009
I used to be a prude, but I didn’t know it. I had what I thought was good sex. My husband then (now ex) and I played around a little bit, did things like “69” and the occasional blindfolding. Seemed shocking and kinky at the time.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Dec. 09, 2009
BDSM is rarely considered from anything other than its purest physical aspect; even rarer still is it presented as something other than a pagan or non-mainstream religious set of beliefs. But what happens when someone who has deep faith and belief in more traditional, conservative religion finds that their sexual interests don’t exactly fit in with that lifestyle?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 09, 2009
Knives and sex with no felonies involved? It's possible. It can even be part of a fun Friday night. How do you mix sharp blades with tender bits? Here are five points (I'm sorry) for living on the edge (I'm so, so sorry) with erotic knife play.
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by Nina Hartley,
Dec. 08, 2009
The old saying goes, “Them that can, do; them that can’t, teach,” but sometimes there’s that one in a million who can do both—and SexIs has her. Each week, adult actress, activist, auteur and legend Nina Hartley answers your questions on all things sexual. Vlogging will never be the same.
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by Dr Dick,
Dec. 07, 2009
Providers and consumers are two sides of the same coin; the operative word being coin. Few things are more troublesome to the social hierarchy than the notion of sex for money. And yet, as the saying goes, there’d be no supply if there weren’t a demand.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Dec. 04, 2009
When a novice swimmer dives head-first into the deep end of gay culture and emerges illuminated, her path to sexual emancipation via safer means becomes stunningly clear.
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Dec. 03, 2009
The July 2, 2009 ruling of Naz Foundation v. Government of NCT Delhi decriminalized homosexuality in India, and the world declared this a groundbreaking victory for the Indian gay rights movement. While India going gay made for sensational news, the issue that caught the world’s attention wasn’t actually the primary focus of the ruling. The issue at its heart of was HIV/AIDS.
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by The Bloggess,
Dec. 03, 2009
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 02, 2009
In candid interviews, Guy and Debra from the AIDS Service Center NYC make true ASC’s promise of ‘helping many one by one’.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Dec. 02, 2009
My first exposure to someone with AIDS happened in my late teens. My friend John, the man who both demystified gay male sexuality for me, and helped me understand what it was like to be a sexual minority, introduced me to a friend of his: a handsome young man who was in hospice care, waiting for the inevitable.
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by Judy Cole,
Dec. 01, 2009
Seeing the future doesn't mean you can change it. Remembering the past won't keep it the same. But sometimes, though separated by long years and even death, a friendship can endure.
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by Elizabeth,
Dec. 01, 2009
Two decades as an HIV educator and counting.
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by Sexis Editors,
Dec. 01, 2009
Director of Business Development and Communications Anne West Church provides an up-close and personal glimpse into the heart of ASC-NYC’s Union Square facility.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Nov. 30, 2009
AIDS activists are a diverse group. The faces, the voices, the hearts, the minds, the goals vary from each to each, but they all have one thing in common: the courage to act on their convictions. What does one look like? Anyone. Everyone. Take a look in the mirror. It might even be you.
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by Sexis Editors,
Nov. 30, 2009
For Executive Director, Sharen I. Duke and the dedicated staff at the AIDS Service Center NYC, the battle rages on. In this video interview, she provides an overview of ASC's ongoing mission.
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 30, 2009
World AIDS Day brings into focus the micro-strategies needed to combat a macro problem.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Nov. 27, 2009
Or, how not to get chewed up in the parlance of polyamory.
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by Roland Hulme,
Nov. 25, 2009
In my family, there are three topics of conversation that are off-limits on Thanksgiving: The plight of factory-farmed turkeys, how the “First Thanksgiving” didn’t turn out all that well for the Native Americans, and, most verboten of all, anything to do with sex.
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by minivanlibertine,
Nov. 25, 2009
Sage sexuality south of the Mason Dixon? Boy, howdy!
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 24, 2009
Here there be spoilers, by the way.
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 23, 2009
Have you ever wondered about the term sex positive? If you’re like me, you see it all over the place, especially on sex-related sites. I confess I use it way more often than I should. It’s become one of those industry buzzwords that has, over time, become so fuzzy around the edges that to some, it’s now virtually meaningless.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 23, 2009
Dolly Parton has said that it takes a lot of money to look cheap. And it’s true. Women spend a fortune on all manner of things to look younger, thinner, taller, bustier—to get noticed. It’s no secret. We want you to look. That said, there are right ways and there are wrong ways.
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by Doc Hollandaise,
Nov. 20, 2009
There are not many writers who actually plan on writing about sex as a career. You might say it’s something that just kind of falls into our laps (pardon the pun). Some of us are well-studied counselors and professionals; others are ex-porn personalities looking for life after the performance. So, how was it that I ended up in this particular field?
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by Liz Langley,
Nov. 19, 2009
People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones… or make sex tapes that may someday show up on the Internet.
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 19, 2009
And a lot of very strange people who read this as well.
("Strange" in a good way though.)
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by Liz NuMe,
Nov. 18, 2009
Hello. My name is Newme…and I’m a closet kink. If you saw me walking down the street, you would probably think, preppy mom. I’m top to bottom J. Crew—cardigan, tee and jeans. Mother of four who home-schooled her kids, drove them to all their activities in a Honda Accord, worked hard for a living, helped my husband start his own business. Nothing special, just your typical person on the streets.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Nov. 18, 2009
Bondage is often devious, but no bondage is quite as sly as predicament bondage. Every minute is a mind game and every movement an act of will. Here are five whys and hows of this nasty little game.
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by Yvette Safire,
Nov. 17, 2009
Preparation for my boyfriend’s long-awaited visit to the Dominican Republic required more than just a pedicure and bikini wax. He was traveling with friends and there was no way I could sneak him into my host family’s home, so I had to find a place for us to reunite properly. This was the perfect opportunity to investigate the possibilities of the Dominican's many clandestine sex cabañas.
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by Elizabeth,
Nov. 16, 2009
When it comes to STDs, for many people, it’s much easier simply not to know.
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 16, 2009
Institutionalized homophobia is rooted in a fear and hatred of women. The dominant culture enshrines male privilege and punishes anyone who attempts to undercut the paradigm. Discrimination is so widespread, ingrained—and sometimes so subtle—that many non-gay people don’t even notice most of it. But those of us on the receiving end of the bigotry are keenly aware.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Nov. 13, 2009
The ins and outs of sex on the go.
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by Johnny Murdoc,
Nov. 12, 2009
This is a familiar story, like every other story about a broken heart.
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 12, 2009
Things in Japan that will make you look twice.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Nov. 11, 2009
“The sweetest romantic comedy about S&M since, well...ever,” says Blackbook of the then-quirky, now-seminal film Secretary. Was it a massive step toward the mainstreaming of kinky culture or a lopsided portrayal that did more harm than good? Seven years later, people’s opinions remain sharply divided.
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by Elizabeth,
Nov. 10, 2009
The things that turn us on are determined not only by our individual preferences, but by the culture in which we live. The same holds true for those things that effectively turn us off.
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by Mother May I?,
Nov. 09, 2009
Why is talking to our progeny about sex so awkward? Does it have to be?
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by Dr Dick,
Nov. 09, 2009
Let’s pick up where we left off last week, on the perils young people face as they navigate the expectations of virginity and sex, and begin to consider their first forays into partnered sex.
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by RalphieGuy,
Nov. 07, 2009
To paraphrase Andrew Vachss: A man who has a fetish will seek out women who he wouldn't normally find attractive if those women agree to and provide that particular fetish. In fact, that man might even prefer these women to those more attractive to him-more his “type”—if the ‘less’-attractive women provide him with his fetish more than women he's normally attracted to.
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by The Bloggess,
Nov. 06, 2009
It’s technically more like “Memoirs of an Oiran” but people don’t know what that word means so I dumbed it down a bit.
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by Rydell Johnson,
Nov. 05, 2009
Once the realm of just dudes, strip clubs are now increasingly the domain of frisky couples with a hankering for a bit of harmless naughtiness.
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by The Beautiful Kind,
Nov. 04, 2009
Vanilla. To the epicurious, it’s one of the world’s most prized spices. In the bedroom, however...well, nobody seems to know what it is. Except that they either are or aren’t vanilla. The Beautiful Kind takes a look at vanilla...and in the process, bakes a very special cake...
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 30, 2009
I’m not just a sex writer. I’m a horror movie enthusiast. Which I suppose makes me an exceptionally bad girl. So figure if this story were a slasher flick, I’d be dead about 750 words in.
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by Hungry4more,
Oct. 29, 2009
Guys love it when people look. It’s the kind of shock and awe that leaves us riding high on dopamine and suddenly increased self-worth, even if secretly so. But let’s be honest. In a very practical sense, there’s clearly a right way and wrong to way to scope out guys. The right way is flirty and fun. The wrong way? Well, it might just necessitate a visit from Nancy Grace.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 28, 2009
Corsetry isn't just for Victoriana enthusiasts. The dramatic lines of a corseted figure is custom-made for the high-fashion fetishwear subset of BDSM culture, and the restrictive nature of the garment allows for all kinds of power-trippy fun. How did getting laced up into something restrictive and sexy get mixed up with kink? Read on for five lace-'em-ups about this deceptively beautiful fetish.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Oct. 28, 2009
Nobody just wakes up one day and decides “Gee, I think I’ll be kinky!” So, why do people go there? How many do? And darn it, is it better than straight sex, or is it all just propaganda?
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by GeekyLove,
Oct. 27, 2009
Gamers and sex. I know these two words aren’t often paired in popular lexicon. Nonetheless, I feel it is my duty to inform you that gamers are having sex, lots of sex. While there are many things to be learned from the Gamer Sutra, today I’d like to focus on cybersex.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Oct. 27, 2009
These days, not even poets are squeezing their hearts into love letters. We live in a fast-food world. And while love still isn’t something you can order from the drive-through, modern courtship is a reflection of the way we live: fast, easy, and a little out of control—like a quick email, an instant message—or a throng of twenty-first century Cyranos Twittering their love...in 140 characters.
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by L. Jade,
Oct. 23, 2009
Or, for you Italo Calvino fans, if on a winter’s night a traveler...with a carry-on full of sex toys...
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by Rachel Rabbit White,
Oct. 21, 2009
Who doesn't remember their first crush? I was four years old; she was my Sunday School teacher, tall with pale skin and long sandy brown hair nipping just above her waist. I remember feeling excited by her, romantic toward her. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do with her but I had fantasies of grandly sweeping her away to do...something.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 21, 2009
Have you ever found yourself confronted with a piece of latex fetishwear and wondered what that familiar tingle was all about? Chances are, your brain recognized the basic scent of condoms—ooh la la! So what is it that entices some to take latex out of the realm of Trojans and into the realm of full-on bodywear? Read on for five fabulous finds on why lovers love latex.
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by Yvette Safire,
Oct. 20, 2009
It’s a tradition as old as the internet itself—the act of selling one’s own used undergarments online for a quick infusion of cash. Yvette Safire recently found herself in a bit of a financial bind, and thus began to contemplate the possibilities...
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 17, 2009
Contrary to popular belief, the personal ad is not yet another invention of the internet. It’s been around for centuries, continuing to evolve with each generation’s needs, desires, and fetishistic frenzies—from the earnest days of ‘matrimony papers’ to today’s user-friendly searches on websites such as Craigslist.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Oct. 16, 2009
And certainly these days, since almost no one smokes anymore. For years, smoking and sex have been tied together. Literature, cinema and television have celebrated the post-coital cigarette to the point of cliché for eons. And now, unless you’re French or Quentin Tarantino, smoking is outré—in a big way. Is the image, moreover the act, even relevant anymore?
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by Roland Hulme,
Oct. 13, 2009
What happens when rough sex scenarios and feminist sensibilities collide?
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by G.L. Morrison,
Oct. 13, 2009
Or, to lay it out for you in mathematical terms: Bad Science + Bad Sex = Good Marketing.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 10, 2009
Every era has had its rules for acceptable standards for clothing, communications, relationships, etc. There were also consequences for stepping outside that behavior. Here’s a look at quid pro quo—then and now—highlighting different eras in history to trace the trajectory of passion, fashion and culture.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Oct. 09, 2009
No matter how you say it, it seems everyone is talking about body size—either their own or someone else's. Fatspeak is a national obsession. So much talk is meant to belittle that it’s easy to give offense where none was intended. Here's a quick lexicon on Fat Language. Consider this a travel phrase book to the land of Fat where the roads are often dangerous, unmapped and slippery when wet.
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by Citi Kittie,
Oct. 07, 2009
Explaining your relationship status isn't easy when you've got a wife, a girlfriend, and a boyfriend (or what I like to call a Full Set). "It's complicated" doesn't begin to capture it. But while we may be unique, there are lots of people who practice polyamory. It can be pretty confusing for the participants themselves, so it's not always easy to explain to everyone else.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Oct. 07, 2009
If you're looking for a way to try out kink that's free, easy, and likely to have good results, this one’s for you. Spanking as sexual titillation goes a lot further than the trope of the 1950s secretary getting a slap on the rump from a leering boss; in the world of kink today, spanking is safe, fun, and a lot less complicated than sex. Let's check out five rump-thumping tidbits about the spank.
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by Maureen St. Charles,
Oct. 06, 2009
In this excerpt from the upcoming book “Droppin’ Loads”: Conversations of a Porn Star and an 8th Grade Teacher, Maureen St. Charles takes an unconventional look into the unconventional life and catchphrase of her subject, one Nick Manning...
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Oct. 06, 2009
Mandy Van Deven provides a small glimpse into how government control in India turns Western women into whores and Indian women into prudes.
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by Dr Dick,
Oct. 05, 2009
Dr. Dick weighs in with a little talk about sexual identify, just in time for National Coming Out Day.
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by Sexis Editors,
Oct. 02, 2009
Today on SexVoxing: What is in your bedside table drawer or toy basket?
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by L. Jade,
Sep. 29, 2009
L. Jade muses on the acts that put the ‘auto’ back into erotica.
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Sep. 25, 2009
In our melting pot of a world, it’s not uncommon for individuals to speak more than one language—Spanish, Italian, Chinese…Gay? Yep, like most subcultures, the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender (LGBT) community has created its own dialect over the years. No, it’s not a full-fledged alien language; more like ‘street’ talk that intermingles with everyday speak.
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by Judy Cole,
Sep. 23, 2009
The subtle and not so subtle interplay of sex-speak and music.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 23, 2009
Why is that cutie on the bus wearing a dog collar? Why is that yuppie breathing heavy in the bridle aisle? Animal roleplay is a surprisingly popular form of kink, with puppies, kitties, and ponies the apparent favorites. What's the deal with human pets? Here, we'll take a look at five yips, whinnies, and meows about animal roleplay.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Sep. 22, 2009
The wacky, super-true tale of the FCC—how it came to power, and why it fears boobs.
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by Dr Dick,
Sep. 21, 2009
This week, the one and only Dr. Dick takes on the issue of sex addiction—and his take may surprise you.
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by Hungry4more,
Sep. 18, 2009
There’s a lot to appreciate about Lolita, even today. Most classic books have a good deal of social commentary, and this emotional, lyrical, mocking, ironic number does that in spades. Let’s take a look at Nabokov’s novel and see what matches up today.
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by Judy Cole,
Sep. 16, 2009
Patrick Swayze took Baby out of the corner and created a sex symbol straight out of the closet.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 15, 2009
It turns out that Gladys’ husband wasn’t impotent, after all. And June’s wasn’t in the closet. Nope. The problem, duh, was FEMININE ODOR. Think about it: What red-blooded American male could manage to think about pussy after a hard day’s work when it smelled like, um, PUSSY?
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by G.L. Morrison,
Sep. 15, 2009
What is sex itself were hauled before the FCC and forced to defend itself? G.L. Morrison considers the twists, turns, and inherent satire of such an eventuality, in Act III of this three-part satirical (we hope!) look at freedom of speech.
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by Dr Dick,
Sep. 14, 2009
Can we talk about sexual orientation for a bit? I sure hope so, because I’m gonna go ahead and launch into it here, if you’re ready or not.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 09, 2009
Masochism is just about liking pain, right? Wrong. There’s a lot more to it. Here are five things your momma never told you about pain sluts.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Sep. 09, 2009
I have breasts. You have breasts. Women have breasts. What we do with them on the other hand is our decision.
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by Elizabeth,
Sep. 08, 2009
I have a dirty little secret: I used to work as an advice columnist. Here’s another dirty little secret: Most of the advice columnists aren’t any more qualified to tell you what to do with your life than I was. Some of them are even less.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Sep. 08, 2009
What is sex itself were hauled before the FCC and forced to defend itself? G.L. Morrison considers the twists, turns, and inherent satire of such an eventuality, in Act II of this three-part satirical (we hope!) look at freedom of speech.
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by Dr Dick,
Sep. 07, 2009
This week, Dr. Dick investigates acrotomophilia; or, in other words, the amputee fetish.
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by Bob Modern,
Sep. 04, 2009
Even today, when we men are encouraged, seemingly mandated, to embrace sensitivity and nurture our feminine sides, the penis defines in large part what it means to be a man. It defines our masculinity biologically...right?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Sep. 02, 2009
Is making someone hurt an act of cruelty or an act of love? If you said “either one, and sometimes both,” you get a gold star (and I’ll see you at the dungeon). If you didn’t, read on: Here come five points that might help explain why beating the shit out of someone can be the nicest thing anyone ever did.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Sep. 02, 2009
The last relationship I had before I met my husband was with a woman. Yes, I am a bi-sexual woman, although I am not a great fan of labels and can’t truly, with all honesty, say that I know that I fit the definition of that title to a tee. Nor do I really care.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Sep. 01, 2009
Lots of us do it. Some studies claim most of us do it. And if you believe what you see on cable news, it’s a prerequisite for a political career. Are we just a species that can’t say no?
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by G.L. Morrison,
Sep. 01, 2009
What is sex itself were hauled before the FCC and forced to defend itself? G.L. Morrison considers the twists, turns, and inherent satire of such an eventuality.
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by Tobi,
Aug. 27, 2009
Courtney Trouble, already well known in queer porn circles for her 6-year-running queer porn website, nofauxxx.com, has recently gained additional notoriety for her new film Roulette. In April she received the Feminist Porn Award for Most Deliciously Diverse Cast, and recently NoFauxxx was named The Best Queer Porn of the Bay by the San Francisco Bay Guardian.
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by Neil Wexler,
Aug. 25, 2009
The pinup model who wanted to be a missionary...
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by Dr Dick,
Aug. 24, 2009
One of the enduring hot-button issues in our culture (and every other culture) is sexually explicit material. Everyone has an opinion on what we, as a society, ought to allow—and what should be prohibited.
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by sarahdopp,
Aug. 21, 2009
We find ourselves and we find our loves in our own unique ways – that’s just how it happens to be. For a whole bunch of us, this means we get caught in a closet (or ten) somewhere along the line. Fortunately, we get to decide for ourselves whether or not (and how) we want to come out of those closets. There’s a lot to consider.
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by Elizabeth,
Aug. 20, 2009
Ah, college. It’s where teenagers go to learn—about themselves, about the world, how to do body shots, and pick up strangers in bars. For many young people, it’s the first time they’ve been away from parental authority. They are treated and are expected to act like adults, but for many the taste of freedom is embraced as license to explore the siren songs of sex, drugs, and rock ’n’ roll.
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by Kal Cobalt,
Aug. 19, 2009
Most people don't think of needles as sexual or erotic, but even the shallowest consideration yields some obvious reasons for that association: needles penetrate the body and afford access to bodily fluids in a way few activities outside of sexuality do. Welcome to five incisive (sorry) tidbits about the art of erotic needleplay.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Aug. 19, 2009
Why has the once-cherished mom-bod become something to be looked upon with disgust and disdain, rather than revered as the happy result of something natural and beautiful?
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by Sarah Sloane,
Aug. 14, 2009
Playing with fire, sex, and shame.
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Aug. 13, 2009
Could there be a better time than right now to be gay in a society on the verge of transformation? We have both the freedom to be out and in love and just enough limits to our rights to keep us from taking them for granted.
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by Judy Cole,
Aug. 11, 2009
Now, in my line of work, I’ve met a ProDomme or two before. In the Big Apple, S&M is NBD. Dommes came in all shapes and sizes, from a near-seven-foot Valkyrie—replete with a trademark tomato-red PVC catsuit straight out of a comic book—to a raven-haired, petite coquette who could, with her five-inch killer spike heels, make a grown man cry a lot more than just “Uncle.”
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by Sarah Sloane,
Aug. 10, 2009
Free testing clinics are fantastic—but they’re not infallible, and they’re not always the most informative places in the world to get your safer sex information. The old saying, “you get what you pay for”, is, sadly enough, usually true.
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by Hungry4more,
Aug. 07, 2009
Or, how to successfully combine parenting, fatherhood, and sex...
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by Gabe,
Aug. 06, 2009
There are some issues that go with moving which are pretty universal. Others are a little more unique to me as a trans man. I’ve thus assembled a checklist of Things to Be Taken Care Of—The TG Guide to Transitioning Towns, if you will. Read on!
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by Judy Cole,
Aug. 04, 2009
When the average person thinks of Charlotte, North Carolina, what most often springs to mind is Bible Belt, Banking, NASCAR and the PTL debacle. Debauchery? Not so much—well, except for the PTL debacle, but BDSM? You might be surprised...
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by Tobi,
Jul. 31, 2009
Being a trans woman myself, and having dated a number of other trans women, I occasionally have people ask me for tips or advice on being sexual as or with a trans woman.
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by Judy Cole,
Jul. 28, 2009
Parting thoughts: What comes around goes around, what goes around comes around...
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by Bob Modern,
Jul. 21, 2009
The mid-1980’s: while movement toward intelligent storytelling and mature treatment of sexuality was proceeding at a satisfying pace from independent creators, the mainstream’s efforts were typically ham-handed and mawkish. Let’s see what happened when the big publishers introduced sexual diversity into their imaginary worlds.
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by Bob Modern,
Jul. 14, 2009
Comic books—they’ve graced us with mind-bending sagas to send the imagination soaring and sub-literate crapfests that assault the aesthetic sensibility with unfettered brutality. Conceived as dirt cheap entertainment for the kidlings, comics have nonetheless been an outlet for sexual fantasy throughout their existence.
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by Sexis Editors,
Jul. 10, 2009
This week on SexVoxing, something a bit more personal...What is the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you during sex?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jul. 07, 2009
For as long as robots have been a concept in the human imagination, we have been plagued by questions: Is advanced artificial intelligence possible? Can machines devoid of emotion truly understand the human condition? And...how awesome would robots be in bed?
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by Mandy Van Deven,
Jul. 06, 2009
Trouble, thy name is woman. India is a country in the throes of a sexual revolution, and young women are firmly planted at the center of the controversy.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jul. 03, 2009
On June 4, Patient Zero was tested for HIV. She worked on June 5, and her results came in positive for HIV presence in the bloodstream on June 6. At that point, all hell began to break loose.
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 30, 2009
It’s the (tr)end of the world as we know it, and we feel fine...
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by SaucySarah,
Jun. 29, 2009
Just what is an open relationship, anyway? Let's find out!
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 26, 2009
Today on SexVoxing: What book on sexuality do you think should be required reading?
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 25, 2009
The 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots takes place this Sunday. Sexis takes a look back at what Stonewall meant then, and what it means to this day.
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by María,
Jun. 24, 2009
I’m a newly single mother with a ridiculous libido, a penchant for deep throating and the ability to grind a man into orgasmic hyperventilation. (Not to toot my own horn, but a girl must be confident in her talents even though I’m too chicken shit to try them out on anyone new.) I’ve left my comfort zone sexually, the place in which I was pretty happy and complacent: marriage.
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 23, 2009
The rise of the Internet, the fall of morality. Greed gets an overhaul. Grunge is good. Goth rules. BDSM goes mainstream—and a Presidential pop shot makes the ultimate fashion statement.
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by G.L. Morrison,
Jun. 16, 2009
Music is sexy. Dangerous sexy. Back in the annals of history, some caveman Casanova figured out smacking out a rhythm on a rock with your club was more conducive to lovemaking than clubbing her over the head. Women have loved drummers ever since.
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 16, 2009
Hubris in Neon: SEXIS sits down for a one-on-one with the ’80s, and, as usual, “The Me Decade” speaks for itself, or in this case, himself…
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by Sexis Editors,
Jun. 12, 2009
Today on Sexis, we’re pleased to launch a new running column, SexVoxing. SexVoxing will feature Sexis contributors and staff sounding off on a varia of issues, from the pointed to mundane. To kick it off, we thought we’d start with something everyone has their own list for: What is your favorite sex scene in mainstream cinema?
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 10, 2009
Body-image issues play a considerable role in our sex lives—but how do you confront them?
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 09, 2009
The ’70s: The most odious decade ever. No kidding. It was beyond bad. I mean, Roger Moore as James Bond? Puh-lease! Well, at least everyone was fucking.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Jun. 08, 2009
Being a green sex toy & accessory consumer is a lot more than just buying a natural-looking packaged product or choosing a toy based on the material; it's about knowing what tradeoffs you are willing to make for the best possible products.
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by L. Jade,
Jun. 05, 2009
One cold November night the year I turned fifteen, I kissed him for the very first time. Seven years and thirteen days later, we finally made love. What happened in between?
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by Kal Cobalt,
Jun. 04, 2009
From Facebook to Twitter to Myspace to AIM, YIM, and Skype, our love lives have transitioned seamlessly into the constantly evolving fabric of Web 2.0. But what do you, a savvy social networker, do when your love live goes awry? Kal Cobalt sorts through the tweets, status updates, and Skype logs to find out.
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by Elizabeth,
Jun. 03, 2009
From the early days of Usenet to the vivid pornscapes of today, sex and the internet have always been a union of perfect harmony. Today, Sexis traces back sex’s brief yet torrid affair with the internet.
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by Wise Young Mommy,
Jun. 03, 2009
Why? Because moms have sex...
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by Judy Cole,
Jun. 02, 2009
From white kid gloves to a roll in the mud, ladies and gentlemen, we bring you the rise and fall of the Madonna/whore decade!
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by Bob Modern,
Jun. 02, 2009
Welcome to the wonderful world of yaoi, or, as the Japanese call it, Boys’ Love. This is manga to the max. Come on in!
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by Hungry4more,
May. 29, 2009
Bromance tastes great and it’s less filling! So for all you guys who want to hook up with other guys—without the hooking up part—just say: “Buds Lite, please!”
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by Wise Young Mommy,
May. 27, 2009
So everyone's all atwitter about the hotness of our new First Couple, right? But we've been obsessing on the sexayness of our Commanders in Briefs since, well...as long as we've had presidents. From the rumors of Lincoln's homosexuality to the derrings do and don't of FDR, to the inherent weirdness of Garfield—Wise Young Mommy takes a fond look back at the sex lives of a few of our presidents.
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by Judy Cole,
May. 26, 2009
The Fifties! The Pelvis. Poodle skirts. Pat Boone. Nat King Cole. Hugh Hefner. James Dean. Ozzie and Harriet. Is it Safe to Come Out of the Bomb Shelter Yet?
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by Mr Guy,
May. 22, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one sexted-up acronym at a time.
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by The Bloggess,
May. 21, 2009
Turnabout is grounds for divorce.
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by Bob Modern,
May. 20, 2009
Today, we know porn as a mainstream product which pervades nearly every facet of our social fabric. It wasn't always that way--a century ago, pornography was a strictly underground affair, rearing its head up in men's lodges and dance bars as the stag film. Bob Modern takes a look back at the glory days of the stag, from meat shots to Apple Knockers and all the way to Marilyn Monroe herself.
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by Mrs Melee,
May. 19, 2009
Slash is more than a figure of grammar; it's more than Guns n' Roses ex-guitarist: it's a whole 'nother thing entirely. It may be about the men...but it's all for and by the women.
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by Judy Cole,
May. 19, 2009
Springtime for Hitler on the Paris Runways. Pin-Up Girls Pump More than Morale. Plus our 21-Gun Salute to Gender Bending in the Military.
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by Mr Guy,
May. 15, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one porn bailout at a time.
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by The Bloggess,
May. 14, 2009
This week, the Bloggess makes us hip to all the celebs that women want to get down with...that the guys didn't know about.
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by Cherry Trifle,
May. 13, 2009
There are few places better suited to prove and reprove the preposterousness of human sexuality than the annals of the online dating scene.
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by Judy Cole,
May. 12, 2009
Warning! Dangerous curves ahead. Blonde ambition conquers all…and we ain’t talkin’ Madonna.
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by Mr Guy,
May. 08, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one leaked semi-nude beauty queen photo at a time.
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by The Bloggess,
May. 07, 2009
Warning—no clowns were penetrated, cajoled, or agitated in the making of this article. We will studiously deny any approval of it. We will not pay for your emotional trauma. Or a tongue-graft, so that you may regrow your sense of good taste. And thus, without further ado, we present...the Bloggess.
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by Mr Guy,
May. 05, 2009
Most men have one thing in common: they'd really like their penises to be bigger. And the world’s taken notice: ‘male enhancement’, as it’s so wistfully called, is a billion-dollar industry, hawking everything from herbs to pills to diet fads to pumps, with varying results. So what’s it like to have been kissed by the gods—what is life REALLY like with a BFD (Big Fucking Dick)?
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by Judy Cole,
May. 05, 2009
Does sex influence fashion, or does fashion influence sex?
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by Bob Modern,
May. 04, 2009
Are you curious? And if you are, are you curious-yellow, or blue? Before blue movies were legal, there was a decades-long movement of filmmakers pushing sexual boundaries--a genre known affectionately as sexploitation. Bob Modern takes a fond look back at film's most lurid and eccentric genre.
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by Mr Guy,
May. 01, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one dirty, smelly brassiere at a time.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Apr. 28, 2009
Are you a swinger, baby? Do you want to be? Swinging has come a long way since the 60s...explore the new swinger lifestyle and decide if it's the place for you.
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by Mr Guy,
Apr. 24, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one Casual Encounter at a time.
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by Cherry Trifle,
Apr. 21, 2009
On Craigslist, the user can find anything their heart (or other organ) desires. Is this a healthy thing - and who's doing it? Cherry Trifle finds out.
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by Hungry4more,
Apr. 20, 2009
How do we perceive sex through the sometimes-jaundiced lens of the media? How does something like TMZ affect our perception of sex?
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by Mr Guy,
Apr. 17, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one teabag at a time.
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by Sarah Sloane,
Apr. 16, 2009
There's a lot of talk going on these days about HPV, from hysteria to disinformation, to the occasionally sharp pang of truth. Sarah Sloane pulls back the blinds and takes a closer look.
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by K. Page Nolker,
Apr. 14, 2009
What DO women want, anyway? It's all chemical, baby - and complicated. K. Page Nolker pokes about in the right side of the gray matter and tries to put all the pieces together.
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by Mr Guy,
Apr. 13, 2009
Taking the pulse of our cultural sex drive, one bad PR move at a time.
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by Gabe,
Apr. 10, 2009
What are some of the ways by which transgendered persons can best obtain the physical characteristics they're looking for?
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by K. Page Nolker,
Apr. 07, 2009
What DO women want, anyway? It's all chemical, baby - and complicated. K. Page Nolker pokes about in the left side of the gray matter and sees what's what.
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by Lindsay Lewis,
Mar. 24, 2009
In the spirit of the ‘25 things’ meme so popular on Facebook, Lindsay offers up for you her 'Top 25 Things Not to Do When Between a Woman's Legs’, in no particular order of offense…
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by Citi Kittie,
Mar. 24, 2009
It's not easy for a guy to question his sexuality, but it's something almost all guys do at some point. Exploring your sexuality is a human right - and it can even be a lot of fun!
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Mar. 19, 2009
“I know it when I see it.” That was former U.S. Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart, on his decidedly un-scientific approach to discerning what pornography might be, back in 1964. Gay porn on the other hand was not always so blatant during its years of gestation, ranging from beefcake fitness mags to steamy pulp novels, before hardbodies went finally went hardcore.
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by Bob Modern,
Mar. 19, 2009
We’ve been laughing at sex for as long as we’ve been having it – for reasons puritanical, repressive, regressive, or the fact that we just like laughing at our own naughty bits.
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by L. Jade,
Mar. 19, 2009
Every technological advance mankind has made in all of history has been driven by the desire for more and better sex. Well, maybe not all of them, but chances are you’ve heard that before, and there’s a reason why. In fact, many technologies were created to enhance our sex lives, and the ideas behind them are way older than you’d think.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 11, 2009
Sex IS...everything you want it to be, and more.
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by Miss Jane,
Mar. 08, 2009
Societal standards be damned - self-esteem is more involved in great sex than you might think.
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by Dreamlivelove,
Mar. 08, 2009
Whether you know them as bazongas, bazookas, cha-chas or torpedoes, chances are likely that breasts have influenced some aspect of your life. They are not only at the core of female sexiness, but they define fantasies, appear as desires and are a cash cow for movies, magazines and music world-wide. Regardless of whether you love them or hate them, it is nearly impossible to avoid the dynamic duo.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 08, 2009
It’s a buzz-term, it’s an ever-present harbinger of doom, it’s somebody else’s problem: what is safer sex, and why is it all about YOU?
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by SaucySarah,
Mar. 07, 2009
You're a woman. You have a boyfriend, but you just can't stop fantasizing about your best female friend’s mouth and how good it'd feel on your skin. Are you bisexual or what?
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 07, 2009
Some would have you believe that sex is the exclusive domain of twentysomethings – or, if you’re being strictly procreative about it, thirtysomethings as well. The swollen, glistening truth of the matter is that you can keep on having great sex for as long as you want to.
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Mar. 07, 2009
What is masculinity, anyway? Is it a single, inert thing – or is it open to anyone’s interpretation? Can you buy it, steal it, rub up against it, or administer it in pill form?
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by Gabe,
Mar. 07, 2009
When we were all given the big talk about the birds and bees, we were told that boys and wee-wees and girls don’t. Well, it turns out that the old spiel isn’t quite true. What if you don’t have a wee-wee, but you’re pretty sure you should?
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by Daniel W Kelly,
Mar. 07, 2009
Contrary to some small minded, popular beliefs, being gay isn't based on sweaty bar hookups and showtunes. Get real, and get a grip – being gay is as individual as your social security number.
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by Sacramento Sam,
Mar. 07, 2009
Listen up – sometimes the best way to your lover’s loins is through their ears.
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by Dreamlivelove,
Mar. 07, 2009
The vagina, while being the one-stop destination of choice for millions of people the world over, also bears the unfortunate distinction of being one of the most misunderstood areas of the human body, from makeup to function.
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by Judy Cole,
Mar. 07, 2009
How do you condense the history of female sexuality into 1500-ish words? With dignity, aplomb, and an occasional dig at the Victorians.
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 07, 2009
So you think you're eco-friendly? Well, how big of a carbon footprint does your vibrator have, huh?
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by Mr Guy,
Mar. 06, 2009
Guys – are you getting the maximum oomph out of your sex life? If not,
you may be missing out on the joys of a hidden part of your anatomy -
your p-spot.
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